the main reason of marriage is not for havin S** and producing children like goddamn Factory The main reason is as follows (Scientific way) When we grow older...we need emotional support from inside...we need someone who loves us and care us...Also opposite gender can relate more emotionally than same gender..so we need companion Spiritual meaning In Hinduism ( scientific religion) has the same reason as mentioned above...And We need companion to elevate our consciousness towards GOD
@@hackdaccount532 the main reason of marriage is not for havin S** and producing children like goddamn Factory The main reason is as follows (Scientific way) When we grow older...we need emotional support from inside...we need someone who loves us and care us...Also opposite gender can relate more emotionally than same gender..so we need companion Spiritual meaning In Hinduism ( scientific religion) has the same reason as mentioned above...And We need companion to elevate our consciousness towards GOD
Talking about the French introducing love in marriages is like saying, before Newton there was no gravity!😂😂😂 Remember, the Kaamsutras, or if you want to continue the western lens heavily used in this video, still the Greeks had a god called Eros who was god of love.
Kaamsutras was written by one person on what is right way to control desire, have sex or lust and there was no internet to let whole India rural villages know. Also do u believe that God of love was there before introduction to religion😂
@@shrin210 he means that ancient Hindu scriptures ramayana and Mahabharata introduced the topic of love back thousands years ago so it suggests that love existed before frenchs....
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
Seems the video is Missing Something !! 1.) The concept of marriages in our vedic age(early and later) and how the Hinduism religion played the role in marriages 2.) The Conclusions both negative and positive related to present scenario of the society, and how it's going.
That's very old concept than you told as in ramayana After seeing this I feel very lucky to have parents and grandparents who told old stories and about ramayana and mahabharat.
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
Bro it is not for you This is for us who were evolved from monkey Since you were born from those human which directly created by Brahma in the nothingness of space.
Did you see what happened in India Thousands of year before Christianity in RU-vid videos, let me know links😂😂😂 Those Indian culture were only written by scholars like in today time research by scientists. It is generally not followed by people were Kshatriya, Vaishyas had multiple wives😂😂😂😂
dear saheli..... Europe se bahut phle Maa parvati or Shiv ne love marriage ki thi ...... Vivah is a sanskaram in Sanatan Dharma. It's a completing eachother flaws and appreciating each other strength. ❤
My only problem with this video is why we are seeing things from colonial lence why not from Indian presepective for example Kamasutra is a manual to please women written in 2500 years ago. Their is Shloka in Vedas " yatra nari pujyante ramante tatra devata" meaning if women is not respected in a home their god don't live. I highly recommend to read this book Prem Purana: Mythological Love Stories ... Purana are written 2500 years from know so one can say the concept of love is well known an acknowledged before French in india.
@@parthunknown011 see dude I don't know you personally so I'm not judging your intentions but by straightforward going to your lines I found out to be wrong. In one of the 18 puranas there is a saying that if all the women of the world get disappeared the humanity would not survive by their own but if all men get disappeared the humanity could survive as many women would be pregnant and the earth would still continue to inhabited. It's just one of the reasons why females are worshipped as maata. See this is not that western feminism it's just respect towards other gender.
@@ayubali9788 kyun fiction bhai ??? Aap bhi toh book ko hi maante ho na ??? Agar aapka history hai toh hamara kyun nahin??? Aur, agar hamara fiction toh Phir aapka fiction kyun nahin ???
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
Bro it is not for you This is for us who were evolved from monkey Since you were born from those human which directly created by Brahma in the nothingness of space.
First time your video disappointed me Seriously. May be marriage concept introduced late. But I many of things u just missed. In India marriage was all about consent. You forgot the swayamvar where women had full right to select her life partner. Love was introduced by French ok so what is Shiva - Parvati, Radha - Krishna, Vishnu - Lakshmi, Ram - Sita. You forgot shakuntala & abhigyanam love story. And love is not a concept it is feeling & emotions. Where a person can do everything for his/her love. If u r saying this ki ye video only western culture k bare main tha then u should change the thumbnail & title. Or u should bring another video with Indian history. Mahabharat & Ramayan was history not a myth. So sad that we Indians can't believe in our own history thanks to those invaders who destroyed Indian scriptures aur bachi khuchi kasar angrezon ne poori kar di. Back then there was no dowry, a girl married with her consent, marriage was all about mutual relationship where both of them respect each other.
@@monukeys1105 men didn't do swayamwar because it was a women who wanted to find a masculine guy who is fit enough to save her and has brain and strength both, that is why swayamavars were based on difficult tasks which involved both brain and strength. I hope you got your answer ps: dont give feminist bs because it is not relevant in this context
@@infinite6175 no need to protect women. They can learn defence and can save themselves. I am not at all a pseudo feminist but your comment do make sense
@@monukeys1105 "no need to protect women. They can learn defence and can save themselves" your comment does not make sense because lord rama had to save maa sita tfrom raavan and she couldn't fight for herself. And in modern sense women should learn self defence but you should have basic sense to know men are biologically much more stronger than women
@@infinite6175 men are stronger than women then wo das gundo ko ek baar maar denge ? Just asking. Men are stronger I agree but even they cant protect women many times. Women should protect themselves.Btw no time to comment further bro. I am already fed up with my life. What point in commenting ??
Should be but it can't be, Since that love demands money, personality, power etc Now women have more power. So they are going towards top 5% men only even if they have to share with other women. This is data by Tinder that 90% men right swipes top 50% women but 90% of women weight swipes less than top 10% men. So, love only happens to some abnormal 1% of people 😂 otherwise it's just contact since men themselves are running away from marriages 😂
@@shrin210 no way.. Bhaiya real love exist shri ram sita and shiv gauri are prime examples.... If not see real life example of shivaji mahraj his wives and rani padmavati so many thats real love real respect
Hopeless content , too much of priority given to Western culture , our history in not what's shown in the initial part of this video , we don't care about Western culture and their concept of marriage , thumbnail shows a Hindu woman but the content is purely based on Christian marriage
@@swatipriya562 Keep your WOKE idea of marriage to yourself , especially when you're obsessed with western culture , its completely idiotic & NOT PROGRESSIVE
I highly recommend to read this book Prem Purana: Mythological Love Stories ... Purana are written 2500 years from know so one can say the concept of love is well known an acknowledged before French in india.
Best example of love , devotion , sacrifice and marriage comes from Shree ram ji and Janaki mata. The selfless devotion for each other. Since she belonged to a royal family , only kings became available options( which explains why caste matters) and the best king lord ram , was chosen among the kingsmen ( showcase skills , pass the test , promise growth to your partner which happens even today as woman always prefers great potential guys). Love and marriage ka concept french nhi bharatiy hai 😂😂 Jai shree ram🙏🙏
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
@@Itsmefeelings actually caste system is nothing but varna system , as mentioned in bhagwad gita people choose their professions based on psycho physical nature , Some people choose to spread knowledge , do research ( scientists , scholars , teachers) ---- Some people prefer administrative roles( kings , politicians , police SDM and all government managerial posts) --- Some prefer bussiness ( shops owners , starup founders , and other self employed people) -- Some prefer salaried jobs( software engineers , doctors , working labours , consultants etc) . Actually nobody is higher or lower in this system all groups are essential for nation to function.
@@Itsmefeelings Now there is a common belief that our elders have decided that people who have similar psycho physical nature can work things out together they will have equal status ( financial , social). So it is a prescription by our sages and elders to marry in same caste . But some disturbing elements have changed this varna system and have made brahmins the topmost caste and shudra , dalits as lower caste which is very disappointing and not acceptable
Marriage is a very sacred bond. Two people get into a marriage to live and share their life together inspite of all their differences. Its a fellow traveller for life. There is nothing much to over analyze. Respect, loyalty and devotion are not just key words but living personalities which makes a relationship last ❤🐝❤
the main reason of marriage is not for havin S** and producing children like goddamn Factory The main reason is as follows (Scientific way) When we grow older...we need emotional support from inside...we need someone who loves us and care us...Also opposite gender can relate more emotionally than same gender..so we need companion Spiritual meaning In Hinduism ( scientific religion) has the same reason as mentioned above...And We need companion to elevate our consciousness towards GOD
well said .. as we cant question our existence there are somethings which cannot be answered. thats the way they have been practiced.. after all its not forced ri8.. jisko nahi karna mat karo.😂
love and understanding is most important for marriage but do you know what is more important ? LOOKS and BANK BALANCE.. this is how the modern world works
video was good enough though it should be more india centric and it seems western marriage customs but what about marraiges in Indian culture. its like incomplete video where we have seen prehistoric marraige behaviour system and suddenly it jumps to european culture on marriages , please either extend it to part2 or make a separate video on Indian marraige and family system (cover from ancient to post modern India and jointfamily to atomic family culture) please focus on India centric subjects
This video was very Europe-centric, they didn't mention India and China, the two greatest civilizations of that time. It looks like the script was inspired by some research paper by a right-leaning European citizen and not something that is done by an Indian trying to explore the actual topic..........
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
@Poonam Tripura 🚩 In islam No Widow is burnt alive No Women turn into prostitutes in the name of Dev dasi In islam No Dalit girl Raped In islam no Dalit and sudra girl has to pay breast tax And In Islam Women Don't killed for dowry In Islam Women Inherit father and husband Wealth In hinduism Women Dont have right to inherit husband or Father's wealth
Yr tum log kitna acha kaam krre ho....i love watching your videos i hope i can meet your team you are working amazing man......hope to see you in delhi.....☹️i just wanna met your team... Just love your work..... Lots of love from Delhi❤️
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
Yes it is a good video but just a issue why everyone in this modern age just research about the foreign and English history please just remember our Indian(Hindu) History
I would request you to read the book "Sanskar Vidhi" by Swami Dayanand Saraswati. There the 16 sanskaars of human life has been well-explained by references from vedas, upanishads, darshan,smritis and other arsh sanskrit texts. "Vivaah Sanskaar" is one among the 16 sanskaars of human life. Read that part from there, you will understand the philosophy,method, approach and concept of marriage in our culture and civilisation at its purest and original form. Our culture underwent a lot of distortions in the last several centuries(including marriage rituals) but it would be interesting and enlightening to know its original and pure form especially in the case of a sacred ritual like marriage.
Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ?
abhigyanshakuntalam, malvikaagnimitra... and many more indian kings who participated in swayamwar for marrying princess whom they loved, and many of them mutually felt love sent love letters via pigeons . they didn't go into indian history this video was only about western history and its influence on current world.
Marriage is a form of trade between two genders for progeny, security, comfort, pleasure , food ,shelter and lots of sex and fun. Both parties are actively involved and oaths are part of it ... If you talk about Hindu marriages it was a sacrament which secular Indian Laws turned it into contract like Islamic and Christian marriage with introduction of Hindu marriage Act. As far as your question is, Yes! It was to discipline women more because sexuality in women is considered valuable and difficult to judge so to make sure of paternity man had to control over their women otherwise paternity fraud will eliminate him genetically and pass his resources to another man's gene which is a failure of life purpose as a man ...Second thing is there are researches that Women are better survivalist and thus they have concealed ovulation which was evolutionary process hence idea of polygamy become prevalent and harems for rich powerful men existed ..Third and last point if you see it under light of matriarch or patriarchy u will find all matriarch culture went extinct or invaded as it's not a better survivalist as a group hence laws of patriarchy was imposed.. The power of sexual union rest with women as it her choice to pick a mate for sex but the marriage market will be controlled by men if he is resourceful then women had to come to him with proof of youth and virginity.
Thumbnail is wrong! Video doesn't connect exactly with the Thumbnail, thumbnail more sounds like a business deal! Changing thumb nail, and saying about the marriages will make way more sense!
When ancient Greeks and Romans were experiencing love and emotions to marry any girl We Indians were praying women and giving them equal rights , respect and treating them as Devi comparing a newly married woman with Devi Laxmi .. Even Sita Ram and Radha Krishna had a love story even before the extience of Greeks and Romans... So please include such histories as well ❤
I don't really understand why u keep explaining things taking refrence of west or church etc, it's well established that the war of mahabharat took place how come that not be a proof of marriages taking place even before what you mentioned.lastly i would really like to support you if u explore things based on our traditions our history .
Even now a day..there are certain cultural...where couple have sex before marriage, if they get pregnant only then they go for Marriage otherwise , they break the marriage and start finding other life partners..
Its good that u are talking about the history of marriage but where is the indian point of view of things , things about indian marriage history. You should not only focus onwestern culture the tredition of indian marriages must be spoken
I want to add how history is written too by invaders - First documentation of marriage according to me was of king Daksha and Prakriti, his wife. The famous one of love marriage was Lord Shiva and sati . But ancient times meant oral education , especially all eastern religions did educate orally for a long period of time . I hate how documentation is considered only when there is a written/carving inscription on wall or paper . Well the west never payed respect to "pagans" anyway , all they did was steal cultures and impose laws .
Don't know why people are making a ruckus abt it the video clearly mentioned that it's a question if marriage was invented to control women it's not abt who invented love marriage or so on it's just a assumption that french did and for u guys it's your lords none is proved and if you know more abt Indian culture than open your channel and post it 😜😜.
Wedding vows are not only an indian concept but practised even in remote civilisations and peoples. To limit marriage as a ritual is flawed... marriage is an emotion where 2 people commit to each other and all it took was a woman and man living together, having children etc as per many cultures.
मेरे विचार से आपको अपने खुदके देश भारत की प्राचीन शास्त्रों को पढना चाहिए ,दूसरी सभ्यता से पहले हमारे खुद की सभ्यता मे आपको शादी से जुड़े प्रश्नों का उत्तर मिल जाएगा ,और हमारे देश की सभ्यता विश्व की सबसे पुरानी और विकसित सभ्यता थी ,,🙏
From pre historic times may be as when you are in love you never want ur partner to get separated from you so they invented a concept of marriage so you and your partner can always live together happily
In modern days now when a person does copyright strike when someone else takes their creation or identity of work in someone else's name and that copyright strike is worth it as it's their hardwork..... But here r ladies giving their whole life, upbringing and identity for free and not for good but in exchange of someone's Ego and Not doing any copyright strike of keeping in their own name. 🤔 That is funny yet serious. 😅🤔
बहुत बढ़िया आयुषी जी हमे गर्व है की अपने बिना डरे इस सच को बोला ,जिस उम्र में लोग शादी के पीछे भागते है और इस जाल में फस जाते है , उस उमर में आप इसे इतनी स्पष्टता रखते हो अपने हमे शादी को लेकर सही राह दिखाई बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद Thank you so much ayushi ♥️
This video explains western world marriage s, but no any single explaination of bharatiy vivaha in this video, so mu friends go and find in rugveda,atharva veda if you need, or go to any jagadguru to know about this or find some books lot of indic books available in online
Hello I'm sristi shah Mai yaha ek baat kehna chaahungi.... Ha yeah sach hai abhi bhi marriages mai bohot improvement hona chahiye.... Jaise ki abhi bhi humare society ke kuch hisso me dehaj partha ko follow kiya jata... Magar kyun akhir kisi ladki ko ladke se arrange ya love marriage karna ho to dehaj ( dowry) dena padega.... But humare desh iske khilaaf ek strictly koi law nhi hai.... I think hai bhi to koi sunai nhi hoti hai.... So i hope iske khilaaf bhi ek strictly law hona chahiye aur ye band hona chahiye..... 😌🤞
The concept of marriage in the Holy Bible: (Genesis 2:24) " Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." This costume is followed since the first man and woman, and God blessed this costume and declared it *holy*
But what bout India? I hardly see love couple still we are treated as commodity. Next time please take an Indian approach cuz these concepts look alien to us
Dear Bharatiys/Indians, Inko mahadev & mata pravati ,Siya Ram ji marriage ka pata nahi kya. Western looters ka boot lickers believe their book not our truthful,scientific hindu/indian Scriptures. By the this channel have some good content ,but this time dissaponted, big brain ko west/pappu brain karna kyu ? bhai, by the way even in muslims like shiya,sunnis,ahmedias etc & christians intercaste is not allowed. Do u ask them about Their intercaste marriage ?
Bro could u make a video on Maharaj Vikram Aditya if he was real Half and partial info on internet And he is true he covered almost whole asia Please take a good look on this topic. #topicforvideo
BigBrainco. Kindly whatever you explain also add "role of India/Indian History" too so that we can gain knowledge of our ancient cultures too ! Warna unsubscribe kar dega apun samjha kya?
Dear BigBrainco, appreciation for your research but you took evidences about what was actually happening in west and presented it as what was happening in the world. We have a larger concept of marriage and it's just not a contractual concept or any satisfaction of mens. You can get many evidences how bharatiya vivaah different.
