We Broke Up | Storytime - Whitney White 

Yeah, so.. "We Broke Up" 💯 Full storytime here on my 3rd channel, WhitneyWhiteOfficial Xo! ❤️

RU-vid it's been 5 years why are you bringing this up on my feed

Idk why this popped up on my recommendations. After watching this and now they’re divorced, further justifies why I don’t give dudes a 2nd chances…. He never changed. However, Whitney is continuously elevating and I’m so happy for her success!😭🤗

In 2023.... He's still stupid. Glad that she's happy & in a different space.

RU-vid is trifling for suggesting this.

This video hits different now, I’m wishing happiness for her.

I just found out yesterday that they're divorced and today U-Tube recommends this video from 5 years ago to me. You're too wrong for this u-tube, very shady.

"...but I just loved myself more, I suppose..." - Preach Whitney!!! The it's supposed to be!

RU-vid is so messy for recommending this...

Back then, you had to watch him date other people. Now, he has to watch you all up on the tv, building an empire. Queen moves 👑

Wow! 3 years later... I guess the saying is true. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time"~Maya Angelou. You deserve the best mama. Stay true to you💯😇🙏

"I loved him but I loved myself more" this is a really great advice to give to young girls 👌🏽thank you !!

I let my 13 yr old watch this so she can see that if it's meant to be it is meant to be. You don't have to compromise your morals to keep someone. Great message!

She said he knew she was always there for him... When a guy knows that you'll always be around, no matter what, he isn't going to respect you. She was his friend, but personally I wouldn't be friends with a guy that treated me rudely to begin with.

"I just wanna know" --Black woman proverb

"You have to look out for yourself." I say this to single women all the time. Great video Whitney!

It's a shame he couldn't stick to his own advice...but glad Whit did. It's sad people are willing to sacrifice something so special for something incomparable. Praying for full healing for Whit and her babies ❤️

I’m sorry Whitney. You are an amazing women who has helped me since I was in middle school. You probably won’t see this but We love you and everything will be okay ❤️

*RU-vid* is wicked! Never knew you had this channel and for them to put in my *recommendations* after your *divorce* is so awkward 🤦🏽‍♀️

Whitney! You have me in tears. I ended my two year relationship three months ago because I love him so much and he wasn't loving me. I ended it. I'm thinking about him everyday and wondering how he is doing yet I know he is not doing the same. I'm glad you shared this story because I felt confused and guilty like I shouldn't feel this way when I broke up with him. It's great that you shared this because most people think the one who breaks up is the one who doesn't love. Most people never hear this perspective and you gave me an example to share and let more people close to me know how hard it has been for me even though I ended the relationship. I know I did the right thing. Thank you!

"When he needed me I was there for him" story of every females life!

My blood pressure did NOT appreciate this title!! With all the drama channels popping up on my timeline, I just got really really scared😓

I guess now he’s is going to be the player he always wanted to be.

I don't usually comment, but beautiful story and beautiful lesson. I've been a lurker for years, Whitney. The more that you open up to your viewers, the more great life/relationship lessons have been taught. Keep it up!

I want to see high school pics now lol

I LOVE everything about this story time. You didn't bash him, you didn't talk bad about him. You have such great advice to young girls and even girls your age that you don't need to compromise your morals to keep or get your guy ! Such a dope message. Your terms your way but it worked. And it was respectful and it shows the growth that you both went through. That's why I love you guys. You can see the love and growth you guys went through and now even more growth since you started RU-vid. So proud of you for sticking up for your morals.

Beautiful Video!!!♥ Me and my ex broke up recently because he was moving on from me. I felt like he was not cherishing me (seeing my worth) and it made me feel sad because I cared for him so much; additionally, I felt like I was putting in more effort with upholding my values and morals. He started seeking advice and listening to his friends about what we should be doing in our relationship, and it made us grow further apart. This video was a prayer answered, just seeing a strong woman I really look up to on RU-vid, who doesn't even know me, Speak Truth. If you read this Whitney I am still moving on from him, it still stings. But I am just staying focused on God and my classes. So thank you Whitney, and I definitely think you two should do more Story Time Videos!

Listening to your update story of your divorce and watching this video now...Whitney you are so right with taking your videos down because this was cringe to listen to. He showed you who he was in the beginning. I noticed in the video you kept saying that he was so full of himself. But everything happens for a reason.

"Not everyone has to be bad." THANK YOU for saying that. Love this post! Little young girls (heck grown women) take notes! Do YOU first!

First time seeing this. It's funny how youtube is only showing me this now that persons are talking about Whitney. But when it came out in 2017 I never saw it. smh. This algorithm yes.

You look beautiful!! I love you and Felipe and This story had such an important message! I love that at 16 you had the presence of mind to realize your worth. 💕 great video!!

Oh, so Whitney was the original "bye Filipe" 😂 That was a great story with awesome advice for young girls and boys. ❤️

3 years after this video was uploaded, it still resonates with me, especially as a young woman in her early 20s. I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship with someone who is incredibly toxic and while it was a hard and confusing step to take, I’m so proud of myself for doing it. Like you said in the video, I 👏🏾 loved 👏🏾 my 👏🏾 self 👏🏾 more

"LOVE AND TRACK" 😂😂😂

I appreciate your openness. I have shared your video with my 19 and 15 year old because I love that you did not compromise your morals for a relationship. When you are true to yourself, what belongs to you, comes to you in my opinion.

We need more strong women like you. “Look out for yourself “. I feel like our generation hasn’t grown out of that phase of “what are they gonna think?” and into the phase of “what is going to make ME happy?” At the end of the day, we gotta live our lives and no one can fix anything outside of ourselves.

I love that I didn't even remotely question the title of this story because your marriage is SOLID ;-D

Excellent!!! You are so right we as women need to know our worth...regardless of age. Thank you Whitney and Felipe. Much Love and Blessings!

I just finished watching her latest post..Why RU-vid be doing that?? 🥴🥴

Wow. Men do not change.

Past behavior is an indicator (not a guarantee) of future behavior. Move accordingly,

The puff, the makeup, everything is so gorgeous I almost couldn't focus, but thx 4 sharing ur story!

Thank you for this story, it's important for young girls to understand that it's ok not follow what everyone is doing. My daughter watched with me and it opened up a conversation on the subject, she's only 9 but Im guessing now is a good time to start those types of talks❤you have a beautiful family you two!

Whitney, you have always been strong. I am TWENTY-EIGHT years old and your words of " I didn't want to be with someone who wasn't putting the same effort as me" (and you were a teenager) hit me SO hard. Personally going through it. Thank you

Whitney, I truly appreciate you sharing this video with us as so many young girls/women need to hear this. We don't realize how many women have low self-esteem and feel that they need to be around men who degrade them, make them feel bad, etc. So this is truly appreciated. Letting women know that they are "worth" so much is so important, and they need to hear it all the time.

Whit I love you girl! I relate to you so much, I feel like I'm your mini-me lol. I'm currently a senior. Wish I had a "Felipe" lol it's hard out here for an old school girl with standards! High school boys and relationships these days are really dumb/crazy.

That's great that you recognized the relationship wasn't what you wanted ESPECIALLY AT 16! I tell the teen girls I use to work with that all the time. Stand your ground and know you are so valuable❤❤

I'm here in 2020. Sorry to hear about your divorce. God bless you and your children.

I love how this storytime comes with a positive message. Whitney stays coming with quality content!

Im glad i watched this video. Im a sophomore in high school right now and is constantly questioning myself because of everything that's happening around me. This video really gave me the answers that i needed ❤️ great video!

Lighting is perfect!

It was so great hearing Filipe basically reiterate everything you said throughout the video. You can tell that he did a lot of growing and reflecting after losing you the first time and it's made him a better partner. But it also shows how right your advice is, for both men and women who are dating. Knowing your self-worth is so important when it comes to all relationships, from dating to friends to coworkers. Also loved the end when Filipe talked about Olivia finding a person, and not necessarily a boy! You both are such supportive and great parents. I'm happy Olivia has two people she can always depend on.

Woooooww it’s interesting how parallel this is to what happened recently. It made me think about my old high school to early 20s relationship and how similar this is to what I experienced. It’s still hard for me to shake it even now in my mid 20s but this made me realize even more now that I have to.

I love this Whitney! It's so important that us as women stand firm in our feelings and boundaries. I feel like society expects women to always compromise, but it's important that we don't compromise our self worth

You two were my first RU-vid couple. I used to say that I wanted a funny caring husband like him when I grow up lol. Here I am now- grown - got married - divorced and dealing with the hand that life deals us sometimes when we think we know a person . I’m so, so, so proud of what you’ve become and what you’ve accomplished, Whit. You made something out of this RU-vid shit..I see you in Ulta for Christ sake. Lol. Ex hubb dropped the ball when he didn’t realize and cherish the strong and capable woman that you are. Men are notoriously stupid so it was expected lol I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s not still stalking and sniffing around in one way or another

You are awesome! This is going to help so many people no matter what age and stage one is in their relationship. I have been following you for a long time and yes this is definitely a proud past moment! Love this and so agree! Know your worth!

This is such a VALUABLE STORYTIME that even your children will cherish..Love it!

I love that Flippe popped in and confirmed everything you said. And his advice for men is perfect. They should be mindful before they mistreat women that they could become fathers of daughters and treat women the way they would men to treat their daughters.

Thanks for posting this story, Whitney. I broke up with a guy I've been dating for 4 months a few days ago. I wanted to be with him so much, but deep down inside I knew it wasn't right and I deserve better. I wanted more and he couldn't or wouldn't give that to me.

Thanks for the story time, but more importantly, thank you for getting back together and coming on RU-vid!!! You guys are such a great couple and such great people individually. And I'm glad you did what was right for you Whitney, it's a great way to live and great advice!

Came fishing for something like this after seeing you cut your hair. Proud that you were that girl! Many women today still need to hear this message

Loved this! I honestly prefer these kind of storytimes over the extremely dramatic ones 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

I love your comment about working on our self-esteem. How we perceive ourselves is very important. I have a woman ask me how did I get my man. As if I was lucky to have him. I immediately said to her, "you mean how did he get me?" We need to think more highly of ourselves. Women are the good thing, not the opposite.

I gotta say this was a pretty awesome story! When we're young we can't really see what restrictive upbringings are trying to help us with, but when you're able to determine what you just don't want to do, it saves you from massive heartbreak. So kudos Whitney! It is also super awesome that date brought you two back together again. So beautiful ❤️

This is literally what I'm going through right now. Your words are so empowering and I just absolutely love what you stand for! God bless you and your family!😊

He cheated again. Sorry you had to go through all this hurt. Too many red flags. But you are beautiful, and deserve better.

awesome. ..I grew up around my hubby also , we were friends before we seen each other as someone to spend the rest of our life with....thanks for your story being friends 1st helps alot

Excellent advice you two! This video needs to be shared at every High School!

@17:36 hit so different now.... He sold himself out on that advice phewwwwww. BE FREE WHITNEY!

It’s crazy how men can get on RU-vid talk all this bullshit and still embarrass you by cheating.

Had to run to the comments before even watching....glad to know I had a heart attack for nothing 😂😂😂

Excellent Whitney and Phillipe! Great job sticking to your morals Whit and for teaching young men and ladies how they should conduct themselves. Livvy is a blessed little girl with parents like you both.

I really appreciated the telling of your story and I am super happy that you did so. It is important for young women and girls to hear these kinds of stories with an emphasis on "Self-Worth" and as well not allowing peer pressure to push them into a situation they're not ready for. It is also wonderful that your husband cooperates with you by adding his own personal feelings about that time in your history and to explain what he took away from the situation. I do hope your story is heard by those young ears whom really need some good sound advice. You are doing such a wonderful job with your channels, keep up the awesome work. I really like how you draw your viewers in with the title of your videos. They really stand out amongst all the others and they are catching enough so that all of the right information is heard.

Whitney your amazing and very wise, your parents instill in you what lots of young ladies don't have today. You knew your worth and values long before you left your parents home. GOD bless your parents for such a wise woman that you are. Oya is such a bless child she will know her worth long before she leave home. Thanks for sharing.

Don't even know how much I needed to hear this today. ☺️

Girl I have chills!! Girl your words and positivity are so inspiring I wish so many women could hear this and definitely want to share with all three of my kiddos my teen boys and my 6 year old in a few years.

I love this story. You're a good example for these women who do not have self respect or self worth. Never dull down your morals for some guy. If he really cares about you, he will respect you and if he doesn't someone else will appreciate you.

You had me at that "okay" around 8 minutes in 🤣. Too real. Thanks for sharing. It's very interesting to see the similarities between your high school experience and my life right now. Putting yourself first is a must!

thanks for sharing☺ i dated a guy my freshmen year in college. Even though he was nice, we were complete opposites and he was pressuring me to have sex. As a 18/19year old it wasnt gonna happen. i knew my self worth so, i broke up with him and so glad i did... a year later i started dating my then boyfriend. we dated for a yr then he broke up with me cause he wasnt ready for a full committment. it tore me up but i knew i wasnt gonna chase him down. Then one day he calls me, asked to meet, we talked, he apologized, etc asked if we could get back together. we did, got engaged a few mths later and got married at the end of that year. that was over 15 years ago and we are still together☺...a good man will come to his senses and get his lady a boy keeps playing games.

I love you two so much! Whitney it is so special that you are able to share this sort of encouragement to the younger folk who are growing up in an age of much pressure to be older than they need to be. Having access to social media like RU-vid is such a blessing in this case. The floor is constantly open for conversation and communication about these things that seem so little but will become huge pastimes for the younger generations as they were for all of us. Kudos to you for exercising such integrity at a young age! Also, I LOVE that you both were track stars! Me too! (100, 200, 4x1) Aye!

Loved this video. I'm making sure my daughters watch it. Thanks for being so transparent, Whitney.

I'm always concerned when people have been together since high school and have never broken up. I don't think many realize how much is in store for them after they graduate high school. It's great that the two of you broke up and eventually got back together. During that break up, you were able to experience life, date some and learn who you are. You both grew and evolved. You were able to rejoin one another with more maturity and have a much stronger union as a matrimonial team. That is wonderful.

Great message for young girls, and older women alike! You rock.

My favorite RU-vid couple! Thanks for sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. It was like listening to a fairy tale. True love does conquer all.

This is awesome!! & your "awkwardness" is appreciated over here! Lol It helps me to relate to you! This entire story time did!!!

your curls are always on point girl! Love seeing more of your life and personality on this channel. thanks for sharing with us (:

Your make-up is ON POINT!!!

Wonderful story. So glad "you broke up". Definitely a way to gain perspective. Love you guys.

Great story and truly knowing to respect ones self is awesome. Glad you two stayed in touch, you both grew.

Wow I never seen this before. Didnt even know this channel existed. Interesting to watch this video now. Thanks youtube for showing it in the recommend section but weird though to pop up.

I love when you guys talk about your relationship lol. Your couples 123 tag is hands down my favorite. BTW you look BEAUTIFUL Whitney.

This was so lovely! I've been watching since u and Philipe lived in different spots and I remember how shy he was and how careful u were about what u shared with us. To see the evolution is heart warming

I genuinely enjoyed this storytime. I even cracked a few laughs at your commentary. I love how down to earth you are and you aren't afraid to be yourself. I did not feel like I was watching a RU-vidr storytime but a best friend telling a story.

Hard to watch cos just like many other people commented, in hindsight, a bunch of red flags were missed. Unfortunately many women make the mistake of going back to their exes for one reason or the other. If you break up, just walk away, don’t be their friend, don’t be the confidant, or therapist, don’t be there for them. Moooove on!!! It never ends well. Hopefully many people learn from her mistakes. Fine she broke up with him and is proud of that in this video but unfortunately she still hung around hoping he’ll “grow up” or come back to his senses. He realized she’d be there no matter what so he came back to her. Don’t ever allow yourself be the second or third choice. Thing’s probably didn’t work out at the time with some other person so he realized he still had her. Sad to hear his hypocrisy. I wish her the best and hopefully she never goes back to him for any reason. Most of all, make God the center of your marriage and don’t marry for looks. It never lasts if you do. God bless.

It took me until now to realize the blog channel hasn't been updated and this fool isn't on her Instagram. I'm glad she's healing but damn this is an eye opener. Like I bet she looks back on this and is like ooofff.

Love this. So many women and girls need to hear how you handled your situation

i love this! it's so important for girls (and women) to know their worth and never compromise their integrity for anyone, even someone you love. You should always love yourself more because you always want to be able to be proud of your decisions because you'll always have to live with them. i identify with this video so much! thank you!!!

I'm so glad you are free, and it looks like you are thriving now🤗 You are amazing Whitney!

Why this popped up on recommended page, idk but I have been recently thinking that they must have split. If that's true, saddened to hear that but hope whatever happened you and your kids and him are happy. 💙

Great video and advice, no worries at all about the lighting, I am proud of you for making that decision when you were younger and encouraging others to do the same.