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Divorce and cut all contract they are gaslighting you if the roles were reversed and u cheated on him they would call you an ahole and he would divorce you and try for full custody of the kids get a plan and execute it move to the other side of the country new number and everything
I think it depends on the state, especially since she is 16. She should talk to her doctor, and request that the parents not be told. She can also look into adoption without her parents. The boyfriend's parents need to be supportive, they caused a lot of the problems.
She shouldn’t divorce yet. She’s a SAHM, until she has the financial part resolved she should just stay in the marriage but she should bring a boyfriend in
Funny how she says she would have to raise a child despite her being one herself... If you are a child, you're not supposed to have sex. She finds herself adult enough to f***, but not to be responsible for the consequences that can come because of it
Maybe "once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't necessarily true. Like, i can believe someone can regret it and decide to never do it again. However, once a cheater, always untrustworthy. You can never be trusted, despite how much you say you would never cheat again. That's the point. Once you cheat, it should be assumed that you will do it again. You may not always BE a cheater, but you should always be regarded as such. And it would 100% be your fault, and your fault alone.
It's wildl that her self esteem is so low that she blames herself for the end of the relationship. The POS lied to her, emotionally manipulated and emotionally abused her for years. Y'all have to stop treating fault in a relationship as if it's a zero sum game where whoever does the worst act it becomes 100% - 0% that persons fault. Yes she was wrong for cheating but he preyed upon her insecurities for YEARS! Lying and manipulating and financially abusing her just to keep her around so he could have a roommate, when he could have just went a gottena platonic roommate at any point. Easiest ESH ever.
Eh I absolutely hate cheaters but I’d also 100% believe that she’s single. This guy has also jerked her around for years and only seems to get better right when the lease is up and once she’s stuck he went back to being a jerk. She should’ve left a lot longer ago
I was confused about that too... I mean, she said that he didn't want to be with her but she has to stay cause of the lease... I'd consider that a break up. So it sounds like he's pulling a reverse Ross an Rachael.
@@jamesp877 I agree, I’m just assuming she is mostly being honest. Maybe she was a bit worst and him a bit better, but that would still keep my opinion the same. But yes, she could be lying or be delusional.
Biggest and Easiest ESH BUUUUUUUUUUT at least OP seems Genuinely Remorseful and wants to change she should get therapy then eventually give dating another shot and I hope her Ex realizes how shit a BF he was and gets better too
@@FrutoseDeMorango Lol I game quite a bit, make sure it's never to the excess amount where my wife feels like we don't get time together. Most people I game with are that way as well. Family first.
Well it's his fault he drove her to cheat cause he wasn't being the perfect boyfriend material giving her love an attention i don't blame her for what she did the boyfriend really isn't that worth it if you can't give your girl what she wants and treat her more better then she will get it from someone else
@@phobixlive8935Yes she 100% should have. I hate cheaters but I actually think this guy did deserve it. From the way that post is written he’d treat her like shit every year and then right when the lease has to be renewed hed suddenly have a change of heart until the lease is signed. It sounds like he was just using her with no intention to ever committing and, for a woman, that’s cruel
This is a complicated one. It is easy to say that your husband broke the vows and is not putting any effort into fixing them, so you're set for a divorce. However, the joy Jake made you feel tells me that you've put your own needs so far on the back burner that you lost a huge chunk of yourself. My suggestion would be to focus on that. Find what needs you are starved from and how to fulfill those needs in a positive way, then revisit the question about who should be with who.
Comment section passes the vibe check, I think OP needs to be on her own for a while. She’s basically never been alone in her entire adult life, she probably has things to figure out about herself before she can feel comfortable in a relationship
First of all... DIVORCE YOUR HUSBAND. just let him go! U cant trust him and he literally threatened u. Second... get the frick away from everyone... amy.. her weirdo husband stbeh... Third MAKE NEW FRIENDS. Everyone u know is coocoo for cocoa puffs.
Your husband is still at your house because youre the bread winner.. Hes a cheating dog and not worthy of your love and is diminishing your mental health.. BUT, the APs husband sounds nuts.. Do not jump into that cluster F**k situation. Kick husband out and file for divorce and put distance between you and weird guy until you can think more clearly..
Dump him. He blames others for his actions, calls pretty basic honesty about your own needs as "manipulative", and feels little about making you feel bad. It's been four years, he's not going to marry you after this long, leave him.
Jake seems… off. I agree with OP that on paper they would make a good couple, but the fact that he’s willing to manipulate the situation like this just feels off-putting for reasons I can’t quite put to words. In my opinion, OP should cut out Jake and Amy entirely, and reduce contact with her husband to what’s necessary for their daughters.
im most likely gonna get flack but ngl i don't feel bad for depressed, pregnant teens if u don't want to risk being a parent or a traumatic @bortion so young Don't do Adult Things even if u were carful i just get irritated hearing them whine about how their life is ruined when they shouldn't have been having sex to begin with (but i am of course sympathetic towards those pregnant via SA)
if she's stupid enough to try distracting him- doesn't matter HOW, it's a distraction- WHILE HE'S DRIVING then how the hell is she in university at all seriously.
@@TheBurningBandit If they married at that age. She said 20+ which meant she didn't remember the exact length or wanted to obscure the exact length to protect people viewing the relationship negatively. Marriage also doesn't happen immediately with most periods after proposal before marriage being 6 months to 1 year+. Minimum she was 19 but that is saying he proposed to her without dating her which wouldn't have happened so the true minimum is 18 years old when they first got romantic and him 25. Honestly, you can add another year because of the 20+ so she was more likely 17 than 18 or 19. Likely speaking, they had contact and were friends before this too so grooming.
@@ultraboy2669 parents should make sure their kids know not to do such stuff at a age where they cant consent. Her parents lost her by being too strict.
@@ultraboy2669 caffeine over 200mg, alcohol, hot tubs and not properly cooked food can cause one She doesn't need to hurt herself, just start living off caffeine, drink spirits at night and raw fish
@@ultraboy2669 youtube is deleting my comments for no reason again She doesn't need to h*rt herself to cause one, just have caffeine over 200mg, drink alcohol and eat food that isn't properly cooked So if she lives off energy drinks, drinks spirits like brandy and eats raw fish, she might get lucky
Put your kid in a proper home for autistic kids. You have other kids to also think about. Their upbringing will suck with all that abuse and that could have a life-long traumatic impact on them.
But if he hadn’t found the card he would have been comfortable with discarding his daughter. OP needs to face the fact that he’s terrible at parenting and his daughter is better off where she is. Holy smokes. The fact that there were no charges on the card should have clued him in. Also, unless the girl is stupid she would know that any charges on the card would show up, so how was she going to get away with using the credit card if she did take it. He’s the worst.
NTA. The sisters both decided to be complicit in their mother's infidelity toward their father, and knowing that they are capable of such deception is exactly why OP wants nothing to do with them. And he's right. These aren't the kind of people that you keep in your life, family or otherwise. OP isn't hating, or even beefing with his sisters. He is simply _done_ with them.
I remember there was this one story where the husband unalived himself,prolly due to the stress caused by the second son,in that post,everybody could see the mother(op)'s pain,cause she kept calling the second son "A vegetable" and other names,i think they put the second kid in a group home and they tryna live their lifes now,These posts are a very good ad to not do the devil's tango lmao
Devil's Tango...😅😅 Well among other Video's here on the channel theirs's is One Parent (OP) who literally called His Kid something along the line of "I Spawned DEVIL Himself" (your comment made me remember This ODD Story) ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-6O-A7rSTANE.html (I hate my life. I hate my kid. I resent my family. I resent my Inlaws. I resent my wife. I hate.....)
jesus,i remember one where guy was gettin harassed cause the autistic guy of the group wanted to be treated like others(op flirted jokingly and when he Hugged the guy he kept getting creepy) luv the video!❤
This story reminds me of another man who was stabbed by his girlfriend nut the judge refused to sentence her to jail because she was studying medicine and amongst the top of her class stating the sentence would ruined her bright future. Even a judge is incapable of upholding the law and thinks that a woman who stab her beloved is fit to be a doctor who saves life.
No need to criticize the dad here. He didn’t punish her too hard and it’s not even his fault since it’s the other mom who gave him the wrong information. It’s just a mistake because for those who don’t know: kids can and will lie to cover themselves. OP has already apologized. Let’s be honest he don’t need to kneel to his daughter for her to forgive him. And the girl response is that of a brat who don’t know life. He was wrong, he apologize, he doesn’t failed you, and now you are pissed because a lot of people are supporting him instead of validating you. Wait to be a parent to understand how challenging it can be to raise a child.
