Wah, Carol, my heart goes out to you. Now this is one I can say, " I 'can" understand how you feel". Just watching this brought deep deep sadness to my heart. My 80 year old dad passed on unexpectedly in 2022. I am in the US, I had just talked to him 6 hours ago, he was in hospital about to go to a surgery he might not have come out from. He was a lover of life, to the end he fought for independence. He loved me fiercely as his only daughter, and I the same. I do not think I will ever experience a greater more pure love. Its been 2 years. I am a 40 year old woman who still breaks down so badly at times at his memory. I have my moments. I try to bury the memory instead of dealing with it (Something that even I, who is a psychiatry practitioner know not to do-and tell my patients not to do). But life has to go on...Daddy sends me a sign once in a while that he got me, that he might be watching over me, but maybe those are the stories I want to tell myself. I cannot justify death...its simply the most defeating, painful process any human can go through. I miss my daddy. Carol, I hope that you find peace. It does somewhat get better with time, but you will always have those moments...
Hugs ad much love Carol ,God will be with you, grief is tough but its well,, I lost my husband 5yrsdown the line am still filling holoo in my heart … i cried for 3yrs …l know deathis heavy
It's usually very difficult to accept a loved one has left I lost my Dad twenty years ago and my mum years ago and it's very devastating but be strong in the Lord
Pole sana for your loss Carol. There's no right or wrong way to grieve, the important thing is to grieve. It will get better but you'll always miss your dad.🫂 Kate, you're such a vibe and AMG are lucky to have you. You're the same online and in person😘 Metha Ya Kagoni, you never disappoint, thank you.❤
I remember vividly back 2004 when my mother called me at wee morning 2am and she requested me we write her eurogy and she died later after 3months I really understand her pain....... it has never been easy.....
Hugs & love to you, Carol. I'm in the anticipatory grief stage for my mum. I have learned practically that it is healthy to grieve our loved ones to the fullest & to allow the process happen without rushing to return to 'normal' life. We deny ourselves a vital component of the healing process when we push grief aside in order to get on with life. There is a time for everything. A time to laugh & a time to weep. A time to rejoice & a time to grieve.
Hugs Carol.May God continue to strengthen you and give you the peace that surpasses human unverstanden. I know how it feels to loose a loved one,, I lost my dad n 2018 and was not in a Position to go burry him,.Only tears consoled me.
Take heart my dea I went through the same experience with my dad 3 years ago he prepared me then left you are blessed cry it out it helps for me it took me over an year feeling a lot of emptiness but am now healing when I miss him I remember the good times we had together , healing is a process but it will come eventually be blessed
Am crying all over again..i get you Carol😢Dad passed nikiwa huku Gulf am yet to go home and face the reality i still imagine that i will find him and tell him all about gulf tribulations 😢😢😢😢
Sorry Carole,it's never easy to lose a parent,you never heal with time that's a lie,you just get used to stay with the paid,I lost my dad in 2019 the pain is always fresh daily however much I try to fake,I never thought I would smile again😮😮😮
Grief is a process and you only learn to live without the person but u never heal completely. Carol how you feel is normal. Allow yourself to go through the process.
It is nice to know that there people who know death is a part of life and it is inventible. Once born we have one day to live this world. The only way to leave the world is through death. I compare death to birth. A baby lives in utero for nine months surround by water, listening to the mother's heart beat, breath sound, and the movement of the intestines. The baby is comfortable drinks the water and swims. That is his/her world, but one day his/her world starts collapsing. The water breaks and the abdominal muscles are squeezing him. The baby has to pass through a narrow canal and he is frightened as he knows he is dying. The baby is born but he is silent and not breathing until he is tapped on the back. He takes the first breath and cries. He sees bright light and people all around. He then hears a familiar voice saying welcome my son/daughter. I believe when our soul leaves our body it goes to the Lord who is waiting for us, and we hear the familiar voice,' well done my good faithful child. The placentae is born and buried so when our soul leaves the body our body has to be buried. We are made of dust and we have to go back to dust. Our loved ones are not dead but very much alive with the Lord and we hope to meet them one day.
Pole saana tata wa Murio its well ifeel yr pain ilost dad n bro buried sameday kama tulipona pia nyinyi mtapona.mungu aedelee kuwafariji it's not easy but God is able
Don't know if I'll be able to finish watching this... lost my dad some years back and I have never healed,the wound always peels when I come across such an interview 😢😢 they say time heals everything... well to me nothing has healed 😭😭
I lost my mum on July 5th 2023,,, tulikuwa na yy kwa kazi yangu akikujia key ya gate . But after some few minutes niliitwa akiwa hocy na hivyo ndivyo hakurudi😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My dad was perfectly fine. He came home at noontime which was unlike him saying he was feeling tired and would take a nap for 1 hour before going back to his business. 15 minutes into the nap he got a massive heart attack and died. How now? Was my question for 2 years. Take heart my dear
