Men go through these emotions when women do this too. If I get pushed away or ghosted after a couple of days or so, I’m moving on. Homey don’t have time to play these games.
My rule is after 3 days, forget about her. After 2 weeks - Delete the number, all conversation history and unfriend/unfollow. Protect your peace. Respect yourself at all times
3 days lmao...you never met high value women then or aren't a high value man yourself.... clearly you've got too much time to doss around rather than being busy, women are busy people as well. Mother's, working etc. and you expect replies when it matches your own expectations? Pretty pathetic and beta male mindset tbh.
I’ve been burned enough. If a woman wants to be with me. She needs to do the work. I’m busy with working on myself. If she be worthy then I will make time for her.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Been there, done that except the relationship was shorter. For me it took like 6 months. Once that pain starts crawling into the relationship with the little arguments and one-sided efforts, you are better without it.
I feel you man, but you have to remember: If a woman is in to you, there's almost nothing you can do to change her mind. If she's not in to you anymore, there's almost nothing you can do to change her mind. You don't miss her, you miss the dopamine. You were getting most of your dopamine from her approval and affection. In order to get the amount you are used to you will have to get little doses from other things. Like going out with friends, hobbies, fulfilling pursuits, or anything that makes you happy. This will give you that missing dopamine, albeit in smaller doses - so keep at it. Picture you have a favorite gas station: it has the best, but also cheapest gas in town, and it's right by your house. If that gas station closes down, are you never going to drive again? I doubt it - you'll just simply have to get gas from more inconvenient and possibly expensive stations around town. Keep trying different ones until you have a new favorite. You got this, my dude. I hope some of that helps. Cheers!
Very interesting Anna. My ex gf is experiencing many of these, her friends tell me. However, she threw an ultimatum at me so I’ve moved on! Of course now I’m the bad guy. It is what it is!
That's the gray area a lot of PUA don't address. If both parties start playing no contact games they both lose. Just imagine how many people have overplayed their hand to finding their true soul mate.
It’s good sometimes to reverse roles and fade away if you are really investing your time in what you think it’s true love and you start feeling you are only getting bread crumbs back from her! Thank you sooo❤❤ much for your lovely video Anna and I loved your screen backup as you looked o pretty sending your message!
Both can happen. If there's nothing wrong with the relationship then there's no need to withdraw for too long. If there's toxicity or little respect is better to withdraw
Oh it def does, the problem is what she does in that absence.. or should I say, WHO, if ya catch my drift.. and by then it's too late.. irreversible damage ha so been done...
The fact most women on dating apps suck at communicating (which is a big reason why they're single to begin with) has rewired men's brains to mean they don't regard the tiny amount of uncommitted attention they get from "matches" very highly. In other words, we can't feel too bad for you when there's always a younger, hotter chick waiting to ignore us right around the corner.
Here’s the easiest way to sum it up. If either of you in any way are needing to use a ploy an edge or mental mechanism in order to have a relationship with one another then it’s not real and just hang in til it fizzles or cut bait now. It’s that simple and sorry for the run-on sentence.
A man doesn't concern himself with a woman's approval or attention. A man should seek God and pursue his calling. If she's not there, forget about her. If she is there, treat her right. Be good to her.
I pulled back, because she told me she had a bf. Now I no longer say hi to her or show her any attention. She seems bothered by it now lol. It’s funny, she has someone, but would rather seek my attention. Women, women, women!! 😂😮💨
I'd say sometimes going too much on negativity can be slowly turning into a turn-off. Things like Narcissism, telling what turnoffs are for women. Or simply about suppressing sexual needs for that, I advise to study more into Tantra. There you can find that the whole perspective in society on Sexual Energy is wrong. Outside that I'm indeed deep into study learning how to blend the polarity universe into one. There is no Light without Darkness, once you understand this you enter the 5D realm. In there, you can do things that go way beyond your wildest dreams. That's something I keep for myself, you will find out when you get there.
0:05 - Here in NZ, we have a Pop song with the line "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" in it, and it happened _twice_ this year that I heard that song play somewhere and at that exact line, which I then understood as a reminder 😊
I don't usually do the "not seeking" thing on purpose, but just want a relief from her tiring "game". (Or maybe she just too shy to take the initiative) It could be really tired to always try to guess what's on her mind,why she doing this and so on. But at the end of the day, I will still give a signal to show I'm still interested in her. I can almost see her behaviour change instantly.
Hey there D❤ Nice combination, love that hairstyle, looking good in white😘🥰🌹 I think playng stupid games, playng hard to get and all the bs like that is toxic and completely unnecessary. I'm single of course, but I've seen many people in my place where playng stupid games got them no winings - it just pushed the other person even more towards someone who does not play bs mind games. A healthy strong relationship is not based on playng stupid mind games, that is a toders behaviour. If you see a person playng bs games it means that it is not grown up for a relationship and you might as well give her/him a happy meal with a toy.
Doesn't this also happen for men too? I mean, if a woman seems interested and then suddenly shifts it leaves us confused and wondering if we did something wrong. Then we too lose interest and back off too. This is just human behavior and not special to women.
Had a date with a girl, we spent a few hours together, we had coffee, went for a walk together and just talked, I felt she was a bit awkward and wasn’t used to talking to people she didn’t know. She hugged me as we said good byes and I told her to text me if she wanted to go out again and she said she would. I text her a few days later as I’d seen a band were playing at a venue we’d spoken about during the date (I wouldn’t have done this had this specific band been playing that we spoke about) but she said she had plans that day. I accepted it and wished her a nice day. I’ve text her again asking about another event taking place, I’ve decided if she were to ignore the message or reject me without suggesting alternate plans I’m done.
There maybe a scenario where the male posses more balanced masculine and feminine energies as well as being more empathetic in nature. This leads him to pick up discreet dishonest underlying issues put out by the female counterpart and/or her dishonest allies. This shows that their alignment is probably not synchronized at that moment and therefore the male cuts ties with the female. The male may still love and feel bonded to the female, but at that moment, the break in the trust dynamic causes the withdraw. Until BOTH male and female can learn the deep cause of the splits Ville and reciprocate each other fully, the separation will ensue.
I decided a few weeks ago to ignore her to get her attention back. But now I realize I don' t want to see her again. I am done with her stupid mind games. I am worth more than that.
This is all 100% true, but I only pulled back because she expected me to be the driving force of the relationship. I don't care about gender roles. If what you have is real, that's not even a factor
Absence makes a Heart grows fonder. Well that doesn't apply to me. My heart doesn't fonder. Because my heart is ice cold, frozen and numb. I don't care IF she's not around, all I care about is my own well being. All I care about is chasing my purpose, success and goals in life.
l have listen to these type of videos and to me if the women we are tryjng to ignore and do the no contact all that is useless if she is seeing someone else
Now on her talking it out to her friends and family about her feelings that can go both ways good and bad. On one hand one friend may say go for it but the next one may not and her family may be the same.
😶🌫️please dont cry because I can't comfort you through a TV screen if someone wants to come forward and give some directions because I'm pretty sure I went 90% waiting on her to come the last 10% isn't that what Will Smith said in hitch. What then I don't want to cross any boundaries.
Mine n her friend welcomed me today n asked me 2 sit with them😊 I didn't n I had a reason for it. My crush came over as she usually does eventually asked me whats up? n we locked eyes n she was bringing lots of attention to her lips😂 I was doing most of the talking n I had her undivided attention! I left on high note n we said our byes n she was very upbeat to say the least.
There's a girl I work with coming about three years now, I remember whenever I wouldn't talk to her she would get upset. One particular occasion was when I was chatting to another co-worker and she barged right in the middle of us and made a verbal jab towards me, it was just out of the blue.
Maybe sat nav might help us how she thinks, because it would be better to have a yes or no then it saves wasting time, everything is could or maybe or she might want variety who knows.
ive got too going too few local coffee shops with my new baby puppy puppy dog too as well too seeing if theres any younger looking women or younger looking girls going too make eye content with me or coming up an approaching me too talking too me about my new baby puppy puppy dog ive just got etc. or smily an make eye content an keeping on walking away too seeing if there going too started too chaseing me around
How about when you know she’s checking u out and you throw her a smile , why can’t she GO UP 2 tha guy I mean it’s tha 2020’s right women want tha same equal opportunity as MEN RIGHT
yeah got some new aftersave an some new colonges an ive got too getting few new outfits for going out too dinner at my local bar or local pub for dinner an few cold drinks off beers or wines with few homies an few freinds an mates an getting too meet new persons out an about.
She probably did do something wrong..... more importantly her sisters in womanhood has done something wrong, as a man who does give women distance, what goes through my mind - does my presence or pursuit contribute to red flags for her. Therefore if she is interested in my company, she needs to let me know, as I can't read her mind.
I think it was an Algernon Blackwood character who wisely stated, 'Women rarely think at all.' Wisdom or chauvinism? Depends where you're standing I suppose. Or lying.
If you’re a dense man like me you will unintentionally break hearts. Women please just be more straightforward, both parties lose out if you just assume we reject you when really we just thought you were being nice.
Such a waste of energies, all this over thinking is a waste of energies, it could be easier if people, men and women would be braver and just talk to each other to comprehand their own situation, a man can simply ask a woman a straight question, "are you into me"? or, i understand that you want to meet me..., if the answer is yes than go on but if the answer is no you should forger about her, as the saying goes "climb the wall and leave it all behind", all this self thinking derives from the self ego, i was long ago a self ego human being and i was hurting a lot of women, but i found out that self ego and self thinking are two of the worst enemies of people and i let my ego go and now i'm a better man but the most important thing, i feel better with myself and better with women, God bless!!!
Can never take you seriously as you're not married yourself. It's like giving parenting tips to others when you're not a parent yourself. None of your tips work for myself anyway, as women are either repulsed by me or I'm invisible, but at least you're good on the eye, eh Anna 😉
I've got one. What if she's a manager but she makes it obvious that she's interested with body language. But we never talk cause were both too nervous and don't know how to start a conversation? I think atp we've both stared holes straight through each other. I've also been with one of her employees in another department, which was a mistake. But over the past two months shes visibly gotten over it. But if there is another woman around she seems to be a bit jealous. I feel dumb to ask.. but how do i approach a woman of this beauty and ask on a date after all this awkwardness and circumstance?
Avoid office romances and relationships. Period. If things were to sour in the future, it would be extremely uncomfortable for the both of you. Keep your work life and private life separate. As they say, don't s*** where you eat.
@@Monatio79 ok. No offense. That's the cookie cutter generic response that people say when they've had a bad experience. I know, I've had a few. But we're adults and it's not highschool. Passing on someone would be a horrible idea if they ended up being a life partner just because you get a check from the same place and would pass by each other now and then if there was a breakup. I appreciate the advice.. but I didn't ask your opinion on this. You avoided the questions completely.
@@777DBZFF I did answer your question, albeit in an indirect way. Dating in the workplace will, eventually, lead to ''awkwardness''. No offense. There are ample opportunities, fish in the sea so to speak, so my question is why go for someone at work? You do have a life outside work, don't you? Nobody's life is that unremarkable. My ''cookie-cutter'' pearl of wisdom is to go for those.
