Was Wife Killed By a Violent Shower or Her Cheating Husband? | Robert Feldman Case Analysis 

Having watched this important documentary, I will never again buy a showerhead that is not expressly labeled as non-lethal. Thank you, Dr. Grande. This is important life advice!

Don't underestimate the shower - It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead.....or clean.

Those murderous showers at it again. Gives new meaning to bloodbath

What makes me so mad about this story is that she wanted a divorce, why can’t these men just let them leave. He was cheating anyways. Ugh poor woman

My shower also has a "pulse" and "no pulse" setting.

sounds like a case of narcissistic rage . He can do what he wants when he wants but don't you dare confront him or else.

I think the infamous shower scene in the movie Psycho has caused us to unfairly malign innocent showers everywhere. Perhaps that's why the police thought Stacy Feldman's injuries were perfectly reasonable. Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande.

This is so ridiculous. How could those police ever believe that a shower caused 80 injuries? Like what did they think happened? That the water pressure caused the shower head to shoot around, beating her up and maybe strangling her a bit? 🙄🙄

Accident prone? Without her testimony we do not now that Bob had not caused these "accidents" by direct abuse, or emotional abuse turning her into a constant nervous wreck.

I’m actually about to buy a new shower head & I’m so happy I caught this! I’d not been checking for the ‘death free’ designation. Whew! That was a close one!😅

Damn, don't mess with Susan. She will track down your HS yearbook if she needs to.

Simply put: this story (& hundreds of other gruesome recounts) explains why I remain single.

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about could be happening during an unusual drizzle event that includes blunt force trauma and strangling like this.

It’s heartbreaking what happened to Stacy and their children, who ended up without a mother and in a way, a father. Unfortunately, I think many women end up settling for an inadequate partner. It’s a very expensive price to pay for fear of loneliness.🙁 Outstanding review, as usual. Thank you, Dr. Grande!❤

Well, people ought to check the shower head settings before turning the shower on and avoid using the "lethal" setting. As for the marriage, people research horses they bet on more than the spouses they choose. Thank you for another interesting and amusing analysis, Doctor Grande!

A violent shower?! This, I gotta see! Thanks for your analysis, Dr. Grande.

Sounds like a typical narcissist. They lie so easily & frequently its scary. He put the patches on her. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊💛❤

So tragic. I’m glad that you do these videos. They serve as a warning. Women have to be discerning and protect themselves. I love that you educate the public on narcissism. Keep up the fabulous work

Dang, Dr. BIG hit us with consecutive shower zingers...we don't deserve this, Dr. G. Great subject and analysis as usual!

🤣🤣🤣...I love Dr. Grande's face in the thumbnail of these types of videos he's like "here we go on this bullsh*t..I'm gonna roast this dirt bag" 😐

The thing about the truth is that the story never changes. I'm so glad this creep got caught. The sad thing is the children, one day they have parents soon after they have none. Great synopsis Dr. G. Rock on!!!!!💜

I had no idea the shower would try to kill people, maybe I should take baths from now on 😂.

Oh how I wish she would have left earlier, after all, he was useless! Thank you for sharing.

Cheating should never be tolerated. It’s a form of brutal violation in any context. We’re all guilty of cheating on tests, but this has taken to a whole new level.

A class analysis Dr Grande. Nearly cracked up when you included Kramer struggling with the Commando 450 shower head - a great comdedic scene from Seinfeld. Loved this one. You were really on top of the game. Thank you for a great breakdown and some genius comedy!

I've had some aggressive showers in my day ... but never a lethal one thankfully. Seems his stories are as fluid as their bathtub

My husband and I saw this story on TV but nobody has put the same twist on a story like you do Dr. Grande🐞💮🏵️🌹🥀🌺🌷

Great video, Dr. Grande! Had to laugh when you were talking about the Lethal shower heads.... "Sometimes they are just simply labeled Death Free, that's just as good." 😅

I just listened to the Dateline episode of this case. The saddest thing is their daughters. The oldest still believes it was suicide.

Nothing like choosing a psychopath as a life partner.

We need the Dr. Grande skin care regiment video because he's positively glowing today 😍

So they missed she was strangled? So he was hiring out his pool, but he got 700k in life insurance? The timeline of his movements, no evidence of a break in etc? This was a slam dunk for the prosecution.

Kramer and the shower head, I remember that scene! Too funny!🤣🤣🤣

I love that very soothing, calming tone and voice, because I feel immediately more able to focus and think clearly. Dr. Grande has an amazing brain, and has a talent for very consise synthesis. Listening to his speech is like reading every main sections of an essai. Keep flexing it (your brain), Dr. Grande!

Cheers to your dry cleaner. Your shirts always look perfect, and you have such an interesting range of colors and patterns that work for you. Off topic sure, but it's one of the first things we all notice, I'd guess. Have a lovely day, Dr. G.;)

Your spousal assessment at the end was spot on! More people NEED to understand the wisdom of this. Perhaps if they did, they would realize that THEY TOO aren't the "perfect spouse" for their mates EITHER;)

I have been subscribed for a while now and I’m enjoying the additional snarkiness you’ve recently included

In Defense of Shower Heads! .....And tunnel-vision I think the reason he almost got away with it is because the autopsy showed an enlarged heart (along with hardening of the arteries). This caused tunnel vision on part of the examiner. An enlarged heart is often the cause of sudden death (sometimes on the field) in 'healthy' athletes or those that abuse steroids. So when you find this along with hardening of the arteries is a 'regular' or unhealthy person it means their heart is working too hard and if there are no drugs in the person's system it's easy to go with 'unknown' or 'undetermined' causes of death (while assuming the enlarged/overworked heart went into arrhythmia causing death). She had a current history of falling that could explain some of the bruising. She had a lot of bruises... BUT there are 2 injuries that stood out and caused the doctor to determine that she had been strangled after reading the autopsy, but these are two very specific injuries and should have IMMEDIATELY raised a red flag (strangulation) when seen together! ...but may have gotten overlooked (or purposely ignored) during the autopsy because there were so many bruises, injuries. These 2 injuries (that show strangulation) should have been the very first thing the medical examiner looked for, when there is a death of a woman at home especially with bruising or evidence of a struggle, but the enlarged heart lead him/her down that pathway as the cause of death. Thank goodness for the doctor taking another look at the autopsy.

Those poor kids! I wonder what happened to them after the murder?

He looks like he aged incredibly since the murder, as well as having an appearance suggestive of possible alcohol abuse. I always find it interesting, the amount of dating some of these men and women do. He doesn't have the ambition to further his career, but has the motivation for his indiscretions. How did he live with himself, BEFORE the murder? I hope the children are in a safe and nurturing environment, and I'm so glad he didn't hurt them! TY for the upload, Dr. EDIT: What happened with the fentanyl? She would have been experiencing withdrawal, had to have been, unless SHE didn't use her patches...

I ALWAYS choose the death free shower head !!! But that's just me!

I'll definitely look for the "death free" shower head next time I'm in the market 😆 I don't mean to make light. Their poor kids now have neither parent. That's the worst part 😢

Back to your heavy hitter analyses Dr. Grande. Love it.

Isnt it amazing how these murderers of their wives never want an autopsy done? Red flag!!

A cerebral and refreshing angle on murder cases. Consistently compelling posts Dr Grande .

As someone who has consumed a lot of cannabis, I doubt even edibles would make someone pass out in the shower. The sleep induced by cannabis is very manageable. ie its more a I feel like sleeping vs say with alcohol where u just pass out.

Thank you again for your analysis of a murder of his wife and his unapologetic demeanor.

Goodness, if it wasn't for the woman who contacted his wife, he might have done this again? The world certainly has some scary people! Always appreciate your wonderful videos Dr Grande 👏👏👏🇭🇲

Dr. Grande, I love your humor, delivered in such a flat way makes you extremely funny! I really appreciate your case breakdowns and could listen to you talk all day. Ty!

I often wonder about the qualifications of the original medical examiner in cases like this.

His wife did die from a cancer, bob.

I almost drowned myself in my sisters shower in the guest room at her new house. I turned the head round and got the shock of my life 😅. It was like a fire hose! 😂🤣

Oh, these narcissists are so damaging to so many people.

Can you offer your opinion on the murder of Debbie Collier in Athens GA. The case seems to be at a stand still. Look forward to your post. Thank you

How flippantly you say "She was prone to accidents" is pretty disheartening as it's more likely she's prone to cover up the DV she was experiencing. Straight up, if he beat her that much and strangled her to death, it was NOT the first time he physically abused her. No, we don't know that for a fact but that's def an aspect of this case you should bring up esp if you think it's probable he did it. If nothing else, you should bring it up because October is DV Awareness Month and people need to reminded that DV doesn't just affect celebrity couples.

Dr. Grande, you should analyze the case of Dee Ann Warner out of Michigan. Very intriguing case. Her brother and kids are her champions. Her husband obviously killed her and they still haven't found her remains.

I would like to see a researched statistic on how many tub / shower body discoveries turn out to be the result of murder. I suppose it would be very high.

Wow, really great initial investigation by the police, along with whoever the inept Medical Examiner was, bravo..🤨

Had a guy in our town who thought that he could not only get away with murder ( murders ? ) but that he was an entertainer. He was wrong about both. His name is Drew P……. Thanks Dr.Grande !!!

Dr. Grande can you please analyze the crazy case of Jan Broberg and her family

So I do actually know someone who fell and died in the shower. But I don't think it can really be that common for those who are not limited by age-related disability. I only know of one person, a friend of mine from highschool, who fell in the shower and immediately snapped his neck and died . It was really awful but it's called a "freak accident" for a reason. And it was obvious what had happened, he didn't have 80-something bruises and abrasions and a chipped tooth. How awful.

Hold up now Dr Grande! I gotta go check my shower head to make sure it is violent proof! 😂😂. Okay, I’m back, I’m safe. Thank you Dr Grande! 😂

"What kind of shower experiences have these people had?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Love the studle humor, a violent shower head, and the one in psycho it took 21 clips to get that scene.

I just watched this Dateline and was really hoping you would cover this!

Also weird he wouldn't remember if she was face up or down. I could maybe see forgetting but IDK feels like that would be the first thing you see.

Can you do a video on if it’s safer to stay single or be married as a woman? Seems like your more likely to be killed as a married woman.

Accidental deaths probably are more common in the shower than in most other rooms in a house. A slippery floor combined with many hard surfaces and metal protrusions make a fall both more likely and more dangerous.

Once again your humor is outstanding. Always interesting. Thank you, Peace 💕🇺🇲

👏👏 Tysvm Dr. Grande! 👏👏

Attack of the shower stall! Run! Fourth time listening to this one. Thanks for providing us with so many interesting stories and analyses, Grande. I find them all calming and informative. What a horrible character this man is. No accountability.

The shower story of spontaneous death is actually plausible if they are wearing fentanyl patches. You are NOT supposed to wear them in the shower, it messes up the time release mechanism and quite a few people have been killed this way. However in this case it seems the patches were placed onto her after she died since there was no fentanyl in her blood

Naptime whilst listening to the good Doctor. Thank you. 🙏🏾

She died on the day she confronted him. There is no coincidence. Taking a shower with a metal watch on the wrist is a clue. He is a typical narcissist with superficial charm and plenty of bad character.

So how is it possible that the medical concluded that her cause of death was undetermined? If she was drowned/ strangled, surely there must have been plenty of evidence of that?

Never settle for a terrible person just so you can have kids. Science is so cool, you can have kids alone these days!!

Excellent analysis‼️

13:37 this whole section about the lethality of showers 😂😂😂😂 Dr Grande is so neutral and deadpan, but the tasteful often subtle jokes he slips in to these videos are so good 😂

Entertaining as always Dr G - so sad for the family-

Love you, Dr. Grande! As always, excellent analysis! ❤️

Hey Dr. Grande I appreciate your continued quality videos. Take care

Thanks for the video DR.GRANDE, great job as always.

Death-free showering ... once again Dr. G knocks it out of the park with humor-laced brilliance ⚘️😁

I wonder how many murders have gone unsolved because a police officer and medical examiner think almost 100 wounds were the result of falling in the shower? It's incredible that they would think that. Smh

Hi, Dr. Grande. Love your content. Can you please analyze the case of Brodie Panlock?

Excellent as always

My deepest condolences to the family & loved ones 😧😔💔. Great analysis 🧐.

Great commentary/analysis

Thanks dr grande. Love that your channel is doing so well! Love the talent behind the videos. I also wanna add, humor on point.

I hope alot of people take warning. If you go on a date and sense any red flags.....RUN

A Freudian Slip 🐺 Wolf 🐺

Great analysis Dr

Good morning Dr.Grande Happy Sunday ty Soooomuch

Maybe it was a case of hard water

Just gonna take a shower but now….

I'm curious as to how Bob found any partner to have an affair with. To date this guy in general is scraping pretty close to the bottom of the barrel.

Thank you Dr. Grande! 😊

I think we believe showers are more dangerous then other areas of the house because nearly everyone who's used one has slipped in one at some point...

Dr. Grande, I have always been suspicious of soap. Why? Because soap in the shower or bathtub can make you slip. Slip and so sneaky as a means to attack you when you least suspect it. This goes deeper than a shower head. I say it is about getting clean and attack soap. Lol thank you 🤔❤🇺🇸

This is an unrelated and odd observation but I don't think I've ever seen a bride wear a watch at her wedding.