Viral Trend Of Women Begging For Shut Up Ring - Viral Video 

11 years!?!?!? And 3 kids!?!?! No ma’am no ma’am

It strikes me as intensely insecure to beg to be proposed to. And I hate that for them. These women deserve to see their own awesome independent from some dude.

Translation he doesn’t want to marry you. Either stay with him & be unmarried , or find someone else that wants marriage with you.

Just listened to a reddit story where a woman begged for her boyfriend of 30 years to marry her for 25 years. Then after he was forced into retirement and saw she was losing interest, he decided to try and give her a shut up ring. They had 4 kids together, she didn't work the entire 30 years and was a SAHM. She was annoyed that it took 25 years of begging so she said no and he retracted the engagement. Everything fell apart and he proceeded to evict her. She couldn't even get a job at a gas station. I tell this story to say either get out before you have them kids, or get out when they're young and you can get child support. It is absolutely detrimental to have kids with a man who doesn't want to marry you!!! Marriage is NOT just a peice of paper.

Stand up!!!! This is so gross.

I would not even think about doing this. It's giving desperate

Why are yall being with men for 5 years without marriage

Reeks of desperation and social blackmail. This trend is so cringe. If he wanted to he would, why try to force him?

It shouldn't take him "anything" to propose (other than the thought of not being able live w/o you), esp if you have kids for him. Stop having babies for boyfriends, live-in or not.

My husband was looking at engagement rings like 8 months in lol. I cant imagine having to beg to be proposed to. It’s embarrassing. I hope they wake up and realize they deserve someone who actually wants the same thing as them. Men know early on if they want the commitment of marriage with you.

This feels like emotional blackmail!

11 years 3 kids and he didn’t need one like to waste a DECADE OF HER LIFE🙄 Met my husband in May 2015 and we were engaged Thanksgiving of 2015. Married May 7, 2016. Men know what they want. It doesn’t take a decade to figure it out.

These sorts of women have made their beds and will live and lay in it. Its too late for them to be convinced. Such efforts are wasted - fools.

And then they wonder why they do them dirty later on in the marriage 🤦‍♀️. Miss you already knew they didn’t respect you or your feelings.

These women need to take these relationships as unserious as the men. He’s a placeholder so just go find the love of your life ladies. He’s in the house leave him with the kids while you go on dates to find your soulmate. Easy peasy. Stop taking these men serious when they aren’t serious about you. Don’t let these decades long boyfriends stop you from finding your soultmate.

I just made the same video on this. These ladies just don't have any self esteem too busy worrying about proposing to a man when they should be worrying about whether he is meeting their standards and if he is worth being a husband or father at all. You are a woman and your body is a divine vessel that carries life, you absolutely do not have to beg ANY man to marry you at all.

It took me 1 child and 9 years. I’m not begging no man to marry me. I’m 1 month into my apartment with our almost 2 year old daughter, leaving him behind in the house I helped him purchase. Once he told me if I didn’t want to wait for him to marry him then I could marry someone else and after him calling me a hoeee just one time too much I said naw ✌️

As they say in My language, Nijipate!!! Losely translated to If I find myself!!! I would rather grow old alone without cats and dogs or any pets. In a snowstorm under a bridge!!! Women let's learn to love ourselves. Let us learn to be enough within ourselves. Let the people who come into our lives be a positive happy bonus and not this nonsense.

As a woman who does not date/desire marriage....this is sad. Anything to say you have a man?. But then again, b/c I'm way too comfortable being single, I will never understand this mentality.

Women get caught up in the whole taking pictures , sometimes family pictures of kids are involved- and trying to be as emeshed with the boyfriends as possible- that they will spend years of their life literally chasing a man. These women alway claim they have a great bond with the dude, that he can’t live without them- when whole time he sticks around because she has no boundaries. She hates other women so if he gets caught up, he can count on her blaming some random women before holding him accountable. Why would they leave an idiot like that???

How many of these people are already common law married because they cohabitate with kids?

Marriage doesn't really mean anything especially when you are married to the everyday average loser. Now, if the guy is successful and a good person,don't wait longer than a year.

Girl… you’re glowing 😍😍

So many women are missing out on their true partner, because they refuse to learn the lesson of self love by way of a time wasting partner. A lot of us experience a partner that wasted our time and would have continued to if we didn’t love ourselves and leave. They are staying in the loop, investing more and more time. This is sad, they love these men more than themselves and their children. He will marry her when he gets old and undesirable and needs a caregiver.

Nah, any man worth his weight will propose of his own volition. This is literally peer pressure

How miserable for these women! I hope they can free themselves from their despair and from societal shackles. Stop begging for love. If it doesn’t come naturally and isn’t mutually you have to GO.

The girl at 11:17 sounds like she caught some stray bullets and is doubling down on expecting nothing from her baby daddy. She states the man can't be expected to "read her mind" when it comes to marriage, but he is not stupid and is well aware of the concept of marriage as a commitment. He is ok with woman cooking, cleaning his draws, even baring his children but he still wants the option to be considered single and available. She just won't have the same option. She sounds scared to be a "single mother" but honey wake up you already are.

Asking a man to give you a ring is such desperate behavior.

SO... as a woman you're expected to; * Cook *Clean * Risk your life having his kids * Take care of his kids * Take care of HIM! * Be his therapist, secretary, financial planner, cheerleader, sex doll... * Work and bring your 50/50 to the table while still singlehandedly maintaining the household * Be his mama & his peace no matter how he treats you or his indiscretions *AND NOW you have to audition and get him likes in order for him to commit to you?!!!!! Some women love playing themselves and it's pathetic. You can't be helped...

& some black women think that nonblack men are not doing shenanigans also. Men will be men regardless of race

Pick misha’s are so sad. They don’t represent all women.

Light blue looks gorgeous on you!

I blame these women. Their fault

If it were me in one of these relationships I would carry on with the relationship if I had kids so I can use him as childcare while I date. Then one day come home to let him know I’m engaged and wish him well. What’s stopping these ladies? Women need to learn how to move around these men who stonewall. Don’t let these men block you from finding love. So what you’re together for a long time. So what you have kids together.. girl go out there and find someone who wants you. These men aren’t serious about these relationships so you should not be either.

Some Men cannot handle, not having sex just like women cannot handle not being married. So… Why do women give men what they want when the man isn’t going to give you what you want? What’s the solution? (personally, I think both people should get what they want or nobody gets what they want.)

Who said romance is dead 😂

I'm 2nd hand embarrassed 😳 Please, please don't have babies with a guy Before you're married 😬

This is dusty activity they want to be able to walk away scott free don’t have to divorce and split assets if you’re not married 🤯

They might as well propose themselves cause this aint it

This x amount of likes etc... for something should a chore or who gets to go out with friends that week, not weddings or anything serious. If he's making you play a game than y'all ain't ready for marriage.

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This reminds of the woman who was making her boyfriend a turkey sandwich and he told he told her she was 300 sandwiches away from an engagement ring. She started a whole,blog about making him sandwiches to get that ring. 😞

I don't agree with this but they do pressure us for our bodies

This breaks my heart in embarrassment 😢. As a married woman I NEVER once had to ask for a ring 💍 my husband willingly proposed after 1 year the 2nd year went by and we got married I couldn’t even imagine begging a man let alone telling him I should have a certain amount of likes for a ring 💍 if I’m your girlfriend then I’m ya girlfriend but to beg a man for a ring that’s going out SAD a woman who desires marriage should set a boundary saying I expect and prefer to be married in a year or two and if not I will leave if you don’t want that I I understand I had a first similar situation before I got what I wanted I left a guy because he didn’t want kids let alone marriage so I left him over text it was fully mutually beneficial for the both of us the trash took itself out but to go to the depths of hell and have no self esteem I just couldn’t it’s embarrassing 😂 I’m cringing watching! Someone I know of doesn’t believe in marriage which is fine but because we’re all married she feels left out so she asked her boyfriend for a ring 😂 I just don’t get it smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

Destiny, I am intrigued by the fact that you are in a marriage, but no longer believe in marriage.

Blue is your color, Destiny! 🩵

Honestly don’t wanna be tied to no man with a marriage license. Good luck to yall that do, may the odds be ever in your favor. 🫡