InshAllah Allah will send a queen to you, who will be most beautiful in your eyes, a house of happiness for you, who will be your smile, strength in days of tests (may Allah grant ease), who will be someone you have to struggle taking your eyes off, whose heart is filled with kindness, whose words are so beautiful they will take you over clouds, who will make you feel like king no matter what......InshAllah brother, put your trust on Allah
Don't worry akhi..35 is just number. Recite this supplication and do lots of istighfar. 25 Al Furqan رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَاماً Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.’ [Qur’an, 25:74] 28 Al Qasas رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ ‘My lord, I am in absolute need of the good You send me’ [Qur’an, 28:24] May Allah make it ease for you. Ameen.
If an open-minded Imam like him comes to my local Masjid, I will go to prayer more often!! Well said and put together for a younger generation of Muslims, Thank you!!
***** Does this mean we must all follow the sunna of muhammad and, Sura 9:5 Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them. Sura 8:12 cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve. Therefore strike off their heads and strike off every fingertip of them or even the hate filled Sura 5:51 Do not take non-muslims as your friends. Will that make me a good muslim ?
HajiIsse I have, and it says Quran 9:5 Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them. Quran 5:51 Do not take non-muslims as your friends. So basically the quran is pile of hate filled bullshit.
True BUT it also applies to the men. I've seen it with my own eyes. My dad comes home/wakes up etc, and he's always in a bad mood rarely smiles, whereas the rest of us his family his wife are smiling, talking laughing, and he comes in and spoils everyone's mood with his frown and constant admonishment. And mashaAllah with other people he's the most angelic jolly person you've ever met. How can someone put zero effort for the atmosphere of their own family??
Yes. The best advice is free. I've done that whole smile technique for 18 years now, 😂 I just get met with a grumpy face. As a revert to Islam who studied Islam before I ever met my husband, sadly, I find most Muslims follow bidd3a more so than Islam. The part where he said stay silent? I think he should have put some context to that, stone walling as in using silence as a weapon is one of the horsemen which destroys a marriage. Silence to listen, think where the other person is coming from, acknowledge where the other spouse is coming from, then coherent response after & a simple apology stretches far more. Far too many mumima employ the smile tactic, get ignored then the man wonders why the wife just dips out.
Its sad that the young people today don't have the mountain of patience that their parents had.now divorces are happening over trivial and ridiculous reasons. May Allah grant us wisdom and patience
Not a Muslim but this is shared with me by my Muslim friend. I like this message. Unfortunately, there's too many woman are looking at materialistic gain and their own desire to compete with man that they lost themselves in the process.
one day a man said in public : when those women of the past would comeback again,,, talking about how bad women became these days, I've walked to him and said : women of past will comeback when those men of past-time comeback again. this happened in jordan where we speak arabic.
I liked it when he said people use hadiths as weapons, cause it's so true... When people say you'll be cursed by angels the whole night.. It feels like as a woman I'm being attacked, and want I would like is not important as I'm not being given a choice or any kind of will
Husbands: it's not that you're not listening. It's that you're not listening to how she feels. One of the toughest but most important lessons to learn.
I don’t think the “silent thing” works. Women always wants an answer. The “silence thing” will kill her inside and create more anger or confusion about what she needs to do to make it right.
Irrespective of religion it is not right for a man to be looking at other women if they are married. Not only does it show weak mind, but disrespect for the wife. Over time can lead to a multitude of haraam/sins, arguments and divorce. What wife in her right mind will ignore her husbands waivering eyes?? If a woman does it we would get called all types of names and be held to account instesd of excuses being made!
one month of Nikah my husband always talks about leaving me and says he hates me just because I ask for his time and he gives all that time to his friends silence and sabr is all I have left 😊
+Ramz Cena subhan Allah u r sending a smile facec when u having hard Time specially when he says strong words to u that girls normally get like omg cry be depressed .its amazing masha allah very proud of u but always know that allah sees you and he knows wt situation u r in and whatever happened to u just know is gd for u but we human don't know so saber is a strong key to success and allah said allah is with those who r patient keep smiling😊
Jazakallah for your kind words In Sha Allah I will have sabr may Allah give every Muslim sabr and may Allah give all of us jannah that's the actual goal and that's why we are here so just keep smiling in every situation because that's how Allah will forgive us and give us jannah aameen 😳 Hafsa Hassan
so sad sister may Allah Shows him the right way and sister Masha'Allah you have so such of patience. your and my situation are same but the Story is different. Please help me sister. i'm not engaged yet but engagement is next year. and the girl i'm gonna get engaged with she already had a boyfriend for 4 years (that ex boyfriend is his and mine cousin )and that thing always repeats in my mind. i'm so nervous. and by the way we were meant for each other because the day she was born her mother told to my mother that she will give her daughter to your son. sister how can i overcome this feeling? when ever i met her she get hurted by me as i always speaks something that is related with her past and she be to me like i'm a human not a stone. i'm not able to forget this things but i do wanna marry her but i'm scared of one thing that will i keep her happy after our marraige. will i not gonna hurt her. guide me sister :(
The message is true, but also very simplistic. Both genders have to compromise. I understand the reasoning of mens attractions to women, but honestly it cannot be used as an excuse or that my wife didn't smile at me so I look elsewhere. The problem lies with communication. Unfortunately in my community spouses actually talking to each other is in many cases non existent. All that exists is this idea of duty.
Masha Allah Laura potter, I must say u are Avery courageous and out spoken person ready to find solution to her problems and family problems and I pray may Allah Guide y towards the right path, show u the lights of Deen and bring peace and compassion to u and ya entire family. Amiin
Aoa brothers and sisters! I have been seperated from my husband.my husband was not loyal to me at all. I tolerated 10 months but I failed with my patience coz it was going worst day by day. He just destroy my life. he gave me many totures. plz make dua for me. now I got khula. Alhumdulillah. my Allah save me from that man and helped me. i request all brothers not to cheat ur wives plz bro love them and give them respect. ur wives will sacrafice all for you. and u sisters have faith in ALLAH and He will do best for you
Most men never try to understand what Allah Subhantallah instruct them rather all emphasization puts upon women .Its really good to listen this lecture.
I recommended your video to a non muslim looking for a wife. May Allah reward everyone who try their best to help out to spread the light and knowledge of faith. Ameen. Ya Rab.
Quran (Surah An-Nisaa' chapter 4, The Women, verse 34): Men (males) are responsible for women (females) because of what Allah has given one over the other (in strength) and they (males) spend (for females maintenance) from their wealth. So righteous women are obedient (to Allah), guarding in (husbands) absence what Allah wants them to guard. But for those (wives) from whom you observe arrogance and refusal, admonish them; (if they persist), leave their beds; and (lastly), tap (percuss) them. But if they comply, seek no further means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand
holy shit this happened to me two days ago my mom called me screaming at me to get a job done which i completed for her few weeks prior but it required to do it again i told her not now later she went on and on about something totally outside of the topic so i became silent and hung up the phone and started complaining to Allah about it. WHEN I REACHED HOME HER ATTITUDE CHANGED FOR THE BETTER AND SHE WASN'T COMPLAINING ANYMORE. and infact she made me food hahahah ALLAHUAKBAR
I don't know of anyone who was actually in love and fell out of love. A crush or even infatuation comes to an end. Being in love may include the body, wealth, and status, but it relies on a character that is loved enough to maintain that when the chemical reactions based on the other three and mutually having children fade. Both feminist and chauvinist fail, because of their lack of respect for and even acknowledgement of mental and physical differences between the sexes. A religious or even an observant person does better in social duties, because it is not just for them or the other person, but they will try to do what is right regardless.
