'We Are Both Responsible' Vince's Take | Tamar & Vince | WE tv 

Have anybody noticed when people start doing reality shows they marriage does not last long.

When the news of their divorce filing first broke, I thought of how Tamar was downing her sisters at the dinner table about how Vince was so much better than their men. My, how the tables turn....this is why you stay humble and close your mouth because you never know what the future holds.

Honestly, whatever message Tamar wants to convey ...no matter how true, is so eroded by her overwhelming drama, rudeness and entitlement. She is too much for any human being to tolerate

Vince is so perfect and clean cut on camera, but I can tell his mouth is a MUTHA.

Prayers for Tamar, Vince, and MOST importantly Logan ♥️

He is right...they both are at fault. I thought after watching this I would feel it was all on Vince but it isn't. She is toxic/childish and he is controlling/dismissive. They both have work to do.

What does it say about Tamar that every season of this show, she has a different group of people around her April and LeShawn, now these two queens She doesn't do well in relationships of any kind from family to friends to business etc She falls out with lots of different people, OFTEN She has the stardom she's craved for years, NOW'S THE TIME TO DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING

I just keep thinking, he doesn’t have to have her followed. Cameras are following them Both ! you start to build relationships with producers and camera crews. I’m sure it wasn’t hard for him to figure out she had her own appt.

You can have respect without love, but you can NEVER have love without respect and they seem to have lost all respect for each other a long time ago. AND, if there truly was physical violence in their relationship, the only place they should be is apart not only for themselves, but also Logan.

It's always three side to a story.

I have been praying for Tamar and Vince to get back together again..Marriage is a blessing from God..as long as God is the head of their marriage, things will work out..continued prayers for the Herbert family

I don't feel like Vince is taking responsibility for himself, and he wasn't open for what Tamar was saying.

Never mix business and pleasure PERIOD!!!! #itwillneverwork.

At the end of the day you just can't mix business with pleasure and that's the problem with Vince and Tamar. And yes Tamar is a lot of work and yes its her mouth. Vince i hope you knew what you were signing up for and as for Tamar all of that fame and fortune comes with a price.

He’s right. No matter what, take responsibility for your part in it. It takes two. PERIOD!

please get the no nothings out her circle and put Christ first. ugh

I believe they both love each other in they heart. Vince lost all that weight and got his confidence back, he's not taking anymore mess off of Tamar not at all. I wish they stay together and just compromise and work through their marriage to become whole again.

This is why she filed. To shake him up and thats exactly what it did....I give it a few more months and she'll move back in. He never admitted any fault until now.

They both cheated! My gut!

I don't think Vince should speak on accountability with all the passive aggressive energy he possesses.

I was wondering when we were gonna hear his side of the story.

He’s so good with his words

They both need to get it together turn these cameras off and take off work for a few months to get themselves together personally and individually all this "show the world what goes on in your home for a check to re enact can be too much at times they can't even go nowhere without people asking them about the divorce all I'm saying is some things need to just happen in silence it aint for everybody to know or see

I honestly don't think anyone will love Vince the way Tamar did. I don't think anyone will ever love Tamar the way Vince did. Neither one has really been successful since.

I love Tamar and Vince I pray that there marriage will be restored and workout right.....This was just a wake up call to let him realize she is human and does have feelings also.....He has been through alot as well as she......

I bet Vince is so relieved that he got out of this mess when he did.

She definitely should have kept Vince... he was good for business and he loved her no matter what

Tamar ask Vince lets spend time on love. He will never see his part in their demise.

If Tamar would get her new fake posse those two guys out of her business then may Be she can focus on her marriage and not have ppl around who are just there to get paid

Reality shows always mess up relationships 🤦🏽‍♀️

A reality TV show will end a marriage quick

I love Tamar but she always complaining about something.. If it was for Vince she would still be singing background for Toni.. They need to get off TV that's the only way they can fix there marriage I wish them the best I really do..

Her own sisters often cannot tolerate her, I'm not shocked at this. Its definitely not all her fault, but there's a selfishness that she has, it's too much sometimes. All the best for them both.

I'm so glad that they are going to work it out I'm praying for them I'm tired of marriage breaking up I pray they make through this test every relationship is tested but. When you really love each other you will pull through the tough times SOMETIMES that isn't always the case

I wonder if they are separating so people suing him won't take her money too?

They both have showed us so many ways of NOT what to do in a marriage I just don't understand how people are able to take sides it's funny how when our minds just wanna believe in a person we will see past all the bad things in them to only see the good things smh

Your so call friends wish that had a man like Vince

Amen I love y'all relationship 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯💯💯 Yall are winners. marriage is everything❤️❤️❤️

he is a professional interview taker i promise you....this is not the real vince

I pray that things work out for them and they get back together!

She loves her

I've always liked Vince,Rational,calm man...he deserves better👀👑💯

Tamar must b on bad terms with production cause this show don't make Vince look bad AT ALL. she ALWAYS looks like the mouthy wanna b supa star with childlike antics. If Vince is at fault they don't show shxt.

NEVER EVER should a man put his hands on a woman and infidelity is WRONG! But the same arguments Vince had about Tamar’s behavior and character is a COMMON theme from all those that are close to her! Her family in particular.

Dang that Tamar’s friend expression and gesture when Vince’s talking... 🤣

It's a wonder poor vence haven't had a heart attack because I get palpitations trying to look at and and Listen to Tamar and her shenanigans , I can't do it.

So this was 9months ago and she said on Wendy's Williams show and she said she was so in love with the new guy and been dating for three months so I don't understand how u go from being in love with Vince to being so in love with this new guy🤔🤔🤔🤔

First of all it take 2 to mess up a Marriage.... Glad the are cool and willing to take time and work on there Marriage.. God Bless You 2!!

I love your new apartment Tamar💜💜💜💜💜 #GetYourLife

Tamar is now being verbally abusvie to her now bf.

Both needed counseling not just only him

Praying for your family. Wheres there strength theres courage. God lead and guide this family.

Y do I like him more than her

God bless you and your family 🙏🏾

That's right ya'll fight for that marriage.

Tamar and Vince still love each other you can see it in the show minus the arguments but other than that hopefully they are still together

I ain't gonna lie, Tamar got a mouth on her that will make a person want to punch the mess out of her, but at the same time Vince has a mouth on him too. But we really don't know the inside of the story and it's really not any of our business but at the same time when you are on a reality show your business is already out there so why are y'all gonna do a reality show and y'all wanna keep y'all stuff private.

I love u Vince

I always have respect for vents I think he's a nice guy and I think he needs to have a woman that is going to stick by him 1000% with the things he was going through and then when Tamar have a friends over and that's not good when you're having a discussion your friends don't need to be there while you're arguing you know and then you saying that he put his hands on you I don't know if that did happen or not but in my heart and my gut says he didn't do it but who knows but Tamar Braxton needs to chill with her attitude and later on it's going to affect their son Logan just like Vince said he don't want this that interfere with him later on as he get older and understand it's going to affect him and right now. Thinking about that and her sister

Tamar to me I think has been trying to express herself for a long time and Vince brushes it off

I’m On Vince side I really don’t see where he became an issue 🤔Tamar has to be a whole woman about the situation and admit she is difficult as hell she is being very unfair you mad at him over things he don’t tell you or you find out through other people😑 but then you went behind his back got a apartment than turned around and went behind his back again and got a damn divorce smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ are you serious I never not once heard Her actually say I was wrong or damn it’s me at the end of the day I really do believe she got to a place in her career and realized that that’s the only reason she’s been in the marriage anyway ☕️😒

O, now Vince wanna act all humble!?! Tamar has a flip mouth, but MOST women do! Let's keep it 💯! We just ain't on tv 📺. DOES NOT excuse Vince's BULLYING & OBNOXIOUS behavior!!! I don't think this "divorce" was a stunt, cuz neither 1 of them can act! What I do feel is Vince thought Tamar was gone continue 2 put up w/ his BS & she called his bluff! If they work it out, God bless 'em. But, I highly advise couple & individual therapy. If not, co-parent & keep it moving. Tamar was n the game b4 Vince was n her life! Did he help? Yes. However, she don't NEED him! And by that 'he can have/has had many b's' comment, he don't need Tamar either! #hegotBeckywiththegoodhaironspeeddial

I will be so disgusted if all their acting out was just that...an act

MayGod look into Tamar and Vince marriage and situation I think the both of them R reflecting and willing to make the proper adjustments on both parties sides because now that they both R hearing each other out without the involvement and opinions of Mama.Daddy Sisters Nor Brother the 2 of them R left to hear things out and work things out as well that’s a good thing and it also says that Tamar is finally becoming an adult as oppose to a child and Vince will have to respect Tamar for her growth or else. Let’s see how things play out it’s going to be interesting DPitts Good Luck U 2 DPitts

Vince is pissed because Tamar be telling the truth... And he can't handle it, She should have left him a long time ago.

I always knew, that after Tamar got her Fame, she was going to leave Vince. She used him for his money, now she has her own. He is worthless to her now.

Prime example of money doesn’t bring happiness

I think Tamar was bored for how good her marriage was.. ppl with money aren’t always happy

I hope it works out for them!! 🙏

Nobody know what was happening or happened in their life but them two.

Yes Vince #Facts! Stop it Tamar it's not nice to air your marriage out in the public. She has always been rude to him but she only sees what she wants! God bless them both 😗💙💚💛💜💓💖 love conquers all

the way mama evelyn went on a vince is abusive tour i dount theyll get back together

Okay, after watching this video, can they please get back together. I never liked Vince, but he seems to really love Tamar, even until today. He just needed to change in a lot of ways, because to be honest, really don't know how Tamar put up with him because he always took her for granted. But if he's changed a lot, then can they please get back together, because he really did love her. And Vince is the most stable person that Tamar has ever being involved with honestly

the pattie pie guy???????????????????????????? reeeely xD

LOVE VINCENT

The timing is suspect...but i think she was happy to be his wife as long as she benefited from his wealth, now she has buzz and doing more bookings she lost her need for him.

Well Vince you really hvnt been doing tht you want your only way LOVE DNT CHANGE but the RELATIONSHIP can & shld to mk things work!

That's true

I knew this was going to happen...

That was sad to me when Tamar took the ring off. It makes me feel sad to see marriages end because of infidelity or whatever else. Wishing both the best because I am a Tamaritian, and I like Vince also.

If you ain't happy GET OUT! WORKING ON THAT NOW!!!

He got another woman pregnant!!!! I don't wanna hear nothing he is saying!!!! Screw Vince!!!

I like Vince. #dontshootme

Every relationship is not perfect BUT IF THEY TRULY LOVED EACH OTHER...THEY WILL WORK ON AND COMMUNICATE...#ONEDAYATATIME.

Both of them is at fault..it is not just Vince..she is also a piece if work.

those wigs are not good. I love Tamar but those skypieces are weird...

Vince lost that weight and got wild

Is it me or does Vince look like Neyo

Its easy for us to give our opinions based on what there media and edited footage of their issues but honestly it's their marriage.Their vows said for better or worse til death do us part... It didn't say til social light, media, or other people do us part. We have to learn not to be so judgemental on other people problems bc it just may be you one day.

I cant understand if this is all a gimmick, who would allow themselves to become known as an violent abuser???? This whole thing being on tv is strange

This shit staged lol

She drove Vince ass crazy Get Out Vince save yourself before you stroke out seriously. She has been so disrespectful to him on so many levels that it's not even funny,

So Sad😥😥😥

If he was really about taking responsibility it would be that, not trying to say what they or she is, but what HE needs to do.

Tamar and Vince need to END THIS SHOW and focus on themselves and LOGAN..All you hear about are their feelings what about LOGAN NONE OF THIS IS HEALTHY FOR HIM and you can't say he don't be around this fighting and fussing if you can do in restaurants you do it at home..GOD SPARED BOTH TAMAR AND VINCE FROM DEATH GOD HAS A REASON..end this show take some time off from music and put all GOD left you with to fight for your family.It's hard trying to work on life when you got cameras in your family most of the time life is hard in privacy.God Spared you both GIVE GOD THE GLORY AND TELL THE DEVIL HE HAS NO ROOM IN YOUR LIFE..And the devil often times comes in a familiar faces.Don't let logan look back at these episodes and think his mom and dad really hated each other if you have to PRETEND to get a Divorce to get the world's attention than this is really sad because it shows no one was interested in what you two had going on UNTIL THEY FELT YOU TWO WERE ABOUT TO GO THUR SOMETHING BAD...how is that postive...good...healthy...????

why on earth are y'all arguing about somebody else's marriage lol none of us knows what really happened

Life Is short!You guy's need to work it out!😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

So she wins again! One for the forks. It took speaking up and moving on for Vincent to respect her as an wife and an employee. All they need now is to commit to the faith they both believe in and stop all the disrespecting one another. Tamar is officially grown up. Those were definitely grown up decisions she made. #gamecharger #gameover I've always said she was signing her story with Love and War and all the music before Bluebird. But what will follow will be nothing but GREAT! Now Vincent and the 3 bears, well you know, I don't believe. First he said his foot got stuck under the gas pedal. Then came the 3 bears, coyotes. Still would like to know the true about that. He's driven that road a million times, so he knows if animals are subject to run out. If so, u drive slower so you can stop. And I would like to hear more of how he told tTamar he knew about the apartment. Well, I give him half belief on that one because I know God does speak to his children and prepares them in some situations. Y'all gonna be fine. ❤️them both!

In my heart I believed Tamar didn't wanted to be back with Vince..both are at faults here, Tamar do things & truely her action , she don't tell all the fact,s.It takes two, but I think she was looking elsewhere & needed to get out of the relationship.

slow down Tamar...although nobody knows your pain like you and the most high.....Although, its better to marry than to burn. .DIVORCE SHOULD NOT BE AN OPTION....PRAY. Just make it work sweetie....trust me its hard. I know first hand. Stay lit and strong