Watch This Random Video If You're feeling LONELY 

This is very true man…very true

Bro same

I feel you man 100%

Being alone and being lonely are quite different. An introvert would prefer to spend their time alone but may not feel lonely. Loneliness is tough and understanding the difference and being aware of your emotions makes a huge difference in how you can get through it :)

Very relatable, especially when there are multiple layers that complicate things (and worse when even you are unaware of at least some of ‘em). 👥

same bro 😢

sadly, I relate.

I even don't have toxic friends, nobody wants to stick with me🥲

Try just a Zero

Same

Hey there is always Reddit, I haven’t been on there but Ik a lot of people that love to browse Reddit and there is probably an r/ Lonely or something

or just make online friend, but honestly idk how to do it irl and in the online world

Lmk when u make that

the world needs to figure out how to create a space where they throw in a bunch of people “who are not alike in this problem” or just create a space for those people whether that be online or irl. But that doesn’t happen does it?

@@hemer867even online communities are toxic in my experience and some of them just don’t want to reciprocate if you don’t fit their mantra

Same. I graduated high school in 2021 and I've literally only seen my friend (the one that stayed) twice. The rest I literally last saw in 2021,on the day we finished writing. It felt like sh*t but I moved on.

Stay strong bro. Hope you meet someone or some people to fill that void.

Im about to go to high school and already im loosing all my friends. I only got a few friends left and we dont talk often. Every girl i have a crush on tells me im ugly or hideous. Eventually ill have no one to be with except my my mom dad sister and grandma. Sure im happy now and then but sometimes the loneliness kicks in. I was always jealous of people with girlfriends and great friends and enjoying their best life with their special someone but im just by myself. It makes sad being surrounded with people that have great friends their for him and have a girlfriend or boyfriend to be with while i will never have one and is loosing all my friends

same

​@@night2exclusiveYou're not alone, I've been there is. Well, I'm also not that much good looking guy. But instead of worrying about all those other people focus on yourself. Take the time to question yourself. Have an internal dialogue and learn to love the person you are. After all, no one knows you better than yourself. So do what makes you happy? Society may make you think that you need a significant other to feel alive. But that will make you feel no better. Now makes you feel complacent and like you're stuck. Depending on that person and putting all of those burgers on them. Without confronting your own issues. And then what are you supposed to do when they leave? I'm not saying that you have to never find a relationship. But take your time, you don't have to be in a rush for anything. Take the time to admire and reinforce and confront. It becomes a better person. Who you were tomorrow is not what you were gonna be today. It may take a while, but it's okay, take a year or 2. Take as many as you need, you will need to know what you will feel like right now. It's OK to be alone, it's OK to be yourself. As long as you hold that close to your chest. And vowed to do what's right for you. Then it's all okay. And what's even better is you have lots of people out here that also understands your pain so notice Even though you didn't ask to be here even if you didn't have a choice in matter. Even if you didn't ask to look the way you do. It's okay it's o k because you are here And you've been given a chance of a lifetime you're on a lifetime. They do your own thing to do. What makes you happy and to become the person you know you want to be. Don't be like anyone else, don't be like the adults in your life. Be your own role model, be your own type of adult.

Maybe because you don't recognize how loved and important you are. How can you say you are not when There is a person that sacrificed himself in a cross so you could have a true and happy eternal life and be your friend forever. But you don't believe cause you can't see, but you didn't look where he lives, inside you waiting you to call.

​​@@DougMarv You know it's not like i don't have friends...it just that none of are them is my real friend...i never found them when i need them..i never felt loved,seen,heard,warm around them everr...even around my family sometimes My other siblings have so much friends and they are so social specially my big sis..she always hangout with her friends and have fun but look at me....i am just a unsocial introvert dumb ugly girl who doesn't have any friends and stays in her room and cry.. I don't know but it makes sad that can't enjoy my life like others...what did i do wrong...why am i not like others..why everything in life so boring...why can't i just have fun..

I don't like when people say that either. I don't have people to call when I'm lonely or feeling low. All the people I know including my parents and family will abandon me at first sign of anything negative going on in my life. When I was engaged and planning my wedding my mom was all about having a relationship with me now that we are tragically broken up and I'm a mess she is so mean and verbally abusive to me. Same with my sister I'm sick of it and have cut people off that treat me badly but now I have no one. The thing is is that they were like that before to. I was alone away from my abusive family and then I met my ex who was at the beginning at least wonderful. I miss Him so much. Anyways I know what u mean

@@dior5204​​⁠do you have places where you can meet new people? Like some themed gatherings like boarding games meeting or anything else. I feel your loneliness, I’m sorry u experience it, and I’m upset that there is no solutions for this problem which are common for everyone

Learn to enjoy your own company you will never feel lonely ❤

true bro same goes for me 🙂

Love you bro. And shame on that school for suspending you. I hereby declare you the most valuable person in that school. 💛

​@@cottoncookie4139I hereby declare your declaring of the aforementioned reply very agreeable very agreeable.

Me too

It's opposite for me people have isolated me for so long that I forgot people exist 😂 I enjoy my own company some people may talk to me out of sympathy but I don't want people to sympathize with me if they don't like they don't have to talk to me it might burden them I don't want people to feel burdened coz of me 😂

no bro being alone is not okay

I know this is months late, but I'm in the same boat as you. As for me, after I broke up with my ex gf I cant open up to others anymore in fear of being left again (which made the loneliness worse). I hope you are doing okay now

@@femboylovr yeah…just trying to get through all the pain man…best way I thought of it was (this is probably obvious but) completely forget what happens in the time we dated. Once I accepted that I felt more free. Still weighed down by the things that I know but hey. It might work for you

i feel so jealous of people that had a girlfriend or boyfriend or lots of good friends in general. I always tell my online friends that I have one but thats a lie to make me feel better about myself. Im a nobody who always gets told hes ugly by pretty girls and who am i to tell then their wrong, i am hideous. And im also loosing all my friends, in fact, this summer i havent talked to anyone not a single person except my parents and siblings since my cousins think in a nuisance and said they would all sacrifice me which made me feel like im not loved. So pretty much im close to no friends some of my family members hate me or want me dead and im ugly and will never get a girlfriend.

Yep same Its easy to say ' find friends' Doesnt happen that easily.whether you join meet up clubs or social work or any hobby class

@@sadia2395 yes. It's like saying to a jobless man "get a job", a homeless person "just buy a house", or a chronically Ill person "just get good health again". Pretty easy to talk

​@@JJShalashaska exactly! Same goes for depression.In my case its due to circumstances.Issues build over time and then there is a last straw that breaks the camel's back.Depression is treatable, yes.But after u have been through counsellin and medication and life is still the same, you really cant escape it. Thats the reality of it.People who have not been through it throw ' positive' comments like work hard,keep trying, dont give up but reality is people stop tryin when despite efforts the result is 0.

Yo maybe we can be friends I play cod zombies aswell

I already had depression and got betrayed by my best friend last year

Im sorry for what happened to you…

We need to find a way to bring those people together in a space whether it be online and irl

ohh you too 😄😅 i’m… sorry for you i know what it feels like 😭

@@firegaltw.steller4717 Ah, yeah, but the second I am alone and by myself, the loneliness goes away. It really sucks, it makes me feel alien to everyone else, and how they can ignore me and act as if I don't exist. Human beings, am I right.

@@nickolaszissimos1189 again : same 😅

@@firegaltw.steller4717 It sucks being INFJ, but at least we don't suffer completely alone, other INFJs and even INTJs know how we feel and go through the same, if not very similar stuff.

@@nickolaszissimos1189 yeah 😅

I hear that. My problem is I can’t even fucking identify the problem maybe i have an awkward demeanour idk but i do not meet all the criteria to fit into this common stereotypical loner. Antisocial and introverted.. NO THAT IS NOT ME I am literally trying everything I can to get out this horrible problem. I am the most social loner you have seen

I’m glad it helped but in my mind the question should be how to fix it or solve it or to HELP us solve the problem. Not just cope with it

You should cope but remember coping solves nothing it just prevents disaster

😏

bruh

Fr I hate when they keep saying ohh other people are going through this ohhh you’re not alone ohhh it WILL change.. it’s been years and years and years.. 😭

Yeah this video doesn’t help at all 😭

Exactly, rather than being with some fake people or with those people who makes us feel bad about ourselves it is better to become our own bestfriend....