What’s WRONG with Christian Dating?

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As Christians, we can do better
Lauren is joined on the sofa by Cheyenne, who is new to the world of Christian dating. Find out why she switched up her approach to dating and what she found when she did and hear from Lauren’s experiences and disappointments in dating Christians who haven’t represented Jesus.
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0:00 - intro
2:07 - what does YT say about Christian dating?
5:08 - christian dating gone wrong
6:55 - are our expectations wrong?
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@abundleofmyrrh 2 года назад

I too have really struggled to find someone who is prepared to wait until marriage to have sex, but I will not compromise. In my experience that cuts out 99% of the people that I have spoken to but I know that God has someone for me who will wait and who will be happy to do things God’s way. I’ve done it completely wrong in the past but I’m determined to do it right this time 😁 Thank you for the conversation x

@be_salt 2 года назад

Thanks so much for sharing. Hope you find him soon

@DD-pv2jl Год назад

There are still some of us men that agree with you.

@abundleofmyrrh Год назад

@@DD-pv2jl You are rare gems indeed! Thank you for your encouraging words.

@ashholland8291 2 года назад

so i recently had a similar conversation with the eldership and my church with regards to dating and how i can prepare (in my single season) for Godly marriage / Kingdom relationship. i few points they brought up: Wholeness - finding and seeking wholeness with God as a single, knowing and believing that His love is unmatched, and that His grace and mercy are sufficiant enough each day friendship - i feel this gets neglected alot, and i for one have sort of "bypassed" this step when it comes to persuing a partner. having a strong foundation in friendship can be such an important tool in potentially seeing this person as a life partner.

@lovefromcheyenne 2 года назад

This is gold💫

@be_salt 2 года назад

Thanks so much for this

@Leivarx7 Год назад

If youre a guy,, you dont need to try to have a friendship with me first, thank you. I only want REAL friends with no secret agendas in my circle. It upsets me whenever I find out that a guy "friend" thinks he can weasel his way out the friend zone because i like him as a friend. Guys think theyre so slick. And I will lose my respect for you js. Don't try the friendship card with everyone bc some girls don't appreciate that stuff

@thulasidaniel6330 2 года назад

Lauren Windle is an absolute gem. The way she dignifies guests on this channel and meets each person where they're at and in what the Lord is teaching them is really so kind and gracious. Praise God for loving and teaching us all in His own way and in his own timing

@lovefromcheyenne 2 года назад

I totally agree, Lauren is an absolute Gem!!🤩🥰

@be_salt 2 года назад

Agreed! Lauren is awesome!!

@Daniel-bb9mo Год назад

Easy to listen to

@pamelabrown2028 2 года назад

I could listen to Lauren continually. Shes real and I love how she talks about her past issues, transparency is a must in Christian dating !!

@be_salt 2 года назад

Ah we think Lauren is great too!

@steveboone1498 Год назад

Here's a question for you, are you single by choice or are you single by force? I'm single because society has it in their minds that I ruin lives and no matter how far over the age of consent a woman is, someone makes it sound like the person is a small child and not a full grown adult. Add to that the metoo movement and agenda to get every man in existence arrested because they "don't feel comfortable!" If the metoo movement followers were to have their way, it wouldn't be too long before they literally try to make it a crime for any males to exist and expect the government to put every male in existence to death.

@hg3895 2 года назад

Lauren thank you for sharing your back story, I've had a similar experience. Would be great if you interview more people with a sinful past. God bless

@be_salt 2 года назад

Great idea!

@Daniel-bb9mo Год назад

Same

@efyarita-kg7py Год назад

I really love this page 😊awesome

@be_salt Год назад

Thanks so much 😊

@ItsGottoBdone 2 года назад

I fully enjoyed this conversation.

@be_salt 2 года назад

Glad to hear it!

@ItsGottoBdone 2 года назад

@@be_salt 💛💛💛

@juliusakindola6887 Год назад

I'do enjoy the conversely as a Christian.

@emmaG390 2 года назад

I personally quite like to hear from married (older) people because they were once single and they know what it's like on both sides. As long as they are not making it seem like it's the be-all/end-all (but that's for both sides). I'm happy either way, single forever or married, so I don't appreciate being made to feel I lack something!

@lovefromcheyenne 2 года назад

I agree, I live hearing from married older people. Their wisdom is gold.

@be_salt 2 года назад

Good to hear - we'll bear it in mind for the channel

@emmaG390 2 года назад

@@be_salt my third sentence follows from the second

@juliusakindola6887 Год назад

I really enjoyed this page with their elaborated about bible

@be_salt Год назад

Thanks

@marcio5583 2 года назад

Have to admit , I'm 100 % with you on the ...when someone who is married gives advise/preaches/publishes books about being single as a Christian.

@be_salt 2 года назад

Interesting - I wonder if we should do a poll about this or something!

@marcio5583 2 года назад

@@be_salt Worth a shot. I'm like "yeah thanks for your advise to me as a Single Christian, as you go home to snuggle or have a candle light dinner with your spouse"..🤔

@superalibaba7504 2 года назад

Tips taken 👌🙏

@be_salt 2 года назад

Super

@_Forever555 Год назад

I’m surprised Christian guys are doing that! I make it clear from the get go that we ain’t going there.. even had a few Joseph moments (Gen. 39:10)… but to hear this is wow.. prayer points!

@be_salt Год назад

Yess....

@efyarita-kg7py Год назад

I just downloaded the app and it perfect 😊

@be_salt Год назад

We think so - hope you find someone amazing

@efyarita-kg7py Год назад

Am single and looking for God fearing man here

@efyarita-kg7py Год назад

@@be_salt I’m still hoping

@anne-ng3pm Год назад

Gm i am Ann i am single and looking forward to have a husband who is single too

@efyarita-kg7py Год назад

@@anne-ng3pm Hoping for the best here

@unapologeticallynique2928 Год назад

I’ve always been a Christian but at a point in my youth lost my way and I had twins out of wedlock and I feel in dating and being rededicated to Christ and choosing to live out my Christian values of celibacy until marriage and living out how he intended for us that I will be judged because they will think she has a child already why should I have to wait so definitely I agree it is very dangerous to assume because they are a Christian they will have the same values as you and just because I’ve sinned before doesn’t mean I continue to do so I repent and turn away and work to be better

@be_salt Год назад

Unfortunately you probably will be judged, but you know how God feels about you and the right person will accept your past, present and future

@chrispenfold-ivany499 5 месяцев назад

By their fruits you will know them.

@Hyorikatsu Месяц назад

Someone that doesn’t want to wait till marriage is not a Christian.

@alandmunk3h Год назад

awww Lauren. Who are rude men? Booooo!!!!!

@be_salt Год назад

Yes booooo

@jabu8913 2 года назад

Relationships can be so much better! Get and read THE UNSPOKEN SECRET: How to find and keep the right partner by GRAM, JOHN . It has personally given me an insight to having a batter relationship

@be_salt 2 года назад

Thanks for the suggestion