Volatile Aspects: -Personal planets to Mars, Pluto, ruler of 8th house & Saturn -Mars square/opposite/semi square/Inconjunct/Sesquiquadrate Pluto -Venus (all hard aspect) to Pluto (includes conjunction) -Moon (all minor & hard aspects) to Mars/Pluto (includes conjunction) -Mars (all hard aspects) to Saturn (excludes conjunction) -Ruler of 1st or 8th in hard aspect to Mars/Saturn/Pluto -Mars/Pluto in hard aspect to Ascendant/Midheaven (includes conjunction)
I just wanted to say THANK YOU Jewel for sharing this videos! You are a FANTASTIC communicator, truly. Everytime I watch you I learn SO much. I find myself now watching your videos, and not only the aspects that concerns me, but all of them just for the sake of learning from you. You are amazing! ❤️😊
I'm a cancer sun Scorpio rising and my sun & mars are in the 8th house and Pluto is in my 1st house 😟😟😞😞 After the new year I really had a revelation about how controlling I am and never ever realized this before! I noticed how I need control over every situation I'm in or I become destructive. I will change that... I love learning about astrology it helps me better understand myself and others and how I can work on myself. Thank you jewel!! Love your videos
Same here, I can see more clearly how I am controlling/grapping things and ppl. I'm also sun in cancer, rising scorpio with sun and mars in house 8 ;) My pluto is in house 12 though and trine my sun.
I felt the Moon square Mars effect from my last r/s. As the Moon person, I often felt misunderstood by Mars whenever I expressed my emotions. He would misinterpret what I said and try to "correct" me, it's really irritating. Worse is he has Mars in Virgo...v critical and thinks he can read me more than I can myself.
I love how you ended this video, such a great reminder. I have a lot of these hard aspects with my partner, and yes, through this we have grown so much, wow. Much love to you.
Thank you Jewel. Great video again. I was wondering would you like to include some information about parent-child aspects in synastry? There is not much information and it would be very helpful and unique for your subscribers. There is a ton of partner synastry online, none of parent-child, astrology for relatives or even friendship. Children astrology as well. :)
Definitely hard sun moon aspects and moon mercury aspects are up there. Some of the “anger problem” placements (mars square pluto, sun square mars, moon square mars) etc are difficult.
I was just talking about a true love from my past. I described him in glowing terms as the one that got away. We had the easiest synastry. Pisces, scorpio stelliums with all that personal planets. I think the only opposition was Jupiter opposition Jupiter . Lol. I understand now why we didn't end up together. There was nothing left to learn.😊💗 I love him to this day...💗
Hi Jewel! this video was for me... me and my boyfriend have my mars conjuct his moon and sun, my mars semisquare his Pluto, my Pluto square his moon and his sun. we have many soft aspects too, like Venus trine Venus, a lot of Jupiter, Venus conjunct moon and Pluto quintile moon. I think that our synastry is kind a " good luck !!! " sorry, my English isn't good. I hope you understand me. love your videos!!! :)
You know, I read somewhere Pluto wants RAW honesty and this brings deep level of initimacy. Naked truth. Pluto hostility and manipulation comes when sometimes Moon lies and lead to distrust of Pluto. Pluto manipulates because he is sad the Moon person don't trust him.
Watched this video and LAUGHED. I am so screwed. My Pluto square his Venus His Pluto square my moon My Pluto square his moon My Venus conjunct his Mars His Mars square my ascendant 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Along with many other aspects..... Also my Mars is in my 1st house and my Pluto is in my 7th. 👌
Sometimes i feel like there are so many aspects that are difficult that there is no excaping it (completely). (Especially when you yourself already have a lot of hard aspects in your own chart). But then again, that probably has to do with everything our soul wanted to experience this lifetime/ all the lessons we wanted to learn. And a lot of that goes through relating. So i guess if there wasn’t any tension/need to learn, grow, it word be very boring. I also think that certain aspects that are more in your face are probably better appreciated / handled by people who are natally familiair with these aspects.
4:58 Moon square Pluto & Moon square Mars 13:14 Ascendant square Pluto & Ascendant square Mars I have my Moon square Mars (2 degree orb) with a guy right now and the sexual tension is unlike anything I've experienced. I'm not supposed to pursue anything with him because of a friend, and have tried very hard to resist and it's nearly impossible. It feels like there is a highly charged magnet pulling me toward him and it takes much more energy to fight the magnetic pull than to give into it. Haven't yet experienced the volatile/fighting portion of it. Asc in strong square to Mars is awful. With my ex everything about my actions was criticized. He was Mars Virgo, I'm Sag Asc. So very critical to my very expressive personality. I also have my natal Asc in strong square to my mercury (pisces) which I think really made it worse. This is the only aspect mentioned in this video that he and I had - though we have lots of venus, mercury, sun squares too. There are no pluto aspects. It was the most toxic, volatile, & heart wrenching relationship :( but I did learn more about myself than I ever have and came out of it with a very different way of handling my reactions. I believe that relationship was during Saturn transiting my first house.
Very insightful and educational, as always. What is your take on Jupiter square Pluto in synastry and composite? Both are stubborn when it comes to their principles and beliefs. You mentioned before that if an aspects shows up in both the synastry and composite, then it will be a major theme in the relationship. My deepest and most sincere gratitude because I've learned so much from you videos. Sending over lots of love. 💗💗💗
Great video! yes please do more :) It'd be also interested to watch a video on synastry harder aspects when one of the partner's planet is conjunct a node.
I have a Scorpio stellium and a taurus moon and i never want to date someone with a Leo mars again. All those squares my God. It could be a lovely person but it just wouldn’t work paired together with me. It was something that i found hard to accept with my last relationship, that even though you love eachother a lot, and you really really want this things to work out. Sometimes i just really doesn’t. Because big parts of How yogr energy just is, doesn’t change.
dah qc From personal experience, yes The Chiron person is like" Let me heal you" the planet/angle person barks"Leave me alone" It could also go the other way 'round but this is a patter I have observed. A lot of dirty secrets and issues of past, buried guilt and shame are gonna come out. A lot of hurting, but not deliberate, but they continue depending on one another... For one relationship to be Chiron-themed, there must be a lot of Chiron aspects to angles and personal planets, checkout the davision and composite chiron too.
Ugh! I have almost all of these with an old love interest. Just drives you crazy! Highest, hottest passion, with something holding it all back-occasionally 😉 And see how I said "old"....still has ahold of me years later.
This man told me once that there is no such thing as a perfect relatioship! i disagreed untill i learnt so much more with astrology! thank you to the both of you! x - by the way, you havent got jupiter is Libra or Scorpio , have you?
Video of inconjunct aspects in synastry would be good please. I have 4 of those aspects in my and my lovers chart. Venus/uranus Moon/mars, Pluto/Mercury and My Pluto /his stellium of Uranus,Sun and Mercury!...
Do people with opposite nodes in synastry mean anything? It would seem to me that each other's north and south nodes could mean they could help each other in the big game. Im not an astrologer, but it kind of seems that way once I understood what the nodes meant.
what do you say on moon inconjunct mars? and that moon square pluto!! if womans saturn oppose mans mars,mercury and sun, but mans saturn conj womans mars, sextile sun and jupiter!! i have oppositions in my chart already!
+Aspire To Inspire Before You Expire I'll have to check my playlist. I'm really bad about not writing down what video I have already made and then remaking it again. I may have that one but maybe not. I'll put it on my short list.
+Jewel Mayberry Well I have watched your videos on moon opposite and conjunct mars, but I can't really find the square on the playlist.I can't wait to see that one!Thank you so much for responding!:)
My 7th house ruler is Scorpio. Apparently, it is not good for a marriage partner. Can we all have free will with that? Also my Juno is in Aqua...what is more accurate for predicting marriage partner? Juno or the 7th house? Sorry, I didn't know which video to apply this ques under. I must say that most of my relationships have ended up bad or just volatile in general. Sick of it.
The guys Pluto and Mars both squared my Moon and his Sun in opposition to it. Poor moon attacked from three hard angles 😬 My Pluto opposite his Mars, square his Sun and trine his Venus. His Saturn opposite both my 1st and 8th house rulers. At least the aspect from his Mars to my Ascendant is soft lol