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Vlogmas Day 3: I'm Getting Divorced. | The Hangry Woman 

Mila Clarke, NBC-HWC | The Hangry Woman
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@aceprdcr3
@aceprdcr3 2 года назад
Sis, if ever there was a moment we need a “care” vs “like” response on YT, this is it. You have our hearts, prayers and more. I’ve missed your voice and sensed your sorrow lately, and now, I understand why even more deeply. I too wrestle with the “everything happens for a reason” theology, and as a pastor, I find it helpful to reframe as God is present in and able to redeem those incredibly hard, painful spaces in our lives. Take all the time you need for you. We will be here for you when you’re ready to regroup. 💜💜💜💜
@rhododendron.
@rhododendron. 2 года назад
You are the epitome of grace. Found your channel today for Ozempic - stayed for the realness ☮️💟🕉
@cassia.6216
@cassia.6216 2 года назад
From one divorcee to another, there will be days where your world will feel like it's crumbling, but know that it will get better. Just have faith and love yourself.
@mommieonamission7654
@mommieonamission7654 2 года назад
Oh the resilience we have as women! Hangry woman will stay afloat and thrive. It’s totally normal to question things in your life when there is a major shift but when you see clearly why that shift happens…there’s no stopping you. I will be rooting you on and giving encouragement as your other followers I see are doing as well! You got this! Cry if you need, scream if you need, feel the feels when you need because you made a decision that was needed so that you can live a happy fulfilled life and that’s empowering!
@hausofjah
@hausofjah 2 года назад
Hey girl, I'm getting divorced too. I hope your journey is full of healing and that you find joy in this difficult time ❤️🌻🌻🌻
@paul.cash2
@paul.cash2 2 года назад
So sorry for the pain you are feeling, May your midnight be short and the light shine bright again for you soon. God bless you and keep you in this time 🙏🏾
@SoloMotherTrucker
@SoloMotherTrucker 2 года назад
I was devorced in 2008 it was bad at first but as time went on I learned that I'm capable of getting along just fine on my own... Now I enjoy being single and living life and you will too
@paulene9359
@paulene9359 2 года назад
Sending hugs and prayers...divorce is heartbreaking no matter what the circumstances are. You're a strong woman...this too shall pass in time.
@leeannewebb7561
@leeannewebb7561 2 года назад
Oh sweet sister!! We grieve with you! I have just walked this journey with my sister! Her husband left her the day before their 25 th wedding anniversary!! God is sweet and draws close to the broken-hearted!! His provisions for you will come hourly as you turn against the wind! The beauty is His strength will uphold you when you are down and weak! I’ve seen His provisions in my sister’s life and the miracle of transformation in what seemed such a hopeless set of circumstances!! I join the many who love you and watch your channel!! We lift you up in prayers and will support you during this difficult time!! Grace and peace to you🙌❤️
@thekelvinscale
@thekelvinscale 2 года назад
Honestly good on you for saying this publicly. There's been so many times I've only assumed people are divorced because their significant others have stopped showing up on their pictures. I totally admire this and think it's so brave of you. People usually just want to show the best parts of their lives on social media. If you've watched Adele interviews for her latest album, I feel like you could relate... Sending lots of love
@Becky_in_Tucson
@Becky_in_Tucson 2 года назад
Please hang in there. It's so sad, it hurts terribly, and it's just awful. I've been through it and it sucks. I was married for 9 years to someone I thought I'd be with the rest of my life, but he had an entire secret life nobody knew about. Many years later, I know the divorce was better for me in the long run, despite the heartbreak and betrayal. I found someone I could trust who loves me, and we have two wonderful sons. Take good care of yourself. Eating, sleeping, exercising and just getting through each day are all vital to staying healthy. Makes the holidays very-very-very hard, but you will survive. One foot in front of the other, just persevere. The only way to get through something horrific is just to get through it. If you can, put some energy into your friends, some of whom you might have slipped away from in your coupled state. They can be a real lifesaver.💔💖
@tiana0312
@tiana0312 2 года назад
I've been there, it's hard. It can feel like a truck ran you over a few times. I leaned on God to get thru the next minute. Blessings to you and your new life.
@traciblynne
@traciblynne 2 года назад
How do you move forward? One step at a time. Even if a few steps are backwards, eventually, with time and at the right time, you will end up ahead. You will look back and realize you’ve come a long way.
@concernedgranny7956
@concernedgranny7956 Год назад
Your vulnerability to share this is inspirational to others! It is a good reminder to honor the truth of our feelings. Thank you so much for this.
@jojocatattack
@jojocatattack 2 года назад
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Praying for you Mila and also for Brian.
@allanasmith334
@allanasmith334 2 года назад
Oh gosh! I feel for you! I'm hurting for you right now, but you know what God has his plans and everything is for a reason. Your hurting now but you will heal believe you will. I applaud you for moving on if you didn't feel fulfilled in a relationship and you will be okay. You will make it, you will get through it and it will get better. You have support from your RU-vid and Instagram family. 🧡
@kimee757
@kimee757 Год назад
Im veiwing this now, yet it hurts .y heart to see people in pain. You handled this with so much grace & courage. Divorce or a breakup is hard. It's sad, it's painful. While things might be necessary, it doesn't stop how you feel about the situation. Thank you for being so transparent & so honest. I pray 🙏🏽 that joy & happiness has returned. May you have AWESOMELY AWESOME days on purpose 😊
@StevenLovejoy
@StevenLovejoy 2 года назад
You said this all perfectly, and with a great deal of grace and dignity. I am a brand new subscriber and already think you are wonderful! After 23 years of marriage, I was exactly there 9 years ago this month. It was hell, and I was a hot mess. But, I PROMISE you, it DOES get better. I think of it as trying to walk through a sand/snow storm. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, rest when you need to, but keep moving forward. One day you will notice that you woke up and it wasn’t the first thing on your mind. Then, day by day, little by little, you will find that you feel better. You are a beautiful, strong woman and you will thrive! My heart breaks to see you hurting so. I know this was months ago, so I hope you are doing well now. God Bless-- Paula
@sammie7513
@sammie7513 2 года назад
So sorry to hear your hurting mila, when things are hard I always remind myself that one day when things are better, i will look back and be able to know that if I never went through that, I wouldn’t be where I am today. For now look after yourself, lots of self love and care ❤️
@MekaP88
@MekaP88 2 года назад
I’m newly subscribed to channel because I’ve been newly prescribed Ozempic. After your first video I immediately became interested in your content! I’m so sorry for things you’ve had to go through but just know God will not leave you alone. A fresh start is not necessarily a bad thing. Protect your peace at all costs. I’ll keep you in my prayers! Thank you for being you and helping so many of us. 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽
@anniemclaughlin4453
@anniemclaughlin4453 2 года назад
Oh Honey I’m so sorry! ((HUGS)) Hang in there! I’m praying for you! 🙏🏽❤️
@MB-de2fb
@MB-de2fb 2 года назад
You have a great community of support. We are all here for you.
@carolznotes_2691
@carolznotes_2691 Год назад
I am so very sorry. You are a beautiful lady with a great personality.
@donaheiman6221
@donaheiman6221 Год назад
Hang in there, sister, and know that with God has your back, 22 years of a very rocky marriage , I finally had to walk away too.
@LivingMyBestLife517
@LivingMyBestLife517 2 года назад
So sorry to hear of your life’s struggles. You WILL be ok. The sun WILL shine on you again. You clearly have been a huge help to so many people. I just discovered you yesterday and you helped me. I am a divorcee and I can say now that it was for certain the best thing I ever did, but it takes time to get there and there are many levels of processing. Just know you will be supported and life will feel good again. It really will. Knowing you are doing the best thing doesn’t always mean it’s easy. But take comfort in knowing your heart and knowing you have the courage to move on. I was married for 9 years when I got my divorce. It all makes sense now. It will for you too. Sending you a big hug. Honor your process. It IS all divine timing ……. You are never alone. Never. Don’t worry about Hangry Woman. Just see yourself as being victorious and never look back. See yourself as thriving. Know you are thriving, even right in this instant.
@mrspsmith2021
@mrspsmith2021 2 года назад
Oh, honey - I am SO very sorry. You don't need to explain anything to anyone. You are young and beautiful, you have your whole life ahead of you. Remember, this too really shall pass. Take time to care and nurture YOU, because you deserve it...
@lauratitus7214
@lauratitus7214 Год назад
Im so sorry hon. Be strong. You got this.
@TheMatureDiva
@TheMatureDiva 2 года назад
I wish I could hug you right now. You will get through this because you are strong and beautiful. You help so many people around the world. We are here for you.
@maryancillary1103
@maryancillary1103 11 месяцев назад
Praying for you.
@TheHangryWoman
@TheHangryWoman 11 месяцев назад
Thank you! I'm happy to say that I've come so far in the last two years or so. I'm in a much happier, healthier place.
@m.v.1230
@m.v.1230 2 года назад
Divorce was one of the worst painful feelings I had to endure. Please don't lose sight of what's happening. Take care of what will happen financially to you specially if you have children. Depending on why he is seeking a divorce will determine how vicious the divorce can get. Be greatful he doesn't steal more years of your life, he wasn't your one. Think of it that way, that helped me through my divorce. God bless and keep your head up.
@CandlerLand
@CandlerLand 2 года назад
whoa.i was watching you for an entire different reason but then this popped up. I may soon be teetering on this same exact situation after 16 years. It was perfectly said and very brave.
@funafterfifty7833
@funafterfifty7833 2 года назад
The pain is so hard to see on your beautiful face. I am so sorry but you will be ok it just sucks so bad. I just started to watch today because I just started Ozempic and you have amazing videos. Much Love to you.
@SONBON1
@SONBON1 2 года назад
Sorry to hear your heartbreaking 💔 news. Take care. 💜
@dragonfruit1417
@dragonfruit1417 2 года назад
Huge hugs!! Been there done that. You heal and move on and take care of number 1. You’ve got this girlie! You’re so inspirational- stay strong and take it day by day.
@ccurrywright
@ccurrywright 2 года назад
I’m so sorry to hear this. I started watching your Ozempic experience a while back. I’ll friend you at Instagram. You have awesome videos. Supporting you, sweet lady.
@ccurrywright
@ccurrywright 2 года назад
I went over and friended you. This video may be too hard for me to watch. I just want you to know you are loved and supported.
@conniedemonbreun3213
@conniedemonbreun3213 2 года назад
Mila, Thanks for pouring your heart out; may God bless you and lead you on your new path of life.
@timewilltell5476
@timewilltell5476 2 года назад
Love, hugs and strength!
@justinea5936
@justinea5936 2 года назад
I only watched a few of your videos since yesterday. I love you're energy and transparency. I just want to hug you. We all know you will get through this. It's still hard.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@pollyannalight6313
@pollyannalight6313 2 года назад
Aww, so sorry. In the long run, things will work out for you. Much peace, healing, love, light, and best wishes 💚💜💙
@dellzywillis3001
@dellzywillis3001 2 года назад
Hello my friend. I'm sorry you are going through this. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Hopefully this will make you stronger. You were married very young and sometimes you do grow in different ways. But I really think you will come out even stronger. I want all the best for you. Please take the time for yourself ,we saw that you have some wonderful friends there and I bet they will be happy to let you lean on them. Remember you are wonderful and beautiful. I will send you warm wishes every day. ❤️❤️❤️
@peachescotton2200
@peachescotton2200 2 года назад
I'm so sorry for you and I feel bad. I know you will get through this and it will take time but in the end you will be happy.
@creativejo3395
@creativejo3395 2 года назад
I am clicking on CARE also... HANGRY WOMEN is about to be more than you ever known possible. This too shall pass.... From a 16 year divorced single momma.. You are everything you need.
@sanrichards1589
@sanrichards1589 2 года назад
So sorry for you sweetheart. I pray God grants you peace, strength, and understanding.
@mtodd3837
@mtodd3837 2 года назад
So sorry for you. You got this though and it is his loss. You shine…continue to do just that. SHINE!!!
@kristiemao4275
@kristiemao4275 2 года назад
I just started following you today when I looked up information about Ozempic and found your channel. I instantly subscribed. Really sorry you're going through this during the holidays.
@Katanakutie
@Katanakutie 2 года назад
I doubt anyone can talk you through this, but you DO get through! Stay busy. It helps a little.
@resizedbite
@resizedbite Год назад
Thank you for putting this video out🙏🏼 I hope that time is helping you heal. I can relate as the same thing has happened to me. Sending positive thoughts and vibes your way~🙌🏼
@brittanibaby
@brittanibaby 2 года назад
Hi Mila, please know that I am sending positive vibes your way. Your resilience will pull you through this. Please remain positive but cry and yell if you need to! Hugs and love!
@stacicoombs1539
@stacicoombs1539 2 года назад
I feel you on this one. Even though ending certain seasons of your life can be for the best, you're still allowed to be sad. Feel free to sit in it for a bit and cry, listen to sad songs...be mopey and curl up in comfy clothes. One day you won't cry as much and then, one day, you'll no longer cry at all. You'll find your footing being single again...you got this!
@iamgriselda
@iamgriselda 2 года назад
I’m thinking of you and wrapping you in a warm hug! ❤️
@lindamcclain2728
@lindamcclain2728 2 года назад
I am so sorry. Been there. Love of my life, whom I trusted whole heartedly, caught cheating. This was my second marriage. I know that sometimes letting go is the hardest part. You are a very intelligent young lady. You will find your way. Some people are not meant to be in our lives forever, even husbands. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
@toryslovelifechannel7678
@toryslovelifechannel7678 2 года назад
Bless your heart ❤️. Hang in there beautiful 🙏🏾
@mysweetdiabeticlife6244
@mysweetdiabeticlife6244 2 года назад
I’ve enjoyed following you over the years and I’ve learned a lot from you on RU-vid and Instagram. I just want to say that I am thinking about you during this time and sending you some virtual hugs. Seeing your tears made me tear up.
@gorgeousgeorge8007
@gorgeousgeorge8007 2 года назад
Stay Strong girl. You got this! We got you!
@moodybugg-2098
@moodybugg-2098 8 месяцев назад
I have never seen your videos. This is first .. I just clicked on it. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I hurt hearing you speak with so much pain in your voice. Sorry again. Time heals all wounds.
@nomore9203
@nomore9203 2 года назад
I have been there myself. She left me for another man in 1988. The men she left me for ended up beating her for 5 years. She remarried that man got her hooked-on drug. In 1995 I remarried and still married. It takes time for the pain to pass. You are a beautiful young lady. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
@juliethelatebloomer
@juliethelatebloomer 2 года назад
Me too. Stay strong. Remember- you have youth on your side!!!
@junen7137
@junen7137 2 года назад
Sending you a virtual hug. Your inspiration is your safety net. Stay blessed !
@prisillaspace
@prisillaspace 2 года назад
My ❤️🌟💐💖🙏🌌✨ to you. It is heartbreaking….I’m going through one now, after 24 years and 3 children…..my youngest almost 12, diagnosed Christmas Eve 2020. There’s still so much to live for. Xoxo
@Ppamelapam
@Ppamelapam 2 года назад
Sis, guess what, you deserve the BEST and you deserve a MAN that will LOVE AND CHERISH Hangry Woman in her entirety. You are absolute right the whys don’t matter and don’t ask. Give your everything to God and allow him to provide you strength and don’t give yourself to any negativity so you can constantly have all positive in your life from now on. Start the rest of your life TODAY. You are a WOMAN and you can do “life” as a strong woman. Find yourself, enjoy life, and embrace every moment! You got this girl!
@mariaembrey6590
@mariaembrey6590 2 года назад
You have given so much to your subscribers, whenever you are able, let us know how we can support you. God bless 🙏
@maisonmalli
@maisonmalli 2 года назад
Love you Mila! Wishing you peace & light ❤️
@alexochoa5534
@alexochoa5534 2 года назад
Hey girl, take it a day at a time. I am enjoying your vlogmas so far!! can't wait to see what comes for the rest of the month.
@mayaadonix
@mayaadonix 2 года назад
Oh honey!! In the end, you'll be fine. Just be strong in the Lord. 💕
@TheBlissfulNatural1913
@TheBlissfulNatural1913 2 года назад
Sending you love, positive energy and a renewed spirit! ❤️❤️❤️
@susantrulove5416
@susantrulove5416 2 года назад
Prayers for you during this time.
@KatM272
@KatM272 2 года назад
🥺 you’re a wonderful person. You got this
@dancingwithgramma3339
@dancingwithgramma3339 2 года назад
Bless you babies girl
@e1b153
@e1b153 2 года назад
prayers for your heart
@JusMeLSR
@JusMeLSR 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing. That took courage and strength.
@marycampbell8512
@marycampbell8512 2 года назад
I’m so sorry you will get through it God will pull you through
@TheHangryWoman
@TheHangryWoman 2 года назад
Thank you 🙏🏾
@martarivera4361
@martarivera4361 2 года назад
I hope you are doing Okay. I love your message. And helping others how to take their medications for diabetes.
@verjoe2001
@verjoe2001 Месяц назад
In life it's best to be with someone you compatible with then not to cause you always be at a battle with that person instead of having peace
@TheHangryWoman
@TheHangryWoman 27 дней назад
I'm a while removed from this time, but I wholeheartedly agree with you.
@noraa2199
@noraa2199 Год назад
Firstly you are amazing! I know when we ask why? Why me God? Please know this.. when unfortunate things happen to us, it is God’s way of revealing his power through us. But he has us in his cradle. I was a single mom for 16 years. My ex husband left us after I gave birth to my twins. I raised my boys single handedly and it was hard but I always believed in his divine power. You will or already got over this now. But please remember, the bigger the challenge is the more blessings we get from it. Stay strong! Sending love and hugs
@daborrahbush7870
@daborrahbush7870 2 года назад
Baby hold your head up and go through it yes it will be painful but stand with God and you will be alright just remember that we all have to go through ups and downs in life but we can make it after time you are in my prayers because I have been through it and yes it was hard adjusting after (16 ) but after you can see you then you will be so so happy for the change you are never along just find ONE person to talk with but most of all listen because you don't need anyone to persuade you in any way This is what the Lord told me STAND STILL AND LEAN ON ME I was not to speak about what was going with him because it would cause you to go through it longer then you had to I LOVE YOU AND YOU HAVE MADE A FRIEND If YOU NEED ONE
@tishabolen6378
@tishabolen6378 7 месяцев назад
Just started watching you today. I went through divorce 10 years ago next month 😊
@TheHangryWoman
@TheHangryWoman 7 месяцев назад
It was so painful at the time, but it was the best thing for me. My current partner is everything I deserve, and more 🫶🏾
@AlexisLove81
@AlexisLove81 2 года назад
You are a beautiful person.
@theresawaveyme4482
@theresawaveyme4482 2 года назад
I'm sorry your suffering....may you be happy.
@carmenlee5
@carmenlee5 2 года назад
New subscriber here, Just remember you are a strong beautiful black woman. God loves you and he will take you through this difficult time.
@LEGATOSLAVE
@LEGATOSLAVE 2 года назад
Sorry sending love your way
@kathyescobedo461
@kathyescobedo461 2 года назад
Sorry, divorced at 25 after nearly 7 yrs of marriage with a 3 yr old son. It gets better❤️
@MonavieVoight
@MonavieVoight 2 года назад
Sending you lots of love and support for a beautiful future. ♥♥♥
@tyarnell6659
@tyarnell6659 2 года назад
Mila, you are beautiful, so don't worry, do your thing and you will be prosperous and happy
@m.l.r9139
@m.l.r9139 2 года назад
Bless your heart…. I wish that I could give you a hug🤗, but people DO change you have to be strong and Jesus got you… I’ve been there take this time to love and be a better you and forgive. And know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT 🌺🌷💐🌼
@debbiepowers4743
@debbiepowers4743 2 года назад
Oh honey, so sorry you’re hurting. This too shall pass. Hang in there.
@shesheshe9389
@shesheshe9389 2 года назад
O dear heart I too divorced. I married the man I said I would marry at 10 years old. Its like a death...I mean the feeling is like someone has died. You grieve the same way. I cried my eyes out and I was the one who initiated it. I started to drink myself to death until I wound up in the hospital. I would' not wish it my worst enemy. But do know this.....there is light and love again at the end of the that dark tunnel. I promise. You are beautiful inside and out. btw new subbie...
@verjoe2001
@verjoe2001 Месяц назад
So sorry for that lost but sometimes with marriages we don't find out that we wasn't really compatible with that person until later on in relationship it's easy to miss theses things at thr beginning
@thewrongshoes
@thewrongshoes 2 года назад
I know this is late ⏰ but girl I have been divorced for over a decade and all I can say (and as you probably have also figured out) is it gets better and eventually, with time it becomes almost a non-issue. It’s hard to believe it won’t bother you anymore one day but it’s true.
@carolynfleming-miller3798
@carolynfleming-miller3798 2 года назад
Sad to see you hurting, and time will heal all wounds.
@mrschristian5908
@mrschristian5908 9 месяцев назад
❤ praying for your family 🙏🏽
@TheHangryWoman
@TheHangryWoman 9 месяцев назад
Thank you - I’m happy to say I’m better in so many ways. This was a tough ending, but opened up a beautiful new beginning for me 🫶🏾
@denisecmovies3652
@denisecmovies3652 2 года назад
You're a Blogger and a RU-vid her and I'm not sure if you have a job but you can buy him out of that house or see if you can qualify for the housing yourself you love it and if people will help you maybe you can just rent or buy that house yourself don't give up but this isn't the end we've been so motivated and we've learned so much from your post and we understand you have your own personal life but don't give up and try to stay in that house let him move you don't have to move I don't know your financial situation butsituation but I know we all love you and support you and appreciate all you do so don't give up and keep your nice house don't leave it If you don't have to
@95ireyna
@95ireyna Год назад
I am so sorry 😢
@andreavogel8761
@andreavogel8761 2 года назад
You are an amazing you tuber and well stay with you through this
@nanettesilas6062
@nanettesilas6062 2 года назад
Very sorry .
@elizabethvargas4165
@elizabethvargas4165 4 месяца назад
GOD THANK YOU for allowing me to find this video. THANK YOU LADY LET'S PRAY one another we ladies and Gentleman's THANKS GOD FOR YOU I pray that by now you are feeling encouraged well uplifted and joyful in Jesus name Amen.
@dionnelong
@dionnelong 2 года назад
I wish men had better hearts. It makes no sense to leave a functional relationship. Love comes from the Holy Spirit, to refill every morning. Prayers. I'm the type of person who tries to make it work. God is a healer, he's mine. God even heals the unbeliever. No abuse. No. I'm with you on separating from an abuser. Space can be filled by the Holy Spirit.
@sharonarmstead3887
@sharonarmstead3887 2 года назад
so sorry
@megkelly1081
@megkelly1081 2 года назад
❤️❤️❤️
@parm2341
@parm2341 2 года назад
With all you said STOP 🛑 hoping & believe it gets better GOD has your back it’s not as hard as it seems. Yessss it’s going to Hurt but you’ll see as time goes on it was all for the better. People come & people go they’re in your life for a reason and sometimes for season and when that reason in season ends you have to let it GO!!!!! Just believe in GOD, have faith God didn’t Bring you this far to leave you believe me. PRAY PRAY PRAY 🙏 you’ll love again. It may take time but it will be REAL ask GOD he will deliver You, I’m a living witness. Bless You & im praying for you plz plz hold your head up it’s not only gonna be OK it’ll be better for you. Time brings change. Peace ✌️ I’m out
@silviafernande
@silviafernande 2 года назад
Cómo estás ahora? Solo puedo decirte una cosa que aprendí de mi propio divorcio y es ESTO TAMBIÉN PASARÁ se que está sufriendo ahora pero puedes estar segura de que más adelante el sol saldrá de nuevo y serás feliz otra vez
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