Was an indie singer in Canada and now a mom of three kids in Korea | Canadian Korean couple 

That’s what I admire about my wife. We met when she came to the USA to study…and essentially left her entire behind in Korea to stay here with me. This can also be said about my parents uprooting themselves/family to immigrate to the USA. Truly a brave and selfless act of those that does it.

She's the real patriot!

respect

@@AliasHSW why didn't you people just stay at home? we don't need more immigrants in America.

Thank you!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

Yes. It is really hard and sometimes you feel helpless like a child and can be very tiring 😢❤❤

Thank goodness for Google Lens Translate for us to use it. lol

My parents just made me deal with all of their business letters and calls since I learned English in kindergarten haha. Life hack, make your oldest child a third parent. (Dont actually do this)

Well the turn of tables

​@ap9212 It's not a turn of tables, people immigrate from the US to other countries all the time. And it's often much harder than getting citizenship in the USA. Relax. It's not a competition.

He's handsome I think they're talking about his beard and mustache, since most korean men shave them

@@juno1765 yes, I meant the beard too

from a canadian perspective he's pretty good looking, he looks manly

Both can be true though, he can still be not the most attractive man in Korea, but maybe he has charisma, and that's what makes him attractive to her.

They pointed out it's because of his hair and beard, especially because it's not common in the least for Korean men to have beards. But his looks are still unconventional in Korea, which doesn't make him "Korea handsome". He's basically like Bobby from the k-pop group IKON. He's not typically handsome, but has charisma and a badass sort of look.

It's easier to brand women as "heroes" than it is to do your fair share of the household. They shouldn't have to be heroes. Their husband should do his part.

@@chervilisbetterthancilantroso after 10h of running what exactly he should take off her shoulders? If she worked outside of home full time, ok, but she doesn't, that's her job.

@@huskytail She did her job for him, and on top of that, he just takes a nap. She worked all day, multiple jobs, never got a rest. He worked half a job, comes home, and just goes to sleep while the woman sIaves away for him more.

You Should be clear with the man whose horrible fate will make him get in your life briefly that this how you think about his job and effort make it crystal clear don't hide your idea of the dynamics of relationship until it gets serious , wish you all luck of finding the "male" of your dreams.! @@chervilisbetterthancilantro

​​@@huskytail she works full time as well, even if it is in the house or doesn't get pay.

Keeping a well stocked fridge is a thing in Canada. Because of our density grocery stores are further away. Most families visit grocery stores once per week. Even for condos / apartment buildings, it's uncommon to have a grocery store right at the ground level. If you forget to buy something / urgently need something.... it's more borrow it from your next door neighbour than go to a store to buy it.

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… and add to the fact that prices are going up everyday. If I see something on sale that I won’t be using soon I’d probably still buy it and freeze it. Especially with three young kids

Yes and it's good backup in case the kids don't want to eat anything I cooked for them and would rather have something else.

Yes, there is having food that you'll use soon, and then hoarding. It can be a tendency from like you said, not having enough in your past, or having to be very conservative with food and other items. It can be a product of trauma.

Im korean. They r jealous. Cant be anything else

I think it’s because of his facial hair - as an American I find him handsome!!

I don't get the resistance to it, Korean beauty standard is not about "being yourself", it's about following the celebrities. If he looks good to you, great, but Korean culture doesn't agree with you, and that's fine.

I instantly thought he was so attractive, and typically Koreans are not the type of guy that I go for, but wow

if you look at their tv shows, actors and kpop stars - thats why. their men are clean shaven, almost gay(feminine) looking. for them "handsome" means not so manyly. but odd thing is that their common folk looks like this man

love how they constantly call out “pping,ppang” lol

Are we both watching the same video? This guy comes off as lazy and ungrateful to me. He doesn't help around the house AT ALL. When his wife went to see him at work with the kids, she helped him with his job, but he couldn't help her in the house or AT LEAST watch the kids while she was cooking. Being "tired" is not an excuse since he's not the only one who's "tired" here, she's been working all day as well. I would lose my mind if I had a husband like that. She's very patient and tolerates his behavior. I lost it when he started complaining about his wife's cooking as if she didn't spend a long time standing in the kitchen just to make him food. I'm surprised that she didn't lash out at him and ask him what his problem is. The least he could do was thank her for feeding him. Gender stereotypes are indeed very much alive in Korea and the woman is still expected to do EVERYTHING around the house with no rest or help. I feel bad for her. I hope that he can learn to appreciate her and start helping her out instead of complaining and nagging at her.

@@suvisue6070i agree they dont have the best relationship 50/50 wise its the traditional oh “as long as the man is working all day hes doing his part so u cant complain about anything he does”

@@Jjangbunbunexactly. I feel so bad for her, I was shocked that he couldn’t show gratitude like she was doing the whole time. His complaining was childish and rude

@@sanha-127 So you say you'd rather have a toddler for a husband? A toddler who constantly complains about everything, doesn't help with anything, and throws a hissy fit when things don't go his way? ok. Good luck with that lol 😂 As someone who grew up living in the same house as an adult who acts like this husband, I say I would rather die than date or even get married to someone like this. It's so annoying and frustrating to deal with their incompetence. How is being an adult and taking care of yourself and your children "acting like your dad"? Being loving, caring, understanding, and helpful to your family is a good thing. Get help 🖤

She has that white privilege

Yeah it's not easy to find a good mother in law.

honestly feels like she loves her more than her son, but considering who she is it makes sense (they seem close).

Exactly! True love includes so much hard work.

It should be required viewing before getting married. So women know to stay the heII away from these maIes.

True, as a mother of three she’s doing a great job

@@chervilisbetterthancilantro why such a negative Nancy like they seem really in love and as long as they are faithful and treating each other right what's the problem?

@@FuhrerHeisen Except he's not treating her right. She's like his sIave, she even does his work for him on top of all the work she does at home! And then he just takes a nap, while she continues working, after she has worked all day and done his work for him! This should be mandatory to watch for women, to know what's waiting for you if you settIe for a maIe Iike this.

hopefully they are on her side 😂😂😂😂

Same with me here. When people are so nice consistently and I feel at home with them and my entire being settles will with them, I can't help but bubble praises and gratitude in all ways. Goodness feels so good.

They have one! 🤗 youtube.com/@emyfullofbeans

She has! Search "FULL OF BEANS Emily in Korea"

She has a RU-vid channel called FULL OF BEANS Emily in Korea

Nah, family RU-vid can go to hell, nothing but trouble in the long term.

​@@MusicSideAllDaythanks

They started a Chanel Emily in Korea

I also like how she didn't raise her voice towards her children. Many parents take the easy way out & just scold their child.

Thank you for saying that❤ so sweet!!!!

Emily has a LOT of patience and never even got praised for all the work she does while she made sure to compliment her man who does the bare minimum, multiple times. She is definitely unappreciated. I’m glad she seemed to have a wonderful mother in law, at least she is appreciated by her. The husband couldn’t even say anything nice specifically about Emily at the end. He gives me weird vibes

She acc started a RU-vid channel “Emily in Korea” :) its really cute youtube.com/@emyfullofbeans?si=vskub3CaZUTrqQSl

Yup ! It's lovely.🥰

You mean how she raises her children because that husband barely interacted with them

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv How they are living is very traditional and its whats works best for society. Mothers are nurturers and she is doing a fantastical job at it. To be honest she is a strong woman who is very into her femininity because she provides a nurturing and peaceful place to her family. The husband, although tired after work, is doing his best to work almost 12 hours a day of physical labor in order to get money for food, rent and their life, he is doing his job as a provider and being the father to the kids. Both of them are working as a team to raise a family, this is one best example of a nuclear family, sometimes life is rough, having a family is never a happy ever after, because both husband and wife have to face issues together. By working together, they played to their strengths but also supports each other's weaknesses. You might be poisoned or told by modern society that this might look wrong but civilization through out history has lived and worked with this type of nuclear family. If what you were taught was different, then good luck getting married or having a family.

Exactly. I feel like most people in relationships nowadays try to be a yes-man. It’s okay to disagree with your significant other so long as you love and respect one another.

I've watched a few of these and tbh he's the best man so far lol others nag so terribly while the wife was working 10 hour days etc here I think he's just financially worried. But I love their family dynamic you can really tell they love each other.

This is the only one I’ve seen - but to account for the fact of how well they work together even with those cultural differences is beautiful!

@@cat7181 I really love how supportive his family is towards her. It must make a world of difference for her especially being in a foreign country.

Agree, compared to most Korean married men he's helping out with housework and other things a lot more. He's working 12-hour shifts or longer, 6 days a week and tries to find time to do things together with his family and be there for his wife.

Hope she starts a youtube channel. Would love to watch some vlogs or even shorts.

Their Family YT channel: Full of beans Emily in Korea

Omg can we have a show please?!!!! So fun!!!!❤

Her heart is worth more than gold. ❤

Yes and it’d be great if he could do the same for her, instead of nagging and criticising her so much. He could drink from her wisdom, kindness and light.

And besides, if the wife has to go to the grocery everytime she needs something, then that would be time taken away from doing other chores, right?

Not only that, youre wasting more money on gas from driving everyday back and forth. Also, if your wife is afraid and lost when driving, why would you want her driving with the kids everyday wasting gas?

I have mad respect for mothers. I can't even imagine having a child let alone 3 of them!😂 I have 3 nephews and on nice. Needless to say but the two oldest are like a storm. I am content with the fact that to them I am the funny aunt with the cat and dogs.😂 I love my nephews and nice but I am glad they return with the parents at the end of the day.😂😂

@leliavoinea7253 ikr! I used to take care of this 2 kids before & they might be the cutest little things, but it was not e-a-s-y🥲 they also had some wild specie episodes... i remembered this scissor flying towards me, i was so glad i didn't expire🥹 And the curiosity just never ends, it makes me feel dumb when i can't answer their questions🥸... i just think i can never be like my mom... how did all the mothers survive? this is just an enigma to me

its easy once they are potty trained and you don't have to worry financially. I find having them do chores and responsibility at a young age helps keeps thigs in order

Thank you! Yes we are lucky in love for sure!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Do you have a link to that show?

But the work of pulling that through, I would be very worried of Emily's health

I think it's doable. She could do 5 min vlogs or shorts than longer videos.

she opened youtube channel recently

@@donlee4105 Channel name ?

Their Family YT channel is: Full of Beans Emily in Korea

this is still rare as it takes people that are open and understanding while accepting that fighting is fine as long as you move forward.

Yes!

yea he was so annoying i hope he saw himself and realized

yes that was very toxic. she cant go to the mart everyday with 3 kids and chores needing to be done constantly.

​@@nsi79 Everyone has their darkside and you can stay hating because you gets no love. 😂

This. My hope is that after watching this he realizes how he comes across when he starts nagging her like that; and doing it in front of the kids is a big, major “no”, as it could make them lose respect for her in the long run. She reminds me of myself in my 30s, people pleasing and accepting of behaviors from men (and people in general) that one should never accept. If the male host calls him out she can too. She can do it in a gentle manner, but it should ideally be tackled. It’s not ok to criticize her cooking when she’s putting in such and effort, and tell her stuff like “you should have cleaned the table”. Get you a freaking cloth and clean the darn table yourself, she’s already cooked you dinner after spending all day taking care of your cute but noisy ass kids, the nerve.

Agree!!! Looking forward to that too

She started her channel ' Full of beans Emily in korea'

Exactly 😂 let’s stress and you get some me time

They have their own YT channel now, it's called emyfullofbeans !

That’s a really good point! A lot of videos and shows I see of Korea always show people just walking to a convenience store when they want something, but where I live in the us that’s impossible-you have to drive

Oh my god.... 그러면 과일이나 채소는 어떻게 먹어요?? 일주일에 한번만 식료품점에 갑니까?? 나는 마트는 걸어서 5분, 편의점은 걸어서 2분 걸린다....

​@@QWER-wv5knyou buy a week's worth of fruit and vegetables

I'm from a small town, yet people tend to buy every two weeks and vegetables/fruits once a week. It will take more time to go every day or to often.

Hehe thank you ~~~ I'm shyyyyyy 😊

A life with children is hard but very fulfilling. As a mother I have my days where I wish I could lay in bed all day because it is hard raising a child but omg its so worth it. My son is so adorable and is eager to play, learn etc. Its kinda like a way of reliving your childhood. 😊

Your brain will do that to you. Being emotionaIIy abvsed by a maIe, your brain will trick you into thinking this is a peaceful life and you want it. If she ever got out, she'd have a shock she endured this dire, somber situation. Depressing 100%.

@@chervilisbetterthancilantroYou are so miserable

I feel sad for you, you bought into the modern lie. I hope you are just young and not someone who is jaded from terrible life experiences.@@chervilisbetterthancilantro

@@daklord I feel sad for her, she bought into the old Iie. Unmarried women are the happiest group. Why? Because they don't have to deal with maIes. Don't worry, I won't be jaded from terrible life experiences. Because I'm going to stay far away from maIes.

guy pulled a jerry maguire lmaoo

I don't really think he nags .... he works like 12 to 14 hour days in a physical job .

@ceasarjuarez1593 Yes, as does she. However, she isn't nagging him about his cooking, his organization skills, not putting back groceries he wanted to buy, etc. He was definitely nagging her, no matter the excuse.

@iMuzik3 yah that's true... being a mom isn't easy whatsoever. If he's not gonna help in that way , maybe better to keep his comments to himself. Agree 💯

​@@ceasarjuarez1593hz still has to be a parent

@jinxerho3 of course he does . But let's be honest , if he's gone most of the day . Who do you think has the majority of time with the kids and the household .