Just like you, I also wanted to be with my mom for her passing and she also decided otherwise last April. I'm living abroad and was visiting with her for Easter and knew she was in a more or less "critical ' state. I asked her if she wanted me to stay longer. She shook her head, so I left as planned. Less than 2 days later she passed. First I was feeling guilty for not having stayed longer, but then I understood that she had probably decided it was best for me to not be around in that particular moment. We had spent a week hugging a lot. In that regard too, I switched my perspective: The first times she reached out for a hug I thought she was in "need". In hindsight I realized it actually was the exact opposite. She wasn't the one who needed them. But as a mom she knew that I was the one who needed them. And she was absolutely right: I can still feel those hugs and they continue to nourish me in so many ways ❤ Moms always seem to know what's best for us.
I just wanted to share, I read in one of my meditation books long ago, When it is time for us to take that final stop, The Lord himself comes and takes it for us.❤
I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this with us! I was wondering when we die , we have our guides and angels with us right? Why do some people say that some stay behind. Why would anyone want to stay on earth after they die?
Dear Mrs. Anita, I please You kindly and hopefully to answer my questions, that have been bothering me for a long time. Many who have experienced clinical death, describe horrible experiences and they shake and cry when they talk about it. I am interested in why souls, when they leave the body, are greeted by beings of light who explain everything to them, if the soul is omniscient in that state. Why should the soul be led around when it was already there and that is its home? How is the soul welcomed by the family from the physical life, if the souls are sexless and if they have already been reincarnated several times in various forms? I am also very interested in why the deceased soul is shown its past life when it comes there, if it is no longer interested in it at all, because many say that they were totally indifferent and uninterested in returning to the physical body. Can a soul feel physical pain or pleasure, any sensation, without a physical body? I am asking you for those answers and to talk a little more about what you specifically saw, apart from the meeting with the father. I have heard a lot of different experiences, but everyone talks differently. Does this mean, however, that not everyone goes to the same level after leaving the body? What are the souls doing there anyway? Best regards! ❤
My guess is that they can intuitively tell that it will be easier on their loved one psychologically to not go through the experience of witnessing their departure. It is probably more traumatic than most persons realize.
I am not sure weather or not Anita can answere us as i doubt if she i looks . She is now a milianair who's made a lot of money. I did read her book . Interesting but goes on a bit to much
