Sis, if ever there was a moment we need a “care” vs “like” response on YT, this is it. You have our hearts, prayers and more. I’ve missed your voice and sensed your sorrow lately, and now, I understand why even more deeply. I too wrestle with the “everything happens for a reason” theology, and as a pastor, I find it helpful to reframe as God is present in and able to redeem those incredibly hard, painful spaces in our lives. Take all the time you need for you. We will be here for you when you’re ready to regroup. 💜💜💜💜
From one divorcee to another, there will be days where your world will feel like it's crumbling, but know that it will get better. Just have faith and love yourself.
Oh the resilience we have as women! Hangry woman will stay afloat and thrive. It’s totally normal to question things in your life when there is a major shift but when you see clearly why that shift happens…there’s no stopping you. I will be rooting you on and giving encouragement as your other followers I see are doing as well! You got this! Cry if you need, scream if you need, feel the feels when you need because you made a decision that was needed so that you can live a happy fulfilled life and that’s empowering!
So sorry for the pain you are feeling, May your midnight be short and the light shine bright again for you soon. God bless you and keep you in this time 🙏🏾
I was devorced in 2008 it was bad at first but as time went on I learned that I'm capable of getting along just fine on my own... Now I enjoy being single and living life and you will too
Oh sweet sister!! We grieve with you! I have just walked this journey with my sister! Her husband left her the day before their 25 th wedding anniversary!! God is sweet and draws close to the broken-hearted!! His provisions for you will come hourly as you turn against the wind! The beauty is His strength will uphold you when you are down and weak! I’ve seen His provisions in my sister’s life and the miracle of transformation in what seemed such a hopeless set of circumstances!! I join the many who love you and watch your channel!! We lift you up in prayers and will support you during this difficult time!! Grace and peace to you🙌❤️
Honestly good on you for saying this publicly. There's been so many times I've only assumed people are divorced because their significant others have stopped showing up on their pictures. I totally admire this and think it's so brave of you. People usually just want to show the best parts of their lives on social media. If you've watched Adele interviews for her latest album, I feel like you could relate... Sending lots of love
Please hang in there. It's so sad, it hurts terribly, and it's just awful. I've been through it and it sucks. I was married for 9 years to someone I thought I'd be with the rest of my life, but he had an entire secret life nobody knew about. Many years later, I know the divorce was better for me in the long run, despite the heartbreak and betrayal. I found someone I could trust who loves me, and we have two wonderful sons. Take good care of yourself. Eating, sleeping, exercising and just getting through each day are all vital to staying healthy. Makes the holidays very-very-very hard, but you will survive. One foot in front of the other, just persevere. The only way to get through something horrific is just to get through it. If you can, put some energy into your friends, some of whom you might have slipped away from in your coupled state. They can be a real lifesaver.💔💖
I've been there, it's hard. It can feel like a truck ran you over a few times. I leaned on God to get thru the next minute. Blessings to you and your new life.
How do you move forward? One step at a time. Even if a few steps are backwards, eventually, with time and at the right time, you will end up ahead. You will look back and realize you’ve come a long way.
Oh gosh! I feel for you! I'm hurting for you right now, but you know what God has his plans and everything is for a reason. Your hurting now but you will heal believe you will. I applaud you for moving on if you didn't feel fulfilled in a relationship and you will be okay. You will make it, you will get through it and it will get better. You have support from your RU-vid and Instagram family. 🧡
Im veiwing this now, yet it hurts .y heart to see people in pain. You handled this with so much grace & courage. Divorce or a breakup is hard. It's sad, it's painful. While things might be necessary, it doesn't stop how you feel about the situation. Thank you for being so transparent & so honest. I pray 🙏🏽 that joy & happiness has returned. May you have AWESOMELY AWESOME days on purpose 😊
You said this all perfectly, and with a great deal of grace and dignity. I am a brand new subscriber and already think you are wonderful! After 23 years of marriage, I was exactly there 9 years ago this month. It was hell, and I was a hot mess. But, I PROMISE you, it DOES get better. I think of it as trying to walk through a sand/snow storm. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, rest when you need to, but keep moving forward. One day you will notice that you woke up and it wasn’t the first thing on your mind. Then, day by day, little by little, you will find that you feel better. You are a beautiful, strong woman and you will thrive! My heart breaks to see you hurting so. I know this was months ago, so I hope you are doing well now. God Bless-- Paula
So sorry to hear your hurting mila, when things are hard I always remind myself that one day when things are better, i will look back and be able to know that if I never went through that, I wouldn’t be where I am today. For now look after yourself, lots of self love and care ❤️
I’m newly subscribed to channel because I’ve been newly prescribed Ozempic. After your first video I immediately became interested in your content! I’m so sorry for things you’ve had to go through but just know God will not leave you alone. A fresh start is not necessarily a bad thing. Protect your peace at all costs. I’ll keep you in my prayers! Thank you for being you and helping so many of us. 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽
So sorry to hear of your life’s struggles. You WILL be ok. The sun WILL shine on you again. You clearly have been a huge help to so many people. I just discovered you yesterday and you helped me. I am a divorcee and I can say now that it was for certain the best thing I ever did, but it takes time to get there and there are many levels of processing. Just know you will be supported and life will feel good again. It really will. Knowing you are doing the best thing doesn’t always mean it’s easy. But take comfort in knowing your heart and knowing you have the courage to move on. I was married for 9 years when I got my divorce. It all makes sense now. It will for you too. Sending you a big hug. Honor your process. It IS all divine timing ……. You are never alone. Never. Don’t worry about Hangry Woman. Just see yourself as being victorious and never look back. See yourself as thriving. Know you are thriving, even right in this instant.
Oh, honey - I am SO very sorry. You don't need to explain anything to anyone. You are young and beautiful, you have your whole life ahead of you. Remember, this too really shall pass. Take time to care and nurture YOU, because you deserve it...
I wish I could hug you right now. You will get through this because you are strong and beautiful. You help so many people around the world. We are here for you.
Divorce was one of the worst painful feelings I had to endure. Please don't lose sight of what's happening. Take care of what will happen financially to you specially if you have children. Depending on why he is seeking a divorce will determine how vicious the divorce can get. Be greatful he doesn't steal more years of your life, he wasn't your one. Think of it that way, that helped me through my divorce. God bless and keep your head up.
whoa.i was watching you for an entire different reason but then this popped up. I may soon be teetering on this same exact situation after 16 years. It was perfectly said and very brave.
The pain is so hard to see on your beautiful face. I am so sorry but you will be ok it just sucks so bad. I just started to watch today because I just started Ozempic and you have amazing videos. Much Love to you.
Huge hugs!! Been there done that. You heal and move on and take care of number 1. You’ve got this girlie! You’re so inspirational- stay strong and take it day by day.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I started watching your Ozempic experience a while back. I’ll friend you at Instagram. You have awesome videos. Supporting you, sweet lady.
I only watched a few of your videos since yesterday. I love you're energy and transparency. I just want to hug you. We all know you will get through this. It's still hard.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hello my friend. I'm sorry you are going through this. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Hopefully this will make you stronger. You were married very young and sometimes you do grow in different ways. But I really think you will come out even stronger. I want all the best for you. Please take the time for yourself ,we saw that you have some wonderful friends there and I bet they will be happy to let you lean on them. Remember you are wonderful and beautiful. I will send you warm wishes every day. ❤️❤️❤️
I am clicking on CARE also... HANGRY WOMEN is about to be more than you ever known possible. This too shall pass.... From a 16 year divorced single momma.. You are everything you need.
I just started following you today when I looked up information about Ozempic and found your channel. I instantly subscribed. Really sorry you're going through this during the holidays.
Thank you for putting this video out🙏🏼 I hope that time is helping you heal. I can relate as the same thing has happened to me. Sending positive thoughts and vibes your way~🙌🏼
Hi Mila, please know that I am sending positive vibes your way. Your resilience will pull you through this. Please remain positive but cry and yell if you need to! Hugs and love!
I feel you on this one. Even though ending certain seasons of your life can be for the best, you're still allowed to be sad. Feel free to sit in it for a bit and cry, listen to sad songs...be mopey and curl up in comfy clothes. One day you won't cry as much and then, one day, you'll no longer cry at all. You'll find your footing being single again...you got this!
I am so sorry. Been there. Love of my life, whom I trusted whole heartedly, caught cheating. This was my second marriage. I know that sometimes letting go is the hardest part. You are a very intelligent young lady. You will find your way. Some people are not meant to be in our lives forever, even husbands. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I’ve enjoyed following you over the years and I’ve learned a lot from you on RU-vid and Instagram. I just want to say that I am thinking about you during this time and sending you some virtual hugs. Seeing your tears made me tear up.
I have never seen your videos. This is first .. I just clicked on it. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I hurt hearing you speak with so much pain in your voice. Sorry again. Time heals all wounds.
I have been there myself. She left me for another man in 1988. The men she left me for ended up beating her for 5 years. She remarried that man got her hooked-on drug. In 1995 I remarried and still married. It takes time for the pain to pass. You are a beautiful young lady. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
My ❤️🌟💐💖🙏🌌✨ to you. It is heartbreaking….I’m going through one now, after 24 years and 3 children…..my youngest almost 12, diagnosed Christmas Eve 2020. There’s still so much to live for. Xoxo
Sis, guess what, you deserve the BEST and you deserve a MAN that will LOVE AND CHERISH Hangry Woman in her entirety. You are absolute right the whys don’t matter and don’t ask. Give your everything to God and allow him to provide you strength and don’t give yourself to any negativity so you can constantly have all positive in your life from now on. Start the rest of your life TODAY. You are a WOMAN and you can do “life” as a strong woman. Find yourself, enjoy life, and embrace every moment! You got this girl!
Firstly you are amazing! I know when we ask why? Why me God? Please know this.. when unfortunate things happen to us, it is God’s way of revealing his power through us. But he has us in his cradle. I was a single mom for 16 years. My ex husband left us after I gave birth to my twins. I raised my boys single handedly and it was hard but I always believed in his divine power. You will or already got over this now. But please remember, the bigger the challenge is the more blessings we get from it. Stay strong! Sending love and hugs
Baby hold your head up and go through it yes it will be painful but stand with God and you will be alright just remember that we all have to go through ups and downs in life but we can make it after time you are in my prayers because I have been through it and yes it was hard adjusting after (16 ) but after you can see you then you will be so so happy for the change you are never along just find ONE person to talk with but most of all listen because you don't need anyone to persuade you in any way This is what the Lord told me STAND STILL AND LEAN ON ME I was not to speak about what was going with him because it would cause you to go through it longer then you had to I LOVE YOU AND YOU HAVE MADE A FRIEND If YOU NEED ONE
Bless your heart…. I wish that I could give you a hug🤗, but people DO change you have to be strong and Jesus got you… I’ve been there take this time to love and be a better you and forgive. And know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT 🌺🌷💐🌼
O dear heart I too divorced. I married the man I said I would marry at 10 years old. Its like a death...I mean the feeling is like someone has died. You grieve the same way. I cried my eyes out and I was the one who initiated it. I started to drink myself to death until I wound up in the hospital. I would' not wish it my worst enemy. But do know this.....there is light and love again at the end of the that dark tunnel. I promise. You are beautiful inside and out. btw new subbie...
So sorry for that lost but sometimes with marriages we don't find out that we wasn't really compatible with that person until later on in relationship it's easy to miss theses things at thr beginning
I know this is late ⏰ but girl I have been divorced for over a decade and all I can say (and as you probably have also figured out) is it gets better and eventually, with time it becomes almost a non-issue. It’s hard to believe it won’t bother you anymore one day but it’s true.
You're a Blogger and a RU-vid her and I'm not sure if you have a job but you can buy him out of that house or see if you can qualify for the housing yourself you love it and if people will help you maybe you can just rent or buy that house yourself don't give up but this isn't the end we've been so motivated and we've learned so much from your post and we understand you have your own personal life but don't give up and try to stay in that house let him move you don't have to move I don't know your financial situation butsituation but I know we all love you and support you and appreciate all you do so don't give up and keep your nice house don't leave it If you don't have to
GOD THANK YOU for allowing me to find this video. THANK YOU LADY LET'S PRAY one another we ladies and Gentleman's THANKS GOD FOR YOU I pray that by now you are feeling encouraged well uplifted and joyful in Jesus name Amen.
I wish men had better hearts. It makes no sense to leave a functional relationship. Love comes from the Holy Spirit, to refill every morning. Prayers. I'm the type of person who tries to make it work. God is a healer, he's mine. God even heals the unbeliever. No abuse. No. I'm with you on separating from an abuser. Space can be filled by the Holy Spirit.
With all you said STOP 🛑 hoping & believe it gets better GOD has your back it’s not as hard as it seems. Yessss it’s going to Hurt but you’ll see as time goes on it was all for the better. People come & people go they’re in your life for a reason and sometimes for season and when that reason in season ends you have to let it GO!!!!! Just believe in GOD, have faith God didn’t Bring you this far to leave you believe me. PRAY PRAY PRAY 🙏 you’ll love again. It may take time but it will be REAL ask GOD he will deliver You, I’m a living witness. Bless You & im praying for you plz plz hold your head up it’s not only gonna be OK it’ll be better for you. Time brings change. Peace ✌️ I’m out
Cómo estás ahora? Solo puedo decirte una cosa que aprendí de mi propio divorcio y es ESTO TAMBIÉN PASARÁ se que está sufriendo ahora pero puedes estar segura de que más adelante el sol saldrá de nuevo y serás feliz otra vez