You will know when it's the one Jess, there is no doubt. My late wife, I knew she was the one the moment I laid eyes on her. And luckily enough for me she felt the same way. Love is pain, but nothing is more beautiful when it's true. I hope you find yours xx
@@avatarofpapermagic About a year ago I wouldn’t even think about the whole ‘being in love’ thing; I just thought it would just end, so no need to feel love at all. So it’s amazing when I find people that have been through it coming and going and still be confident that it was all worth it. Thank you.
“I didn’t mean to fall out of love with you, I’m sorry.” Man, that hits hard. It’s funny how you’re the one who’s falling out of love with someone, and that someone should be the one who felt all the sadness, but you’re also sad too cuz you didn’t wanna fall out of love at all, and you just missed how it all felt when it first began:) Now I’m in another relationship and everything is going amazing, but listening to this makes me feel scared that I might fall out of love again.
Wow, just wow! I was 17. We met at my brother's and her sister's wedding, and danced on the ballroom floor. A couple of years later and the distance took its toll on our relationship. She was gone. And this... this hits hard, hits deep. But so so good. God has blessed you with an amazing talent, and thank you for blessing us with it in return
Awe, I can see you’ve been crying so so much. I’m sorry. I can see all the pain and emotions in your eyes. You’re a incredibly empathetic singer. I can feel every word through the sounds you produce. Thank you!
that's the good in you which sees things like that. Love does not happen in one day. Love is a journey where we fall in and out a number of times but if we truly love someone we never ever give up on our love.
I think think this perfectly conveys the conflicting feelings that come with fallin out of love, because you know it is not your fault, but you still care deeply for this person you spent so many wonderful times with and you don't want to hurt them...and yet, you can't help but feel stuck in a relationship that doesn't work for you anymore, but they still love you so much and every little I love you feels like this huge lie and oh god I can't I don't know what to do
Oh god, thank you so much. I ended a 5 year relationship where we were talking about buying a house, getting married, having children... I just didn't feel it anymore. I didn't think it would hurt this goddamn much.
I think that everyone who listened to this started crying almost immediately after you started singing. We've all been there before and might even be experiencing this same situation right now. Your voice is so beautiful and empathetic, Jessica. You made us truly feel every emotion in this song. We all love you and that will never change.
this is relatable right now, but i don't want to give up and let her go, when we first met she was the best thing in my world and she always will be, but i still hold out on hope that one day we'll feel like we used to. I miss us and all our memories together :(
I've been listening to this song over the past 6 months and it never ceases to move me. I'm a huge fan of all your original work, and this is no exception. I can imagine this song must've been painful to compose, but it truly is one of your best. Keep on winning Jess. Looking forward to hearing it on an album some day.
My ex and I mutually agreed to end our relationship after 5 years because the distance was too difficult. We met at a language school in Madrid and she lived in Europe. While I was still in college I could travel out a few times a year but she could never come here because the stupid US government wouldn't give her a visa. Then i graduated and started working and it wasn't so easy to just pickup and move to Europe. We had so many adventures traveling, good and bad times together. It's been 2 years now and I still think about her often, it's scary thinking i'll never have another relationship that I care about somebody that much with that much passion and experiences together. Fuck it though have to keep moving. Every time I think about hitting her up to see how she is I can't bring myself to. I wish I could relive those first few years together. Brilliant song.
What we call "love" in the romantic sense ebbs and flows because it's influenced by chemical reactions to a very large degree, so don't be surprised if it feels like you're "falling out of love" once in a while. It happens. A long-term Commitment on the other hand does not waver as easily. So chill out, stay on, talk things over, it'll be fine again eventually. Sending good vibes.
Such a simple, yet powerful statement that has such deep meaning. For those who truly invested all they had in another person, they feel this song differently and can emotionally relate and reminisce. I, too, am one of those people. It has been nearly 14 years and I'd be lying if this song didn't take me back. You have such a way with words to draw people in. Phenomenol work here Jess. I hope you get the recognition you deserve. Also, keep you head up as time goes by it gets easier. All the best! :)
If I could go back in time, I’d make myself know that with some relationships, the end is the best thing that will ever happen. With others, the end of it, is not the end of the world or as important as you thought it was. You are such a gorgeous woman with a beautiful voice, you could have anyone. Take the time to find a great guy.
broke up w my first boyfriend yesterday, and while i'm glad i did i hate that it was something i needed to do i fell out of love and i need space to learn to love myself before i try to love anyone else, but it still hurts when i remember the girl i was five months ago who loved the world with her whole heart
It's weird I had this exact thing happen to me. The last 5 months we we're together we met twice and just drifted apart. I kept trying to reconnect. In the end I decided to end it because I knew we both have grown just not together. Really great song. This is my first time hearing you and you're doing awesome!
I love your music so much! You are literally a huge inspiration for me, and I hope you can get more of your music on spotify so I can listen to it more freely!
We can see your teary eyes Jess. It's alright... It will be alright... People come as easy as they go, fuck it. When ya'll realize you want them in your lives, they're gonna stay there.
Okay guys, I think I got it, sounds right to me 😂 *instrumental* Am C F C G x 2 (Rest if song is the same chords) Baby, it’s okay to hate and Id understand it if you do… It’s no one’s fault for changing cause’ even the season do it too… I can’t feel the fire we started Do you have a clue? I wish we loved the way the we loved when I first met you… We’re not 16 anymore, no spinning on the ballroom floor 17 came quick but it was 18 that ended it It’s time, it’s time, it’s time To move on Let’s just forget Just hold on to what it felt like when We first met *instrumental break* Am C F C G Now I’m crying in the bathroom because I don’t feel them same as you Thinking do you leaving doesn’t hurt me the way it used to Maybe I would start all over If I only knew Take me back to the day when I First met you We’re not 16 anymore, no spinning on the ballroom floor then 17 came quick but it was 18 that ended it It’s time, it’s time, it’s time to move on Let’s just forget Just hold on to what it felt like when we first met *instrumental break* Am, C, F, C, G x 2
one word pure stunning.......... no need to say more but the wee tune as well really touches a nerve , spot on keep them coming misses u reach your goals for sure no doubt there
"watch this if you're falling out of love with them".... lady your song makes me fall in love with 8 year old memories I thought I'd long since fallen out of love with while simultaneously sticks a knife in them and twists it hard. Not every song can touch emotions like that. well done.
Met at 19. I'll be 30 in May.... I think I still love him. But he makes it so damn hard to.... I've never been a quitter. Maybe I'll be one this time. 11 years. He watched me grow up. How could he put so much effort into destroying me so badly.
I started dating my ex when i was 16. But then 17 came and tvings started to change. When i was 18,i couldn't stand how different we were and how much he was hurting me. I know the pain. Im so sorry you are foing through this pain. Change is no ones fault
Wow I genuinely love this song... I can not find a relationship that will ever last. It is always me for overthinking and distancing myself. Almost every relationship I got selfish and messed it up. I always wonder if its me being the terrible person or if this is normal? I don't want to hurt anyone anymore. But I always find myself hurting others. I am sorry
Wow, what a beautiful song,, u made me realize something, and now I'm here with tears in my eyes,😭😭 I Love You! Man I'm so lonely.. Whelp have to believe that, that special someone is out there somewhere to, maybe feeling better or worse than I do! No matter what I hope no one feels the way i do, cuz it's not good at all!! Much love from Sweden.🇸🇪 And never stop being You! YOUR ONE OF A KIND. 😭❤️❤️
I love this! My friends parents and mine keep me away from him because we like eachother and I haven't seen him in over 5 months....😢😢😢 I still like him and hope to see him again❤
I once heard love is a choice. Even if you're angry at your partner, you still love them. Married couples who have lasting marriages have been through tough times, arguments, and much worse; yet despite that, they chose to continue to love each other and their aged connection is proof of that.
I found a girl, and I thought she is the one when I saw her the first time. Had a crush on her for 10 years. Finally confessed my feelings for her , well actually she got it out of me because she could sense something. We dated for 3.5 months , but she started loosing her feelings after 2 months. I kept loving her unconditionally, I thought I was waiting for my wife. But she left me and now I am a mess. It's been 3 months already, but I can't seem to make any progress. Why do people fall out of love, man. There were no red flags, no misunderstandings, no fights, nothing. Still I was left with my broken heart. I never imagined my life with someone else. I truly believed she was the one for me. Now everyday I believe a little less. Don't break Someone's heart people. Get into a relationship when you are ready!
God, this is the first song with the exact age and situation😭 We knew each other since a long time but got committed at 16 and spent our 17th birthday together and the next year (our 18th year) we broke up.
I was In love with him for almost 5 years on the 4th year I was getting tired because he moved to another state and he never once liked me back. On that 4th year I tried so hard to forget him and it never worked but now it’s happening without me even trying and I am so happy. Ig he really was just my lesson but sometimes it does hurt, I wonder if he liked me back too then maybe I wouldn’t be here listening to this music .