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Комментарии : 16 тыс.   
@saraelfassielfehri4956
@saraelfassielfehri4956 3 года назад
The worst feeling is having to apologize for something that wasn't your fault to people who didn't even care
@muslimbrother7248
@muslimbrother7248 3 года назад
That's what I'm feeling rn sis 🙇🏽‍♂️💕☹
@stutim3987
@stutim3987 3 года назад
True
@veronikatramisak633
@veronikatramisak633 3 года назад
That is exactly what I am going through right now, but slowly I start to move on with my life 😅🙃
@user-lj8ul8op7w
@user-lj8ul8op7w 3 года назад
Then don't apologize, what's the problem.
@theresnothinghereatall
@theresnothinghereatall 3 года назад
@@user-lj8ul8op7w Lmfao
@priserves
@priserves 3 года назад
"Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system." Idk but i genuinely feel that Alyssa's friend did not pick up the call intentionally. That hurt.
@Medicint20
@Medicint20 3 года назад
Would have been amazing if she picked up the phone at the last second and apologized for the pain she caused to Alyssa.
@anaklusmos6179
@anaklusmos6179 3 года назад
Idk but ied
@alyssca743
@alyssca743 3 года назад
Whenever I’m in a RU-vid video where someone has the same name as me, I feel really weird lol
@cindymarson9053
@cindymarson9053 3 года назад
If I did one of these and my best friend answered I would start crying ..my friend meant a lot to me 💗
@faezahsamyum8227
@faezahsamyum8227 3 года назад
@@cindymarson9053 you should call her!
@eli3568
@eli3568 2 года назад
Our society prioritizes romantic relationships so heavily above friendships, I think it's actually tragic.
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar Год назад
@@Tania-rg7jp agreed
@redefinedliving5974
@redefinedliving5974 Год назад
true i prefer friendships
@damianburris4537
@damianburris4537 Год назад
But if she wants to be only friends I'm going to go for a romantic relationship instead it's going to get more of my attention
@alwaysshit
@alwaysshit Год назад
YES THIS
@nevermindmyname813
@nevermindmyname813 Год назад
I have been saying this. The same way we are encouraged to have open and honest communication with our partners and to put effort into those relationships, we should be encouraged to do the same with friendships
@joliejiang626
@joliejiang626 2 года назад
I think the girl that was crying valued her friendship so much and that’s kinda rare. I hope the best for her whether that’s reconnecting with her friend or not.
@Eira436
@Eira436 2 года назад
I can feel her pain and it’s people like us that get hurt most
@klyzer5725
@klyzer5725 2 года назад
it's not healthy
@paimilkeu319
@paimilkeu319 2 года назад
@@klyzer5725 well it can't be help since she really sincere love her best friend so much (probably similiar with my situation back then) Sorry for my bad english i hope you get what i'm trying to say :"
@jordanjohnson9866
@jordanjohnson9866 Год назад
Nah. Not kinda rare. /
@kanika2155
@kanika2155 Год назад
I could feel her pain bcz my bestfriend started ignoring me for our another common friend..she starting prioritising her more....and that's how we ended up being strangers...that hurts alot.....and when I tried to talk to her she said that we both are equally important to her but how can two people hold some positions at one place???? And now the girl that used to be our common friend is my kinda enemy now...she is always badmouthing me and spreading rumours...bcz she wanted my bff to be hers.....ughhhh....it's just sooo hurtful
@jordanjay8314
@jordanjay8314 4 года назад
it honestly really hurts to hear the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry
@widderx
@widderx 4 года назад
I think its probably the only reason I actually cried
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 года назад
Ikr 🥺🥺
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881 4 года назад
alyssa :(
@kimberlycontreras7407
@kimberlycontreras7407 4 года назад
I hate when people see or hear me cry and I just completely stop talking because I sound like a fourteen year old going through puberty cus of how much my voice cracks
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 года назад
@Keksmo that's really sweet of you, I'm okay though!! I hope you manage to help some people who need it!! 💌💓
@kay-ub1ob
@kay-ub1ob 4 года назад
you think losing a boyfriend is bad, try losing your best friend.
@roselana497
@roselana497 4 года назад
bellyache that’s so deep but that’s life
@yeehaw972
@yeehaw972 4 года назад
they can be equally devastating
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 года назад
Madu Mahawaduge Was just about to comment the same thing. When your significant other is your best friend, and you lose them, that pain is .. a lot to deal with
@tanukichan5219
@tanukichan5219 4 года назад
My boyfriend is my bestfriend. So if we break up I'll probably die lol
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 года назад
Madu Mahawaduge Yeah, it honestly is impossible to get through. And most people just dont get how miserable it is so that doesnt help
@moumitaganguly3982
@moumitaganguly3982 2 года назад
The worst part comes when you realize that the other person feel distracted or bored while talking to you even though it's the same person whom you used to talk to randomly. It hurts to witness them as past tense... little little fun moments, affection, care, limitless phone calls, bickerings, hanging out & the list go on.
@ViralclipcentralVCC
@ViralclipcentralVCC 2 года назад
Is there anything to do to change this?
@maciejdziewit6822
@maciejdziewit6822 2 года назад
@@ViralclipcentralVCC accepting the fact we will all unify into ONE, and we'll remain FOREVER
@shnakalaka3647
@shnakalaka3647 2 года назад
Yea I miss my friend and when I try to talk to them they seem bored blan and distracted miss them.
@delisha3043
@delisha3043 Год назад
This!!! exactly:')
@malz240
@malz240 Год назад
When I talk to my friend who I live two hours away from she never talks to me at all. If I could show you my texts to her you would see.
@o.k.3287
@o.k.3287 2 года назад
“Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system.” My heart broke for both Alyssa and I. The amount of times I’ve heard that ringtone when trying to call my best friend is insane. It’s so bad I hear it in my head whenever I simply read the words of it. I am so sorry Alyssa, and you are so brave for leaving the voicemail. I wouldn’t. I know I just wouldn’t have the voice cords for it. I am not the crying type, but simply thinking about how our friendship has gone bad, and how if I try to reach out to her right now nothing will change makes me want to throw up. I started crying the moment you started talking about her because I recognize every voice crack, every sentence, every emotion you have felt. I feel it every time I remember her. I just wish things didn’t turn out the way they did.
@nareshjamwal5690
@nareshjamwal5690 2 года назад
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@Say2Cups
@Say2Cups 2 года назад
Relatable tbh
@Karnam0
@Karnam0 2 года назад
hope everything is going well. praying for you
@Eli-nj6mf
@Eli-nj6mf 2 года назад
I had the exact same experience as you and when I heard Alyssa I was also tearing up
@Eniolorunfe.
@Eniolorunfe. 2 года назад
❤️❤️
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 года назад
The worst part is when you go separate ways but you still can’t let go.
@Cynthia-il8ju
@Cynthia-il8ju 3 года назад
A friend moved 2 years ago and I remembered crying so much the same day she left. And I did move on, but I still can't let go
@chipchrome1769
@chipchrome1769 3 года назад
I don't know how to move on i realy want to it hurts :(
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 года назад
@Cynthia Same, my friend also moved about 2 years ago 🥺 and I had a dream about her last week 😭
@daisyjagong9198
@daisyjagong9198 3 года назад
its worse if you dont have them in your contact list and you dont know where they went
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 года назад
True 😭🥺 i’ve searched for them everywhere :(
@roysreceptive
@roysreceptive 4 года назад
The guy in the blue shirt tried talking to a best friend that seemed so detached. She didn’t even sound happy or excited to hear from him.
@ABirdOnTheMoon
@ABirdOnTheMoon 4 года назад
L.Pasteur I felt very sad for him. She hardly showed anything and no emotions :(
@jamalchowdhury5953
@jamalchowdhury5953 4 года назад
Omgg, I know right. She whatsoever portrayed no kind of emotion.
@yassinrider8982
@yassinrider8982 4 года назад
This is exactly my situation since 1 year
@isabelle6622
@isabelle6622 4 года назад
it was probably really awkward lmao💀😳
@sumaiyahj
@sumaiyahj 4 года назад
It’s really painful when someone cuts you off even if it’s for whatever situation they’re going through. She has every right to feel the way she did. I’d be detached too.
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 2 года назад
" *Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest* " " *It's about who came and never left you alone when you needed someone the most* " 💓
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 2 года назад
That means I never had real friends, even if don't have friends.
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 2 года назад
@@vuedanto8576 mee too but its ok uk karma is a b*tch
@cfjlkfsjf
@cfjlkfsjf Год назад
Friend dumped after 18 years and I was always there supporting her LMAO!!! Got back with her ex and let all her male friends go to build trust, which is another way of saying he's a jealous mofo. The worst part is I even supported her relationship and hoped they are together a long time and was there when she was dumped hard....LMFAO!!!!! she blocked now breh, wished her well and said I always hope you're happy but you blocked now and to never contact me again.
@Katiafairyspice
@Katiafairyspice Год назад
@@siddhibajpai9595I don’t karma is a b****
@macrocosm4442
@macrocosm4442 7 месяцев назад
Indeedr❤mr❤r
@dingdong_googie
@dingdong_googie Год назад
As a person that lost her best friend I'd like to say, "I wish our friendship was like those ones in movies".
@RockerBoy77
@RockerBoy77 Год назад
well put.
@kennysfdg471
@kennysfdg471 11 месяцев назад
"I wish you came to me, instead of listen to gossip... like in the movies" would be mine.
@Memoona-zq7yo
@Memoona-zq7yo 7 месяцев назад
Same
@jeanelee1305
@jeanelee1305 3 года назад
hearing someone's voice cracking and about to cry on a phone call is the worst feeling ever.
@lindseyblack9234
@lindseyblack9234 3 года назад
Especially when it's a voicemail
@melaniew3490
@melaniew3490 3 года назад
Yeah
@heyRexsuperStar
@heyRexsuperStar 3 года назад
T
@eleanorgriffiths5240
@eleanorgriffiths5240 3 года назад
It's even worse when the other person doesn't care
@aurbxille3702
@aurbxille3702 3 года назад
Mhm
@vee11-11
@vee11-11 5 лет назад
The girl who left a voice mail honestly broke my heart. 😭
@cherfancherfan6682
@cherfancherfan6682 5 лет назад
Same I'm now crying😢😭
@Bob_Psycho100
@Bob_Psycho100 5 лет назад
Yep... :/
@ashleymorgan2199
@ashleymorgan2199 5 лет назад
Abby Ik I’m actually about to cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 лет назад
Heart cancer does that too.
@bryan_l_a
@bryan_l_a 5 лет назад
Hearing that hurt me😭😞😞😞😞
@adannayoutube4243
@adannayoutube4243 2 года назад
this just proves how important it is to communicate with the people we love, it’s how we keep our relationships going (family, platonic, friendships, romantic)
@aidanyun880
@aidanyun880 2 года назад
has to be a two way street though, it happens a lot in relationships. There is someone who cares and someone who neglects. You shouldn't be the one caring if they neglect you.
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Год назад
But i I feel like the people that were on the phone weren’t truly interested. There were more like “yeah alright I guess” and they moved on
@analauramorelrocha2383
@analauramorelrocha2383 Год назад
As someone who lost childhood friends due depression, I totally get it. Its _hurts_
@MakinMisery
@MakinMisery 11 месяцев назад
I lost mine the same way. I wish I could be normal
@monolinny1817
@monolinny1817 11 месяцев назад
We'll go through this together, comrades.
@OscarCabrera494
@OscarCabrera494 6 месяцев назад
Me too the same problems
@__rm307
@__rm307 2 месяца назад
Same 😔
@jadeynrogers6518
@jadeynrogers6518 3 года назад
"you can always call, ill be there" also them "your call has been forwarded to an automatic voicemail system"
@wuyuaiend1659
@wuyuaiend1659 3 года назад
Zachary Paradagomez i think i het her comment its mean like a person used to promise that they will always be there for u but at the end they re the one who leave first
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 года назад
Sadly my boyfriend..
@farhanatasnim8948
@farhanatasnim8948 3 года назад
What does 'forwarded to an automatic voicemail system ' mean??
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 года назад
@@farhanatasnim8948 They dont answer the call or declined immediately
@thegamingkids_234
@thegamingkids_234 3 года назад
whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 года назад
"I asked God to protect me from my enemies.... And then I started losing friends.."
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 года назад
Where is that quote from
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 года назад
@@Silvia.Araujo I just saw it on pinterest 💀
@alexiaanddan
@alexiaanddan 4 года назад
JESUS loves you. JESUS is your king. GOD made you wonderful and beautiful in his image. JESUS CHRIST died for your sins..
@Tom-nj5ie
@Tom-nj5ie 4 года назад
They wouldn’t be your friends then, better off without them, always other people to meet
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 года назад
@@Tom-nj5ie that's the point lmao
@mixer5405
@mixer5405 2 года назад
losing your partner is bad enough, but most people don't know how bad it is to lose your best friend who has been there since the beginning.
@MagicTaco27
@MagicTaco27 2 года назад
Imagine having a friend for 10 years only to find out that so called friend just used you and ended the relationship over an ego problem because I respected myself and stood my ground.
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 года назад
Friens r not as gd as u think.
@kenfern2259
@kenfern2259 2 года назад
who needs enemies when u have friends
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Год назад
Oh I don't need to imagine that because I'd well believe it!! 😄😄 As tragic as it is.... And we vent about our friendships, but unfortunately that's never going to get them back.
@aliciaw8147
@aliciaw8147 Год назад
exactly the same happened to me after 11 years of friendship and so called “being a family” - wrote her a letter after an argument and never ever heard something again. that was three years ago now.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Год назад
@@aliciaw8147 omg... My best friend dumped me back in April... I messaged him a few times but he says there's "no point" in talking. I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not talking, not messaging, not hanging out with him after being friends for 10 years... I'm also in my 30s now so I don't see myself making new best friends at this stage, and anyway it's just not the same.
@bethanyr5741
@bethanyr5741 4 года назад
Alyssa is so emotional. You can tell how hurt she is.
@adisturbedoneandi
@adisturbedoneandi 4 года назад
I relate to her, thinking about my best friend who I have not seen in one year, and last spoke to 10 months ago over the text... I get really damn emotional because I really, really miss her.
@jimmyperkins97
@jimmyperkins97 4 года назад
i wanna give her a hug
@snickerswo1f519
@snickerswo1f519 4 года назад
I miss my "best friend" i moved schools like 4 years ago and i got her insta last year (she only texted me a lil bit..) but she stopped texting me, she didn't even say she missed me while i did. She would always post about all her friends having fun together. It hurts. But i guess that's just life, I'll try my best to forget about her.
@cherryloverxd
@cherryloverxd 4 года назад
Can We get to 1,000 subscribers without videos ? I lost my bff moving and entering 6th grade I thought we would be friends again but we stopped talking and I miss her a lot
@froggyguts9623
@froggyguts9623 4 года назад
Yeah, I connected with her so much and it just made me want to cry every time I heard her voice in this video. You could hear the pain in her voice.
@beccatraxler192
@beccatraxler192 4 года назад
The second your best friend becomes a person who you don’t even recognize it’s literally the worst feeling in the world.
@Yadi.F
@Yadi.F 4 года назад
Becca’s life yes it really is😞
@something3476
@something3476 4 года назад
Becca’s life I moved on,..
@carissaevangelista
@carissaevangelista 4 года назад
it is..
@lilyy9016
@lilyy9016 4 года назад
yes, it is.
@trishazhao8147
@trishazhao8147 4 года назад
Tf it is
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Год назад
PLEASE do not ditch your friendship when you are in a relationship. Even if its having lunch with them every 4 months. Amazing friendships is harder to find than romantic relationship.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 5 месяцев назад
Exactly
@lorib1819
@lorib1819 Год назад
I can relate to that crying girl. I never saw friendships as fleeting circumstances. I've learned the hard way that people will drop you for the smallest reasons. I wish I had a friend like that girl. She's rare.
@lindaraka5748
@lindaraka5748 5 лет назад
The girl who left the voicemail. I hope she’s okay. I can relate to her so much. I’m crying.
@finch9782
@finch9782 5 лет назад
Me too, this video hurt so much to watch. I recently had to cut off my ex best friend because she got abusive and then ghosted me because of a boy. In the time she wasn’t talking to me I thought back on our friendship and I realized she really was treating me in toxic ways. I’d spend nights crying because of her. Yes I’m glad she’s out of my life but after I left her life she sent me a text saying I was awful for leaving. Thinking about her and how our friendship went down is really hard for me to think about and in this video I’d mention her and calling her would be the hardest thing to do.
@mrs.piggywho6114
@mrs.piggywho6114 5 лет назад
I have a best friend and she lost her best friend so I always feel so useless because I can’t really help her get over him. 😔
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 лет назад
Eye infections can also cause teary eyes.
@_DearDarling_
@_DearDarling_ 5 лет назад
@@finch9782 I can relate because my friend was toxic too I cut her off and felt bad about it and I'm still upset about it..
@jenniferd6606
@jenniferd6606 5 лет назад
ME TOO
@the7deadlysins417
@the7deadlysins417 4 года назад
The saddest thing in the world is the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry.
@donnacorbett4364
@donnacorbett4364 3 года назад
tHe 7 dEaDLY sInS yep
@gabileja2351
@gabileja2351 3 года назад
Leaves from the vine
@mahitabelgabry1450
@mahitabelgabry1450 3 года назад
@@donnacorbett4364 "sIr mAlIoDiS"
@cLaudSy
@cLaudSy 3 года назад
Fr tho! That hit hard
@italasanta
@italasanta 3 года назад
sur mal lío das,w-w-What are u doing
@khrntryn
@khrntryn Год назад
I watched this years ago when i have no idea losing a friendship would be that hurt, now I'm back and i understand the pain
@jolina942
@jolina942 Год назад
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend. it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music). maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 года назад
I had the craziest best friend you'd ever meet. He was off his rocker and so full of life he was almost childlike but in a charming way, he was the Bravest dude I ever personally knew. And will likely ever know. Rest in Peace Alex ❤️
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 2 года назад
I've lost all my friends.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Год назад
@@vuedanto8576 sometimes I feel that way in a strange way...
@divathakore5957
@divathakore5957 Год назад
@@vuedanto8576 same tbh
@justarandomakwardperson.8525
Im so sorry. My brothers friend died last month also. I had grown up with him,so i get it . again, im so sorry.
@michelles2644
@michelles2644 Год назад
I hope this brings you some sort of happiness and peace but your best friend is definitely looking after you and always with you! I’m sorry for your loss.
@rowenasantillan2477
@rowenasantillan2477 4 года назад
why do i feel like the comment section is even more emotional than the actual video
@teds9013
@teds9013 4 года назад
i thought i was the only one-
@Kimberly-xy8gf
@Kimberly-xy8gf 4 года назад
same
@maddiejason9514
@maddiejason9514 4 года назад
Yess😭😭😭😭
@asmaahana5938
@asmaahana5938 4 года назад
I feel it too tho~ i better read the comment and their words really deeper than what i have thought!
@graciekerr3137
@graciekerr3137 3 года назад
😭😂😂😌
@Sam-du7cm
@Sam-du7cm 4 года назад
The worst part is when you know it’s too late and it will never be the same
@roseturkey
@roseturkey 4 года назад
Samantha tbh my old friend moved schools and we stopped talking and I text her a year later and we just say hi and bye.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 4 года назад
Sometimes it shouldn’t be the same, people aren’t always meant to stay in your life.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 4 года назад
Ezekiel Turrecha sometimes the truth is, people don’t deserve you or your time. Especially when they hurt you and don’t truly care. You are worth more.
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920 3 года назад
MAE...
@thischannelhasnofuture3325
@thischannelhasnofuture3325 3 года назад
yep... it is
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Год назад
As someone who has moved around a lot, backpacked across over 50 countries, and met more people than I can remember, I am a self proclaimed expert in surface-level friendships. You can meet amazing people, you can meet people who "get you" and everything just clicks. However, no friendship will ever be better than the best friend you lost in high school or just after college. It just won't because as we age our experiences harden us and they take away our innocence, our capability to feel as intense. That is something that dawned upon me just like 6 months ago. It sucks but if I am to be honest with myself I don't think I am capable of having a best friend any longer.
@user-fp8ks1fd9m
@user-fp8ks1fd9m Год назад
I move around a lot too and I truly agree with u.
@exod.oswife
@exod.oswife Год назад
I agree with you. I too feel i cannot connect with anyone without purpose nowadays, its more networking less friendship.
@kiana9941
@kiana9941 Год назад
I feel like I am incapable of having any friends. Usually, the people I connect with the most only are around for a couple weeks or months and move away or I move away. As I have gotten older I now keep to myself to avoid the pain.
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Год назад
@@kiana9941 I know the feeling and it sucks because relationships with other people make my day brighter and what makes life worth living. But I see myself growing more and more detached from people, unable to connect beyond any surface-level interaction. As another comment said, it's more networking than friendship. I don't know if it's social media, the internet, or a fact of growing up but the reality is that most of the time I feel alone and I just fill my life with sporadic social interactions that don't really amount to anything. And it's not just other people's fault. It's my fault as well.
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Год назад
I kind of agree. My highschool friends were the best and beside one, I lost connection with everyone else. Now its so superficial.
@dylanworthington1350
@dylanworthington1350 Год назад
I’ve reached out and reconnected with a few long lost friends, but it never works out in the long run. Its undeniable that reaching out to basic strangers that you used to know in hope of friendship is a sad thing to do and they will definitely look down on you for it. My advice is to keep marching on there in you’re past for a reason and I refuse to be rejected by the same person multiple times it’s soul destroying and we must protect our hearts at all cost.
@sonicxhunters8344
@sonicxhunters8344 Год назад
I cannot agree with you enough. I’ve had to reach out to one friend multiple times, never them. The worst is when you have heart to heart talks with them and you can pick up on that they value someone else more than you and that for that person they do reach out, but never you.
@raihan200
@raihan200 Год назад
Advice to you is keep on moving forward and don’t look back. These nothing there anymore! Love yourself because you’re a great person and a loyal friend. It’s okay to make mistakes but never let them bring you down. Be happy with a smile and start a new chapter in your life. Not everyone deserves to be in your life!
@christinebaker7311
@christinebaker7311 Год назад
Exactly! It is OK to move on from each other. That is a part of growth.
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 года назад
I expected “long lost friends” to be like YEARS
@gracec6468
@gracec6468 4 года назад
It feels like years when you go from being best friends with someone, and being the person that knows them best and vise versa, and the they just drop out of your life. Every day without them feels like a week. 😔
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 года назад
Grace Colker Totally! I’m not disagreeing, but I still think it’s not long enough to be referred to as “long lost friends”, though I can’t think of an alternative that isn’t super lengthy
@p.a.t.t.y
@p.a.t.t.y 4 года назад
months without talking to your best friend does feel like years though
@kuyajayy
@kuyajayy 4 года назад
Nicolaus Volentius i know right
@tendouii.
@tendouii. 4 года назад
Same,I Have Talked toMy Best friend for 2-3 years And for another one it has been 4-5 years,All three of us Would fool around togeather until the Second one moved away and then a few years later!I Moved away :c
@pen2cool4u
@pen2cool4u 3 года назад
The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you
@user-rx9vm6rk5j
@user-rx9vm6rk5j 3 года назад
Iam a stranger to my BF now, I tried my best to talk to her but she is always ignoring me and now I have no friends
@blackprofile6074
@blackprofile6074 3 года назад
@@pen2cool4u it happens to me all the time that is why I don't upload on my account anymore (this account) because all of my friends feel like a stranger to me
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 года назад
Yeah, it does but you are enough- and you are loved and you will find a friend that cares deeply for you
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 года назад
If you guys ever need a friend I’m here for you-
@poleprincess222
@poleprincess222 3 года назад
Ong yes
@vzmelis
@vzmelis 2 года назад
"They're not friends, they're not enemies, they're strangers with memories." - Pringles Cat
@codequeen1889
@codequeen1889 2 года назад
This made me emotional because I was finally able to talk to one of my dearest friends over the phone this week who I had not heard from for 8 months. We talked for over 2 hours and it was the most healing beautiful thing. Don’t give up on those important, special people in your life. Try to reach out, you may be surprised what can happen.
@pb4ugo19
@pb4ugo19 2 года назад
When she reached out, what did you want to hear her say? I'm asking because I pushed my dear friend away and haven't spoken to her in 6 months. I went into a deep depression and just lost interest in everything, including the people I loved. I'm in a better place right now and I want to reach out, but I have no idea what to say. I don't know how to even initiate the text to call her. & I'm so nervous she is going to reject me (though I wouldn't blame her). How did your friend reach out to you and what words did you want to hear from her?
@MrTrollo2
@MrTrollo2 2 года назад
@@pb4ugo19 just tell her what was going on, if she's a friend she won't be mad
@dontletdonghaedrive
@dontletdonghaedrive 2 года назад
@@MrTrollo2 I did that and she doesn't want to respond to my messages asking what's happening and asking her to catch up and her ignoring it. I don't know what I did at all and I don't understand it. It hurts so much.
@byzdgn
@byzdgn Год назад
@@dontletdonghaedrive let it go. just let it go
@rubydefelice3034
@rubydefelice3034 8 месяцев назад
It’s seems like 8 months is the tipping point for a lot of these people 🤔
@dablackpanda1348
@dablackpanda1348 4 года назад
*"Not friends, not enemies... just strangers with some memories."* ❤
@kawasuky6198
@kawasuky6198 4 года назад
word
@soderones
@soderones 4 года назад
felt that
@brenndalynn8643
@brenndalynn8643 4 года назад
Dablack Panda that was beautiful
@jungkookbts2819
@jungkookbts2819 4 года назад
Period
@queengrace614
@queengrace614 4 года назад
That hit different
@amberho2541
@amberho2541 5 лет назад
RU-vid recommendations seems to be pulling my deepest and darkest feelings out of their caves
@user-lb9xh8me1x
@user-lb9xh8me1x 5 лет назад
4MBER omg same
@colorfulcori9757
@colorfulcori9757 5 лет назад
this is the most relatable thing I've seen this year
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 лет назад
Some people grow up in caves.
@Wooahaeeeee
@Wooahaeeeee 5 лет назад
damn..same.. 😫
@oliviapickard3299
@oliviapickard3299 5 лет назад
Yep I think they are reading my mind
@mimvsa3521
@mimvsa3521 Год назад
My friend had mental problems and ghosted me. I've sent her a voicemail a few days ago and she responded, saying "I'm just not someone who can be a friend." I don't know what to feel. When I talked to her, my life felt like it was healing in super speed; her humour, remarks, strange and resilient mind was so addicting I don't know how to accept her abandoning me. I still love her a lot. Thought we were together for the ride. To make matters worse she was my only friend. I can't search for anyone else.. without thinking it's her replacement.
@KalilIllinois
@KalilIllinois Год назад
My former best friend did the same thing. Hurts less with time
@imeneezzeddine6449
@imeneezzeddine6449 Год назад
I can relate to that so much. It just came out of nowhere. And to make things even worse, she became friends with almost everyone in our common circle of friends (my only circle by the way).Two years and it still hurts. The worst part? I never got an explanation besides that her "conveniences and life style have changed" + I had an additional reason to leave those friends behind.
@WeeWee4204
@WeeWee4204 Год назад
Welp I had quite the similar friend Her relationship first distanced us bit by it then she did it herself and never told me why. Whenever I asked her she said she is going through stuff mentally and can't do this even tho she talked to other people hehe..
@Ceceeeeeee_
@Ceceeeeeee_ Год назад
I’m so terribly sad and terrified to go to highschool without my friend we will be splitting up and she is the only one who gets me, and I love her so much
@sarayolo_y3al
@sarayolo_y3al 2 месяца назад
just happened to me yesterday
@yayayvette298
@yayayvette298 2 года назад
I feel so bad for Alyssa and my heart breaks for her because I know what that feels like keep strong and hopefully her friend will call her back
@lesliecabanas207
@lesliecabanas207 5 лет назад
Lack of communication is the downfall of every relationship
@smileyx9407
@smileyx9407 5 лет назад
leslie cabanas couldn’t agree more
@emmabrown429
@emmabrown429 5 лет назад
you are going to make me cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 лет назад
Or neglecting (your parents) for your friends or your "true love" (even though they'll cheat on you by liking an Instagram post).
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 лет назад
@@smileyx9407 I really couldn't
@derekrivas1394
@derekrivas1394 5 лет назад
In my case, I tried to talk to her and tried to communicate but she just ends the conversation. Like she doesn’t want to talk anymore and its sad. I feel like i can’t do anything else
@angee7763
@angee7763 4 года назад
The worst feeling for me is knowing you’re drifting from your best friend and you can’t do anything about it ;(
@nuttkraker2127
@nuttkraker2127 4 года назад
Tell me about it my homie is moving 113 miles away.
@iikittydr8503
@iikittydr8503 4 года назад
EXACTLY what’s happening to me
@raya2273
@raya2273 4 года назад
Angelina Johnson it sucks because you always wanna text them or call them but can’t cuz you haven’t talked in ages and you miss your best memories. It just sucks
@yuncakes
@yuncakes 4 года назад
Zakk ITS NOT THE Same, even if they’re far away, it won’t be the same anymore and it can drift you apart anyways.
@genesis1989
@genesis1989 4 года назад
That's how me and my best friend are right now and seeing this video just hurt A LOT so I hope we put the pieces together again one day 😔
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Год назад
Friendships are the most important to me, I’m autistic and tend to get attached to people easy. I’ve had bad friends but I love them so much still, even though I’ve managed to distance myself from them I miss them so much, but I know they will hurt me if I go back again.
@sono._.
@sono._. Год назад
i am in the same situation too :(
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Год назад
@@sono._. stay strong and don’t forget the bad things they’ve done to you
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Год назад
I am autistic too!! I had such a nice friend for the past six years. She really understood me and communicating with her was easier than with anyone else. I felt safest with her and I could unmask easiest when I was with her. Last year, our friendship really reached a new heights. I thought this it, we are sisters. I am not alone anymore. But now we haven’t really hung out since my birthday in October. I tried so much to get in touch with her, I did my very best to not stress out. To keep my cool and do not force my friendship upon her, but I think it’s really over. She has new friends. She has a new boyfriend. She has a very nice job. I’m very happy for her but I am so sad that I cannot be part of it anymore. I don’t understand why, I truly don’t understand. I wish I could just understand. It’s like there’s a hole in my heart.
@NDGumballOc
@NDGumballOc 4 месяца назад
I am autistic and I have lost a friend because mostly I am bad at social rules, emotions understanding and regulations….and also due to lack of communication
@nazkh3291
@nazkh3291 Год назад
i can tell the friendship meant a GREAT DEAL to alyssa. i’m also like that with my friends. recently my friend and i stopped talking and it’s been so hard mourning someone who’s very much alive. hopefully alyssa is doing alright wherever she is
@sunderius
@sunderius 5 лет назад
One of the worst feelings in the world is when it feels like you annoy the person you love the most.
@Ahmad-um2zr
@Ahmad-um2zr 4 года назад
Brooklyn Hanninton and one of the best feelings is when your best friend says that you never annoy them no matter what.
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc 4 года назад
It just feels very sad. Their gestures and body language tells that they're annoyed. 😭 It feels horrible then.
@may-bl3jb
@may-bl3jb 4 года назад
@@AbdulHadi-ke5qc tru
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 года назад
Or your bf or gf or family.
@tekokitty9019
@tekokitty9019 4 года назад
This actually happened to me. I was in a really bad headspace that time and was a little bit annoying and never really took into consideration about how my best friend felt. A few days later she told me that i was annoying and ghosted me. She found new friends but i couldnt move on after all i was in a really bad headspace and she was the one i found most comfort to be with. Then i found a text from her saying if we wanted to hang out later because her new friends were being a-holes and only used her for her artistic talent. I said yes and we then made up. Still hurts me to this day to find out that my bestfriend was getting tired+annoyed of me but luckily that situation never happened again and we are still really close.
@mdleeenixxv4342
@mdleeenixxv4342 4 года назад
"A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face."
@upper9170
@upper9170 4 года назад
i got no true friends
@therespectfullykid
@therespectfullykid 4 года назад
@@upper9170 i can be your true friend
@avery7679
@avery7679 4 года назад
MDLeeEnIxx v a true friend sees the plan in your eyes when everyone thinks your incident 😂❤️😊
@kavya914
@kavya914 4 года назад
Omg yes
@awesomefox4113
@awesomefox4113 4 года назад
Yeah... that’s no one, well it used to but not anymore 💔🥺😖
@serbear0691
@serbear0691 2 года назад
I’ve never really had any friends at all. So seeing people with such deep connections to people they’ve lost is a first. I never thought people could have this deep a connection with a friend 🙂
@E3boss2003
@E3boss2003 Год назад
@Memer didnt u go skl? u must have made some
@jaystone5036
@jaystone5036 Год назад
Yeah. I've made friends but this ones are actually people you can be vulnerable around for them..😂😂I thought friends were to talk about future and then disappear to make it😂
@NishantCosmos
@NishantCosmos Год назад
samee I'm having these experiences i decided to communicate with new ppl made new friends i wish i did this earlier
@frhypeforfreedom5135
@frhypeforfreedom5135 Год назад
@@E3boss2003 We are still talking about about a SCHOOL here, (but I understand your point there :-)
@NalaBalenciaga
@NalaBalenciaga 9 месяцев назад
Same
@aexitis
@aexitis 2 года назад
I had a childhood best friend. We’d known each other since we were 4. We would hold hands when we crossed the street and walk to the bus together. When we started growing up, he went to all my soccer games and I went to all his basketball games. We used to spend hours lying in the hammock in his back yard, just talking because being with each other was all we needed. I loved him, and he loved me too. We talked about everything, then one day he became a stranger. I never figured out what happened, or why he stopped talking to me but life goes on. Even now years later I’ll stumble along a photograph, or a board game we used to play and remember him. I wonder how he’s doing, and if he’s happier now then he was before. I hope he has found people to love him like I have.
@lindabalinda7887
@lindabalinda7887 2 года назад
it could be that he had/has mental health issues. My childhood best friend stopped reciprocating in our friendship for seemingly no reason in my mind. Turned out she had a rough home life and an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I had no idea. She had depression and anxiety, and that was why she stopped talking to me. Anyways, if you want to, you should try reaching out if you have a way...I decided to reach out one day because I had nothing to lose, and it was so worth it. My childhood friend and I are close again, and we both missed each other.
@LallanAlexHockstetter
@LallanAlexHockstetter 3 месяца назад
You should seriously reach out to him
@olivia-qq6ys
@olivia-qq6ys 3 года назад
it’s absolutely the worst feeling when ur bestfriend suddenly ignores u. like u never existed.
@Casper_and_Max
@Casper_and_Max 3 года назад
It happened to me :(
@dj03
@dj03 3 года назад
this is what's happening to me, my online best friend after 2 years of friendship, after we met in real life (i made 400km to meet her) just started ignoring me.... she blocked me on every social media and she's ignoring my messages, it's been 2,5 months now and i'm starting to accept the situation, even tho it hurts A LOT.
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast 3 года назад
Happening to me as we speak :(
@hxnterxzv1727
@hxnterxzv1727 3 года назад
@@Casper_and_Max yeah same I didn’t have anyone else and he didn’t even care about me like no one cared
@randomannas
@randomannas 3 года назад
my bestfriend got a boyfriend. ya nice for her. i dont like him. but ya, as long as she's happy. im fine.
@Jydeboi
@Jydeboi 5 лет назад
I feel like Alissa was the only one who truly loved her friend. That kind of loss hurts so much more.
@eddyrivera6875
@eddyrivera6875 5 лет назад
Fallen Eternal honestly
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 5 лет назад
I feel like thats not exactly true i mean most of them cared to call them that's enough just to think about somebody and they were all emotional showing they truly loved these people.
@mickeysofine6386
@mickeysofine6386 5 лет назад
Tell me about it. My friend traded me for someone who bullied me, they would threaten me for no reason. But, I got the help I needed and I feel much more confident in myself. I am moving so I am glad I won’t have to go to high school with them. People that that do not deserve your friendship. Don’t let them take advantage of you. There is ALOT more to this story so please don’t judge. What I have learned from this experience is that YOU NEED TO stick up for yourself!!! It is WORTH it! YOU are worth it!!! I hope someone who needs this information sees it. Don’t give up!!!
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 5 лет назад
@@mickeysofine6386 thank you tbh i have very few friends but I'd rather keep it that way cause those few you can really get close to , build a bond and trust ,there aren't many people that you can trust :)
@kiana5548
@kiana5548 5 лет назад
@@mickeysofine6386 aww sorry. Same thing kinda happened to me in the past and I'm still kinda friends with her. It sucks 😞
@knock_chauuu
@knock_chauuu 7 месяцев назад
“And what hurts the most is that ppl can go from people you know to people you don’t”
@clarityshine4623
@clarityshine4623 Год назад
Losing friends deeply hurt than anything else.
@katie228_
@katie228_ 4 года назад
One of the worst feelings: Seeing your "Best Friend" having the time of their life with someone new Edit: Thank you for all the likes ❤
@jubbydubby8275
@jubbydubby8275 4 года назад
Something like that is rather complicated for me. While I definitely admit I envy whoever is able to bring them such happiness, I also can't dismiss the fact that I'm truly happy that they at least are able to be so happy with someone.
@kyaramoerike3457
@kyaramoerike3457 4 года назад
JubbyDubby I completely get what your saying my best friend has a new best friend and it hurts she’s gone but I’m happy she looks so happy.
@mich497
@mich497 4 года назад
my best friend is doing that in-front of me during school, it hurts so much. she doesn’t even look at me anymore.. 😭
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853 4 года назад
It hurts me now that me and my best had been best friends for like 7-8 years the fact that im always the one ignored when she's with her new best friend her new best if is my "best friend" too Idk why but her new best friend totally hates me for doing nothing to her at all tho I was the one who begged everyone to let her in our friend group since she was new and all lonely I always feel like crying on why I did that I seriously felt betrayed and ignored the and like the new one also framed me tho I wasn't even related to a lot of situations and on the my best friend didn't ever ask me "Hey are you okay?? Hope your feeling good" or something like that when I wasn't well and was going through harsh times and on that we had vacations that time which was totally free tho I don't blame her for that but like when she wasn't doing okay I actually missed one of my very important match just to check on her Im like literally crying rn like why, when I was with her for 7-8 years now can't believe it sorry if I said too much
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231 4 года назад
@@mich497 yeah...I feel it too
@josiegraceblack1268
@josiegraceblack1268 4 года назад
"Could you call them? Everyone: "yes I can" that one guy: "probably not."
@ciandro5005
@ciandro5005 4 года назад
The only guy I can relate to
@testtester8492
@testtester8492 4 года назад
Absolute madlad
@Xristina_Gretsista
@Xristina_Gretsista 4 года назад
When I read this comment this scene was played on the video
@998576999
@998576999 4 года назад
I wouldn't either, people don't deserve to beg them to be friends again
@juliapayne4511
@juliapayne4511 4 года назад
@@998576999 it's not exactly begging its just a chance to clear the air and find out why what happened did happen it's a great chance to fix the relationship even if they arent best friends again
@plutonium4sale
@plutonium4sale 2 года назад
this made me realize that my best friend that I’ve known since I was four has slowly been drifting away for someone they have known for only like 2 years. they keep flipping me off randomly and throwing things like paper n stuff at me. it hurts to know that last year we were all a happy group.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 года назад
Bros before Hoes. Remember that.
@jess3452
@jess3452 2 года назад
Im so sorry:(
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar 8 месяцев назад
I met my female friend at my first job in a grocery store She was amazing and still is. We did almost everything together. She also was the first person who I generally shared a drink What changed the most was when she got into a relationship and from there, we just stopped talking to each other. That last time I spent time with her was when she asked me to help her with laundry That was Jan or April of 2022 The last message I sent her was to not overwork herself to much (She tends to do that) and to take care of herself. That was in June 2022 I miss you Heidi
@Generation_Zero
@Generation_Zero 4 года назад
When Alyssa said “hey” I heard her pain.
@michaelv8721
@michaelv8721 4 года назад
I’m not gonna lie. I wished someone missed me like that
@JunguianPhantom
@JunguianPhantom 4 года назад
I´m with ya bro. Feels sad to not have someone to miss you this way
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 года назад
It’s ok. The fact that your like “I’m not gonna lie” at least we know your not saying this for attention and I respect that
@VibezWithEli
@VibezWithEli 4 года назад
Im with you
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 года назад
red x17 I’m sure at least one person misses you
@inkyrilakkuma1040
@inkyrilakkuma1040 4 года назад
Michael V no u don’t want to have that. I have already been through it many times, it hurts, bad it’s like losing apart of your life. You should be grateful this hasn’t happened to you before, because you’ll regret the day you said you want it.
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 года назад
after having nearly lost all my close friends, one of them which I was super close to (way over 10 years now is a complete stranger) I've realized that becoming too attached to them ends up hurting us way more than it should. I love them all, but now I've seen that being more independent is better in the long run. i don't wish to stay lonesome forever but neither do I need nor desire to feel the same pain twice.
@chaku9906
@chaku9906 2 года назад
Same here. I am sensitive and I can no longer endure this breakup pain. It takes longer for me to get better.
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 года назад
@@chaku9906 i completely understand. but hang in there, pain or loneliness won't last forever. There's always meaning behind the struggle we face so it'll be worth it in the end✊🏼
@linhlooper637
@linhlooper637 2 года назад
I can relate that👋
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 года назад
Yah cant believe too much in other people.🙂
@kayleen8037
@kayleen8037 2 года назад
I agree
@blackbarbaron5818
@blackbarbaron5818 Год назад
It’s so crazy we spend so much time getting to know someone to only become strangers again.
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 года назад
The worst feeling is when your best friend just stops talking to you with no explanation. Nothing happened between the two of you. You just stop communicating until theirs nothing left but feelings of sadness and guilt as though you did something wrong.
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 года назад
@Sandra 'Sandy' I would say try talking to her before you lose all communication.
@ving7515
@ving7515 3 года назад
Same thing, and it really hurts when you two study at same school and every time when you see that they are having fun with others, treating you like a stranger, you just can't understand why, and you just start blame yourself and also you cannot make other friends because you are afraid that they also leave you or start thinking that no one wants to be friends with you
@-oreo3786
@-oreo3786 3 года назад
@@ving7515 Oh wow....I feel terrible rn. Are you okay? Because you WILL find somebody, everybody does.
@nayeonbunni
@nayeonbunni 3 года назад
funny that’s exactly what happened to me i met her in 6th grade and we were inseparable throughout middle school you would always see us together and since I’ve never had a best friend like that i thought i finally found the right person until we reached high school she stopped talking to me, we lost communication and has treated me like a stranger she still does and i always had this guilty feeling that it was my fault
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 3 года назад
I experienced this. She keeps in contact with her other friends, but not me.
@doreenwu5990
@doreenwu5990 4 года назад
alissa is too pure for the world. no one deserves her
@bawn5813
@bawn5813 4 года назад
døreen x wu what???!
@No-nk3ro
@No-nk3ro 4 года назад
She must be protected at all cost :
@SJ-pi5mm
@SJ-pi5mm 4 года назад
No one deserves her but she deserves everything
@kazuha1748
@kazuha1748 4 года назад
;-; likes are on 888 I can't do it
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838 4 года назад
Bob Ross:
@lesliewilliams9923
@lesliewilliams9923 Год назад
"I wanna apologize for being selfish, I thought I needed to push people away to take care of my self " I felt that because it's what I do.
@ahmeddjabeur4219
@ahmeddjabeur4219 Год назад
Seeing my best friend as strangers is one of the worst things i ever felt ,it’s just so sad how close u get to someone and the everything changes
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Год назад
Yup i want to see my bestie so bad but simultaneously i dont because it hurts
@basicallykaylee2205
@basicallykaylee2205 3 года назад
the worst feeling is when you introduce your two friends to each other and they both ditch you and become best friends.
@kaylee0000
@kaylee0000 3 года назад
OMG FELT THAT
@medico1572
@medico1572 3 года назад
That's really...the saddest feeling ever
@aria6709
@aria6709 3 года назад
The worst worst worst
@sirsnailson7703
@sirsnailson7703 3 года назад
asdfghjk i have no words to describe this
@hobis_sprite117
@hobis_sprite117 3 года назад
Happened to me I had this gang of friends I introduced all of them to each other....and now I am the loneliest kid who well lost all her friends it sucks.a lot.
@theblueslushy1454
@theblueslushy1454 3 года назад
The worst feeling is: When they start to hang out with the wrong group of people and you can slowly but surely see them change as a person for the worse over time. And there is nothing you can do to change it. And the next thing you know, 1 year passes and they are completely a different person. Same Woah lots of likes
@ivaylastoilova8483
@ivaylastoilova8483 3 года назад
You just described everything
@yunyikwie3287
@yunyikwie3287 3 года назад
exactly what happened to me, just that it's only been a few months and she's completely different now
@emmarose8563
@emmarose8563 3 года назад
I see that in my best friend ... idk what to do
@megan_idk
@megan_idk 3 года назад
Omg this happened to me but the best thing for me and him was just to go our separate ways it kinda felt like 7 years of being loyal to him was wasted down the drain...
@yolopewds3736
@yolopewds3736 3 года назад
Yess literally the same thing happened to me. She was becoming such a bad person and when I got upset about it my mom told me that's its because of her parents divorce that she was becoming a bad person and talking about people badly.
@alexandrosglegles544
@alexandrosglegles544 Год назад
I cried watching this video. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever. It's also torture when you fear that your current friends will leave you eventually. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you just have to be the best version of you and also the best friend you can be.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 5 месяцев назад
Not so easy at all for people that suffer from mental and emotional health issues
@FingerBangz
@FingerBangz 2 года назад
Kudos to all of these individuals. I know I wouldn’t have the courage to call my “best friend”, especially after being the one who ended things. Hopefully they found closure with this.
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 года назад
i should be studying for finals instead of crying over a stranger's friendships
@fahima2409
@fahima2409 4 года назад
sarah good luck with ur tests I’m assuming ur college student
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 года назад
Fahima thanks!! yeah
@daradler6641
@daradler6641 4 года назад
Omg same
@kaylaredrum8727
@kaylaredrum8727 4 года назад
sarah sammmmme😂
@crazycoolpencilman6916
@crazycoolpencilman6916 4 года назад
sarah relatable
@mandeukie750
@mandeukie750 5 лет назад
The girl who left the voicemail for her friend. I truly hope her friend called her back
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 лет назад
I want to know as well like a part 2
@robertohernandez-os3hm
@robertohernandez-os3hm 5 лет назад
I know her, the sapposably best friend never called. She was heart broken
@-midnight_wolf-4616
@-midnight_wolf-4616 5 лет назад
@@robertohernandez-os3hm really?
@benjaminxx9850
@benjaminxx9850 5 лет назад
@@robertohernandez-os3hm oh noo
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go 5 лет назад
It's really upsetting but if she doesn't even have the time to call back or make sure she is okay after 8 months, than they are probably aren't the best person to be with especially for support. But that doesn't mean they are not fun to hang out with. But I pay my respects for another friend lost. F.
@Julia-kv2po
@Julia-kv2po 2 года назад
this gave me great insight on how human beings minds work and made me feel more comfortable with being vulnerable
@martygarcia
@martygarcia 2 года назад
OMG. I wanted to hug that girl that was crying. I hope she's doing well. Kudos to everyone brave enough to do that. Going through it myself and wouldn't have the courage.
@mirandamork8191
@mirandamork8191 3 года назад
The girl whos friend didn't answer her words hit too close to home..
@philipanderegg5973
@philipanderegg5973 3 года назад
Definitely. Currently living that situation now. I have reached out to make amends and find out what went wrong but all I get is a deafening silence. It hurts to have a former best friend not want to be a part of your life anymore 😢
@cutthecameras7095
@cutthecameras7095 3 года назад
Ikr
@cilla3389
@cilla3389 3 года назад
I literally cried the first 2seconds of the video
@kpoplover-wb4nr
@kpoplover-wb4nr 3 года назад
Same
@huabubble669
@huabubble669 3 года назад
we need to protect alyssa at all costs
@Santy-qs6mm
@Santy-qs6mm 3 года назад
yes.
@rsq_2100
@rsq_2100 3 года назад
Yeah, and I really wanna hug her, because she just seemed so broken..
@quahmeilrobinson7953
@quahmeilrobinson7953 3 года назад
Yes
@MotoTrist
@MotoTrist 3 года назад
@@rsq_2100 literally my thoughts
@speedymonkey123
@speedymonkey123 3 года назад
thanks 😏
@psycherevivedby
@psycherevivedby 3 месяца назад
"Ghosting" is such a painful thing to experience. I think for us as humans, who desire community and connection, it leaves us so wounded and abandoned. I wish it wasn't a thing.
@Ilrosh
@Ilrosh 2 месяца назад
))':
@michellesteinman1642
@michellesteinman1642 Год назад
Closure is trying and knowing the end result. And now you can move on ! Build yourself up! Love in other ways
@aubreywitt
@aubreywitt 4 года назад
losing a best friend is the worst kind of heart break.
@aidanbarsano5684
@aidanbarsano5684 4 года назад
It's not tho
@cloudnine3721
@cloudnine3721 4 года назад
Agreed 😔
@auffq
@auffq 4 года назад
No what about when you make your mom sad and find out a couple hours later
@shoguns849
@shoguns849 4 года назад
NOTTHRDUDRFRU - N0cl0u7 if u ever felt someone that was always by your side, then u screw up and your whole friendship with that person just fades away, then i’d think u understand
@Taco_Burrito39
@Taco_Burrito39 4 года назад
@@aidanbarsano5684 depends on the person
@brileypayne1835
@brileypayne1835 3 года назад
all these friendships have the one person trying to reach out and the people on the other line dont even care :(
@ariqfajar5708
@ariqfajar5708 3 года назад
or maybe both of them were care but they're too shy to reach out
@iamblasterdark
@iamblasterdark 3 года назад
@@ariqfajar5708 yep
@louisenorrie5330
@louisenorrie5330 3 года назад
@@ariqfajar5708 ya I agree bcz I am someone who won’t talk to unless talk to because I get scared and nervous I don’t text till text to bcz I think I’m annoying
@jakegames2736
@jakegames2736 3 года назад
@@louisenorrie5330 that's what I think sometimes
@victoriawhisman8014
@victoriawhisman8014 3 года назад
yes. exactly.
@crazyforcats19
@crazyforcats19 7 месяцев назад
I went through a bad "friend breakup" in March. She cut me off and said she couldn't handle me but didn't ever really explain why. I know I wasn't a perfect friend but I thought our friendship would last. Looking back I can see how our personalities made our friendship stressful but I wish we'd been able to talk about it. I never got a chance to talk about what went wrong with her or to try to fix things. She abandoned me when she was one of my closest friends.
@MiaFran
@MiaFran 11 месяцев назад
I’ve had a few friendships fade away and have reached out to those friends to try and reconnect but it’s never the same. I’ve learned to live with that fact at least having the memories with those people that keeps me from thinking awful things about me or the other person. It’s really hard and I feel Alyssa’s pain. She was really brave to leave a voicemail, I don’t know if I could.
@adeleseeboth3137
@adeleseeboth3137 3 года назад
Alyssa is precious. Protect her. Never let her get hurt again.
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 года назад
Sadly she will probably get hurt again hopefully she can overcome all her obstacles
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 года назад
Sadly the nicest people end up getting hurt the most
@asteroyd4753
@asteroyd4753 3 года назад
@@blaze2x569 hello fellow demon slayer fan who watches these
@nieee5727
@nieee5727 3 года назад
your always gonna get hurt in life you cant really prevent that from happening @Adelly bean
@iscifion7122
@iscifion7122 3 года назад
@@blaze2x569 This happens...
@haileyroark9427
@haileyroark9427 4 года назад
The worst feeling is.. When you have a best friend and they get a boyfriend and leave you because they have someone new now.
@zvakicauwu
@zvakicauwu 4 года назад
and they talk to you only when they need something :(
@sevensn
@sevensn 4 года назад
@@zvakicauwu Thats so relatable for me right now,me and my best friend talk very often about her problems with her girlfriend and it annoys me that she doesen't want anything else to talk about.
@sharmiacharjee8717
@sharmiacharjee8717 4 года назад
so my best friend threw me into the darkness after 14 years. it means I thought that she is my best friend bt she's never think that way.
@sharmiacharjee8717
@sharmiacharjee8717 4 года назад
it's all happened when she found her new friends & boyfriend
@audreywillis1399
@audreywillis1399 4 года назад
or you try to keep them and they leave you anyway and only ask when they need something or their bf isn’t available
@jasmineestrada4615
@jasmineestrada4615 2 года назад
I feel exactly how the girl who cried , you miss that one friend but you know you tried and if you get nothing back from them it’s just time to leave it alone .
@dragosamaaaa
@dragosamaaaa 2 года назад
Just lost a friend group that have been my road dogs for the last 4 years of my life and I can’t forgive myself ever. I figured they weren’t gonna talk to me anymore for what I did and I tried to explain and tell them the truth, when I did all I got was “don’t ever show your face or voice around us again” ….my heart and mind sank really deep😔. It hurts when something really bad happens to you and your close friends decide to give up on you
@angela-kc3wc
@angela-kc3wc 5 лет назад
Seeing your best friends slowly turn in to strangers hurts the most.
@nairelychevere7051
@nairelychevere7051 5 лет назад
depends on your opinion
@bruhmoment1196
@bruhmoment1196 5 лет назад
No seeing your best friend become your torturer hurts more.
@noellew____
@noellew____ 5 лет назад
@hyeboi that's subjective
@sabrinaaini7781
@sabrinaaini7781 5 лет назад
True
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 лет назад
Aka middle school and high school😬
@KimiticalASMR
@KimiticalASMR 2 года назад
I felt that. I reached out to my friend multiple times. After 2 months, 4 months, 9 months and 11 months. She read the first two messages but after that she didn’t bothered opening them anymore. I won’t reach out anymore and that’s fine I guess. Not everyone wants to stay in your life and that’s okay. It breaks my heart when certain songs come up on the radio and it reminds me of her. I hope she is happy and healthy. Maybe by any chance she reads this so happy newyear Ying! It’s been 1y 7 months and I miss you.
@mohammadaliwi5963
@mohammadaliwi5963 Год назад
I met this girl online from Scotland and she’s honestly the best friend I could have ever wished for, she’s so caring and she’s such an amazing girl and we talk literally every single day 24/7 and I absolutely can not imagine losing her even though I’ve never met her face to face I can’t imagine losing such a human that helped me though so much so I kinda feel what they are going through and it’s really hard.
@remigotchauchi7376
@remigotchauchi7376 4 года назад
Alyssa's long lost friend : _Doesn't answer_ *_[EVERBODY DISLIKED THAT]_*
@aiko4294
@aiko4294 4 года назад
I'm sorry to be that one person, but.... EverYbody
@remi1744
@remi1744 4 года назад
Well yeah because it sucks to lose a friend. Maybe she did have something going on where she couldnt answer or she didnt recognize the number. Who knows? It's the worst feeling in the world seeing the person who was soposed to be there gone. So I can see why people hate that and feel bad.
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 года назад
i cant be the only one who thought Alyssa was annoying as fuck
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 года назад
@@yado7550 bruh...
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 года назад
@@Silvia.Araujo bruh
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 5 лет назад
kennedy’s friend was my least favourite part of this. “no i never said that.” “you’ll call me when YOU have time” no sis the phone works both ways...
@behappy1523
@behappy1523 5 лет назад
tay - YESS BIH TOTALLY AGREE I WAS LIKE WHAT AN ASS 😑😑😑
@Nanancay
@Nanancay 5 лет назад
I thought he was nice LOL, cos he's respecting that she won't be free/want to pick up the calls if he just calls, so he's giving her the control.
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 5 лет назад
Nancy Wang but for 8 months he let her believe that she was his second choice. not once in that span of time did he call or reach out to reassure that she could always call or rely on him... that’s all im sayin
@bikerssuckass8158
@bikerssuckass8158 5 лет назад
@@tay-8757 No, for 8 months she THOUGHT she couldn't talk to him. SHE made the assumption and stopped talking to him. Did you even pay attention?
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 5 лет назад
Bikers Suckass don’t get so riled up, i was just stating how i viewed the situation as a third party
@Raul-ux22
@Raul-ux22 Год назад
This really makes me a little emotional. This is great to see and also hurts. I can understand how these people feel and brings a lot of memories of all my most vulnerable/close friendships.
@moonanana
@moonanana 2 года назад
this happened to me around a year and a half ago,,,,we'd known each other for a short while but it was one of those friendships were you click instantly and it feels like you found the person that understand you to the deepest part of your brain,,,things happened and we said we wanted a little space,,, after a few months i tried reaching out a couple times and never got a response,, it still upsets me because it really felt like i found someone who not only understood me but someone who wanted to understand, not just out of pity but out of genuine love,,,
@crac810
@crac810 Год назад
This boy had joined my class and I had literally never talked to him until his last day at our school, and when we talked we just clicked and it was so fun. I never got his number so I have no way of communicating with him as he also has no social media. I hope you can find peace in the fact that you did all you could to salvage your friendship, and there is nothing more you could’ve done. It’s not your fault. I wish you luck and I hope you have a nice life internet stranger 😊
@stijnvos796
@stijnvos796 3 года назад
the worst thing is when the person u made memories with becomes a memory
@msm592
@msm592 3 года назад
Sweet and true comment, but that pfp is cursed
@kenfern2259
@kenfern2259 3 года назад
the end in friendship
@ratemate458
@ratemate458 3 года назад
It's sad when you lose friendship with someone you see regularly.. like me...when live school was still a thing. It's like so awkward when you come across them.. you don't really want to talk to them anymore even though just a year before they were one of the few people you could talk to. We aren't enemies we're just.... painfully indifferent to eachother. But I'm glad he got his new friends and so did I.
@goodstanevil4755
@goodstanevil4755 2 года назад
Yes Dorita.
@christian2603
@christian2603 2 года назад
@@ratemate458 same thing happened to me except with every friend I had and I didnt make any friends after
@Sophia-to6rh
@Sophia-to6rh 5 лет назад
Message: don’t cut of your friends because of a boyfriend/girlfriend
@Marie-tm9uq
@Marie-tm9uq 5 лет назад
I’d have to disagree
@lara9863
@lara9863 5 лет назад
Marie Tupou why?
@yemioloyede2775
@yemioloyede2775 5 лет назад
It really depends on the circumstance
@alaaye5237
@alaaye5237 5 лет назад
Marie Tupou It depends
@Maria-ck7wv
@Maria-ck7wv 5 лет назад
You're probably not in a relationship:)
@bankrolldame
@bankrolldame Год назад
I used to judge my long lost best friend for "abandoning" me when I was in a more toxic, depressed state.. but sometimes I feel like she wasn't in the wrong because I was probably too codependent and draining on her at the time
@its.happss
@its.happss Год назад
I was in the exact same situation!
@bon4560
@bon4560 5 месяцев назад
😭
@plumchamoy
@plumchamoy 8 месяцев назад
"why can't you just be happy for me," i always hear that from people who do not want to acknowledge how they have hurt the ones they expect praise from
@devindevin6126
@devindevin6126 4 года назад
I personally volunteer myself to be Alissa’s best friend
@lisaryplanski4921
@lisaryplanski4921 4 года назад
Devin Devin me too. I feel bad for her too.
@koalart14
@koalart14 4 года назад
Me too;(
@ajv1630
@ajv1630 4 года назад
Because she’s hot, smh.
@devanbarrett2902
@devanbarrett2902 4 года назад
My name is Devan, just you know spelled differently.
@demigodsunite4012
@demigodsunite4012 4 года назад
cla173t Thornton hey me too!
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 года назад
I felt so bad for the girl who’s friend didn’t pick up 🥺🥺
@jovialminer8583
@jovialminer8583 3 года назад
It actually sounded like she declined.
@carlostobar4654
@carlostobar4654 3 года назад
That's not a friend
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 года назад
@@carlostobar4654 true true
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 года назад
@@jovialminer8583 ohhhh okay well that makes me feel even qorse 🤣
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972 3 года назад
@@carlostobar4654 you have no idea what happened between them
@Event_Horizon14
@Event_Horizon14 Год назад
I know when this happens it's always incredibly sad and I've experienced drifting apart from close friends and even completely losing contact. One thing I've learned though is we each go through different things in life and we meet these great people, sometimes just for a season so we can grow together, and then life pulls us our separate ways. To everyone out there who's going through something similar and feeling the pain of losing a friend, don't let it weigh you down, smile, be grateful for having known them and go out there and live your life. Trust me, you'll meet new amazing people to create more memories with ❤
@katherinepollock
@katherinepollock 2 года назад
I had one person in mind watching this video. I haven't spoken to them in months, and it hurts because we were friends for nearly 9 years. She followed the "wrong crowd" and is part of a friend group that does all sorts of bad things. It's really quite sad
@bebodebo8183
@bebodebo8183 4 года назад
the dude wasn’t selfish at all self-care is the best care and his mental state was more important than a relationship trust
@hadassah6563
@hadassah6563 4 года назад
Yeah, but unless the friendship was a problem, it's better to let someone help u, than to push everyone away. If the friend was toxic or somthing I would totally get it, but otherwise, it's punishing yourself
@xnisha_2581
@xnisha_2581 4 года назад
im in a similar situation right now and i dont know how i should tell the guy why i ghosted him so suddenly. i feel like it was really selfish of me to not let him know why i ghosted him. it started from me needing space and then got too anxious to message again because ive convinced myself that it was for our own good ; so that we wont get hurt anymore, but that backfired into me missing him, getting anxious when he messages me bc idk what to do, then i just ignore it. its hard to handle social anxiety, depression, people, and school all at the same time.
@xnisha_2581
@xnisha_2581 4 года назад
Aesthetic Flowers yes i also feel the same about wanting to sleep the days away. -i hope everything went/goes well for u. good thing u plucked up the courage to contact her :D
@ironmanmason4247
@ironmanmason4247 4 года назад
bebo debo well thats the problem men especially, because of the way society works, men often are afraid to share their thoughts/emotions because some will see them as weak. I feel like with my generation its getting better, but its still tough. Also mental health in general is so important in todays society, but nobody seems to talk about it, when there are so many people struggling.
@AnimeLover-hq3nf
@AnimeLover-hq3nf 4 года назад
@@xnisha_2581 im in the same situation as you, i had to stop talking to him cause i had to focus on my mental health first and the whole friendship was just unhealthy. Yeah i miss him, but i dont regret my choice. I hope that you are doing good rn
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