I do agree with Scanty on ladies proposing to guys and the guys treat them perfectly… i made the first move with my bf it’s been 16 months now and it’s the best relationship I’ve been in in terms of communication resolving conflicts and all and now i feel like he even loves me more than i do which is one of the reasons i stay and fight for us because of how he treats me 😢❤
i used to think communication is the key until i realized comprehension is. you can communicate all you want but if they don’t understand you, it’s silent chaos.
And how's that your fault after all?? Yours is to be candid on the issue at hand ... it's on them to process and understand it. If there're doubts, continue to clarify. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION is everything in a relationship!
Spot on, communication is two sides. When you communicate, your audience should understand what you are communicating. If there is no understanding, then there was no communication in the first place.
If a woman cries when at fault, end the relationship. It's a red flag. It's manipulation. When women say communication, it's about talking plenty and shifting goal post and them needing to be right. They like to gaslight. If you decide to not engage in unnecessary arguments then they say you dont communicate. I am the type that can apologize even if I am not wrong but I realized that when you apologize to a woman, they keep it in files and pull it out later in future and tell you what you did, even if you apologized even though you weren't wrong
Spot on by Brie. Putting emotions aside and then tackling the problem as it is is key. Knowing how to register your displeasure with emotions is crucial. Brie's take is so on point. Kudos to the team.
When women say communication, it's about talking plenty and shifting goal post and them needing to be right. If you decide to no engage in unnecessary arguments then they say you dont communicate. I am the type that can apologize even if I am not wrong but I realized that when you apologize to a woman, they keep it in files and pull it out later in future.
I feel like Brie really understands the guy’s perspective in relationships. It’s often hard to do that. She’s also very honest about both sides when it comes to judging both sides
19:05… That’s an excuse women use as a way to not approach guys, but in reality they are just scared of rejection, which is normal. But don’t lie and say that if you move to a guy as a lady he’s gonna treat you badly in the end.. if anything it makes things a lot easier.
I think if people in a relationship can have a set of guideline or some rules written down on how to solve misunderstandings. For example not to quarrel or argue in public. That way you can remind each other about the how you solve your misunderstandings or have a go to solution. Sometimes that will even compel you to think logically, unless you both made dumb rules but still you will make the rules according to your character’s so it should still be fine😅. Also beware of manipulators 😈bcos if you meet a smart one you dead, like DEAD💀!
I think with situations like even tho, we have guys that are constantly finding issues with their partners it’s most women that don’t find fault with anything they do I have seen and be in worse and chale right now I have advised my self never to impress any girl..
Chale I see some video bi na some guy dey apologize give some woman, the reaction of the woman and her friends erh, I vex give the man waaaaa, using slippers to slap the man and opana was there kneeling ….
I use to think communication was the key until I realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they don’t understand or refuse to understand, communication becomes useless
My woman will be crying if I’m at fault she’ll also cry is she’s at fault Like…🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ She just want you to call her "mama" and hug her till her tears are dried up after tell her "I love you" 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
If a woman cries when at fault, end the relationship. It's a red flag. It's manipulation. When women say communication, it's about talking plenty and shifting goal post and them needing to be right. If you decide to not engage in unnecessary arguments then they say you dont communicate. I am the type that can apologize even if I am not wrong but I realized that when you apologize to a woman, they keep it in files and pull it out later in future.
My guy Scanty please you have to behave ooo because now Everybody is sacking you from the Screens. At 1st it was Sheldon and now my One and Only Adwoa too. Hmmm! but hey keep on de Bars i'm with you 24/7 kk
The only thing i dislike is how unrealistic some of their arguments are , bro just be realistic. Wanna minnimum wage bi 18gh what are all these high standard scenarios bro
Guys. Women and accountability is like heaven and earth. What they do is gaslight. Cry, and try to turn blame on a guy. I agree with scanty. Any woman who cries when she does something wrong is a manipulator. Run
Well looks like I was meant to see this in order to share the truth with y'all on this topic. I've been a counselor for 21years now and I know majority may side with my comment. However some may disagree. The best way to settle these conflicts is to put both partners in a boxing ring and the work is done🙌💯 ie: A nigga moment💀
Using Act of Service as a means of apologizing isn't a great way. Just like the lady in orange mentioned, it's unhealthy. It's like buying your partner off. Even if you so desire to buy her something, you should always first and foremost, agree/admit to the facts of the situation, acknowledge its impact, apologize for the situation, and act in a manner that shows that you are ready and willing to correct it.
As for me i dont talk too much please , i jux keep quite and enter the washroom , open the shower and then i start crying until am okay before i come out to face you 😂😂😂😂and me i want us to delve deep into the matter and solve it
@wiizyhimsev6172 wei🤣🤣🤣he lives in a compound house but that house is a digital compound house so they have shower,but in my house , I use bokiti Best example of" you go explain taya"🤣🤣🤣
