We’re Raising Our Child As Gender Fluid | MY TRANS LIFE 

Sciapodous they sure don’t but it’s an important part too

To specify, whether you buy your clothes from the girls or boys section doesn’t define your gender. A plain colored t shirt from the boy’s section doesn’t make a girl something else...

I agree, I mean I shop at the boy section sometimes because they have cute stuff lol

These people are obsessed with stereotypes and silly things like clothes, toys and pronouns.

Sciapodous yeah but it’s also important because say you wear girl clothes but you say I’m not a girl

O thank god

The Meta... did you pass the third grade with those spelling skills?

Jaded Muse I was doing to say the same thing 😂 they can’t even insult someone correctly.

Thank god

I’d still get my child the clothes and toys they want but this is too far

She did though, she said "girl-self boy style" She seems to identify as female, she just likes clothes that are both masculine and feminine. Just seems like a kid to me

Plot twist The parents wanted a boy

Well maybe it’s because that’s what this document is about?

@@zoexxjane lol exactly.

@@stahhpppitttt I think they wanted boy/girl twins.

I agree with you 100% this is how I want to raise my kids.

exactly. i’m transgender myself and i feel that many trans kids had ideas pushed on them. not assigning your kid to a gender until they’re old enough to choose it can make the concept of gender super confusing for them

@@julia_biss Jesus loves you ❤️

@@julia_biss First of you can not ''choose'' a gender, it has already been chosen for you when the children are inside the belly, as fetuses you become either male or female and that is permanent. There is no options to change it. All you can ever do is alter your appearance. Nothing more.

3.14159 1 exactly.

Fluid means choice love

@@heyayup lmao exactly.

Exactly what I thought.

Not as much pressure to be a boy or a girl....she gets to be what she wants.

Ella L EXACTLY

That's exactly what they're doing.

Raise them with knowing these but don’t raise them as this (I don’t believe in the Gender Thingy Religion)

Exactly

@@WilliamLucian Women are not more caring, they're made to be more caring but there is a social and historical reason behind that. Men have more muscle mass but that doesn't mean they will develop their muscle mass, women can be as strong and I don't see what that has to do with gender roles so if you could clarify that'd be great, always happy to exchange

I agree 100%.

Exactly. I'm pregnant with my first child, a boy. Do I agree with all of the gender roles associated with men/ boys? No. Will I deny that he is biologically a male? Also no. Two concepts can simultaneously exist.

You're not genderfluid bro. You are either a man or a woman.

@@RYCH3 I don't think you can force labels on someone else. Thats actually pretty rude.

Facts

How do you know that?

I agree ...it's child abuse in my opinion

@@jessrouse8475 oh chill out, there is clearly lots of love in that house. I don’t think they’re forcing her any more than most households force femininity on girls and masculinity on boys. They seem like sane people to me

@@heyborttheeditor1608 Exactly!

@@jessrouse8475 it is objectively child abuse. It's just as abusive as the parents that push femininity on their daughters or masculinity on their sons. These "parents" refuse to just let this little girl be herself.

Same

IMTWalrus01 I feel they are imposing their lifestyle in that poor kid

we've all seen women wear mens clothes indoors because theyre comfortable... theyd probably wear them outdoors too if they werent berated by the "why cant we just keep things the same" brigade!

true😂

@Macaron Glitter BAHAHAHHAHAH CISPHOBIC AND HETEROPHOBIC ARENT A THING SIS

That wasn't the parents though. That's what seemed so off about it. The parents never said that, they just used it as clickbait.

"WE WONT BE LABELED!" "YOU USED WRONG LABEL, I'M OFFENDED!"

I know. It's stupid. You are born gender fluid. You don't get to decide when you have episodes of wanting to be the other gender

Even as a gender fluid, I think this is wrong, just raise them to be open minded, forcing them into a role is literally the worst thing you can do

It’s amazing hypocrisy

This and the encouragement of relationships with all genders. Why would you even be encouraging relationships at all to a child right now? She's 9

@@Nick07900 Exactly

For real.. why should someone be less of a men or a woman just because they (as example) like cards and skirts and the same time? This is just pushing the genderroles to another level. I like wering dresses and i also like wearing star wars merchandise and sport, does this now make me less of a female? Should i call mself a boy because i like playing football today and tomorrow a woman because i do make up? This is not it and its not chaning zhe problems😥

Honestly not to be rude, but I disagree with y’all. Because I personally think that you can be anyone you want to be. You shouldn’t have to grow up with everyone enforcing stereotypes depending on gender. I believe that a child should be able to know what they identify as and be accepted instead of judged. I hate when I here people be like “your a girl so you have to like girl clothes,like pink and purple,you Can’t trust men,you can’t be shirtless,wear makeup,do your hair, and like nail polish,drums are for boys,skaters are not supposed to be girls” and then also “Your a boy, you have to like boy clothes,don’t hit girls,you can’t wear pink and purple, you can’t have long hair,you can play drums,you can be a skater,you can’t wear dresses or girl clothes” Then teachers be like “girls on this side and boys on the other” and then they are making kids be put in a group of kids even if they don’t feel like there that gender cause of what’s in there pants.

@Dinosaur Drummer Not thinking that personality = gender is not saying « you can’t be whatever (or rather WHOEVER) you are ». At the end of the day, everyone is capable of thinking for themselves as individuals. Just be you, but PLEASE don’t try to change science to fit your fictional views of yourself (as if religious people haven’t done that already, and I know the non-binary, LGBTQXYZ crowd’s general opinion on religions, you’re with me).

@@DinosaurDrummer but they didn’t say anything about stereotypes Did you even read what they had to say, no you didn’t They said that this is stupid. Like if you like “masculine” stuff then you can’t be a girl anymore, you need to change into a boy Then everyday you will change from a girl, to a boy, to a trans, to an infinite amount of genders that can all be boils down to what you like and do So, next time, read what they said before you disagree

Her mother literally said, "We're really raising her just to be open to be however she wants to be, without any need for a label or identity and that she will in time discover who she is", but go off.

Angrydonutface Nah! Angrydonutface you’ve misinterpreted my question. In general, why can’t these children be raised as that, simply children. I’m not directly or specifically talking about this little girl in the video. This kid is being exposed to too much far too soon. Too many labels. She’s basically being raised ‘gender fluid’

Lilly R 118 people must also be brain damaged then.... Shut up, fool

Girl clothes are dresses skirts crop tops you get it

@@oliviawellsedits No they are not. They are just clothes, just material....

I am a mother of two daughters. I think she is sas

How come?

you know nothing. nothing in this video shows she’s depressed

@@fannypinka1973 but how do you really know? Maybe one of us people suffer with depression and have others in our lives who do including children and maybe we know what it's like .

That was the first thing I noticed.

Damn lucky :D

Don't forget another lucky part..you agreed with your body what gender you are

Sameeee

I feel like they’re manipulating the likes/dislike ratio. It doesn’t make sense how this video has more likes than dislikes, yet 99 percent of the comments are negative. Idk maybe I’m wrong.

i dont think this video is all too bad tbh, maybe im just not seeing where everyone is coming from

@E R You for one would never be a reputable enough employer to be in the position to even offer employment with that attitude. Its against the law to discriminate based on gender and sexual identity for hiring. But if it makes you feel big and empowered to say you wouldn't hire them, keep telling yourself that sweetheart. Cuz I can tell you the millions of LGBTQ+ folks in the workforce in the world are doing just fine with employers who can see the value of an employee based on their abilities rather than identity.

Tess The Dreamer. ...but isn't the child choosing tho?

aneya pitts not really maybe she doesn’t want to be gender fluid

Did you even watch the video/pay attention during it? They literally said they would give their child the choice to decide who she wants to be personally and who she wants to be with when she gets older. 💁🏻‍♂️

@@noahbundonis is it though? Since when did kids know what they really want, what is right and wrong from the beginning? They lack wisdom that adults have. Lets put it this way, I say you can eat anything you want but dont know about food much so you would look only what near or what you only know. At this point their parenting is terrible. Parents should guide their kids not tossing them out in the wild.

By that logic, if a 3-year-old should decide it's okay for him/her/whatever to drive a 3-ton vehicle down the middle of Main Street, we should let them do it.

Nobody said they were talking abt that 24/7

FACTS ON FACTS ON FACTS

I was thinking the exact same thing! I was very determined on what i wanted to wear as a little child, enoying the sh*t out of my mother every morning, mainly wanting to wear the prettiest dresses every day till i was 9 maybe, then switched to all old "male" cloth from my older brothers for a year or two and then developed my "unique clothing style" till i was 14/15: I wore these hiphop printed "male" shirts with these tight 90s flared jeans with glitter on them in combination 😅. Never thought about it too long, never had to talk about it. This seems like ideology.

PREACH GUYS

The kid is speaking that way for US the viewers, So we understand what’s being talked about. And please, I’m sure they don’t talk about unless the kid asks a question, or brings it up.

Their not forcing everything on her. They are letting her experience her self.

@KStar most people don't care if their child plays with Barbies or cars. They don't cancel the entire gender just because their son chose to play with a Barbie! No one cares as much as they do about gender roles!!!

Very monotone too

There raising her gender fluid not gender neutral. Not trying to eliminate gender. Their just saying she can be who ever she wants to be. Instead of putting her into a box, they feel, can come with a lot of baggage. They found it uncomfortable, so are taking measures to make sure she is not.

Yup

The entire point of this interview was about gender. I wouldn't expect them to discuss what they're eating...

Yeah-

Yep

Ikr

That's what I thought and they are still saying her.

Because gender is natural.

exactly

Exactly!! Its like thats all she thinks about. All this grown up stuff. She needs to be a little GIRL playing and running and not have to worry about her parents forcing being trans or gender fluid on her! This is a recipe for disaster and bullying.

She is emulating her parents yall. That don't mean that she is having gender dysphoria. Most kids do this with their parents, most of them don't get chance to emulate their parent of the opposite gender because most parents prevent kids from wearing their clothes or from acting like them. There is Ignorance inside of yall coming to these assumptions without thinking.

Dysphoria????

@@jw4673 ignorant people girl, they don't know what their talking about.

It sure doesn't. As a tomboy I feel really marginalized and I'm not joking.

Sad. I will always be a tomboy.

I was a tomboy in middle school :(

Now it's crazo!

Adorable butch female? That's a tomboy???

Frrr

no, because society tells her to be a girl so she couldnt otherwise...

@@monicacespedes4406 call me old fashioned but that s because SHE IS A GIRL!!!!

Ashley Scali facts

@@ashleyscali8438 you still dont get that some poeple feel different thatn what their body and society tells them to be? You cannot deny other's feelings. Also, why only girls can wear skirts and dresses? I mean, society makes so many differences between man and women....I love gender fluidity :)

@@monicacespedes4406 guess I'm just old fashioned. Boy is a boy and girl is a girl. 🤷‍♀️

She is being a kid, mind ur own business

@@Hiabsdefg An abused kid by psychopathic parents.

She's actually incredibly intelligent to have such an advanced understanding of her inner self, she's being raised to be open, not funneled into an "acceptable" idea of what she should and shouldn't do, like most kids are when they're told "girls like this, boys like this".

Ashley _ Reality It’s everyone’s business now since her parents put it out for the world to see.

@@Hiabsdefg it's on the internet you dummy

Oh dear...you'll look at your words in 10 years, as an adult and not a kid, and think, what the hell was a talking about? You're being far too influenced by social media and are far too immature to know common sense.

She just sounds educated. They’ve empowered her with choices and knowledge most kids don’t get.

@@ceo5071 😂😂😂😂

CEO yes basically teaching the complete opposite of natural law and the standard sexual education of the western world is very educating. This is basically putting fiction books in the non-fiction section

That’s not knowledge it’s just unneeded crap

@@icrushchildrensdreams4556 you can't reasone with those people.

That is the problem. We need to identify as if you are boy or girl, biologically. Medically, you cannot treat someone's illness accurately without what you are born as. Everyone is insisting that you can just blanket label. Kids are kids, thats the generalization term, but they aren't just kids. They are a boy or girl. The brain MUST organize and label. We would go actually insane if we did not use boy or girl. When you tag on this notion of being transgender... the brain does not naturally assume that is correct. If anything is simple in this scenario, is that people are messing with natural man. I spent time in college studying how the brain functions in terms of how the brain organizes and why we label. The brain is a computer. This computer however, cannot just keep general terms. Especially when we already have an obvious born gender. You cannot just take it away and say it doesn't exist and say lets just call them kids. Kids grow up and puberty happens. Then they are no longer kids. That changed, they matured; yet today people want to mess with mother nature. Mother nature will always win. Our brain, will never fully digest the concept of transgender, it cannot.

That's what they are teaching their daughter that it's okay to do whatever her heart desires

@@Skatejock21 I I don't know if you are accepting of this video or not I'm confused

@@heidycoleman9043 acceptance is not the problem. Its hardly relevant. It is common sense though

@@xtina1fan and to add to that, I do recall as a child thinking that I must be a boy because I like boy things. My family never entertained the idea. Sure I didn't have to wear pink and purple, I still don't. However studies do show that 70% of kids grow out of it. Now, had my parents entertained the idea, I wouldnt be as happy as I am now. I am happy to be girl, I eventually accepted it. I am happily married to a great guy and I just wouldn't have this if my parents just followed what I said. These kids have no idea what they're talking about. The do not understand the concept. They haven't even reached physical or mental maturity yet to comprehend. I think much of today is solely for attention, gender dysphoria may be real, but it certainly cannot be the case for the vast majority. We all know that this idea gets a ton of media attention and here we are now, talking about it. We didn't talk about this 10 years ago. Nobody really cared 10 years ago. It's when you bring non issues to the surface and make a big deal. There is plenty of science telling us how the body and mind behave together, depression being one of them and even that concept is greatly ignored. People talk depression, but refuse to talk about how the concept coincides with other mental illness's regarding how the body and mind match. Gender dysphoria can be more easily treated if people were not pushing their agenda so hard on thinking acceptance is the only problem, when its not. It hardly has to do with acceptance. The only acceptance is that it is not socially accepted and the left is increasingly asking the wrong things from the general population. They want things to speed up faster then what has been known for centuries. They quite literally have to make up centuries worth of knowledge and experience to assume that transgender is a real thing and that kids can choose their gender.

Ikr.

flutt3rby3 _ they do what are u talking about

She does pick out her own clothes,

That's exactly what they are doing. Gosh

She said she likes being both

thats what they are doing

unless she identifies as a puppet, that's totally up to her :)

@@Harry-jz1dn :D

Mattattack 501 You’re not serious are you?

LMAO HOW IT BE NOWADAYS

Yea that's why they don't rase her him as a git or boy he she can deside by her his own

y'all are stupid , she is basically a bisexual that means she is attracted to the both genders... 4 example you're a boy/girl and you are quiet straight but you also like the same gender as yours .

fr

Exactly! The same people talking about “labels don’t matter!” “don’t judge because of a label!!” are the same ones who have labels for most anything..

So talking about it and having better understanding of the issue makes it harder? ....ok..

for people saying they dont care about gender, they talk about gender A LOT

Hannah Graham true

Since when did they force anything? People need to pay attention to the video jesus lol they are teaching her not pressuring and they obviously can say or do whatever they like.. Its MOST heterosexuals that force things onto children.

@@kickthefog198 I feel like you are so swept up in the ideation that everyone should just accept this that you put on blinders to the fact that it's a kid. Kids don't need to learn about gender and sexuality they need to be using their imaginations and learning how to ride bikes.

@@odd-duck yes they do or they grow up confused or hating themselves because their parents never educated them on a huge part of what makes them human.

kick the fog Grace children’s brains are more susceptible to pre disposition when forced upon them. Like religion, it’s easier to convince a child that God exists than a grown adult. It’s why pedophiles “groom” their victims because they are easier to take advantage of. This is the exact same thing. So no. Children should under no circumstance be exposed to this at a young age. All these parents are doing is brain washing her.

Ah yes jesus, I can see why you have issues now

U r gey

@@danielj8085 atleast spell correctly.

@@bhavyajha9269 no u

@@danielj8085 no u

@@bhavyajha9269 Btw I was obviously kidding.

That's a yikes from me matey, but oh so true.

Confused people shouldn’t have kids, as it hurts the children.

They're raising her without GENDER norms. That's not sexuality.

Micheal Hunt I get what she means. She means that while sex and gender are different, she might be expected to be open-minded with her sexual preferences as an adult. So, she may wind up accepting her biological sex of birth, as well as embracing heterosexuality, or “traditional genders and preferences,” instead of the openness that she was raised with. It might not have been immediately clear to you; however, I can see that’s what she meant.

Thats the sad thing...heterofobia exist

Mochi Catt I know the reason 👀 and I’m with you

Same here but it's not really an unknown reason, it's cause you're looking at what amounts to child abuse... clearly her parents love her, but they are confusing her 🙁

Are you serious unknown reason this is the reason you looking at it now

Mochi Catt It is sad. You can’t force a child’s gender to be fluid. You can let them explore what feels comfortable or not, but “raising them to be gender fluid” is wrong.

There was a boy who was raised as a girl and he ended up committing suicide. I don’t think this is right. 😢 it’s too young.

They literally never said that

@@petal1475 Subtext, my friend. Pay close attention to what they're actually saying (and not saying), and it becomes obviously apparent that they don't want this kid to be a little cis girl.

"We're cis so our kid has to be too".......people have been doing it for ages also that's not what they are doing.

@@andithepotato7892 No because influencing your own Mental illnesses aren't way to influence childhood... I support trans But Strike me down I don't want ANY child have go throw the early Puberty mixed with dysphoria problems. Let kids be kids. Parents influence the kids. Those kids CHOSEN their gender because their parents Influenced them even unintentionally. They not DYSPHORIC. they confused and everything what they going throw will be a huge Brick wall once they see society rejecting them.

Who cares

Kids don't understand gender identity at this age it's too young

@mollymusicandstuff it’s never to soon to teach them that but I do thin they are pushing her a bit to be gender fluid

No such thing. I learned about how babies were made (at my level) at 3 years old. I was taught sex ed throughout my childhood.

@@materialhell that's not good. Kids need to be kids. My parents never talked to me about that and I am so thankful for that.

@@blabla8296 I'm thankful that due to my parents telling me about sex early, I have never been uncomfortable coming to my mother about issues concerning sex including the time I was raped.

@@materialhell That's amazing. I wish I had a childhood like that.

Quincy Mangi well I mean there are some gendered clothing. Bras for example or clothes that have extra room for breasts. But yeah I get what you mean

Quincy Mangi biologically men and women are different, studies show that baby girls on average prefer toys that are of the doll variety and boys prefer mechanical toys when placed in a room with both. They should not be raising her this way...

@@WilliamLucian We have a boy 2 years old and a girl 3 years old and so we have both boy toys and girl toys. They both play with the tools like hammer and saw and they also both play with the my little pony and dollhouse. So that isn't always the case. And our little girl loves paw patrol and then not the girl pups but the boy pups. Our little boy loves all clothes with glimmers on it and soft colors like lilac or mint. We raise our kids to be who they are without saying this is for boys and this is for girls.

Claire Reberger That's not a "study," that's a politically motivated video you saw on RU-vid. Actual scientific studies show that little boys and little girls naturally gravitate towards toys that fit their gender. It's almost as if gender isn't something you make up on a whim.

Yeah I can vouch for that having both a boy and girl. My boys always gravitated more towards "boy toys", even as infants. They occasionally played with baby dolls but it definitely wasn't their favorite. Trucks, dinosaurs, loud toys were their favorite. My daughter is the complete opposite!! She always gravitated more towards stuffed animals and toys with "girly" soft voices. She loves baby dolls and animals. She's actually a little scared of some of her brothers loud "boy" toys. Maybe that's just my children's personalities? But I see a likewise trend in my friends children.

gabby 1304 I thought they want her to be more open minded

Agree 100%

exactly. utter fkin bollocks

Yeah I agree

according to them, open minded are only the non-straight people, so yes i agree, it s so obvious, lord save us

Jesse yes!

Ikr

exactly

Or him lol

Jesse she’s not questioning her sexuality whatsoever they’re just telling her that she can like whoever she likes!

Anna Pyatkova Trueee !!

word !

“Hey mo-“ “PARENT A” “Mom, chill it’s just a-“ “PARENT A”

Yeah you can tell the kid's confused as hell and doesn't really understand. Yet she's idolized the idea and is essentially trying to act like a boy just to appease them for their affection. They're throwing their sexuality in that kids face too much.

coolio diablo I agree. I get what her parents were trying to do but right now just isn't the time for her to be thinking about things like her gender and sexuality.

I'm an ADULT and confused *for* the child!!

If I were*. I had to, sorry

dude its really simple. genderfluid just means the kid is like t-1000 from terminator 2 judgement day. not rocket science tbh.

😢😂😭

It’s not confusing to her because it’s the way she’s being raised just like how your household may be different from someone else

I can't stand all of these, infinite/fluid/no gender bullshiting FUCKTARDS! All they do is make the actual trans community look like the joke people think it is... I'm not trans myself, but a coworker - and good friend of mine at that - is, but he has felt that way since a young age, and now is on HRT, and has had his top surgery, changed his name legally, the gender labelled on his driver's liscense, passport, etc... He IS trans! These people are just trying to find and make an identity crisis, when and where there neither should nor is one... Someone should call CPS and get Claire away from them before she gets confused with all this nonsense! She is 7 God Damned years old... She hasn't even gotten close to hitting puberty yet, and they are telling here to think about relationships that she won't even be interested in - if she even ends up being romantically and or sexually attracted to anyone at all, and isn't an AroAce - until she is half to bouble her age older! These people are shoving their overzealous ideals upon the poor girl, and one day it's going to really cause a war inside her mind... These two assholes should never have become parents, perhaps even have been born and able to share their "message" with the world!

Heather Anderson Exactly

Heather Anderson what do u mean there letting her be who she is aren’t they

Amaya Glinka nope, not at all

That's the right thing to do someone with sense!

Liz Riba they are letting her choose what she wants to be

@@yoongi196 to it right

@@yoongi196 I know, but she may feel like she's going to be forced into being trans

Right. I feel like this is more confusing for the child than anything.

Thats exactly what the are doing they are letting her choose exactly what she wants to wear they arnt forcing get to do anything.

Exactly my thoughts

🤣😭🤣😭🤣 Legit.

Not saying you're right or wrong but dammit your comment was clever 😆

True story there...

Your ridiculous this is completely fine this hurts no one

Hurts no one? Psychologically speaking a child it witnessing a parent injecting anabolic steroids? That's normal behaviour to you?

Hinata Hyuga THATS WHAT THEY ARE SAYING! They are letting her be who she wants??

No She was born a girl She is also waaaaaay to young to decide as well

Fr

@@kathrinejebsenmoore3849 Ive seen 3 year old transgender kids. 7 isnt too young trust me dude

they are

Yep, pretty much. I wish we got back to "Boys and girls can play with dolls or trucks, it's all fine!". That was ACTUALLY progressive, and healthy.

this is the most accurate comment

She's being brainwashed, as most of our culture is now. The "guy" even says that if he doesn't take his testosterone injections then he'll go back to his natural state. These people are perverse. Poor child.

rockpaperscissors82 right. It just doesn’t make sense to me. No label but the things they identify as are labels? I just feel for her and hope she finds her own way.

Right like damn let her get to highschool , and learn about the LGBT first so then she can tell you how she feel

She is being a kid

I agree ..

Agreed, and I’m not discriminating, my partner is trans

This is so dumb..... her father seems to be quite straight himself. He has married two women. The mom has married two men. You're reaching so hard

Perioddtt no if they wanted to be a girl and dress “girly” they would be totally allowed

Faith Ogg it’s not that they wouldn’t allow her to be it’s more of the fact thar she might feel pressured. How would she ever know if she wants to live a “girly” lifestyle if she was never introduced to that lifestyle.

oh you're paying wayy too much for bamboo.. who's your bamboo guy?

@@user-wj5xc3ht1r Lmao! Omg fuckin epic comment

Happy for yall😂😭

😂😂

My parents were raised religious so they indoctrinated us into it since we were young and even went to school for it. I was going to raise my children believing in the fairytale of God and make them live under such religous rules but Luckily We educated ourselves and didnt continue the idiocy. Hopefully soon religion is looked at the same way as this. Its even more ridiculous and false after all

They took it to another level

This people believe strongly in gender stereotypes, so if a girl is a tomboy she's no longer a girl in their eyes.

I agree, but honestly why do we even have to say "tomboy"? She can be a girl who wears masculine things, we don't even need a label for that if you know what I mean. Just let kids be kids

Yea ikr. You don't have to be called a "boy" to be satisfied

If you a tomboy in this generation you full male now 😂☠️

Clearly you don't even know what genderfluid is..

@@ria8847 it's sarcasm.

@@algriffin7630 To me it isn't, which is kinda a problem. 😬😬

@@ria8847 your problem

What is a boys hoodie?

@Gemma Yeah God forbid the parent actually does some parenting and says no...

I had that same choker when i was like 9.... Then again, I'm an adult failure.

It's only wrong cause that's the way you see it, I've seen plenty of young girls wear chokers before. I didn't know chokers we're for a specific age grouo

I wore a choker when I was 5 lol didn't a lot of kids in the 90s wear them?

Dr Phil at 0:06 I knew this kid was gonna be a tumblr quote queen 😂

Her hair cut said so much to me . It's to much this baby tho she seems to wise beyond her years .

This child is so brainwashed. Shes so innocent & Her mother destroyed her childhood as a beautiful little girl

Basically...

I actually laughed AT this one

well yes, but actually no

I kinda alredy havs som plans.....

Them: *how dare you you missgendered my child like get educated he/she/they is going to have a very serious trauma after that*

No she will not.

RIGHT!!! SO RIGHT!!!

They dont expect her to be anything. Did you actuallh watch the video they are leaving her open to be whatever she wants, something I wish my parents did and shes happy so why doesnt matter regardless how someine raoses theornkid. And honestly this title is extremly misleading

I quote from the video: 'fluid meaning anyone can like any genders, so she could be straight just as much as she could be any others. Ok..

No... They literally say she can be whoever she wants unlike the majority of straight parents..ironic..

No they expect her to be open minded but ok:/

That's whay they are doing, lettong her explore her gender and decide

@@seven9028 what do you mean by that? There's nothing to explore, she's a female, you even said it yourself.

isaac well they could be a female, but they could be genderfluid. That’s for them to find out themself, not there parents

Danny DeVito is sexc o please. She is CIS. She’s gonna only be trans from these morons brainwashing her and talking about it 24/7. 99% of this world is fricken cis. Ever since stupid I am jazz came out about a very rare case of someone feeling transgender since birth now no one knows what the hell gender they are. There’s no such thing as being a Tom boy anymore. I was a Tom boy as a kid and grew up to be way more girly. Now if ur a Tom boy it means be a boy. This society is full of mentally ill morons now. Everyone needs to stop normalizing this it’s an absolute mental illness!!!!!!!

@@JM-rz3iu tomboys are quite definitely still a thing

The confusing part is they don't want clothes to persuade gender but when they choose their gender it's apparent in the clothes they choose, too. If they identify as Male, on go the beanie hats and boots. If they identify as a girl, they pink it up and grow their hair. I think the emperor has on no clothes.

Totally agree.

Arranoa THANK YOU.

I agree

I agree, same goes for people thinking personalities are genders

Yes! Agreed! It's awesome that the parents are so open and loving, but there should be a time and place when these things are discussed, much like with sex education. You probably wouldn't start teaching sex Ed when the child is 5-6 right? Same with this - it should be left until a later discussion when a child is discovering who they are and what they want to be

Yep. Totally agreed. In my opinion, they should let things flow at its own rythym, and (in a future) if she decides to be something, I’m pretty sure she will find her way:) There is a nice quote that says “Don’t rush and never settle. If it’s meant to be it will be”.... ps. I am genderfluid as well ;D

@Ben Affleck I assure you, I am not a "fake gender fluid". What makes you think that I am?

@Ben Affleck I'm confused what you're referring to?

Agreed

Yeah or else they’ll just get confused

Agreed

She clearly isn’t bothered anyway, it shouldn’t really bother her anyway. She could simply tell her parents she feels more comfortable with girl clothes. If I’m being honest, I hate people like you, you clearly don’t understand them 😒😒😒🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@@iriso182 libtard

Like any parent when they make their kids do football and ballet

@Elliot Rodger But you can't manipulate someone into being gender fluid. I'm wondering if you understood the meaning of gender fluid? It just means she can choose to be who she wants to be. How could she feel like she can't choose when her dad is transgender? Wouldn't it be hypocritical for the parents to say ''be a girl'' or ''be a boy'' when they themselves never fit into these categories?? Children can feel everything. The title is misleading and makes it sound like it's something you can impose on someone when it just frees someone from the social pressure that gender performance is. Maybe watch the video again with that in mind?

@Elliot Rodger and no I don't see the difference. Most hobbies are gendered. Most children in the USA are raised by religious parents. I come from France and we call that brainwashing.

@Elliot Rodger I am lesbian and we are raising our children to be themselves, My little girl loves paw patrol and no not the girl pups she loves the fire pup the most, but she also loves my little pony. She is onl;y 3 but i allow her to pick out her own clothes ( I myself would only give her my little pony things to wear if it was up to me) But she loves to wear both boys and girl clothes. She loves her my little pony dresses and she loves her paw patrol fire pup sweater and sometimes the boys pants are nicer than the girl pants. She loves to play with her pony's and dollhouse but also fights with her 2 year old brother about his hammer and other tools. And her brother also loves to play with the pony's.

@@xNaxxou Ça n'a tout de même rien à voir. Ne compare pas ce qui n'est pas comparable. Inciter ses enfants aux pratiques sportives n'a rien à de contraignant ni d'impactant dans leur avenir.