The kettle is overflowing today! 🍵 Twitter: twitter.com/spillqualitea - IG: instagram.com/spillqualitea Update: We edited out Stephanie's fiancé's name. Thanks for pointing this out!
Why is he trying to convince us that Stephanie doesn't like Veronica when Stephanie is literally saying it herself that she is trying to reconnect with her
Hakuna Matata ik but like it’s entertaining to see other people’s perspective on the issue- why the fok did I suddenly start talking a lawyer or something tfff? 😂😮
What creeps me the most about Nik is the way he talked about her security. he asked her way too many questions about it, it gave me a weird feeling. like what model it was, how it worked. did that make anyone else feel weird?
I mean if he wanted the same one then she coulve asked for either the brand and model or stephanie's contact so no that was probably not his only intention.
He’s literally envious/obsessed with her. He wants to know everything about her house, from her couch to her oven. He talks about her house quite often too in his past videos.
It is actually possible to stalk people via their security cameras, if you use the article numbers or something similar. Kinda similar to the IP number that can be used to track phones and computers etc...
bc he definitely realized that security caught him, and thought him how can I clear my name later? ill leave this voice clip for husband. maybe she has mics, maybe they'll pick up me explaining why I'm taking pictures and she won't realize... classic manipulator
If Nick truly was the victim he tries so hard to portray himself to be then why doesn’t he let Stephanie post the security footage/unedited unreleased collab video in its entirety since it would be an undeniable proof? Just saying.
Yes you're right. And I have doubt that he'll give his consent releasing that footage because he don't want to be embarrassed and ashamed of what he did and say to Stephanie.
For the people who think there's still "Tea" when there isn't are clowns. Nick just keeps going on and on and ON. He won't shut UP. Nobody else is saying anything about the situation yet he KEEPS UP. Well since your career is over might as well get your lil coins.
@@KarotoThriller let's say it's not the case, he still did and said things relating to her homes security and her personal safety to make her feel uneasy/unsafe on purpose. His behavior that's being described is congruent with someone that has bad intentions of that nature. Also showing the camera angles letting g anyone know where they could not be in frame at her house is super suspicious and does put her in danger. Everyone knows that. I have seen something like this happen at the store I worked at, you dont have to be a genius to know that you don't give away positions for safety reasons. It's not a stretch of the imagination to believe he was up to no good in her home
@@KarotoThriller so I guess you have pictures and your name on the internet but since you're not using it here it means you wanna remain somewhat private. Is it okay for people to go and snoop for your name and face when you want to remain kinda private?
And he hasn’t uploaded the unedited version of that video or given Stephanie permission to release the security footage of him taking photos. And it’s been WEEKS 👀
It further proves her stance. She wanted to capitalize off it. Even going as far as using her trauma to gain sympathy. As if people with ptsd can’t misunderstand or miscommunicate.
So... he took pics without her permission and posted them online without her permission, but he wont give her permission to post the security cam pics of him taking pics without her permission. Lol.
@dudulse You would still need their consent to post videos, pictures, recordings or any personal information online, so no she would still need Niks permission to post the footage.
dudulse the best way to do it without and legal arguments is for her to have appropriate consent she didnt want any legal issues which is completely understandable
If you go to “disgusting” in the dictionary, under the definition it’ll show Nick crying and throwing a tantrum. Edit: WAITTT Holy crepes thanks for da likes
Stephanie is literally the sweetest youtuber I know and I've been watching her since the very beginning...i love her sooo much ...it makes me sad that she has to go through all this😭
Why are people still including Stephanie? She isn’t going on about the issue anymore? If anything it’s just battle between nick and nick because he can’t get over everything
Shes not going on about it anymore because shes taking legal action. But I agree. This is all info that's already covered everywhere. Why is it still being brought up.
I don’t see how he “tried” to pull a James Charles. From all I know this can’t be compared to Nick. I don’t see it. Nick does much more than what James do.. so.
I've been manipulated quite a few times in my life, and the resemblances to how Nik acts is very similar. He needs to evaluate how he acts and maybe even get help for his narcissistic behaviourisms. However, overall I feel the more videos made about him, the more he just sees it as fulfillment - he doesn't care the things being said, as long as he is spoken about.
@@MidnightDakota-eh9ym I agree in ways, and hopefully this series will give enough awareness to put this to rest. Although, no matter how deeply (and Spill goes pretty deep) into both sides someone explores, each person will "stan" whichever they believe is right.
I'm one of those people with manipulative tendencies (I have ASPD laced with a form of machiavellianism) and he's being manipulative. He uses objectively agreeable points (ex: "I've been ghosted for 7 hours", "I went without eating so I was nervous", "she said me no many times", things that most people would find relatable and can be proven) and expands them to lace into his subjective view, so that you assimilate the two together and are tempted to agree with him. He's very bad about it, since he apparently doesn't possess any for of subtlety(lol), so it doesn't work if you are attentive enough, BUT it is a clear attempt which has already influenced his fans(whom I assume, are biased to be on his side anyway). People that have serious problems with manipulative behaviors(like me) would do it on instinct, as a way to exercise control over others actions and emotions for personal benefits (I have to do mental gymnastics to NOT try to manipulate people and situations for example) so I can't in all honesty say if he's being 100% rational with it, but it still doesn't take away his responsibility for his own behavior.
I think Nick is being very immature. He brings up other problems and topics that can be offensive when used in a specific way, to cover a thing that he has done that should not be done. And he's trying to make up all these apparent 'conversations' that they had which they never had. The way he is trying to tell 'his side' is still overall immature. I respect Stephanie's 'side' because of how she considered all these things before making her video and thinking of the well being of others, and hers at the same level.
Remember when he did the same to MommyTang?? Like film a part of her house that she didn't feel comfortable with (he children's bedrooms I think that used to be upstairs) and was straight up weird back then too?? Why nobody called him out on that one.
@Soso Notchurbusiness she didn't publicly address it but people caught on to it from what he posted and what MommyTang was trying to keep private from the beginning. I think more stuff happened that we don't and will never know. I miss her so much.. Maybe her hiatus is connected with the things he did since it was shortly after.
To keep it 100% Nik is the one dragging this out...Dude has problems and needs to get help...He's the type of person you end up filing a restraining order on.
Poor Zach. His words were manipulated to make him look like a bad person, although he had evolved as a person. Nickocado, though, is disgusting. We know from what is now the James Marriott problem, where he virtually s_______ h_______ James, WillNE and Memeulous. There's a quote from a Shakespeare's plays that accurately sum up Nickocado: "I follow him to follow but myself." Iago, Act 1 Scene 1, _Othello_
My dad was a emotional manipulator and nikado fits the bill perfectly. Shifting the blame. Making them feel in the wrong. Making himself the victim and slight insults to make their self esteem go down causing them to doubt themselves.
@@uui219 there already married and even if his wife is famous he should still get privacy he wants he doesn't want to be in the spotlight and people should respect that its almost like people coming up to your house
i never liked this Nickokado avocado at the first place, when he first showed up in tea. till this day he still giving me a bad-person vibes. and all this situation shows that my vibes were right.
I'm generally a 'wait and get the information from everyone before making a judgement' kind of gal, but Nick gives me power-heebie jeebies and I made my mind up after part one - even with his rebuttal. I think he's genuinely scary.
That sucks when u have to explain everything about yourself to your "friend" bc something was misunderstood in a bad bad way then made a whole big deal about it instead of just fixing it privately. That's just SO childish and disgusting. Like man this tea is old, but it's still boiling hot.
VeggieSnail it’s still very disrespectful to him especially since she acknowledged that he is a private person. just because it’s public knowledge doesn’t mean it has to be included, it was irrelevant to say his name.
I always felt crazy in the past dealing with manipulative people in my life and it caused a lot of life altering problems for me. It’s great that now there are platforms bringing light to this situation to make others aware that there are actually people like this in the world and to look out for the signs.
I think he got mad that she wasn’t responding to his messages initially and plotted revenge!!! Because he sent those “??” Messages those are usually when people get frustrated...I think he got annoyed with Stephanie, and planned to get her back somehow
Honestly the worst thing about Nik is the way he texts. I mean I understand double texting bc everyone does it but mans is really out here sextuple texting people
and the thing about you sharing his name is that it is not a "commonly" heard Chinese name, in fact I have never heard it personally which is all the more reason to re-edit and re-upload for his sake.....
Symbiotic Solutions spilled tea 3 years ago about him and again recently. People have been saying this forever it just took Soo to grab everyone’s attention