What a Woman Really Needs 

🥰 The greatest "marriage" are 2Servants-inLove!🙂

women are equal in christ but the headship of the home was put in the man by God.

So your saying she wants a father to provide but no intimacy.

Back in 11th grade I asked God for a friend and literally next day I met my new friend Ashley who I didn't know was in my class and actually sat next to me , and I simply said hello , and a few days later we actually had our first real interaction, she tapped on my shoulder asking if I can help her find waldo in where's waldo book and it was random and funny to me at the moment and I helped her , and after the weeks went by we became best friends, I would protect her in dodge ball in gym class, we'll talk about many things and meaningful things too , laugh and be goofy , I would buy her real food cuz regular cafeteria food is gross and she would always complement me and encourage me about stuff, and she would keep finding reasons to touch my bracelets and necklace I had on , and would get touchy feely and lean on my shoulder, and sometimes grab my hand and we'll run to lunch just for fun etc , and on the last day of school she hugged me and told me she loved me , but the hug was in a way where time felt it slowed down and we we're there for a while but actually just a few seconds , it was very strange and thought God deliberately slowed down time just for that moment, from that experience what jimmy Evans is very true

@@leeparcell6233 I didn’t hear that. The first thing they said is both spouses are there to serve each other as an act of love. If you aren’t up for that, there is no requirement or religious mandate to get married. In fact, scripture supports that for some it is better not to marry at all.

Wow, Lynn! Thank you for tuning in and for sharing your heart! You are a blessing to us!

I serve my husband on the days he goes to work and I am off on the weekends or when he is. He knows what the Bible says if I serve he has to meet all my needs literally and figuratively.(That has turned out to be a lot of fun) Knowing what role you are expected to do in the marriage makes everything much easier and it allows us to have more fun together. Less arguing & less stress Trust me I had to think long and hard before I tried if we are taught from children against the natural order. The man in order to be served has to do way more in the relationship and the wife has to be on board .It really should be the female that initiates it and agrees to do it. The times we do get in a little heated debate all I have to do to end it is to say “if you keep acting this way I am not going to serve you tomorrow …that means no breakfast. No Helping out just on my computer doing “Me World” He really enjoys the peace and love it brings and it feels good doing it Gods way.

You did the right thing, love yourself,. Praise God 👍😘

I am happy you got out of that marriage.

I'm glad you got out , their are some people who are called dark empath , they are very "empathetic" but very dark about it and ate literally the most dangerous people alive more than narcissist, sociopathic and psychopath people , so watch out for these people and God bless

Good.

Wow! Surprised to see people so easily supporting divorce without more information. Every story has 2 sides. We don't know his side of the story or his past. To form judgement and approve divorce with only one side of the story is terrible. How do we know there was no chance at working things out? With God, all things are possible. Even healing and restoration.

My heart goes out to you. I believe that if you are doing this by faith that God will do the supernatural. God is awesome and He is faithful. I believe that you will be healed. You must know within your ❤️ that He who began a good work in you is faithful to complete it! May God bless, heal, deliver you from all that was inflicted upon you!

God bless you

I'm so sorry. My fiance left me and has been seeing other women too. So disrespectful 😞 I pray for restoration!! 🩷🩵

So glad!

You are so welcome!

There coming to Grapevine in February 2022 for XO Marriage Conference. You can get tickets on the XO Marriage website.

@@mamaat5682 Thank you. I will get on top of that first thing in the morning. I appreciate you!

Thank you! 😊

Have you tried Doug Weiss? He has some resources on RU-vid regarding what he calls “Intimacy Anorexia.”

Rancid Jane. I love your name.

@@jillnowhere7333 LOL. Thank you. I think your name is even more interesting than mine.

Yes I would say it applies to all women looking to be in a relationship. And if these aren’t her innermost needs, then she has a lot of emotional damage to make her feel different.

Yes, I would say it applies to most women. At least It applies to me and what means the most to me from my husband!

Don't assume anything. Get to know her.

And are you still with him?

I’m in the process of no more…

Check out this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YoDvLOHrY-Q.html

God can change any person, any marriage. Pray for yourself and for your husband to have a marriage filled with God’s love!

is it not better to ask God fr his opinion on your marriage?if he already told u then thts ok.

Suggestion- Look up Doug Weiss on RU-vid if you haven’t already. He has a lot to say about sexless marriages. (I’m sorry you’re dealing with it, that is a painful situation)

@@aneber1811 I do watch Doug Weiss very good.

Sorry, it's usually the other way around for that one .

I am sorry, by the way. The pain of working on your marriage alone is overwhelming. My husband has come around a bit- shown me I can still work with him in certain areas. I hope your wife comes around, too.

If she is resenting you for helping... the resentment is coming from a root of bitterness for something else entirely. Not always true, some are just very controlling that way. If she says she needs help and then resents you for helping... there are bigger issues. I love when my husband helps when he sees I need it, I don't need to ask. Most women resent having to ask a man to help.

Right. The church is still romanticising marriage, child bearing and other stuff.

This advice is for Genuine Spirit Filled Believers, so if you’re not truly Born Again this instruction will seem crazy to you. Find secular marriage advice as it might make more sense. 🤔🤷‍♀️