Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
What God joins together NO ONE should put asunder. Mothers/parents should Stay out of grown adults business. Married people should set strong boundaries with in laws or anyone else determined to break the marriage Covenant. Married people NEED to protect their marriage. Period.
I think he truly does. I really believe that was the first woman he ever fell in love with and was truly the love of his life. I really believe that. @@FalconsGirl1
Right mama's boy that what I hate about women sometimes the sister like that or daughter it's annoying🙄 that's why I don't mess with men at all women act act like an ex or a lover men the same way with each other too
@@StarVee-iw3zmOn the 2024 BET Awards when he was given a special award. His speech was mostly bleeped because of the language he used, but at one point he was talking about his past and his ex was in the audience and he said “I’m trying Tameka” lol
I could certainly understand Ushers mother wanting him with another woman who was younger that he could enjoy life with growing older together learning together.
I would never interfere with who my child dates or marry unless it’s toxic abuse going on . As long as that person makes my child happy they are good in my eyes
She finalized her divorce to previous husband and got married to Usher within less than a year. Usher is in his late 20’s at the time, she’s in her mid 30’s with 3 kids. I think most moms would be protective and look at it with suspicion. Ultimately the mom wasn’t the reason for the breakup. I’m glad Tameka was able to move on and they are focused on good coparenting.
I think Usher's Mom's concerns was she was a Mother already of multiple births. He hadn't experienced that until her! If this was his second marriage not new anymore but His Mother realized he had to choose his own way!
I’m glad she is speaking her piece. I did appreciate him calling her out like he’s perfect. Even his kids didn’t appreciate him doing that. Kids almost grown and he bullied her with his money. I love him as an artist but he controlled that entire situation and caused that woman pure hell even while she was dealing with her son dying and then Usher almost got her other son killed on his watch…
I lost all respect for him afterwards because he couldn't take care of the kids and never changed a diaper, yet sued her for full custody and won. Then he gave the kids to his mother because he's on tour and on the road. Instead of just leaving them with Tameka and the rest of their siblings in school at the family home.
She doesn't even know he's been dead for years, she's speaking in present tense. Your only takeaway is that she talks about things she has no idea about. A know-it-all that knows nothing.
@jakestroll6518 She's speaking on him in the present cause some of what he said was true....However Kevin Samuels was an image consultant....Nothing else.
As mum’s/parents 3:35 of adults, we’ve laid the foundation, and had to learn to step back as they learned to step up into adulthood. They deserve the love, respect and support we raised them with, by example- Not opinions and judgements in opposition to their freedoms & choices to live their own lives. God binds the marriage and nothing and no-one should come between- they are One. Show love . Respect that. A divorce or broken family is heartbreaking and devastating for all involved. I think Usher puts it well in his words: “We ain’t good-good, but we still good”. ❤🙏🏽
Rather his mom was mom wanted them married or not he was grown and both of his first two wives was older then him he loves older women ya know and chilli was even older now the third wife is younger but meka maybe was older but she was still able to give babies that lady need let her son be and stay out of his business and let him have a life period point blank be blessed all involved ❤
I wrote this comment after Kevin Samuels passed. It is still relevant now. In some of Kevin’s videos, women come into the conversation with discernible fretfulness. They would say things such as: ‘I don’t wanna speak over you…’ and would nod frequently as he spoke believing it would impress their host and maybe he would be kind to them and they would leave unscathed. It rarely happened. This attitude of appeasement, this feeding of the shark hoping you would not become its dinner only fattened it. His 15 minutes of viral fame ballooned into 3 odd years as the unofficial king of the manosphere, his status grew and other viral moments inundated countless outlets. Now hopefully, the flood will start to recede and once the grieving tears are wiped away his fans and followers will receive more clarity. We unwholesomely gravitate towards celebrities, even when their aura glows green with toxicity, even when their channel is an arena and the sport is misogyny. Kevin may have started with noble intentions giving grooming advice to men while making videos from his car but he careened off this path speedily. Some of his suitable advice to women which was always amalgamated with a lot of scorn and shame can be distilled into: be healthy (lose weight), be submissive, be productive and be approachable (be feminine). All these can be found in Proverbs Chapter 31 for a woman seeking advice within a congenial space. Also, these nuggets of advice can be given without making your interlocutor feel like their biggest adversary in the world is a bathroom scale. Power really does unveil personality, even if that power is derived from being the unofficial leader of an unofficial movement existing in non-physical space. If he has a steadfast legacy it is this: enormous power and an uncanny spell reside in this new-fangled interactive tool called social media. It can have a narcotic effect if it is not used cautiously. And it can produce an addictive rush just like an endless stream of Redbull.
Kevin Samuels was a horrible man and he had no problem tearing down women and belittling them. He said that women are expired after a certain date. I think this type of rhetoric is very dangerous and I think that it is the reason why Miss USA and several other women unalived themselves before they turned 30. God will not be mocked and I think that it is so ironic that Kitten heels died just how he swore up and down black Women would. He died alone and he didn’t have any family with him. According to reports his family found out through social media so it sounds like he was estranged from them. He preached that he was a high value man but he was homeless at times. He was with a woman of another race that was overweight when he passed and how that woman looked if she was a black woman he would have dragged her but he was a colorists so she got a pass. He profited off of throwing rage and hate towards black women, and look what happened to him. People who say they liked Kevin Samuels are no better then the red pill incels. Black people have endured a lot of trauma and each person needs to go through their journey of healing and breaking generational curses. Trying to profit off of hate and rage is a loosing strategy if not financially, spiritually.
@DoctorKesha ppl live such miserable lives that they just look for reasons to be nasty. anyway to answer your question this was recorded a few yrs ago but uploaded, i think, to seize the moment of usher mentioning her at the awards
If only Usher's mother was this vigilant when she sold...ahem allowed Diddy to mentor her child and live with him alone when he was a pre-teen. If only.
I have never grieved a relationship when it's over it's over when it's done I'm done I quickly move on with my life because life goes on I will not wallow in any pain or misery because my mental health is very valuable to me.
This interview has to be old because KS has been 6 ft below for 3 years now. In regards to why Ushers mom had a problem with is because this started out as a business connection. Tameka was several years (5+) then Usher and she knew that he wasn't ready for a blended family nor marrying an older woman. If more men would listen to their mothers, they'd stop marrying women they have no business with.
Sad to say kids don’t listen and not that a parent can tell a grown child man what to do, they see things and have experienced what kids have not grown or not. I learned this as an adult from the things my parents said to me. Maybe she meant well.
He had a target initially Tameka, it was to black men and how they would improve themselves. Thats something that’s needed. He had a target, he wasn’t popular with that target.
Wow what a coincidence I just saw the Opera Interview of 11 years ago with Usher and his mom. She was not down for her and was very happy when Usher got full custody. It is clear from that interview that Usher's mother did not approve of her at all. I wonder how she feels about his subsequent women. More important I am sure she knows her son's true orientation and maybe that is a whole other story
How does it add up that on one hand "i like kevin samuels bc he makes good points & backs them up with stats" whilst at the same time being a divorced twice single black woman with 4 to 5 kids. Tameka said "I will beat him up" as it relates to the fact that she wouldn't be considered high value to him. Statistically, as far as K.S is concerned, Tameka is "average at best & far from high value." He would question why a man filed for divorce from her bc statistically women file. Cognitive dissonance much? Make it make sense.
@@femdivinemind7777 right?! And yet Tameka gave near full throated support of him....and yet the very measure K.S. used was highly against her. I noticed that the women & men who supported him most were usually in that category. They just somehow didn't see themselves that way.
I had to go google her age when I saw comments about her age relative to his when they married. I didn’t know she was nearly a decade older than him 😮 I see why the mum had issues
I used to read the magazines back in the day how Usher and his mom was the best of friends and then all of a sudden he started turning against her, and I thought that was quite odd and the only thing that came to mind was it must be her, but I also read that his mom was trying to warn him about this woman and then again he got more rebellious against his mom then he realized his mom was right and he said oh my goodness I have to apologize to my mom, because she was telling the truth about her being a gold digger and much more and now they are the best of friends and I can see she's still using that same excuse his mom didn't want me to to marry him, when really that may have been a distraction to get into his pocket
Stop lying! She was already successful in her own right. She was and still is a famous stylist and had her own career. Why would she be considered a Golddigger?
It is crazy how chics be seeking clout! She didn’t have to say ish about the relationship or family. He is a good father and is trying that’s all that should matter. U out here doing too much mam.
A lot of people don't like her because she isn't famous, she was his employee, stylist. The mother is using age as an excuse. The mother likes Chili because of her looks and because shes famous. The mother is shallow and told him to get custody of her children. Usher is on the road and the children were left in his mothers care, during this time Tameka also lost her son. That was very heartless of Usher and his mother. Meanwhile, Tameka is an excellent full-time stay at home mom, no reason she should have lost custody. Then the mother should address Ushers Herpes allegations, since shes all up in his business 😐😬
I knew something wasn't right with Tameka when she almost got into it with Tamron Hall on her show. However, some of her views may have been valid, but Usher was young when he married her (IJS)
You were too old and experienced. Kids and hungry for money. Usher is great, and his mother was protecting him against your old behind. Get someone to talk about. Not usher 😅
She need to stop allowing allowed things that others do... Her son's are older and this isn't cool. Everytime the ex does something or receive something.... May be we're watching the relationship what happened in their marriage. Don't allow this anymore.
She said a mother and her child SO YES HE IS YOUNGER not a child he is her Adult Son marrying an older woman. That's a lot of parents concern what's purpose can this work or it's just for show
