VBAC or repeat C-section? Our decision for a C-section in 2 days! 

I needed this video! I’m 29 weeks and have been battling with almost the same decision. I think in the back of my mind I wanted a C-section so the baby is safe, but I can’t stop hearing the words of family, friends, and medics workers acting like “I should’ve never had a C-section.” Thank you for this video!

In just a few days you will be holding your beautiful little boy and none of this will matter. Deep breaths, it's all going to be wonderful

Hey guys! I have had 4 csections and everything will be great! This time might be easier for you 🙏🏻🤞🏻 the more I had, the easier it got.. prayers for you and baby! Can’t wait to see him!! 🥰

Im a female, but I’ve never had a child or been pregnant. I also don’t plan to have any children. However, it takes a lot to come on here and be open and vulnerable like this. No one should be judging you for sharing this information that you don’t even have to with us. Im wishing you a healthy and safe delivery,and I cannot wait meet the new little one and see all the new videos to come! God bless you and your family Morgan 😘

As a multi c-section mama, you choose what's best for you and your baby. 17 years ago when I had my first born, I pushed for 3 hours and he was stuck in my pelvic bone. I was exhausted, his vitals were dropping so at that point an emergency c-section needed to happen. He was only 6lbs so it wasn't like he was this huge baby. I opted for a 2nd c-section when I had my daughter 3 years later because it was the right choice for me, she was a lot larger and I just didn't want that stress or worry about my baby's health if I tried to vbac.

3 c-sections here. If anything. I highly recommend them. Also my vagina has stayed intact! Woohoo!

You are doing the right thing going with the C-section, it’s the safest for the baby. You are a woman, you don’t need to labor to official become a woman. You’ve grown two babies in your body, you don’t need to experience labor pains to be a woman! Be proud of yourself, you are a MOM! I wish I could tell you to calm down, but I remember how those hormones are like a roller coaster at this point in your pregnancy. Just remember tomorrow your new baby will be in your arms! Tell Beckham Happy Birthday!

Morgan, it really sounds like you’re making the best decision for baby. I completely agree and understand the want to have a vaginal birth because it can be such a unique experience, but luckily we live in an age where c section is very safe and a really great option. You are doing what’s right for your family and it’s great to see someone who can rationally and logically think through all the scenarios and ultimately make the decision that’s going to work for you. Good luck with the birth and I wish you guys the best!!! Stay positive and trust that God/the universe (whatever you believe in) has your back love.

I just found you on youtube, and I’m so happy I did. I’m currently in the hospital due to complications until delivery. We are delivering via c section on 3/23 and I’m nervous. Watching your first c section video was very helpful, emotional, amazing to see. I feel the same, we have to do what is best for our babies and ourselves. I’m still nervous, but I’m starting to get more mentally prepared and appreciate this video 💜

You're going into the second baby with experience and knowledge you didn't have before! You've got this mama!!

You are making the right decision Morgan! I sure can relate to your situation. I have the same shape pelvis and according to my doctor, during my 5th c-section, I had her visibly check my pelvis while I was cut open and she told me that she couldn't hardly fit her fist in my pelvic arch and that having a vaginal birth for sure was not possible! All together, I had 6 c-sections, and if it gives you any encouragement, all of them went well! So, if you are wanting a big family still, it is quite possible!! prayers, love and best of luck sent to you as you bring your 2nd baby boy into the world on Friday! I have a feeling he will be just as cute as his brother! ♥

Happy for you guys 💕 don’t let people get in your head. Some people are insane with their conspiracy theories about doctors. They are legally required to tell you all the facts and make their most educated recommendations. Logan is totally right. Excited for your cute family 💜💜

Seems like you and Logan have thought through every situation and are making the best decision for you all. Good luck. I’ll be sending prayers for you on Friday!!

You got this!! One step and one moment at a time! Pray when you need to. Much love and positive vibes your way!

My second baby was born 51 weeks after my first, so their birthdays are exactly a week apart. We always had a joint birthday party, and it worked out fine! I’m sending you best wishes for a happy, healthy baby!

I love how you educate yourself between the different ways of having the baby, and try to find what's best for your situation, obviously there's always a change in plans nothing ever goes exactly as planned, cannot wait to see new baby Butler and to find out what his name is going to be, congratulations on baby number two

You are making the best decision and you, Logan, and of course your doctor know what's best! Prayers for your delivery and recovery and a safe, healthy mama and baby!! Good luck 💚

Thank you for sharing your experience!! I had a c section with my first and I’ve wondered what my next birth will look like, so I really appreciate you sharing all of this! It sounds like you’ve made the best decision for you and your baby! Wishing you all the best! ❤️

Morgan, You are a strong young lady. You are an amazing mother and no one can tell you what's best for your body. You and Logan will be enjoying two little guys very soon now!! Prayers are being sent up for you ALL!! God's Best Blessings to you!

good luck Morgan! Will be praying for you all on Friday! ♥

Best wishes on the new baby and cheers to your speedy recovery!

You weighed your options and chose what’s best for YOU and that’s what matters. I love watching these because I am currently 35 almost 36 weeks and if I don’t go into labor naturally by 40 weeks 3 days we are having a c section. But I am trying for a vbac. It’s nice seeing everybody’s perspective and getting more knowledge. If I had your situation and pelvic issues I would do the same!

Wishing you and your family the absolute best just like you deserve!!! Very proud of you for making the best decision for you and your baby. Stay strong mama, you got this 💕

Sounds so clear to me that a c-section is the absolute best thing for your family :) And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to B-MAN! :D

My Mom, many many years ago, had my little brothers 2 years apart on May 21st & May 25th….they grew up together and were so incredibly close, they best of friends. Congrats and Good Luck!!!!

Sounds like you are making the best decision for you and baby! I’m so excited for you all! Best of luck to you on Friday and Happy Bday Beckam! P.S. your hair looks beautiful!!

You are absolutely making the right decision for YOU! I hate that you have to justify your choices to strangers (although I get why you explain things because it’s part of running your business). I hope you feel at peace with your decision and can take tomorrow to celebrate Beckam (and yourself!!) and center yourself as you become a family 4 on Friday!! Will be thinking of you ❤️💕

i don't have kids, and i'm not sure i would be able tô share so much, knowing that there are people who judge you (no matter what you choose), but i am so glad that you do share it with us, because i like knowing different experiences with different opinions, and makes me feel a bit more prepared for when i do have kids. so proud of you and your family, happy birthday tô beck, and welcome tô the new baby boy, wishing all the best

Sending you all the love and support for you and baby!!🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

Good luck mama! Gonna be thinking of you friday and sending you all the love and prayers! ♥

You are making the best decision! Trust your momma instincts it’s a real thing. Mine has proven time and time again to even prove drs wrong. Good luck with birth & congrats you guys!!❤️

Hello Morgan, thank you for this honest video. I can make you sure, all reasons are absolut valid and correct. Every mama does what is best for her baby. I had my first born by C sec. I also got options, but Im thankful to my doc, that she brought honestly all issues on table, so we could decide.. recovery is hard indeed, but all matters our kids got safely into world. Holding you thumbs, wishing luck and looking forward for new mini Butler.

March 18th is also my birthday! So that’s pretty cool! Congrats! Looking forward to seeing the baby!

Everything will be fine and was fine since I’m watching this late lol. Nothing wrong with how a baby gets here. As long as they are safe and healthy! Good job mama! ♥️💪🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Your video about your first C-section helped me SO MUCH before I had my scheduled C-section. It's the best video on RU-vid for what to expect during a c-section. I too really wanted the "experience" of a vaginal birth, but in the end we decided it was safest for our baby (who was breech) to be delivered via C-section. All the best with your next birth and new little one!

Yea my mother had c section but it was her best thing to do she says till this day, super excited for ya ! Babies 👶 almost here !!

Morgan, you guys are the best ones to be able to decide what is best for your family and the health of your baby. It sounds like you are making the decision based on the right criteria. Bottom line, this is your family and your decision and you and Logan are the only ones who matter in this decision. 💙💙 Praying for a wonderful birth experience and the safe arrival of your new little one. Babies are the absolute best gift that God gives!

So exiting that baby 2 is coming so soon! :D

Safe mom, safe baby sounds like a plan. Good luck on that beautiful little boy about to enter your family.

Sending love and prayers to you and baby on safe delivery!

I got induced with the mindset of having a vbac. I ended up needing an emergency c-section again.. my 2nd c-section recovery was amazing compared to my 1st recovery. I felt completely normal barely any pain could walk easy etc. I had a 22 month old at the time and since I felt so good I did too much to fast. My steri strips wouldn’t stay on because my incision kept bleeding. Make sure to follow the lift restrictions because my incision ended up getting infected and coming open since I didn’t follow the rules.

I’m so happy for you that the relief of the decision is made ❤️

You got this Mama! Sending you good vibes! ✨

You'll do great. You have family that will help you after. Let them help you. I ended up having 3 CSecs. Big headed boys!!💕. You'll be in my prayers

wish you all the best momma!! you’re a rockstar❤️

My 2 oldest are 2 yrs & 1 day apart (unplanned though)! Good for you, doing what's best for your family!

Hoping for the best. Just wanting you and baby to be healthy.

Best wishes on the birth of baby butler will be thinking of you all on Friday xx

I have 0 regrets for my 4 C-Sections you know what’s best the only thing I wish I spoke up about the whole skin to skin during my c section I will be praying for you and don’t be afraid to ask for help it’s amazing when we talk about recovery and how hard it will be but seems we always push through even though it’s hard I always look back and wonder how I did it cause that was hard during that time ❤️🎉

Morgan, you are making the right decision for you. I would do the same t hing if I was in your place. Don't feel like you have to justify your decision for anyone. My first baby was breech, so I had a b-day section with him. With my second, I would've liked to try a v-bac, even though the chance of a uterine rupture was low, if anything would've happened to her just because I wanted a vbac, it just wasn't worth the risk to me. Everything will be great! Relax and enjoy every second! Can't wait to see him!

My mom has a small pelvis (I dont know if it is flat but small) and has 10 kids. I am number 9. 9/10 kids were C Sections. We are all fine, she is doing amazing in her older years. The recoveries were tough , as you mentioned, but it was the safest option for her babies so she did it. You are doing the right thing!

I had a c section, 2 vbacs, then another c section. Both c sections were originally because the babies were breech, but my 2nd when they pulled him out he had the cord around him twice and it was knotted and they said a vaginal delivery could have been really dangerous so I ended up being really thankful that I was having the c section. Also I have two boys almost identical in age to yours, March 12 2020 and March 8 2022. Hope your c section recovery is going well! 💕

Have a safe C-Section and a smooth and speedy recovery. Congrats on a new little one. Best wishes. Can't wait to hear and see more about the birth and how you all are doing. Beckham's going to be an awesome big brother. You guys are the best. Good luck. 👍

Prayers and good vibes to you all! 💜💜

Congrats on Brooks James!!!! Hes gorgeous

So exciting!! I feel like my nephew is being born!

Hi Morgan! I had a c section with my first baby. She’s 2.5 now. I just had my second baby on 2-22-22 and it was a repeat c section. My recovery for my first was rough. I couldn’t move everything hurt and I took a long time to feel normal. My second c section recovery was amazing. I’m not sure what the difference was but it’s been not even a month and I’m moving just like I was before. Everyone is different but I went in thinking the recovery was going to be awful like the first and it wasn’t! I’m hoping that’s the case for you!! Good luck!! :)

With my first baby I ended up needing a emergency C-section because my baby was to big for me to have her so with my second for the baby and me I’m going to have a planned c-section for my second baby!! I wish you good luck ❤️🥰

I had three because 40 years ago I wasn’t offered a back. You’ll do great! Congratulations 🎈

Hi Morgan sending you and Logan lots of love and safe delivery on baby coming to this world💙🤍🍼

I had 4 c- sections, the first 2 they did staples I could not move. But the last 2 my Dr. did switches and I could get up and move around a lot easier. Just something for you to also think about. Praying all goes good on what you decide.

i have so much to say - but i will keep it short and just say thank you for this video. So much.

Congrats and all the best for Friday will be thinking of you all 4

Good luck on your birth , don't. Stress out . You did good on you c section ,

You know what’s best ❤️ we put way too much pressure on ourselves as mothers. Everything is going to be great.

Morgan, it really sounds like you’re making the best decision for babyif i was you i would want a c-section my mom had 2 c-sections and everything was fine why do women try to put other women off c- section. .. good luck morgan and logan but luckily we live in an age where c-section is very safe and a really great option. please STOP picking on Morgan . im 43 yrs old and on 10th dec 2020 i was diagnosed with rare womb cancer and cant have kids at all im sending you morgan and family good luck love from shelly im Worcestershire in England 🥰👶👩‍🍼🍼🚼💖💝💖💝💖💝

I'm so excited for y'all! C section just makes you more of a bad A mom lol. Your strong and can do it, again 💜 also is Beckhams Bday the 17th or 19th? My dad's b'day was the 19th. Another sweet Pisces baby. I'm a Pisces as well. I bet Beckham is just a little sweetheart all the time but when he's mad he's mad LOL good luck love you guys ❤️

You'll do great. You're a great Mom ☺️

I too have a platypelloid pelvis. No problem with VBACs .

Good luck today!!!

I’m not a doctor and don’t know a ton but I’ve always heard generally vaginal delivery after c section has higher risks than doing another c section. Even if my doctor told me it was possible for a VBAC I would still be so nervous after having in engrained in my head that it could be riskier. No hate of course! It’s everyone’s choice to make with their team of doctors, as every pregnant is different along with every delivery 🥰🥰 good luck! So excited for your family ❤️

I'm having a repeat csection in a few weeks because of my pelvis shape! Went to 3 different VBAC doctors and they all said the exact same thing if not risking it!

I had 2 VBACs . For me it was vindicating. I hated my C-section but loved my baby . I knew enough to challenge the OB community.

20 plus hours of labor for both of my vaginal delivery babies. I was tired, gross looking and in no way shape or form going to be letting anyone take pictures of me lol I think I would have preferred a c section. It is much more organized it seems, more calm, no pain of labor. “But of course pain from the c section recovery must be painful”. You do what’s best for you and baby.

I was scared to have V Bac. I had 2 c sections. My first I had high blood pressure for 2 months When I was 38 weeks they tried to induce me and it didn’t take so I had a c section. My second at 33 weeks my blood pressure suddenly spiked and I was life flighted to a hospital with a NICU cause ours didn’t have one. My son was just little and had to mature a bit he was in the NICU for 19 days then we got to go home. Now he will be 3 in May and you would never know he was premature. God bless you!!

It sounds like u are sorry that u are having a c-section?!...u doing the best for u and the baby. When it was me i would do the same Thing, why risk the health of both of u, its so scary. I wish the best for u guys hope everything goes well😊💜

You should never have to justify YOUR decision of how you have your baby! I also struggled with the decision of whether to have a VBAC or repeat c-section. My second was due almost exactly 18 months after my first was born, and my OB said I was the perfect candidate for a VBAC (only reason for my first CS was baby was breech). Long story short, we opted for the repeat CS due to some health concerns with me that we worried would result in an emergency CS anyways. I have NO regrets opting for the CS. My recovery this time around was a breeze. The only difficult part was not being able to pick up my 18 month old 😭 … but a perk was that hubby had to do bath time and he still gives her baths to this day 🤣 Wishing you the best of luck! All your stress will be gone once baby is here :)

My doctors want me to have a elective c section as my second baby is measuring big I’ve got diabetes & a bad back I had my heart on a vbac but I think if baby is bigger then my first it’s best to have a c section to get our baby safely out.

Beckham blowing bubbles in your Starbucks🤣 gotta love it! #momlife

I am choosing a c section for my 2nd as well. I need to make arrangements for my toddler and dog and I don't want to stress if one night at 1am my water breaks and I have to wake up family to drive over and the dog bark and wake up my kid. No way. Lol

You are making the right choice Morgan, I also had a C-section everything turn out fine....Hope the same for you. Can't wait to see him and I'm curious to see what his name going to be, If Logan WON Naming him Brooks James Lol😂😁😂😁😂😁😂😁😂😁😂. I think Brody sounds much cuter with Beckham's name just saying😉

Best wishes Morgan! Pregnancy is hard, giving birth and recovery is hard! I hope everything goes perfect for you, and that you get all the help! Don't feel guilty for getting help! Hands and feet of Jesus maybe?? Just think of that lol

Depends on how many kids you want. If you want a larger family, then it's better to opt for a VBAC. The chances of placenta accreta goes up significantly after 2 or more C-Sections, and most people will need a hysterectomy which can be devastating.

Just push it out like a normal women. My wife had two kids back to back when we were 20, she pushed them out with no epidural. It was a piece of cake

Totally sounds like the right decision. Momma’s intuition is always best 🤍