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Why is there a lack of accountability for the girl(s) in the first dilemma?? It takes two and they knew all the information. He’s a scumbag and shouldn’t be in a relationship let alone engaged to be married but she/they are not clear of any wrong doing either.
Sophia and Cinzia are most likely thinking the same thing but they have to be non-judgemental towards whoever writes in. The whole premise of the podcast is advising whoever writes in so they are always going to sound slightly biased/ in favour of people writing in. It may not always reflect their personal opinions
@@kK2K952 That makes it fake though, the point is to give advice not tell people only what they want to hear. You can say someones behaviour is wrong without being nasty about it.
@@Katielomax7I obviously get that but that just isn’t the style of the podcast. They’ve always set it up in a way where they don’t judge the person writing in. (probably also influenced by the fact that the people who write in are most likely their supporters)
Yes it’s definitely wrong for her to do this, but at the end of the day she’s a single girl and has no loyalty to anyone. He’s engaged and about to be married!
@@eilidhm9322 I do see where you’re coming from and I completely agree with you about him but she willingly and wilfully helped him cheat. As I said, it takes two.
In my opinion, those girls are just as much to be blamed for doing what they did. I don’t understand this mindset people have that the female isn’t in the wrong because she’s single. It’s still so disrespectful even getting involved with a nearly married man in the first place. I’m glad she felt guilty also and realised what she did was wrong and is just as much the problem to the situation.
Whereas I would disagree, I wouldn’t say she’s as much as a problem. Yes she was completely wrong and it was an awful thing to do but the husband to be is sursly bigger part of the problem, he’s about to get married so he’s a cheat
@@eilidhm9322 it’s just there’s so many men out there. But they choose the ones that are in relationships or married to piss about with. It’s just weird that people like to interfere like that. It’s almost like a competition of knowing they’ve got to someone who’s in a relationship. Like an ego boost situation and it’s just skank behaviour 🤣
I agree also feel like she’s sent the “dilemma” in for attention… she obviously couldn’t have felt that bad if she then went to follow him on social media. All seems a bit braggy to me 🤷🏻♀️
Sophia’s response to the last dilemma deserves a round of applause!!! 👏 that girl needs to not centre herself in her friend’s growth and new single life
So...the lisbon encounter....the groom is a loser, and the girl involved knew he was getting married....and being drunk is no excuse imo.. it takes two to tango.....why is the girl seeking out the bride to be wtf
1st girl is VILEEEE, how much do you crave attention && validation to sleep with someone’s partner &&& then you have the nerve to follow him on insta too? pls seek hwlp
Ikkk at first I was like ok she’s drunk not good but like if he was kind of forcing it more etc maybe he’s more to blame, but following him on insta!! When she’s sobered up and on the way home ???
@@ge0rg1na88 yeah he’s more to blame of course but damn she could have some shame 😭 the second the guys said they weren’t single the girls should’ve walked away && not entertained it at all
I think the last girl just misses her friend. She does not feel like Susen is there in tough times. When you don’t remember the last time someone checked on you, that can hurt. More details could change my opinion tho
We need more details on the last story…is this friend going out a lot? Is she introducing her children to these new men monthly? Her friend may need to call her out if so…I get being single is new & she is going through it, but being a mom through a big change for her children should be her priority imo.
That’s what I was thinking like why is she being justified for sleeping with 92 men when she has 2 kids at home who should be a priority?? Like sleeping around is not something you have to do or a priority. Like I’m on her friends side because she should be focusing on herself
I don’t even think that the sleeping around was the biggest problem. It sounded more like Sara (the girl writing) really missed her best friend. Maybe I’m wrong and more detail to the story could change my opinion. As a friend that is always there when it’s tough for the other, but doesn’t share my problems if I’m not asked, I felt that that was the actual problem.
@@marinaprzeko2415 I feel like a lot was left out of that dilemma tbh I agree with you, in that she missed her friend. I don’t really agree with Sophia and cinzias response to it all. I feel like it turned out to be shaming the girl who wrote in saying she should just mind her own business which that’s not what kind of response she probably wanted to hear back
For the third dilemma. As somebody with a really loving partner, he is really empathetic and affectionate. He thinks deeply, and cares even deeper. He very often uses words such as beautiful to describe people, places, foods, and so fourth. He is very charming, and absolutely would say something like my sister is beautiful. Because of how loving he is to people, how much he cared in that moment to really show up for me and to make an effort (hypthetically if that was to be me) because of how unapologetically himself he is. I see only good intention. But then, my sister and I have that relationship that such a comment would be seen as endearing and would be like our brother complimenting her, because he is not on the radar like that. He would one day be her brother in law. Your Brian has demonstrated that he really is such a giving person, and in that moment he was giving himself perhaps more than what you would wish for. But the beauty, is that if you were to communicate this was an overstep of a boundry, I would assume that giving nature would transpire into him doing absolutely anything to have you feel reassured and comfortable. Also reminder, this was said in front of you and in front of her own boyfriend, there absolutely was no bad intent. He is clearly a very deep guy who cares deeply, this is a unique and rather *beautiful* trait. You've communicated this wasn't right, and if there is to be a repeat, then I say no more as it isn't fair on your own traumas. Plus then his true intention would show, as he is ignoring your boundaries etc. but I wouldn’t cast him out already based off a comment which would have been taken entirely different if perhaps there wasn’t that past trauma. Allow yourself to have a kind man, allow yourself to try build trust with your loved ones. It's a scary road for sure. I really hope you and your Brian have a happy ever after. As does you and your sister. I am sorry you have been so hurt in the past xxx
Dont agree with that at all. The sister didn't say thank you cause she could feel it was not just coming from a nice place, like saying "nice shoes" she got weirded out as well and I think that say something..
@@emilia8620 I would agree with you there if I was thinking of anyone other than my boyfriend, he definitely comes out with things like that from a very good place and people do get weirded out by how fourthcoming he is sometimes but that’s the beauty and charm in his personality and people love him more for it. Perhaps the sister is also very aware of the climate of their relationship as sisters and how vulnerable that relationship might be. Perhaps the comment made her uncomfortable because of how much of an effect she knew it might have so she freaked and pretended she didn’t hear it. But either way, it could full well be that her perception of things might be accurate, and that you are also right. I just wanted to offer a different perspective as somebody with a partner who does say these things with such golden retriever energy xxx
@@Daisyhstone well, we're different I guess. I would never date a guy like that! It's probably not the only thing he can't understand. For me things like that is so so important!!
I’m glad there are others in the comment section that agree, the girls in the first dilemma are just as at fault as the man. You could see what they were trying to do a mile away.
Sophia and cinzias response to the last story was almost like they resonated with it in some way?!? Idk it was kinda like they’d experienced something similar so we’re avoiding being vulnerable with the story and kept it very surface level
The first dilema- you can't say the girls are not the blame , you would never do it to another girl and here you are blaming just the guys?!? Where is women solidarity for the poor bride
