Me ni first born and my husband is sixth born, but weeeee hatuedani. Anasemanga, na penda kumpanga Sana, but si kupeda kwangu nimezoea kupanga from kitambo. We quarrel every time. He says I'm very authoritative even to the kids. And me i always feel hananga mpango. Sijui tutawai fanya nini. 🤔🤔
I am married to a last- born and being a first born it's hard to understand but it's also funny 😂. Last born hata akuwe na miaka ngapi utajua tu😅. Sometimes I feel like I am the only adult in house -especially when he plays with children 😅
Hiram and Grace this I a healthy talk but what ppl should understand that you have left your parents to build your own home so the thing is first respect each other be friends be lovers listening to each other opinion even if it doesn't make sense u try to put Some sence in it most important thing put God first and talking as couple together it helps alot Grace u r a wife Hiram u r a husband u are one thing remember that I love your topic
I love your topic and your vulnerability it makes it all very juicy, the truth is, we were not adequately prepared to understand the complexity of relationships or differences in how men and women build connections, solve issues, receive love and even feedbacks within the relationship and therefore it requires learning and unlearning of many things...you too are doing great and I love the wisdom and understanding where you are coming from. Iam a first born thank you.
Am last born and mamas girl ,my mom is taking care of my sis kids ju tuko outside country (in different countries)but mum calls me daily but she can go a whole week without calling my sis ,the connection we have is to tight ❤❤❤
Mimi ni Lastborn , napenda sana kupembelezwa lkn wakunipembeleza sipatangi napatananga na gaidi tu😂😂😂😂😂 na hivyo na remain kuwa single. Nikama hawanielewangi 😂😂
Even yourself you beautiful like a woman. At first was like is this guy gay or what? Then when you mention a woman in your life , was like she is brave. Dating handsome guys is a challenge itself.
We are both firstborn and I can tell you marrying firstborn is sweet cz both they love and they care too much wah and both are responsible for each other cz wamezoea since utotoni
Me nikama cjaolewa juu hii mambo ya mtu kusema hakuli ameshiba then nkimaliza kupika anasema sijui nipikie ninii. Me ukijaribu hiyo mchezo na mimi utakufa jaa coz once am done with cooking ni hivyo
Marriage is haaaard! Most of these couples you see thriving went through this drama stage early in marriage. It's very hard beginning to live with someone who is different, brought up in a different family set up, culture, mindset .. wuueh. Most ppl have to go through marriage counselors. Pre Marital counselling from seasoned counsellors esp in church is important. Tondu Wuuueh!
Being a secondborn and dating a firstborn is not a good idea they dance between being a parent and a kid so like for me wueeeeh karibu nitapike motto wa 5yrs lastborn do behave better
That's right sisi lastborn we like attention alot😍😍. Weeeeuh Wacha mm cjadate firstborn ata the relationship didn't last long ,,,,,,so it's hard for relationship between the firstborn and lastborn to work successfuly ama .Help me on that😢😢
I am the first born and my husband is a last born and it works perfectly 💞 . Shida ni when a first marries a first born I think that's too much. Hata sijui watalea watoto aje 😄
Wewe sio mchezo jameni ni wengi ni watoto wa mama weuh its need alot of understanding and be less concern about what he behave juu mamake hayuko hapo tena mkieda kwa mum in-law still achild 😂😂😂 it's tiresome 😂🧔😊😁ati baba fafa witu 😂😂😂😂😂 saa hiyo ako na devu na base 😅😅😅😅😮😅😅😅😅😅😮