Vlog ♡ overcoming my social anxiety, facing my fears, getting more plastic surgery | Part 1

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Hi Army ♡ I can't believe I showed so much of my anxiety on camera lol do any of you have social anxiety? the anxiety be manifesting so hard but I beat it and I'm so proud! also... new teeth, new me? omg I can't wait for you guys to see the rest of the vlogs. The dentist info will be in the next vlog. stay tuned! :)
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@Reccesw Год назад

I have to mentally prepare myself to go out and talk to people... people dont know that I have social anxiety because of my personality but I totally understand

@Brwniee95 Год назад

Ugh same here… like being bubbly and having social anxiety are very real things 😩🙇🏿‍♀️ I find myself mentally preparing as well

@ilovescurls4567 Год назад

Frr

@parisahzair5593 Год назад

Facts

@tingtingqian6338 Год назад

Can relate, I feel bad for dreading going to social commitments that I've made with friends. As the day grows closer I feel more dread despite having a great time 99% of the times 😔

@Ty_keepliving Год назад

Omg I’m the same way. My personality is so bubbly but if people only knew. 😩😅

@ZovaBe Год назад

You aren’t being lazy. Save your mental and emotional energy as needed ❤️ Never ever feel badly for putting you first

@dawnanthony6358 Год назад

Having social anxiety and then being able to socialize is a superpower! The whole time I'm there I'm "on". When I get home I'm exhausted from all the peopling... you're so beautiful and transparent.. seeing you work through this helps others

@itsmztee Год назад

this sooo me 🤨🤭

@jasmineaalewis Год назад

Whenever you have those moments where you’re discouraged by anxiety, give yourself a reality check. You prayed for these moments and opportunities, you don’t want to allow these opportunities to pass you by ❤

@Sl-js1si Год назад

I my self needed to hear that

@realizingroyalty Год назад

This 👏❤

@SecondaryK Год назад

2 main things that reduced my anxiety especially in the mornings: one NO more caffeine, esp coffee (makes my heart race and when I don’t have it I have withdrawals… like headaches and fatigue) two, I wake up and I meditate!! Has 👏🏾 changed 👏🏾 my 👏🏾 life. I also just don’t sleep with my phone in my room and don’t use social media which is rare I know but HUGE. It allows me to be present. Anxiety has a lot to do with feeling unprepared for the unknown and the uncertainty of life. ALL of life is uncertain - that’s for certain 😂 so if we can accept that, learn to be at peace in the present, it’s so goodddd 🧘🏾‍♀️. I spend a lot of my free time doing shit that nourishes me instead of scrolling, and online shopping, etc. Im like reading books again and rebuilding my library it sounds corny but it brings me joy! wishing you all the best on your journey and lots of peace on the way. 💖💖💖💖💖💖

@kiaa2139 Год назад

Ok we missed miss Aaliyah Jay 🥹

@Tiaimanj Год назад

Yes we did 💓💞💕

@TacaraFields Год назад

Yesss anxiety is the devil!!!!! But once we get passed that part we be good AF❤

@MsAaliyahJay Год назад

It truly is!

@myahouston20 Год назад

Yeah it’s the devils nature coming upon you! An internal battle!

@shanx4170 Год назад

@@myahouston20honestly, but he aint gon keep me down lool

@myahouston20 Год назад

@@shanx4170 my bad I put eternal instead of internal ! Lol, also that’s right he will not keep you down!

@4everlyric Год назад

“I really don’t leave the house” so meee! I do all of my beauty & body care myself, it’s giving very much self-taught & self-made 💁🏽‍♀️ It’s honestly been the one thing that’s really help me embrace my beauty & body..

@Shay-33 Год назад

I’m trying to get to that point! It’s such a flexxx❤

@4everlyric Год назад

@@Shay-33 yess girl, it’s so rewarding

@SimplyNee Год назад

I would’ve never known you have anxiety. These are the things people don’t talk about which makes everything seem so perfect. Thanks for being brave enough to share this side of you. We enjoy all the fun and games but as a supporter, we enjoy vulnerability too. I’m all about being true to self and you couldn’t be more of your self than in this video right here so thank you. I too suffer from anxiety and my biggest anxiety is from public speaking but it’s a slow working process. My husband also helps me a lot because he puts me in uncomfortable situations to get me out of my shell which actually helps. And I do things also on my own time as far as putting myself out there. A lot of people ask me how do I wanna become a RU-vidr if I’m afraid of public speaking…… although it’s speaking in front of a camera, I know with RU-vid there’s a lot more that comes with just speaking in front of a camera so this is my way of trying to overcome my fear of public speaking.

@crystal6770 Год назад

Wow, I resonated with this.

@ShannahDelva Год назад

Yes girl we been watching you since kiddie days now I have my own kid and still watches ✨

@THE3REBUKER Год назад

That's how the enemy attack, through emotions and the mind. I'm proud that you push to go, it reveals how strong and powerful you are . Always keep in mind that you can meet others that can help catapult you further into your career. Pray over your spirit always. XOXO you so DOPE by the way.

@_kjanae_ Год назад

Right just said that out loud. That ain’t nothing but the devil. Pray about everything worry about nothing

@taylorp8555 Год назад

Yes very true happened to me. Don’t be afraid to plead Jesus name and rebuke every emotional attack.

@DejahhBeauty Год назад

We love how humble you are to still be shocked about your own impact. You are iconic, and patting yourself on the back should happen more often. 'Cause who don't know and love AaliyahJayy? Period

@serendipity1273 Год назад

Absolutely ❤❤❤

@mpauli12 Год назад

This video was so real and relatable. I suffer with social anxiety at times too. Either I’m on a roll and a social butterfly or I’m like a hermit in the house for weeks. I’m so glad you went out. You looked beautiful. Sometimes we just have to step out. I think that’s when we end up having the best times.

@bernadetteamana Год назад

Pray jesus

@MalijahSerenity Год назад

I’ve been working on getting over my fear of getting out, making conversation with people, promoting my business more etc. you are not alone boo!

@chloe.8861 Год назад

“If I make it- I make it, but if I don’t- I don’t.” Definitely been my mood lately…idk if it’s a good or bad thing honestly😭

@TMKJG24 Год назад

Fr fr i get the invite ok im going soon as it gets close to the time im like nope i hope they cancel cause i sho don't feel like going bedtime 8pm 😂😂😂😂

@essence3438 19 часов назад

You've literally an OG!!! I was gone for years and to see you STILL shining bright.... I'm elated! Congratulations on all the wins, keep winning 😊

@barbarajane527 Год назад

“Why is it such a hard thing to decide if I want to go out tonight?” Because when you have anxiety it will always be a tough decision. And that’s okay. Give yourself patience and sit with yourself. Always give your self kindness and extra extra room to grow. Instead of asking anxiety “why?” Ask “how can I make this more comfortable for me right now. What can I do in this moment to give myself grace and patience?” That’s what helps me on my journey. Anyhow great vid hun new subbie ❤

@Mss.Holmes_ Год назад

Get over the fear of having fun.

@MsAaliyahJay Год назад

Wow the way you jus put it in perspective

@kimberleybadu8757 Год назад

@@MsAaliyahJay Where your statement earrings from please?

@isidoraveronica Год назад

Thank you for the advice ❤

@breianafrance8634 6 месяцев назад

This is for me!!!

@igobyjazz Год назад

Loving the grown, mature laid back Aaliyah! And so glad you went! Don’t let the devil hold you back!

@Tiaimanj Год назад

Thanx for using your voice to speak about anxiety because ppl don’t talk about it enough! Anxiety is real and I’ve had it the WORSTTT since 2021. I’m slowly overcoming my fears because it is ALL in our HEAD! But that’s definitely a 2023 goal, to stop letting anxiety win!!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕 loved this vlog & consistency😘

@shanx4170 Год назад

Amen , mine too. We got this 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@preciousmcclinton Год назад

Felt every bit of this , anxiety is the biggest burden!!!

@CorshaLishell Год назад

Here I was feeling some type of way about being a self maintained lady and my fav literally verbalized the same thing. Thank you for your relatability ALWAYS!🤞🏽

@serendipity1273 Год назад

You’re absolutely impactful girl!

@kristanmariebeautie Год назад

I been watching you since high school and I love you. I love how relatable you are especially when you were explaining your feeling of leaving the house. I’m the same way ! Keep shining girl. I needed this video ❤

@shesnotfriendly Год назад

really like how you mentioned that you want to make the event but if you don't its okay! m still learning that because I literally stress myself out and can be so mean to myself when I running late or being rushed

@TakeATrip. Год назад

Fear is a liar! You fully know and love yourself so well and that in of itself is so commendable! Rooting for you girl! 💫

@withthewilliams Год назад

Thank you for your transparency! You are not alone in your struggle with anxiety. Praying for you to experience Gods peace which surpasses all understanding ❤

@k.b.11 Год назад

The public/social anxiety is so relatable it’s like I was literally just watching myself. it really is scary. and i noticed that the tiredness started after you ate. which is so interesting because I noticed that when I stop eating heavy in the morning with too much breads, more than 1 egg, and heavy meats, not too much dairy and stuck to fruits, 1 egg, a smoothie and turkey bacon it made a HUGE difference in my energy for the day. Girl you eat like them gym men that be wanting mad protein and carbs so they can lift 😂❤you might need a lighter breakfast with more vitamins so your body and mind don’t get tired and groggy idk if that’ll work for you but just wanted to mention since it worked for me lol. 🫶🏾🫶🏾❤❤

@graceirankunda2611 Год назад

You are doing amazing Aaliyah keep pushing through those hard days God is your strength. ❤

@jennamariee478 Год назад

you’re a classic!! love watching you girl ❤️❤️

@RoseSimeus Год назад

The molds you showed on IG looked soooo good! So natural. Cannot wait to see the finally look. Love the simple yet elevated fits!!!!

@moeshaj.6637 Год назад

The makeup look is GIVING 😍😍😍😍😍

@Tiabeautyy Год назад

I’m so proud of you! I’m so glad to see you back, to see you happy! This feels good! 🤗💗💗💗

@Q_dadoll Год назад

i love you aaliyah! you’re content always is top tier ! my day is made when the queen posts 🤍.

@bmarie___ Год назад

Girl you look GOODT ❤❤❤ Shadow WAS EVERYTHING & that hatttttt omg ❤ I also struggle with anxiety but as soon as I’m out and start talking I be ok😊

@missesjonquil Год назад

So glad you went to the black event!!! You looked fabulous✨✨✨

@daebellab Год назад

Love seeing this side of you!!!💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

@PandaT210 Год назад

Omg 2 videos in a week 💗🤌🏽🥰 I really missed you vids

@tiffygyal2652 Год назад

Your skin is glowing Joy 😍😍😍🔥🔥

@adebukolaajayi Год назад

9:17 I love your energy in this vlog so much. You sound like a confident woman that knows what she wants tbh. Even though you have anxiety. You definitely know what you want and you have to mentally tell yourself that to get things done like you did. It’s what i do tbh.

@nylettej Год назад

I've been a "silent" watcher/supporter since middle school. We appreciate you! Keep going.

@PinkPrincess8951 Год назад

Glad to still see you posting & doing well, love ya! 💕🫶🏼

@cheyy3133 Год назад

The naps, anxiety and wanting to be home is me recently, since I been home from my vacation I don't want to step out, and working from home hasn't helped. Love that your so transparent and honest. Love from the UK

@nickimalae Год назад

So glad that you were able to overcome your anxiety and make it to the event ❤

@MsYazidSmith Год назад

I'm loving all this content Aaliyah.. YESSSS! Let's go

@MiShellayee Год назад

I’m loving these short videos. ❤❤

@gmgmakeitrain06 Год назад

Joy! You are really That Girl! Stop thinking less than or otherwise! ❤❤❤

@tryabosscarter Год назад

Anxiety is you being anxious about something. Like knowing you going and preparing for outcomes. Weighing pros and cons. Overwhelming the mind for absolutely what you gone successfully conquer

@lifewithchiquita8092 Год назад

I wanna try this makeup look tonight, i loved it

@sonya-mariesamuel4708 Год назад

Relatable!!!! Love you Aaliyah ❤

@NIAJINSU Год назад

definitely one of the OG it girls 💕 you inspired me to start my RU-vid! been watching since 2015 and I loooove your growth!!

@willykung1017 Год назад

I struggle with anxiety too, and the struggle is real. Thank you for opening up about that. Great job on this video; excellent content. You're a great vlogger & inspiring. You're awesome!

@kamrynanaia4212 Год назад

I hope you’re doing well queen ❤️❤️❤️ You deserve all your fruits, you work so hard! You’ve been an inspo to me since I was younger and your vids are always so relatable and helpful. Keep slaying xo

@lisaarroyo30 Год назад

Missed you boo! Happy to see you still thriving! ❤

@mommyneedswine Год назад

I get notifications of your vlogs all the time and finally watched them in full. Loved it babes!

@AntonetteShay Год назад

Procrastination is so hard…i get it girl. I’m glad you pushed yourself and ended up having a positive experience. ❤️

@annie-su6si Год назад

Good luck with everything ❤

@fiahwebb7119 Год назад

Aaliyah I love youuuu so much you’ll get there take your time baby, it’s a process ❤ -an OG fan

@denisedarcell7124 Год назад

7:16 the look came together so good!

@nayagales Год назад

You literally make my heart smile💕💗

@__iamhasnaa Год назад

I’m so glad you went ❤🎉

@sablejustslays9664 Год назад

This video is so relatable definitely deal with this on a daily basis

@Natashamilan Год назад

Only 2 mins in and I just wanna say I’m so proud of your growth ! That girl fr ❤

@Elaine-kz5pj Год назад

Girl ❤ you look amazing at the event . I can also agree with you the press on look so good on your hands. 😊

@ItsTeezii Год назад

I totally understand. I just recently started having social anxiety especially now that my socials been blowing up. I dead have to fight myself to go out to important places and events. Luckily its been fading & getting better. Keep pushing, You’re strong.

@VicksStyles Год назад

glad you got over your fear and had fun, love the all black fit 💕💖❤

@shamsiamartinez8853 Год назад

Yesss come through with this amazing video

@emmaalisha7491 Год назад

Love u Aaliyah!!❤❤❤

@sonya-mariesamuel4708 Год назад

Doing things right now makes tomorrow easy!! Whew

@neachatashay Год назад

Hearing your NY Accent ACCENT !! I love itttt!! SO Glad you are HOME!! 🥹🫶🏿 WE MISSSSSEDDDD YOU!

@DilylahFerrari Год назад

And she’s backkkkkkkkk❤❤❤😍😍😍😍

@bruklinw1 Год назад

I have been struggling so much with mybsocial anxiety around my boyfriend’s friends and idk if it’s because I’m secretly pressed to be liked or what but this video helped me a lot. We gotta push through. Reminding ourselves that good attitudes create good times and good memories. Bad energy makes us have a bad times and create bad memories. You’re doing great bby and you looked sooo beautiful🫶🏾💕💕

@adenikesface7460 Год назад

Im so proud that you pushed and came because then I️ would’ve never been able to meet u for the first time ! You looked amazing per usual ❤❤ keep shining

@YahwahStories Год назад

I absolutely adore the urban outfitters jeans 😍

@sweetmattarella3282 Год назад

I’m so happy n proud of you love, I love love ur channel so much n u look stunninggg😍💕💕

@jaidanielle Год назад

Loved the realness in this vlog 🤍

@sunnydaynocloudz Год назад

I can never keep my press ons to stay on. You look so good sis and growth is so beautiful on you.

@breannabanks3740 Год назад

Yes that black & white skirt fit was super cute , but literally everything was perfect lol

@natoriaannikey Год назад

aaliyah I love these videos 💖

@Ayanada305 Год назад

you work so hard and your smile shine bright

@emaak Год назад

yes mama you are an OG in the game ! big up yourself xo

@ariaslittleangel Год назад

You always inspire me to follow my dreams 🫶🏽 love u dearly

@womandesign6928 10 месяцев назад

It's your humility for me

@ParadiseIsGleaming Год назад

Aaliyah is such a cancer ♋️ and so me. I do all my own self care maintenance as well cause if something doesn’t look right or come out a certain way I feel way better blaming myself and knowing I didn’t have to spend as much money to be slightly disappointed 😅. Been subscribed for YEARS, take ur time but definitely need to see you more often on RU-vid 🥲💗🙌🏽

@WhittyHutton Год назад

Aaliyah you look so gorgeous! The event looked so fun! You got me wearing press on nails now. I do put acrylic on them so they can stay on longer. I been saving so much money because of you! Thank you so much 🤎🤎🤎

@originalmrgrta Год назад

I know exactly what you're feeling about social anxiety. I completely get it. Its hard for me to leave the house. I love the getting ready part but the arriving somewhere part is hard but once I get there I don't wanna leave. I have a blast and I end up being so relieved that I went. Then the cycle continues for the next gathering. I wish I wasn't like that.

@bbnzek Год назад

Good to have you back boo! 🤗

@jayb4444 Год назад

Seeing your videos pop up just makes me so happy 🤍 SO proud of you love !! Yes, a stranger can be proud of others ✨ Anxiety is like war with yourself and it's a big deal and can be celebrated when we choose not to let it win. Keep shining and motivating baby!!!!

@kylabutler2195 Год назад

YES!

@_signedbyni1952 Год назад

Love the new intro! 💕

@annholl1603 Год назад

Just want to mention that I watched a video of yours around 2013 and it saved me. That is all I am going to say. I cherish you❤

@cherryeyes8487 Год назад

so proud of you

@vanessaje4 Год назад

The consistency 💕💎

@everythingjaestephanie Год назад

I feel you the anxiety to make friends because I will talk myself out of going quick after I was just excited

@miatamakeupartistry Год назад

Love your vlogs we need more 💕🥰

@MelisaDiary Год назад

Aaliyah took a couple breaks since she’s begun and sis would have over 10 million subscribers by now but I love she’s getting back to her and going hard . In no time sis will be over that mark 💕💕💕💕

@MsAaliyahJay Год назад

I’m not pressed about having 10 million subscribers. My goal is to do me wether I’m posting or not and that’s exactly what I do and what I’m gonna always do. I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be in life right now, which is an amazing place and no one can make me feel bad that by comparing where they think I should be. Besides, I have more influence and impact than people with 10 millions subscribers do! 😘

@MelisaDiary Год назад

@@MsAaliyahJay we know your not pressed , you move at your own pace and rhythm. Which has played a major part of how successful you are today, YOURE LITERALLY AN OG. you seem like you’re the happiest now than ever. And whether what I said matters or not which I don’t expect it to be anything but words it’s true. Continue being great beautiful 🥰🥰

@Just.Jennifer Год назад

Huge Impact ❗️ ❤

@pinknailsonlyy Год назад

Love the press ons

@ChristianBanks1 Год назад

I love how you support Jackie and vice versa

@xlinsdayx Год назад

The make up !!!!!!! Ughhhhhhh God I love it!! 😮

@Itzreallyv Год назад

I would love to see a tutorial on your press on nails!! ❤

@NakiIvory Год назад

Wow I’m only two videos in on your channel and I’m hooked! Love your vibe!! I definitely struggle with social anxiety and I’m trying to get out of it.