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What are BFRBs? (Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors) - Hair Pulling, Skin Picking and Nail Biting 

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➼ Do I have hair pulling disorder?
➼ Do I have skin picking disorder?
What are body focused repetitive behaviors?
BFRB is a general term that refers to any repetitive self-grooming behavior (pulling, picking, biting or scraping of the hair, skin or nails) that results in damage to the body.
This disorder is actually very common and many do not know how to stop these behaviors. I take you through what you need to know to stop these behaviors and go through a demonstration of what a BFRB is.
Some examples are:
Trichotillomania (hair pulling)
Excoriation Disorder (skin picking) - Dermatillomania
Onychophagia (nail biting)
Rubbing
Biting
etc.
One of the best treatments for this is called the comprehensive treatment model for BFRBs (ComB).
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@fjfjdjwnf5898
@fjfjdjwnf5898 4 года назад
I have been struggling with skin picking and unconsciously rubbing and picking the sides of my thumb then biting them, and once i tried to stop picking my skin i started pulling out my hair i also bite my cheeks alot ive been struggling with this for as long as i can remember and i thought is was just me, im glad im not the only one and i can get help.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your experiencing! I hope you can find some relief soon!
@susabobus
@susabobus 3 года назад
So its a part of OCD too? I thought it was just stress or something... wow.
@fjfjdjwnf5898
@fjfjdjwnf5898 3 года назад
@@susabobus I dont think you need ocd to have it but i think it makes in more common in not sure
@susabobus
@susabobus 3 года назад
@@fjfjdjwnf5898 well i do have ocd and i wonder if nailpolish scratching and cheek biting comes from it, if so it's interesting how it actually affected more in my life than I thought and maybe even more and im just unaware :)
@WaverlyKaddafewcharecters
@WaverlyKaddafewcharecters 3 года назад
SAME SAME SAME I NEVER KNEW IT WAS APART OF MY OCD
@W0rkknPr0gress
@W0rkknPr0gress 2 года назад
Lip biting, nail (and skin around nails) bitting has always been HUGE BFRB’s for me. Which happens when I’m anxious but makes my anxiety even worse because of how my lips and nails look afterwards. Such a viscous cycle. So glad to have come across this video. Had no idea this was a thing others are going through as well.
@quackboi69
@quackboi69 Год назад
Same
@karliann1
@karliann1 Год назад
I'm 47 been picking and eating the skin around my fingers as long as I can remember. I had NO clue others experience this as well.
@divaandconn5109
@divaandconn5109 3 месяца назад
SAME 🥲
@sertanejando-sempre
@sertanejando-sempre 5 лет назад
I have a BFRB but dont feel comfortable talking about it just yet. I find that fidgets help but I never thought of doing it with a purpose. Thanks!
@drizzy2793
@drizzy2793 5 лет назад
Im going to share this with my friend who struggles. Your video made sense to me!
@evonchristie2549
@evonchristie2549 3 года назад
I appreciate this info. I’ve struggled with this for as long as I can remember, maybe since before or around kindergarten. I bite my cuticles. And a couple of places on my hand. (I’m extremely embarrassed by it.) No particular timing, I’ll do it throughout the day. I do notice that if I feel a rough spot on my hand, I bite it. The only thing that helps is daily exfoliating, giving myself manicures (trimming cuticles and moisturizing) and bandaids. The problem is, the texture of regular bandaids trigger me because it’s not smooth. I found that the silicon ones for blisters do the trick. The only problem is they are expensive, and if I dont wear them continually, I soon go back to the habit. I feel that the root to this problem is perfectionism. I attribute the rough feeling that triggers me as an imperfection, and biting it is my drive to correct it. Don’t get me wrong, my life is not in perfect order. This is probably another trigger. It’s taken many years to get to some understanding of what and why this is going on. Hope my journey helps
@TimTamRipple
@TimTamRipple 2 года назад
Yes i can relate to the perfectionist thing- thats why i cant stop untill i have bitten every nail, it all looks the same , its all hurting the same etc. i tear off the cuticle s and skin around the nail . It had to look a certain way b4 im satisfied. I think its also OCD as well. I really cant stop ✋ doing this and other behaviour s. I think i need help badly.
@ly92584
@ly92584 3 года назад
Thank you I’ve been suffering from Onychophagia and Excoriation Disorder for about 9 years so this means the world to me, thank you once again.
@elenacardio5875
@elenacardio5875 5 лет назад
I have trichotillomania and have tried everything to stop. This video was super helpful!😘
@eladroma17
@eladroma17 3 года назад
This video needs more views. Thank you for the infos!
@zlata4833
@zlata4833 4 года назад
I bite my nails, bite my lip outside and inside, I'm biting the inside of my cheeks and I'm poking and removing skin around my nails. I have been doing this for years, It's awful. I need help and I'm scared to get one.😣
@babushkagirl9074
@babushkagirl9074 3 года назад
Yesss whenever I’m stressed my lips are dry then it makes me bite them
@yoyomsm
@yoyomsm 3 года назад
I do that too
@foodieridesph
@foodieridesph 3 года назад
Same
@ivy1324
@ivy1324 3 года назад
I tried something and its sensory toys! They are stress relieving but i use them to keep my hands busy from biting my nails! It helps allot, i hope you try it out and it will help allot
@yoyomsm
@yoyomsm 3 года назад
@@ivy1324 thanks for the advice. i was thinking of visiting a therapist for general anxiety as well
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 года назад
🚨Step-By-Step Program to learn how to stop hair pulling, skin picking, & nail biting. (try for free) 👉 BFRBOnline.com
@Matthew-ju3nk
@Matthew-ju3nk 4 года назад
Nice quick overview of the issue with some good suggestions for self analysis and cooping techniques. Thanks for the info.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
Thank you Matthew!!😃
@Creative-Chaos
@Creative-Chaos 2 года назад
Me too. I learned it was a BFRB yesterday and went looking for videos about it.
@MessedupBirdie
@MessedupBirdie 5 лет назад
ME: Pulling my hair while watching this video. Since this is what i do when watching videos.
@MessedupBirdie
@MessedupBirdie 5 лет назад
@@ocdandanxiety It is just agonizing as soon as i realize that i am doing or what i have done (pulled so many hair they're all over my shirt). Wish there was a switch off button for that.
@violetaiscringy8226
@violetaiscringy8226 3 года назад
I’m peeling my lips till they bleed while watching this video and crying at the same time in pain 🙃
@lifesuckslikepain5678
@lifesuckslikepain5678 3 года назад
I’m biting my nails rn-
@Loveteyah
@Loveteyah 4 года назад
i didn’t know i had this until i saw your videos about it! i’m definitely going to talk to my counselor about it and see what she thinks about it as well!! i really appreciate the info
@lasdesas1935
@lasdesas1935 5 лет назад
WOW! I didnt know rubbing was considered a BFRB. I thought it was just a habit!
@abcdefg4740
@abcdefg4740 3 года назад
This was the most helpful video ever I watched about BFRB. Thanks Nathan.
@maryshelley5774
@maryshelley5774 2 года назад
I started biting and picking my cuticles, nails, and inside of my cheeks when I was 8 years old. It’s been over 15 years and I still do it. I have an anxiety disorder and depression. Getting dip manicures, using a fidget toy, and having a job where I have to wear a lot of gloves to lower the opportunities to engage in those harmful behaviors helps. Also treating my underlying disorders with medication and therapy. For anyone out there who this sounds familiar with, there’s hope to manage this!
@scubatuba1083
@scubatuba1083 2 года назад
I have the same issues. The inside of my mouth is in so much pain from the biting chunks of skin off and my jaw hurts from clenching and non stop grinding my teeth. I will grind and clench my teeth all day obsessively with as much force as possible
@ggrother539
@ggrother539 Год назад
Gargle with water and sea salt, pulling cheeks to reach more area. I just pop some salt in, then take a good sip, etc. Avoid scalding your mouth , let food and drinks cool off. Do warm sea salt baths, manicure and pedicure by scaling entirety of hands and feet with a nail clipper, cuticles treated the same, more info in my other comments. You will be better, for sure.
@Mint-nt6ly
@Mint-nt6ly 8 месяцев назад
Bless you for posting it for free!
@OurSweetBlasphemy
@OurSweetBlasphemy 5 лет назад
Thanks for this video!! I struggle with Trichotillomania and others, but trich being the most impactful. Buzzing my head was the best thing I’ve ever done for my mental health! But as I start to struggle again (buzzed over a year ago) I find bandaids and hats are my best options. Looking forward to watching more :)
@eternal_nomad
@eternal_nomad 3 года назад
I buzzed my hair off as well. For more than one reason, but it has been a relief from pulling it, definitely
@sandywich.
@sandywich. 2 года назад
I did suffer from trichotillomania for about most of my life and yes i am 12 but anyways I didn’t know what it was and thought it was normal so i keep doing it. I told only my brother and friends but not my parent especially my mom. One day at breakfast she saw a a bald spot at the top of my head because thats where i pull only where the middle back part is because i felt a sensation at. My mom of course got mad but i mean she is the reason why i stopped. Not because she was there for me and support me but because i was scared and traumatized. 🙁
@ggrother539
@ggrother539 Год назад
Do: Warm not overly hot Sea salt bath, meticulous fine combing of the scalp, remove all plaque, scrub everywhere, stretching all skin to get in the 'cracks'. This works. Avoid extreme heat and cold, medication, alcohol, stay calm.
@j.o4860
@j.o4860 3 года назад
I was feeling my skin throughout this video and whenever he said "urge to pick" i slowly lowered my hand 😭
@lordgrimixb
@lordgrimixb 3 года назад
I pick the skin on my fingers/hands. It's so bad that I make it bleed almost everyday. I'm so used to the pain and seeing blood now. Whenever someone asks me what happed to my hands I just tell them I have dry skin because I'm not comfortable opening up about it. Good to learn about it
@lumwong7237
@lumwong7237 10 месяцев назад
I bite my nail since I was a few years old. I can never put on nail color in my life. I never thought it was an illness until I saw Nate’s video. Thanks so much nate❤
@cobrafire3700
@cobrafire3700 3 года назад
I'm currently 5 months free from skin picking. The main spot I would pick was my thumb and I'd feel horrible for doing it even though it was relieving from stress. However, I haven't picked or bitten any skin from it in 5 months, my thumb sometimes looks a little bit blotchy and pale but it doesn't hurt
@parthenonpudenda
@parthenonpudenda Год назад
proud of Ü 💚
@emilypaige1491
@emilypaige1491 4 года назад
Last year you recommended this video to me after I pleaded for help on reddit - Just coming back to say THANK YOU (:
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
Thanks so much for taking the time write this! I hope you're doing well! 😃
@andrempn
@andrempn 3 года назад
I've been struggling with trichotillomania for about 8 years now. After many ups and downs, various techniques and methods that extended from mindfullness to excel spreadsheets, and even some months of Acetylcysteine use (that didn't show any results) it still is a daily battle... But here I am, respecting my time, eventually I'll overcome this behavior. Keep strong, everybody!
@lilli-.-
@lilli-.- 3 года назад
You should make a TikTok and share this information ! So many people would appreciate this and support you!
@francarranza434
@francarranza434 3 года назад
Thanks! You explain everything simple and clear. 🙏🏽
@yaitovaspiegel7677
@yaitovaspiegel7677 3 года назад
Thank you for this video! It was really informative and your voice was really calm and relaxing :)
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 3 года назад
Oh thank you!
@ctalisman8070
@ctalisman8070 2 года назад
ever since i could remember i would always rip my nails until only the pink part was left, and always just destroy the skin around my nails. i noticed sometimes i rip my lips and pick at my skin leaving scabs that i always scratch right before it heals. its really annoying, thank you so much for the video!
@agnessmith780
@agnessmith780 10 месяцев назад
The comment that you made about when the habit gets triggered really was helpful. Because I only bite my fingernails whenever I’m watching TV and I only pick at my face when I’m in front of my magnifying mirror. Then I get sore spots on my face, which I am Covering up with make up. Really appreciated this video. Thanks for sharing and giving hope.
@17HannaMae
@17HannaMae 3 года назад
I pick my scalp and crack my left ankle. I think it's a combination of anxiety and just feeling satisfied when doing it. But I wouldn't say I'm an anxious person. I'm 22 and this definitely started in middle school but got much worse in high school and now it's just not gotten any better. If I really think about it I can control the urges. Sometimes I just don't care though because its so satisfying for me to do it. I sometimes chew my cheeks too but that is always unintentional. Some days after work I'll notice my cheeks are chewed and sore and I have no memory of doing it. That doesn't happen very often. My scalp picking and ankle cracking are all day long.
@peepaw6996
@peepaw6996 3 года назад
I pick at my scalp too and it gives me headaches
@leonhull6720
@leonhull6720 3 года назад
I used to severly bite my nails to the point my fingers now look like stubs 😅 Since I've changed up a few things in my life like, finding a more fulfilling job and cutting out "toxic" people from my life. I've found that with a little conscious effort and a lot of self manicures (mainly filing them to keep them smoove) I've been bite free for 4 weeks now. 😁 I still have to make an effort to avoid biting and actually had a weird dream where I bit them and felt very guilty. I had to check when I woke up 🤣 glad it wasn't true. I'm not going to give everybody advice on how to stop, (Its not my place). But I hope my story can help somebody. Its definitely increased my confidence, even though my fingers are still stubby. 🤦‍♂️😅 Good luck to anybody looking improve themselves, even if its in trivial seeming ways. 😁
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 3 года назад
Good for you! It's awesome to hear you're doing well. How is the situation now, in August 2021? Biting your nails or you've been free from it now for a year?
@outlsd1590
@outlsd1590 2 года назад
I went 6 months and had one breakdown and all the progress was over. I’m going to keep trying since I’ve shown I can do it . This post is needed right now , and I’m happy for you ! It’s great to see someone make progress
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 2 года назад
@@outlsd1590 Have you tried watching the free videos on our channel where we share daily tips and tricks on how to stop? They are all free and tons of people have been able to stop for good. Take care and most importantly, don't lose faith.
@quentinbarth3268
@quentinbarth3268 Месяц назад
I watched this video years ago, when I was (compulsively) learning everything I could about OCD and related disorders (to make sure I had OCD and wasn't a monster, fun times). It turned out to be really helpful when my excoriation disorder got out of control recently, due to eczema. I literally went to the emergency room -- because it was that out of control -- and told them that this is what was happening. So, thank you!
@kayladupuis8610
@kayladupuis8610 2 года назад
For literally as long as I can remember, I've struggled with all these. I have memories from 5yo, crying and venting to my dog, wondering why I couldn't stop pulling my hair out. Back in the early 00s, every child psychologist I went to was useless. Neuro feedback, hypnotherapy, medications, my God. I could write a book
@musings.By.Marivii
@musings.By.Marivii 3 года назад
I’ve been struggling with skin picking since I was about 9. I’m so over it 😭
@rayanhaq8552
@rayanhaq8552 3 года назад
Same bud
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 3 года назад
Start the journey of stopping it. At least give it a try. Try to find an accountability partner. I believe in you.
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 3 года назад
@@julieclark9749 How are you doing now? Have you been able to stop?
@DigitalBath418
@DigitalBath418 10 месяцев назад
I've had a problem with chewing the insides of my mouth and my checks. I'm 21 and have been doing it since I was 9. It's really hard to stop. Thank you for this information
@eioroma
@eioroma 3 года назад
wow im 11 and this was on my recommendations, RU-vid really knows that i do these
@desireesmith4754
@desireesmith4754 5 лет назад
Thanks for this video! I like the point that it's not about not doing the behavior but instead, choosing to do a different behavior. I've never thought about it that way. Do you have a specific type of figet that you recommend?
@yanir1698
@yanir1698 3 года назад
Wow happy to know I'm not the only one, since a kid I found different methods of BFRBs if it wasn't nail biting, it was teeth grinding, or hair twirling, picking dead ends of hair it's so hard I can do it for hours without even realizing it until I look at the time.
@TimTamRipple
@TimTamRipple 2 года назад
I bite my nails really bad and i twirl or braid /plait my hair constantly . I do like to pull my hair too. I have just started to pick the skin on my nose too. I do it for stress relief, to control my emotions and when im teally into watching a movie or book . Im soo glad you dont talk bs and say you will cure it for good 👍. Once i start i cant stop unti i feel pain or physical cant do it anymore - ie i have no nails to bite.
@lovelypanda2100
@lovelypanda2100 3 года назад
thankyou for these explanations👍
@kaitlynnendsley5158
@kaitlynnendsley5158 3 года назад
I pick my skin but my friend bites his nails all the time and it makes me really sad an I love him so much and I don’t know how to help him but I will watch these videos and learn!!! Will send him this vid 👍🏼
@xxvirginiaaaxx
@xxvirginiaaaxx 2 года назад
I’ve struggled with this for about 15 years. I have rarely talked about it and only recently sought treatment for it
@robertoledezma-brown1189
@robertoledezma-brown1189 Месяц назад
Listening to this video just made me amputate my fingers
@cookiemonster3147
@cookiemonster3147 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for making these videos!!!
@bholenrocha141
@bholenrocha141 3 года назад
I picked my toe skin until starts to bleed.. 😢 I can't stop my self doing it.. Because every time i does that i feel relaxed and calm...
@kianaraynee
@kianaraynee 3 года назад
I have struggled with finger skin picking for over 3 years, I spend several hours a day doing it and its horrendous. My fingers ache and bleed
@margdono
@margdono 3 года назад
me too! Even if I stop and grow my nails out, something happens and I start again. Like if I drink.
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 3 года назад
I hope you can solve this soon. You will feel much better and get your confidence back again.
@alejandroalcantara7739
@alejandroalcantara7739 4 года назад
Thanks this really helped!!!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
Glad it helped!! Check out the treatment videos too if you haven't seen them! 😃
@lee_likes_bees
@lee_likes_bees 3 года назад
Oh boy this’ll be a long list cuz i do a lot of stuff. I have a picking disorder where basically i pick the skin off of all my fingers i pick my face basically anywhere i feel something that i can pick i will. i also pick my lips and my cheeks. another thing that’s started is pulling hair i don’t rip but i use my hands and pull out hairs that a brush doesn’t get. i also do that with my eye lashes and with my eye brows. i’ve also started nail biting too. i think another reason i have an urge to want to do this is because my mind is telling me i’m cleaning myself when i’m really just hurting myself. i’ve tried stopping but i just end up wanting to do it. i think the only thing that has helped me is playing with slime constantly. i’m not really sure what to do because i do this all day like i usually just don’t stop
@melissiagummig
@melissiagummig 4 года назад
Thank you I find this very helpful I've gone back to nail biting just recently I was that kid who practically chewed their hands off I am going to start tracking
@parisdonohoe8159
@parisdonohoe8159 4 года назад
thank you for this!!!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
No problem my friend!
@deannajones5905
@deannajones5905 3 года назад
I will try this I have struggled a long time and just want to be able to dry off normally again and to be able to wear appropriate clothing in the summer.i hope we all get better in baby steps. Depressed and trying not to give up.. best wishes on dermatillomania or w.e it's called. I thank this page for its content
@AllenHiME
@AllenHiME 7 месяцев назад
I want to share my BFRBs here bc I never see them mentioned and maybe someone will feel less lonely. I rub my skin or scratch my scalp until dirt comes out. I also can’t stop smelling my fingers after that or rubbing the dirt with my fingers. I had a bad time with the scalp scratching, I lost some hair and had some scars and it added more stress that resulted in me scratching even more. I bought some finger latex protectors (sold as for avoiding touching viruses and bacteria) and it really helped with the scars and with the hair loss. I still do my BFRBs but I try to be aware as not to damage my skin. I want to understand more about BFRBs but I guess they are different for everyone.
@dailygrindentertainment1402
@dailygrindentertainment1402 3 года назад
Excellent! Video! Iv been picking the skin on my THUMBS SINCE I was 3yrs old..I NEVER knew it was EVEN a desease, I THOUGHT it was just a habbit ..a 40YR old habit
@Bobbikay33
@Bobbikay33 3 года назад
I was watching a thriller movie and by the end of the movie my thumb cuticles were bleeding. I was not aware till we left the theater. Ouch. Now I wear gloves to movie theaters
@fulicious2991
@fulicious2991 2 года назад
I touch bumps on my face and body A LOT, even when I got foot fungus and my skin started flaking, I'd pick at that for the satisfaction But the most annoying I had to force myself to overcome were nail biting, biting off the skin on my lip and now trying to stop gnawing my teeth because it's affecting my jaw. It's surprisingly difficult to find a less harmful behaviour to replace the bad one.
@opticneuron7076
@opticneuron7076 5 лет назад
I use bandaids on my finger when I feel the urge to pull. It seems to work. I just need to remember to use them!😜😜
@soyoymilk
@soyoymilk 3 года назад
i have like more than a hundred bandaids in my closet, maybe i can use that xD thanks for the idea though :p
@leandrorodriguez8472
@leandrorodriguez8472 3 года назад
I’ve eaten my bandaids, pulling the threats little by little.
@privateequityguy
@privateequityguy 3 года назад
How has it been? Works well? :)
@djfreem6881
@djfreem6881 2 года назад
Serious question. I have been diagnosed with: Autism, ADHD, and two forms of Dyslexia, and I am well aware that these (among others) have relatable symptoms to OCD and other Neurodivergent-Conditions, however; this video, and a few others have me genuinely concerned if I might have OCD as well (sorry for all the background information). I talked to a couple friends of mine about if I should possibly try to set up a test for myself, because I would rather know so that I can try to set up a plan to better interact with and manage my conditions, but they each blew off my concerns Am I just being crazy and over categorizing my stimming, or would it actually be worth it to look into.
@rachelraja7188
@rachelraja7188 Год назад
I'm going to put my drumsticks in my hands again. I can practice my stick tricks! What a great idea! I want nails again.Thanks for this video.Have a great day!🙏🤍🥁
@Orangecatenergy
@Orangecatenergy 3 года назад
God... I pick my skin around the nails, I rip my nails off, I chew on my lips and on the inner part of my lips too, I scratch my scalp until it bleeds, I have eczema in my ears so I scratch that too... It really brings me down and is a high infection risk because all of those things make me bleed.
@Lafayette92
@Lafayette92 3 года назад
I picked my fingers till they bled and so I started getting manicures. I chew my cheeks and my lips as well (really bad). It has gotten worse since I cut down on snacking and quit smoking. I ordered some chewelry to give my mouth something to do since I cannot chew gum. I get tmj pain when chewing gum.
@maddie7899
@maddie7899 4 года назад
Hi, this may sound weird, but what if I don't want to stop my behavior? I've had pretty bad skin biting as long as I can remember, where my mom always used to yell at me to stop and try to make me soak my fingers in lemon juice etc, and I have scar tissue around my thumbs because I'm just always biting them. However, it really doesn't bother me, I've learned not to do it when people are watching, and if it does get to be painful I will wear bandaids for a few days. I also do a lot of nose picking and I know I should probably stop that one for health reasons buut. I'm just curious your thoughts. Is there a reason why I should try to stop? I also believe I have just right OCD but it isn't too severe. Thank you for your videos they are very helpful and informative :)
@wingnutmcspazatron3957
@wingnutmcspazatron3957 3 года назад
Watching this while biting my nails yall
@chloejwylie
@chloejwylie 3 года назад
i used to have trichotillomania and now i have dermatophagia, which is skin biting. i used to pull out the hairs of my eyebrow and eyelashes. now i bite around my nails :( since covid is around, i'll have a mask on and forget, and i'll attempt to bite my finger's skin but the mask doesn't allow it. that def helps.
@souravde8013
@souravde8013 3 года назад
Thank u so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@AmyClarkesinger
@AmyClarkesinger 5 месяцев назад
I'd love to see a video on BFRB versus autism, for example i pick my nails because i cant stand the sensation of slightly long nails, i also rub my nails together when im stressed
@karenemery4906
@karenemery4906 Год назад
Yes, I do it every day, throughout the day. Will try a fidget.
@Sol-ck3tp
@Sol-ck3tp Год назад
I never really gave a thought to this while I bit my nails, pulled my hair, and did at least 2 other BFRBs that aren't mentioned here. It'll be tough to get through but I will be over and above them.
@sherry_sya5422
@sherry_sya5422 2 года назад
I'm 37 years old and I have this since I'm a kid. I used to bite the nails on all of my 10 fingers. I keep biting them eventhough they are already really really short and sometimes bleed. It made me so insecure, I'm ashamed of how my nails looked. Trying to stop but never really can. It just happen unconciously. Now to save the other fingernails I choose 3 fingernails that I bite and leave the rest of the fingernails alone. It helped the appearance of my nails a lil bit but they still look ugly. Last year I started picking my scalp at the same spot repetitively until it bled, I guess because of boredom since I'm working at home most of the time due to the pandemic. Then during June this year (2021) I developed dishydrotic eczema on my hand and I would pick the scab over and over again while it's healing until it bleeds again. My hand looks horrible with the nail biting and scab picking and my scalp is damn hurt and it's affecting my life.
@QueenSaturn96
@QueenSaturn96 3 года назад
I constantly rip my nail beds apart, I have gotten to the point that my left index finger has almost no nail now. I really need to quit
@DaisyAruba
@DaisyAruba 2 года назад
Yet to meet anyone who said their SSRI meds helped with their anxiety. It didn’t help with my anxiety ever. Or depression. The only medications that help my anxiety are benzodiazepines and then working out, writing, eating cleaner, meditation, breath work, music, spending time with family/friends and my amazing lovely baby girl Yorkie Daisy who is turning 7 so she’s an adult now.
@jeweliedee4299
@jeweliedee4299 Год назад
How about head scratching, trying to scratch the nonexistent dandruff off of your scalp?
@gleefan3376
@gleefan3376 2 года назад
How do you get to a stage where you want to change? I only get insecure when my dad or grandmother point it out/ sometimes when I'm with people, but when I'm alone, I don't really think it's an issue...
@reginaphalange1990
@reginaphalange1990 4 года назад
I took out the light bulb of my bathroom mirror. I still pick during daytime, but it is not possible anymore when it's dark outside.
@vieiradossantoslidia1581
@vieiradossantoslidia1581 3 года назад
I don’t remember when but as study on skin picking has shown that a specific part of the brain (I don’t remember which one) was more active on people with spd than others and they found it was even more active along with the urge to pick when shown pictures with skin irregularities. This part of the brain was linked to the feeling of disgust
@govlogs735
@govlogs735 3 года назад
I bite my fingernails, and I pick my toenails, to the point I'm removing the whole toenail, I don't do it because I'm stressed, it's just that I like to do it, it's like it's a normal routine, I don't care if they look awful, I just want to cut the new nail I'm seeing, to my toenails, it hurts and I neither say that I don't like the pain nor deny it, it's just that I don't care.
@maddie2cool851
@maddie2cool851 Месяц назад
I pull toenail parts a lot from my toe because I like them short but I do it with other toenails or my fingers
@princesssmileyface91
@princesssmileyface91 3 года назад
I was doing good, I was not picking my thumb at, until a couple months ago, I got passed over for a team lead role at work, I was promised the role, until the manager hired her friend and gave it to her, and I started to pick at my thumb, I want to stop, but I can’t 😞 I did this a lot as kid well into my teens, it was always my thumb, one time I picked at my index finger and my whole nail came off.
@teresachullikkatt3925
@teresachullikkatt3925 4 года назад
Yeah certain actions r repeated by fingers nd repeating standing at ease
@z_1228
@z_1228 3 года назад
I fell something weird in my nails and it fells soooo uncomfortable . It make me want to rip my nails off.or press on them ..please tell me is these normal or is it OCD?
@hanag4016
@hanag4016 3 года назад
I wear lipsticks to keep me from biting my lips but I'm still still able to bite the inside of my cheeks and it's frustrating
@bepositivestaynegative
@bepositivestaynegative 3 года назад
I do that too. For inside I tried gum and it helps. But I do not always have gum with me.
@pieceaisa5046
@pieceaisa5046 3 года назад
ive bitten my nails and the skin around it since i was as little as i can remember. and a year or two ago (or three?) i started biting my cheeks, lips, and tongue (tastebuds). i bite my cheeks and tongue to taste the blood and i bite and scratch my lips to feel it sting and burn. idk what to do
@sarahdiane24
@sarahdiane24 2 года назад
I did tongue/cheek biting and face picking growing up. I would start biting the little bumps on my tongue and keep biting until it was very sore and bleeding. I would pick my face also.
@yolanankaine6063
@yolanankaine6063 3 года назад
Lip picking is serious problem for me. Mainly when I’m anxious, under pressure or lost in thought. It’s become a kind of compulsive calming effect that also stems from wanting them to be as smooth as possible. But because I pick at the healing skin, it never heals😭. I need to divert this urge somewhere epse
@scubatuba1083
@scubatuba1083 2 года назад
Me too, if it’s not that it’s obsessively licking or biting my lips or the insides of my cheeks. Now I’ve been grinding and clenching my teeth, my mouth is in so much pain
@thelostones5127
@thelostones5127 2 года назад
its gotten to the point where its second nature it was my the side of my thumb till it gets very bad then i move to the other now ive added the nails on my foot i can pick the sides till they bleed very bad then i clean the blood leave to the next one when it heals i come back to it all this most of the times im not aware ... i can tell myself to stop and be aware when im in pain .... then just minutes away im at that injured bleeding thumb ............ its really disturbing .... especially when you see my thumbs ............... they're in bad shape as at now ......... im 25 + now...... its second nature now i can barely keep track ...
@briarrose4747
@briarrose4747 2 года назад
What about body dysmorphia?Is it a bfrb or an ocd related issue?Can you do a video on it if you haven't already?
@bleee.t
@bleee.t 3 года назад
I bite my lip A LOT lol, as well picking and biting the skin around my nails, I pull my hair out and it’s always subconsciously. I noticed that when I’m doing these things I’m usually very tense, I’m breathing fast and heavily so I’m not sure if it’s linked to anxiety.
@slothmar4735
@slothmar4735 2 года назад
How quickly can a person whose been biting since toddler (now in early 30s) stop biting and picking?
@haleyw5677
@haleyw5677 2 года назад
my friend had baby tric and she later developed dermatillomania with eyelash pulling as well
@kayonbatchelor
@kayonbatchelor 2 года назад
Hi I'm struggling with cheek biting as long as I can remember and I can't stop I bite and tare until it bleed and sore. I'm tired and it really hurt but I just can't seem to stop
@zuko5404
@zuko5404 3 года назад
Pimple popping, hair pulling, I used to do it. Until now I bite my nail and picking my lips. Is it a habbit?
@haleyboren6128
@haleyboren6128 3 года назад
Im looking to stop biting the inside of my lip. My BF punishes me when I draw blood but it's not helping. What else can I do?
@laurynwatts8009
@laurynwatts8009 2 года назад
I have a cycle of biting my nails and not skin picking as much to trying to break the nail biting habit, growing them and skin picking badly. I want to not do either but really it’s one bfrb or another. I’m not really breaking habits I’m trading them
@toponebiggestlosers
@toponebiggestlosers 3 года назад
I’m struggling with cheek biting and finger picking, does anyone have any tips?
@kathyd9883
@kathyd9883 3 года назад
I bite my nails, I pick skin, I twirl and pick my eye brow hair. My mom she yells at me to stop and I can’t control it. Sometimes I even get random anger stages that last 1 minute or so and I just hit things next to me. I also have time when I shake my head and bit my lip randomly like tics.In school I shake my leg and swing back and fourth. I get in trouble for it and I can’t control it. I just feel different from others. I also pick my pimples and I just end up making them bleed or I get the white thing off of them. I don’t know how to tell my mom I think I have it
@alexamtz4316
@alexamtz4316 3 года назад
I was wondering if what I do counts and if someone dose the same thing , what I do is that when I have long nails I drag my nail from the outside of my eyebrow to the end of the eyebrow , so because hair gets in the middle of my nail and finger then I just move my nail downwards , when I do that I hear a crunch from my hair .I do it and it fells satisfying but I have a limit because if I do it to much then some eyebrow hair will fall out , so I just try to maintain my nails really short .
@skylarmalone8380
@skylarmalone8380 4 года назад
Would you consider hair rubbing, nail picking, lip picking, eye lash pulling part of this?
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 4 года назад
Yes! For sure. I have a treatment video on this as well if you haven't seen it yet! 😃
@andreagreen1133
@andreagreen1133 4 года назад
bandaids are tremendous help for me i have a disgusting problem God help us all going to the doctor next week it’s complicated and depressing ppl close to? don’t expect support or understanding
@Mysterious_Ace
@Mysterious_Ace 2 месяца назад
I pick my skin so much I’ve got scars and had infections 3 times. I feel like an “itchiness” if I don’t and it’s anxiety inducing.
@lunadumbledore2883
@lunadumbledore2883 2 года назад
I fell addicted... I have to do things to keep my mouth occupied at all times when I am not talking or eating...i bite my fingernails sometimes until bleeding or painful, I bite the inside of my chicks and lips , I rub specific soft fabrics on my lip and I always put a kind of pressure on my teeth with my lips and tongue (I can't really explain how) my jaw is always so tense that it gives me headaches and even then I cant stop... it's an unstoppable urge to do this things at all times and it gives me so much comfort and satisfaction. But it messed up with my teeth and jaw sape and nail biting always gives me small painful infections inside my mouth ... not to mention making weird faces in public hoping people won't notice.
@alessiasamsonova8093
@alessiasamsonova8093 2 года назад
I bite my nails so much.
@mikazukigaw-id5688
@mikazukigaw-id5688 3 года назад
I tried to see the signs of when my nail biting strikes. Its like i need to make my nails long first, and then i became conscious about whenever we were about to pray in the altar, my right knee would also jolt up and down as if impatient. Dunno how to stop this, i don't remember when it started
@DAMB-DaveAmelieMarkBeryle
@DAMB-DaveAmelieMarkBeryle Год назад
I have been picking my skin around my nails and biting them since primary school now and I didn’t think anything of it but now that I am in high school, I am starting to wonder if I should try to do something about it .
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