@@aprokodoctorplease sir, I want to ask a question, if someone has sex and then eventually grows hatred for that person is it an issue? Note, it is repetitive over time I would really appreciate your answer
I pumped into your video @Tito yesterday and I saw the word vaginismus and went to the dictionary to look up the meaning and then I saw your other videos and then I understood properly because I went through it too and now am seeing that it's very common but people are not speaking up. at some point I felt low of myself. I hated sex. I wondered how young girls were killing themselves over sex. I was asking myself where's the sweetness they talked about in having sex, and the funny thing is you know that pregnancy text churches do a day before wedding, the doctor gave me a pregnancy result that was positive and told my pastors that I was pregnant and they should follow me to do scan perhaps so I will not change the scan result. So I started asking myself several questions. I couldn't speak up or ask anybody. At some point I blamed my mum for not telling me anything about sex. my naivety was even worse that I didn't know anything about jelly, not even my husband. Yes I believe when you said it's psychological. At some point we used his saliva😢 on my vagina for access and oh my goodness, the pain was hell. it was as if he was forcing himself in, and the vagina was not even opening at each passing day it was like after every attempt, the vagina will close back to it's original state. I would cease my breathe. Most times I would cringe my body at the thought of sex. Sometimes I felt I had entered one chance for getting married. Omo it was hard. But in all of these I took in but the pain was still there and when I spoke with the doctor she gave me a drug to insert and that temporally stopped the pain until I delivered and had episiotomy, then it was like the pain came all over again. Mine was so painful that after sex to pee will be war and sometimes I would cry while peeing, sometimes the fear of pain will not let me pee self. am just shaking my head going through memory lane. There are so many things they don't teach in marriage counseling. The things you here most is submission here, submission there, the wife must be submissive in all areas and bla bla. Am so glad am seeing this and getting more knowledge from it at least to also teach those in our cycle to know how to scale through. Thank you so much for speaking up❤
@@Lovelyn-b4h I'm sorry I can't remember as I'm very poor with remembering drugs and this was five years ago. You could speak with a doctor or a professional to assist you ❣️
Same thing happened to me, got married last month a virgin and at age 33. And having sex for the first time was really painful, at I time I tot something was wrong with me, I actually thought I didn't have a virgina😂😂 but I thank God for my husband he was so kind and patient. Second night of trying, it was like he could read me and kept telling me that nothing was wrong with me and that he was willing to keep trying for as long as one year if that's how long it will take, however I had to tell myself that I wasn't gonna leave the hotel q virgin so we kept trying again and again amidst the pain and the finally we got a lubricant and in the early morning of the fifth day he went in and virgin me didn't even know😂😂😂. Really religion and friends has a way of putting fear into people. Thanks Tito for sharing your experience.
I became born again at age 13. Lived a life of purity married at age 28 and had sex that same night of wedding, I did not experience anything like this so purity before marriage is not the issue here but lack of preparation especially mental preparation. Bible says before you build a house count the cost, that is, prepare before you start the journey. It is not only sex, even baby breastfeeding for the first without preparation can be frustrating. Mentally prepare as much as you can before marriage. Tim lahye books are fantastic as suggested by someone earlier. My pastor did not teach me this but the Holyspirit did. I come in peace o
This is a real condition. Took months after wedding for us to be able to get in and after having our first baby; couldn’t do anything for like a year. Antenatal appointments were hell anytime they needed to check anything down there, It was sooooo bad. Eventually, I saw a gynaecologist and what helped was pelvic physiotherapy, with breathing techniques like she mentioned. It’s indeed psychological. One major thing that helped with the physiotherapy was using dilators with plenty lubrication. My physiotherapist would use the dilators on me at every appointment and I had to do it at home several times a week too; the dilators come in different sizes, I started from the smallest size and gradually moved one size up once I felt comfortable with the current size. This took months but we eventually got there. So yes, it’s a real issue that I knew nothing about till I got married but patience and kindness from the man is the only way to move from painful to great as she mentioned.
I think I may have had a sexually frustrated partner as well, and it may have contributed to him ending our marriage. He tried to harm me amongst domestic and psychological violence and abuse, then gradually he just packed and left then dissolved the marriage. I was clueless (believer since 12yrs of age and yes it was ingrained in me that sex was bad and dirty and I chose the God pleasing way) and didn’t even know who to talk to about it. I’m just learning about this condition from your video and have since resolved to God for when and if the time ever comes again. I’m much older now and trusting God for my own life partner - even in my 40’s - what God cannot do does not exist🙏
Just keep trusting God ma Who knows if that man might have even killed your enemy if he were to still be married to you. 💔 Your own soul mate is coming ma.
May God fix your marriage and restore your joy in Jesus name. I believe telling a 12 year old that sex is bad is correct. Yes, it's bad for the child. But at 21, if the child still goes about with such believe, it's no longer the fault of the person that said it when she was 12. There are lot to unlearn and relearn from age 20. I don't blame what was told the child that actually helped her chastity, rather the lack of discipleship in our society or church in particular. The 2 weeks crash pre-marital course is not enough.
Women go through a lot, parents need to be intentional about educating their sons. Because there are alot of men out there that treat women horribly because of sex and with issues like this they blame women and it’s just so sad.. thanks so much for the video
I bless God for gifting me a kind man as a husband. Had the same challenge and experience with a gynaecologist was traumatised afterwards. Thank God for my husband's support. He kept communication open and was willing to try out alternatives, always reassuring me we had ourselves to enjoy forever. Mine lasted 4 months but was easier to bear with my husband's involvement and openness. I never saw it as a physiological thing. Thank you, Aproko and Tito. This needs to go viral
Wow! I've heard this but never knew so many people are going through this. I married as a virgin but didn't experience this. I want to know if you were wet during that period and if your husband attracted to you. Because the situation being a psychological problem means that it needed attraction too.
44mins 19secs time well spent, my first time hearing this. Thank You Tito for opening up. Thank you Aproko Doctor for being a great host.. This was enlightening❤ Big shouts from Ghana 🇬🇭
Mr aproko, big ups to you for this and many other things you do. You are truly and inspiration. But I ve a 2way perspective on possible causatives. Is it medically ok to stay celibate from zero to 28? Is it even possible !? Then 2ndly, remember that these ladies use all sorts of vaginal tighteners. 3rdly, are you a virgin even when you masturbate on code? Why I ask this, is because during these times the kegal is being exercised, which women with loose body parts use to tighten up even after child birth. So imagine twitching an used vagina for years,.. is like welding the place up. So disengaging from intercourse and getting off on Ur own, just to uphold a dubious virtue, isn't it damaging? Well, I honestly respect her confidence. But I do not feel that some other ladies situations are as legit or as authentic as hers. You know sex has been so weapons this days, so trust me people have every rite to speak up, and say their minds on this issues the way they see it and feel about it. I will advise that she takes a more respectful approach towards spiritual leaders, especially the ignorant ones, particularly for their ignorance. Have a blessed life and keep doing the good work
Its so surprising that people don't know about it, i am a doctor but before then inhad known it like from secondary school, cos i read a lot. I have had opportunity to counsel couples on this in my private practice, wrong mindset is the major issue. The cure is a systematic stepwise renewal of your mind to sex. Dr. Aproko you should talk about PIED pornography induced erectile dysfunction too it's common.
I like the statement "one of the prerequisites for any man getting married should be kindness" I salute your husband's patience, kindness and understanding. I also salute your own doggedness; thank you for educating the world on this. I was hearing the condition for the first time. The Lord bless you. You are also a good communicator. Thank you for standing for Christ always. Thank you for standing for the truth. Thank you Dr too.
Kudos to your husband. He's such a kind and understanding Man. 👍 Thank you Tito for, not being ashamed of the gospel. Aproko Doc. Daalụ rinne 👏👏 for bringing the gospel to our door step.
This is about the best video I’ve watched on RU-vid. I’ve shared to so many people and I will follow her immediately. We need more Christian ladies like this who are open to real life conversations
My wife suffered from exactly this for three months after marriage, but i was patience and supportive, we tried everything, we even went to the hospital, so this is real, she suffered depression, cried alot, i suffered along with her as well although l even wasn't a virgin,so its real and psychology has a lot to do with it
This was so Educative. Ignorance is really a terrible thing . Its my first time hearing this and I learnt a lot. Thank you so much Aproko doctor and Tito the writer . God bless you both.
I was in this shoe too, my husband couldn’t penetrate after our first child.I remember the day we noticed I was pregnant my husband was like how did not do anything but he knew the situation on ground so I was not cheating on him it was the doctor that told us that it’s sperm swim from all the time we where trying to penetrate.thank God he was understanding and their was trust. He was able to penetrate after 1year 6mont because I had CS so I had to heal from childbirth pain .we thank God for thus far
I’m glad to have come across this. For real, people go through a lot that we don’t know are psychological or medical conditions and most times end up with partners who make it worse. I’ve picked so many lessons from here and definitely pray to marry a KIND partner.
Yes ooo my dear. Marrying a kind and a godly man is the key because I went through the same thing the first week of my wedding but my husband was encouraging me and before the end of the weekend everything was over.
Many will want to deviate from the topic and start endorsing Premarital sex which is funny. The husband was able to stick through it all because they practised sexual purity while dating . One cannot imagine a guy who is sexually oriented with different ladies staying that long without having sex. The doctor in question needs to be sanctioned. Well done Tito for this eye opener
Tito is an amazing story teller😅 I felt all the emotions as she narrated her experience. I actually never heard of it until she started talking about it. Thank you for the enlightenment!
Wow I just stumbled across this and I am super blessed. Honestly there are many things we should talk about in church. 95% of child abuse can be prevented by education and awareness. Thank you Aproko Doc❤️❤️and Tito❤️❤️
Thank you so much for talking about this doc! I also battled with vaginismus in my first year of marriage. It was quite distressing. Thankfully hubby and I got through it with professional advice, counselling and patience. Your piece has made me realise it is much more common than I realised. And yes, I also think the religious angle may have a role to play in our environment. I hope shining light on it this way will help those suffering in silence to get the help they need to overcome it. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾💗
This is a great thing ur doing. The rethoric of sex in churches when i was growing up was bad. The reason why i didn't think like that was that i read a Christian marriage book when i was young out of curiosity and the woman explained the purpose of sex. Since then i always had it in mind that it was a good thing made by God, just timing should be right
Thank you so much Mrs Tito and Dr Aproko. I have fear for sex, because I was sexually abused. When I got married, I had sex with pity but when I start using AFFIRMATION WORDS for myself. I started enjoying it with my husband. Affirmation really works. Thank you so much ma’am. I enjoyed this beautiful video.
@@ibrahimadeyemi2336 Sexual urge is not sin. And since it is not a sin sex is needed to satisfy this longings. Since God orchestrated the desire for sex in man then God want me to enjoy it.
Tito did not joke when she said she vowed to hook vaginismus by the neck 😭. I could feel her anger from all the stories she shared. Thank you Tito, for sharing your story and for educating us about this condition.
Read about it when I was in Junior secondary school (12yrs or so). Thought it was fiction, maybe something the writer created to make the novel enticing. I’m glad I got this opportunity to know more about it and ways to tackle it. Thank you Mrs Tito and Dr Aproko. I will do well to spread this gospel😊
This conversation is great, thanks to you Aproko doctor and Tito for this. I was still in secondary sch when I heard about this though not medically but from a family member that was making fun of one of my dad's tenants. Woman to woman oo. At that level I felt extremely bad for that lady. I just hope she got the necessary help she needed. Then as for the church, I hope the congregation should learn to use their brain, there ain't no sin in handling issues medically and spiritually.
I think people assume so many roles in the body of Christ that we neglect the place of professional help... Nevertheless, this is educational as always... Aproko doctor and Tito delivered as usual....
You can't leave it to outsiders including the church to teach your kids about sex. We gloss over it at home and expect complete adults. Honestly, the problem doesn't start with the church. It all begins with parents at home. Teach kids about it. Be an open book for your children... let them be able to ask you questions.
The reason a lot of African parents are not open to talk about sex in the proper way is that they still see it as something that is bad or they think it would encourage them to do it before they get married.
I’m conducting research on this very topic. It’s about women who grew up in sexual purity culture and developed vaginismus or other negative sexual experiences (fear to experience sexual pleasure/ feeling shame for experiencing pleasure upon marriage) Your story is my story and we need to talk about it more!! I don’t want the next generation of women to suffer from this in silence
Finally it has a name. I felt being a virgin at 31 was the cause. Tito, that pain is something you shouldn't wish for your enemies. I thought i was alone in this and the fact that it tightens more after is shocking and more painful. God bless you both for educating us on this.
OmG I’m happy I found this me n my husband got married this year on June and it has been so difficult,stressful,I almost thought I had a problem and regretted being a virgin but my husband was understanding n really patient….thank u for this talk
I can't thank God enough for my church. The sex class I had before marriage was great. I also read books. Sex, oh sex by Seun Oladele. I read two other books. I had issue still the first night but thank God I did not keep quiet. We made it through. Virginity is a beauty and very honorable. If you have it, keep it. I tell you. Yet, that's doesn't means we should ignorant.
I would like to correct that statement "if you have it then keep it." I put it to you that it is most pertinent to keep it whether or not you still have it. This (making a person who has had sex consensually or not before think it's no use abstaining till the right time/person) is a tool the enemy uses to decieve many believers into living a life of sexual sin. This absolutely has to stop!!!
This is one of the most educative videos i have ever watched!!! Seriously... I am not married oo! But i am glad i came across this! No knowledge is a waste.
This was educative. I am not married but I have learnt alot. Growing up with a sexual purity culture has made some of us scared of the idea of sex. I am glad to know there is a way to deal with that fear earlier enough before one gets married. Thank you Mrs Tito. Thank you Aproko doctor🙌🙌
When I followed this link from your Twitter page, I didn’t think I’d actually watch the entire video, but I am glad I did. Huge congrats to your guest for handling the stigma that religion creates around sex.
I love this conversation, this needs to be a open discussion so people can be informed and set free. A lot of people are dying in silence 🤐 , cultural upbringing, religious beliefs treating sex like it’s evil even to talk about it. This should be open discussion, knowledge is power.
@@user-xi7rt5yg7e It's actually not the same as "akiriboto". You can penetrate but its painful but the akiriboto as you said you can't penetrate at all.
I almost couldn’t watch part of this video because I was almost throwing up because of such her horrid experience. I was tearing up and I started feeling pain just from hearing her speak. I felt it in my chest. That wicked devil of a man should be stripped from his license
Thanks a lot for this educational video Aproko Doctor! Tito the writer, thank you for sharing your experience. My friend, a Lawyer, once informed me of a court case where the man was ending his marriage because he couldn't "break the wall of Jericho". The woman was fed up of the mistreated the man was giving her and agreed to divorce. The family wahala alone was something else. They attributed it to "village people". To make issues worse, they couldn't get help from the hospital. Whenever I remember that issue, I ask myself, "What if it was me?", "Am I at risk as I haven't done it before?". I needed to understand this. That it's psychological.... Thanks a lot.🙏🙏🙏
This gave me so much hope. Her confidence is beautiful too. This was a time well spent. That part about being with a kind partner could very well be the solution to what majority of us face. Honestly, thank you for this
This was really insightful. Thank you Aproko doc for making this happen. I love her realness and the fact that she's speaking from the view of a believer, it really enlightened me. Thank you so much
I got married a virgin at 29. I had pains for 6 months (dyspareunia) started enjoying sex last week when we got to six months married. I noticed that the Virginia closes when we take a break for some time my walls becomes closed we had to go over the first time procedures again. For those waiting for marriage God is by you . Yes it will be painful but is a good thing to do with your spouse and beautiful experience when you recall. I will talk about it in my channel soon.
Tito is so real and that's what I love about her. Thank you Aprokodoctor for the brilliant questions you asked. You both ate it leaving no crumbzzzzzzzzzzz🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I must say, i am glad i stayed all through to watch this. I am not married but this has been very instructional, i have this bittersweet feeling though, especially because i remember those classes as a teen in church and how they shaped us, in-fact people only talk of how it made young people want to try SEX outside, they don't know this side of the story or how it created very emotionless men and now marriage in religion is like going to a 8-5 job to a bitter boss. I must say i am very grateful for this and grateful for other video too. God bless you Aproko Doctor and Writer Tito(in igbo)
Yea. I had this as a newly wed. Married in August and finally was able to have sex after 5 months. I strongly agree that it is psychological. Funny enough I married few days to turning 28 . Married for 8 years now and sometimes this creeps in during sex but I try to relax and then my v opens up. It takes a really patient man to go through this journey.
@@destinygeorge5803pls kindly refrain from addressing what u really don’t know cos this ur comment really reeks of ignorance. It also have this fool @ 40 vibes.
God bless you Tito and aproko doctor. You went through it so with the comfort you were comforted with you can comfort others. God continue to bless you. Just watching it gives me shivers and I'm even a guy. Everything got into me, but because I'm a guy, the most impactful part is when Tito said she finally acknowledges the pain of her husband. Because, oftentimes...its not only vaginismus but other related dealings a woman go through and they don't realise the pain it causes on their man. Thank you once again. ❤❤
We never heard this experience, but I am grateful you are sharing this.... Knowledge is light... This is a big deliverance for many. And you have armed me - Tito. Thanks Aproko Dr. Thanks Tito.
I watched this video with a veryyyy open mind, because I've not had sex before, I'm not even engaged/about to get married and I didn't even know what VAGINISMUS was before now, I just trust this our aproko doctor contents... but ahhhh words fail me I have sha copied this link, I'm going to share n post and I'm waiting for the spiritual aunties and uncles... God bless you both!
I used to wonder about this as a young girl. Every time, I'm told to sit properly, cover up, and be careful around the opposite sex, as a christian girl. Then, all of a sudden, I'm supposed to get married and then go stark naked before the very gender that I've been warned to guard against all my life?! That transition is drastic enough to induce psychological trauma.
Wowww😢😢😢... I'm actually overwhelmed cuz this is the first time I'm hearing this and definitely I'm sharing the link cause MBA ooooo.... Thank you Doc and Thank you ma Tito
Wow. Happy for you. It took six weeks for me and my wife to penetrate. It wasn't vaginismus, but it was hard. Thankfully, we got counsel. We have a baby now and we are good. We were both Virgins too, in our 30s. Grateful for you and your husband.
She is just telling my life's story. I can vividly relate. I met 6 doctors. Thank God it's all in the past. Vashawn Mitchel song "You made a way" ushered my testimony.
The doctors gave me so many medications I can't even remember the names right now but I was just taking them. Also, there is this tab I had to use at the anus area few minutes before the 'do' . They also recommended kegel exercises it helped reasonably but not completely. I also went through therapy sessions from some doctors and my mum. Thank God my husband was understanding and patient. Funny though but at the end I had to do some prayers and fasting on the matter because the issue was really really tough. I would always sing the song 'You made a way' in my head during the 'do'. It was really frustrating and tiring. Then God just took over.
I'm not married yet and still very young. I've always been scared of Sex. Thank you so much ma for sharing your story and for bringing this information to light. As someone who's also a devotee to the Gospel, I'm really happy to hear this from a big sister.
I actually learned a lot from this. Thank you Tito , Thank you Aproko Doctor and I think we should also have a talk on fear of childbirth… like I’m not married yet and I have the fear already
Childbirth is a beautiful experience. I just had my second baby. The paon a woman experience is such that her body has been made to handle. Most women experience pain but I've met only a handful personally who said they had painless vagina delivery. I said that to make you know that it's not all the same for all women but you can by the help of God have the type you want. On this note I'd refer you to a book that came in handy for me. It's called supernatural childbirth. It sure will help you
I just can't hold my tears at this point. This was me... I think Doctors need to study more and understand that we are not all the same. I wish I can show this video to all the Doctors and lab scientist that have laughed at me in the past. Dealing with this and TTC is not easy at all.
The O and G doctors should have called in the Psychiatrists immediately, but no, they think it is a speciality for only "mad" people. Thank God for that video!! May God continue to strengthen your marriage.
Wow!This is my first time hearing about this situation, though almost 45 Mins but it was quite expository. Thanks Tito, for opening up and thanks Doc for being such a great host
Funny how I've been skipping this video for months but I'm here now. As an agnostic, I'm pleasantly surprised. This is interesting and informative. I appreciate how honest this lady is. Most Nigerian Christians aren't. They delude themselves. I particularly like how candid she was about religion possibly being the cause of her condition. I wish more Nigerian Christians were as candid as this.
I really appreciate you both, the lord bless you really good. I had suffer this and over came but a real struggle, bitterness and resentment. I fast and pray like a mad dog, i regretted keeping myself for marriage and when i overcame it i hated my husband. It's an eye opener and i hope this can reach a whole lot of people so we stop suffering in silence
So sorry you went through that harrowing experience. Why did you hate your husband after overcoming it and not before? He wasn't patient with you through the struggle?
@@manonfire7675 He rape me countless times, i had severe hyperemesis gravidarum in my pregnancies, all my children are delivered through c/s. I was physically, phycologicaly, and emotionally exhausted he became a complete different person from the guy who Chase me, waited patiently for about 3 years before marriage. I don't wish this on my worst enemy. Despite people saying he's a good man on the outside i still want a divorce even after 15 years of marriage
Very informative and eye opening discussion. Thank you for sharing your testimony. May the Lord bless you richly as you continue to invest in marriages🙌❤😇
Awesome, You just got a new subscriber. This video must go viral....absolutely true. Thank you Dr Aproko and thank you Tito. As a marriage and family Counsellor, i can relate with this and with so many problems among Christians when it comes to SEX.
This is very good stuff. I will recommend a book for couples trying to get married, The Act of Marriage by Tim and Beverly LaHaye. From my background, I never had that idea that it was bad and I had a high dose of churching growing up. I think the Holy Spirit has worked on my psychology. But reading that book close to the wedding helped a great deal. Also, I think people underestimate kindness, women underestimate the importance of marrying a kind, patient, God-fearing man because marriage will throw things at you and you will need someone who will remain solidly by you in your most vulnerable moment. that person better be kind.
Thanks for sharing. I like the fact that you reiterated that SEX IS SWEET AND PERMITTED FOR CHRISTIANS WITHIN THE CONFINES OF MARRIAGE. Thanks for standing up for the truth. The way religion has taught a lot of us to act as assistant gods sometimes is disheartening and because it's been on for a long time, it takes conscious efforts to be SANE, REALISTIC and still follow CHRIST which is what I have been doing. May God help the church because even these things should be a functional discussion in the marriage counseling before marriage but only VERY FEW churches do justice to counseling!!! Welldone, Aproko Doctor!!!
The first part of this video made me really sad... It's the first time I'm hearing about this condition, my heart goes out to everyone having this condition, I'll be sure to share this video with anyone who ever mentions this to me.
It's great to know people speak up about the mind and body and how it affects you in and out. Also, how religion can damage some people emotionally. I believe yoga also helps with conditions like this because you begin to trust yourself and let go. Yogic breathing, helps a lot with this as well (another area where religion sees as bad- weird) our culture too has a role to play in this. Great presentation and communication 👍
Very understandable. In terms of Christianity, the message is to wait....not that sex is bad. The problem is us Christians who package sex as taboo and completely wrong just so young ones don't indulge. It has always been the wrong approach. It's not the religion but us doing the delivery wrong. Sex is a beautiful thing to enjoy, in the context of marriage, the way God designed. That's all. It's really sad how the strong and wrong approach of explaining abstinence to the youth has resulted in trauma and fear.
Very important conversations! Ladies need to know themselves sexually so they can explain to their partners! Again Kindness! You cannot overemphasize this in a man! Naturally the body will lock if the you are not attracted to your partner mentally before physically…Know this and know peace people
I grew up as a Pastor's child and in a very strict setting. I think why I never had issues with stress was that I read a lot about it growing up, both in novels, journals, newspaper article where people discuss their problems. I once read about a man who was impotent due fear of sex or so and how his wife had to help him overcome it. I think that exposed me to knowing that I could develop such phobia for sex that could physically affect me and helped changed my mindset. I was 29 the first time I had it and also watched videos and discussions around sex to prepare my mind before doing it. In some videos, I learnt that excruciating pain the first time is mostly either cause the man was rough, the lady was not ready physiologically or she was scared/tensed. It helped me relax when it was time...
Thank God for this video..... I experienced difficulty in penetrating...I thought it was because I was a virgin.... thank God for my husband for his patience and kindness....now what it's called.
The misdiagnosis part is so common so much that sometimes I wonder whether medical personnels in Nigeria actually gets taught the actual knowledge they should be impacted with.... It's terrible.... I'm glad we are having these conversations and i hope these videos gets played or these conversations are held in churches for singles and even married.... Thank you for this
This!!!!I was talking with my cousin yesterday about how some doctor I saw didn't know of a medical condition that I found on Google and was telling him about
Most of our medical practitioners are not passionate and fascinated with their field. Most times Whites make more discoveries while the curriculum that was taught to them haven't been updated.
It is not a Nigerian thing. Don't be so quick, it is all over the world. There's a cultural and environmental component to it. There are conditions that a Nigerian doctor would easily diagnose but Oyibo will spend year beating around the bush. For example, Malaria or Sickle cell disorder
I’ve been following this man right from time. He’s always educating. I’m hearing things like this for the first time. Thank Aproko Doc. And ma’am Tito ❤
