There’s always a best friend that has social anxiety and the only way he feels safe is when he looks to his best friend for comfort (I’m the guy with social anxiety)
I will be eternally confused on how girls don’t think of these things. It has to be biology and/or conditioning because everything they said made sense.
7:38 I’ve been with my husband since high school and there have been many vacations with the boys, and it’s very normal to not hear from him much. He’ll check in with me once or twice a day, sometimes he’ll call but not every night. When he’s gone on vacations with his family without me it’s the same way. I think that’s reasonable. He’s living in the moment and enjoying the experience with his friends or family, and he’s never given me a reason to distrust him.
The thing about guys doing the most at the beginning then relaxing was explained to me once. I was told to not confuse the marketing budget with the operations budget, they are not the same, and the operations one is somehow leaner. 🤣🤣
This episode made me realize that being single for 5+ years is not so bad lmao! No but I loveddd this pod, the boys were so funny and brought up good points! Love watching you girls 🫶🏼🩷!!!
I like how the one guy says can he afford the lifestyle. I think thats a good point! Cause if one of you can't keep up with the other then one or both may feel inadequate or things will get lost.
I loved how James & Fuhad were speaking complete facts from a male POV... a million percent in agreement🤣🤣🤣. Just showed me the disconnect between women and men and how we all think.
Only discovered this absolute genius of a man this year and I’m geniunly in love.. cannot get enough his videos and music… also, shout out to whoever produced/edited this video it was freaking lit!!!
hearing them say that boys don't compare girls like that spun meeeeee 😭😭 getting the male perspective on these kinds of things is so interesting cause the girlies, we tend to look at things through rose-tinted glasses a lot of the time so hearing the other side of that is so eye-opening
James and Fuhad were right about the keeping friends separate. It's risk management as well because should the 2 break up, now the friends are caught in the middle especially if they became really close. I know this from personal experience as my best friend was dating a girl who didn't have many friends so me and the rest of our friends became her friends. They broke up and it split the friend group down the middle.
Those scratches on the back could also be stretch marks! Especially if he’s tall. My cousin has stretch marks on his back from growing in his teens bc he grew to be like 6’2? As an adult. Like how we get them when we’re pregnant or gain weight.
I am here because of "ShxtsnGigs" whom I LOVE and who CRACK me up! I stumbled on their video about 3 Months back and have never looked back - still binging - hence how I found your video! I am an older British Female, yet, I had never heard of "The Girls Bathroom". I'm looking forward to watching this Episode. Loving your Set already - very girly and feminine - FABULOUS! I have automatically Subscribed to you and will be following you now. Anyone who loves the great "ShxtsnGigs" are worth following in my books. Anyway, I shall stop tying now....... here goes - back to your video and God bless🤗😍
15:40. That happened to my son when he was in high school. He called me from nurse’s office. I knew he was in pain because he had no shame when he told me.
@@alvin4303exactly that was a mile too far, bc there is a difference between hanging out with friends of the opposite sex (wanting to keep you’re friends separate) and sleeping in their bed. Ppl like to be daft on purpose.
Interesting. I find the bill splitting ones so strange because I have never even thought to not pay for my own drinks or meal when going out with anyone. Been with my bf nearly 7 years and when we were students I had quite a bit more money than him so I'd just cover the dates if I particularly wanted to go somewhere and when I lost my job and he had one he paid for some but usually we just buy our own food😂 I'd never assume someone's paying for me I find it strange that people do I didn't realise it was so expected
I also don't understand this and it seems to be such a topic of contention. I'm assuming if I'm invited I'm paying, if they offer I'll ask to make sure. If they insist well then cool. Its weird (to me) to be so expectant of someone, especially someone you're meeting for the first time to do so.
Enjoyed the pod, great collab!! ❤ I find it so strange though in today's world we are still discussing splitting the bill as if the man has to be able to afford a woman's company? As if fair treatment is not sexy? Why do women not find it attractive, and feel they have to be paid for? I don't know! 🤷♀
When I went on a girls trip to Chicago, I would text my husband in the evening, he would even talk to my girlfriend, they are friends, too! It only takes a few minutes to make your spouse feel like you thinking of them while you are away.
My ex 100% compared me to other girls he's been with, saying "I don't date girls like you normally. They're usually prettier" meanwhile he had a lazy eye 😭
I have a guy friend who has dated this girl for 5 years and he has only just admitted that she is his gf. They've been on holidays together, they've met each other's families, she has kids and he hangs with them, but never locked it as a relationship.
I will never _ever_ get how partners expect 50000 texts while the other's away?? As long as I know you're okay we're golden. A few little updates are nice because I wanna know how it is but tell me the rest when you're back home ffs.
Men and women speak two different languages and this episode rally points that out. Everything in life goes back to one question. However that one question is different for boys than it is for girls. Boys question is "Can I do it?" Girls question is "Am I loved?" So for example taking out the trash. Girls when you ask your man for the third time to "Please take out the trash!" he's going to get mad. But he's mostly mad at himself. His question is can i do it? can I be the man that remembers to take out the trash. You've asked him for the third time to do it so the answer is No he can't do it. And that's the worst thing for a man. We're afraid of Failure. Now girls you're upset that you had to ask him three times because your question is "Am I loved?" So if he loved me he'd have taken out the trash when i asked. Boys and girls both need to realize that these are the questions we ALL have and it'll help us communicate better!
Combine this with the five love languages and you're relationship will be sooo much stronger. My wife's languages are communication and gifts. My language is physical touch. So if i'm playing video games and my woman walks by and rubs her hand over my shoulder then i feel loved, i feel connected. But i haven't said anything to her in hours so she feels like we're growing apart and we need to work on us. We've talked and now a days i'll play my game or watch my show or read my book whatever, but i know that when we go to bed i've got to set aside at least 30 minutes to talk to her so she feels loved too!
I can't agree... Ex cheated with a girl who was the spitting image of me but smaller and told me bare faced that she was a slimmer me... 4 months later tries to come back because she was nuts. Another had his new Mrs changer her hair and everything to match mine whenever I did... Men are too obvious at times..
So I’m a guy. I came over here for Sng. But on one of the last points, I think being “not ready for a relationship” is a real thing that gets used a lot by people who have bad intentions. Personally for me, I have a busy schedule and a lot of trauma from my past relationships so for me to say that I’m not ready would be true, but for a lot of men it’s most likely just an excuse
My now husband asked me to go for a walk on our first date, I said yes and it turned into dinner, drinks and cinema. 😂 we are happily married going on 5 years now. Girls need to focus on judging a man’s character not his pockets! 😅
In regards to the guy who wanted to split the bill I think she should go. I split the bill on my first date with my husband ( movie and McDonald's). We got engaged the next week and have been married for 20 years and I am spoiled constantly. I don't work, he brings home his whole check to me and let's me handle the money. He always wants to take me on a trip or something. We also spend a lot of time together. We have 2 kids at home still (19 &17). He just wanted to see how I would handle being asked to pay for myself. He said he wanted to be wanted, not needed. We are best friends but we are in the honeymoon phase of marriage. We will probably start annoying each other a little around year 40.
