@@dsalnorcal1434 I’m so sorry Dan. I cared for both parents and losing the ability to drive and all that goes with that, was so hard. I admire your courage and your patience with your dad. I hope lots of men, see your love for him and decide that it’s the right decision for them as well. Sending lots of love to all of you from a friend in Texas ♥️♥️♥️
@@dsalnorcal1434years ago my dad had dementia and lived with my mom (his wife.) Like your dad he really was frustrated that he could no longer drive. Mom hid his truck keys but one night he found them and actually took off. They were frantic, called the cops, were praying then rosary hoping he wouldn't be killed. Over an hour went by. Then mom got a call from a tanker truck driver who was delivering fuel at a 76 gas station 45 minutes away. The trucker had noticed my dad at the fuel island looking confused. He asked my dad what he was doing and if he needed help, dad replied "I'm just looking for some service!" 😆⛽ I later called to thank the trucker & he informed me that years prior his wife's dad had dementia, wandered off and they never actually found him. 😢 So that families tragedy formed a sharp situational awareness for this good Samaritan trucker who was keenly aware of the signs. It's amazing that my dad drove an hour without killing anyone in that condition . He could barely walk without losing his balance. Thanks for reading Dan I like your channel. BTW in progression of his disease, my dad was very similar to yours but then one day he literally forgot how to stand and get out of bed. Couldn't eat, dress,, toilet or any self functions. He had to go into a nursing home and lasted almost a year. 😢😓🙏🏻 God bless you & your family.
This is the hardest stage of this disease. They know they should remember and argue to the death about things with people. Still, your dad is so gracious and sweet.
Dan - you and your family have done an outstanding job caring for you Father! Keep up the great work and love 💕 your Dad each and every day that you are blessed to have him with you.
I am dealing with my husband who is also hard of hearing and has Alzheimer’s. I am soooo frustrated with having to repeat 98% of what I say, but you don’t raise your voice of seem to be frustrated. How do you do it? If I raise my voice, my husband complains that I talk too loudly. If I use a normal volume, he can’t hear me. I watch your videos for inspiration to get the strength to keep going like you do. I aspire to be like you - calm and patient. ❤ You’re doing an amazing job!!!
Alot of patients is required. When I lost my mom she couldn't hear as well yes I had to speak directly into her ears so she can understand what I was saying. Difficult at times but well she is in heaven now so. But God Bless you Dan.
I know Dan, it pains me to watch your father decline as it brings back memories of my time with my mother. I think back to the 13 years of care and can't believe those days are past. She passed in 2011, and l would willingly do it again just to hear her voice and feel her touch. The Bible says death and sickness will be done away with, what a blessing that will be.
No truer words were ever spoken .. than the Word of our living God Myself believe strongly in my heart and hope to be found worthy .. of live everlasting May we meet in heaven… Amen ❤
That goes for all of this. Many people are just living from paycheck to paycheck. It is scary to even speculate about their situation. Euthanasia is being used in Canada and Europe. Whenever pragmatists take over, you life may be taken away. Be very, very careful of pragmatism. That is what Hitler was all about.
Grandpa was walking much better two years ago. His gait has deteriorated. You can see he is slowing down. He still asks for his keys,phone, etc. He is so polite and always worries if everyone is OK. God bless you and Danielle.❤
I feel dad isn't declining drastically becaiuse he has literally excercized all of his life.and taken very good care of himself. I adore Dad ,Danielle and Dan! ❤❤❤
Well I certainly see a decline just from 2 years ago from videos today. I've worked with Alzheimer's people for 27 years and I certainly can see the difference.
I was recently looking back on video's of my father. I noticed the last year before he passed away that he declined quickly. I do see the difference from 2 year's ago with Grandpa Ed..but God Bless him, he's still going strong for approaching 92 year's old! He is an Amazing man.🙏❤
He really has slown down a bit. He's speed walking back then. And he had a quick about him. Seemed to comprehend much better, as well. The important thing is, he's still with us and he's a beautiful soul. Thank you Dan, for sharing this. ❤️🙏❤️
I’m glad you’ve gotten better with messing with him. Imagine if you were totally confused & someone was messing with you instead of just telling you the truth right out. It’s definitely a learning curve when you become a caregiver to someone with dementia. You & Danielle are doing an amazing job, Dan! 🫶
A big difference and of course old age is playing its part regardless of the disease but also not undermining the exponential effect it’s having. Almost 92 now and he’s going to leave a magnificent legacy carrying on through you and your wider family. Much love
Im from tobago. I normally dont comment. But grampa is really nothing short of a gem...such a sweet an plesant guy. He has really deteriorated ova d past two years but im stil n joying d spunk dat he stil has. Such a sweet guy ... wish he was my grampa 2.
Noted too. However, the core lessons that crystalise in this channel are patience and love. Please let's practice them. We don't know what handicaps afflict the writer of the above comment.
I look at all your videos,,,, because I am just starting the journey with my mum ❤ and you have given me so much information ❤ about this condition ❤❤ thank you ❤
Dan, thanks for advocating for folks with Alzheimer’s/dementia as well as their children. Both of my paternal grandparents had this terrible disease and my dad was their POA. We were fortunate to keep them at their home as long as possible, having 24 hr sitters for them firing the week. On the weekends one of their 4 children spent the weekend with them. But, after gallbladder surgery (back in the 1980’s it was a much bigger surgery than it is today) my grandpa’s cognition was worse, something as a nurse I had seen before…that general anesthesia just did a number on him. He was placed in the nursing home and a few months later, my grandmother joined him there. Flash ahead 30 yrs and I am caring for my dad who also had Alzheimer’s/dementia. We had just finished eating supper and my dad says that he doesn’t want to be a burden on me, because he knows what I will be facing in the coming years. Of course, I tell him he will never be a burden on me, and he wasn’t of course. Then I see a tear falling from his eyes, and my heart just broke…because he did know what his future was going to be like. And I have to say, my heart broke seeing him cry. We are coming up to the anniversary of his death on March 6th. I miss my dad, the man he was before this disease ravaged his body and mind. And of course, I worry that I may suffer the same fate. Dan, keep spreading the word, and I hope that any family going thru the same battle find your channel and discover that they are not alone in this fight.
Look at how fast he can walk! That’s amazing!!! Santa Cruz white wooden roller coaster was my first roller coaster ride when I was 6 years old! 1969! My dad was right by my side for that ride! ❤
I was told by my grandparents that getting old is not for the faint of heart. I’ve always had a respect for older generations. I grew up listening to their stories and just having lots of laughter. I hate to see people age because of the vulnerability. But aging comes for us all. You keep going strong, Ed and Dan. 💪🖖
My father passed at 80 in 1991. He began to show signs of dementia. I was only 22 and was scared. Now at 55 I'm thankful that my sweet daddy didn't have to leave not remembering. My favorite country star was always Glen Campbell and I felt like every report was tearing me apart. How someone with the talents Glen had been blessed with in the end could function at all. I just finished his wife Kim Campbell book titled Gentle On My Mind. The laughter, tears, anger, disgust and pure heartbreak was what hard for me. I grieved for her, his children, family and those like myself. I pray that this journey y'all are on will help ya feel the Lord's love and Blessings.
It seems he trusts what u say and knows u won't lie to him. You've learned a lot since then. You all do wonderful with Pops. You adjust and learn as he changes. God bless& love you all ❤
Continue to enjoy every moment with your amazing father, Dan. He's a blessing and a gift that keeps on giving, in many, many ways 💛 To care for those who once cared for us is one of the highest honors. ✨️
"the growth of the caregiver"... Following Ed and Dan here for close to a year, I've been watching and learning from a master caregiver, and if the time ever comes for me to play that role I'll have a good headstart!
That was beneficial for me as I am a new subscriber. Not only did Dad move faster two years ago but you obviously learned a better way to talk through his confusing moments. You Dan, have grown where Dad has retreated. Proud of you but saddened to see the progression of Alzheimer's
Wow! Grandpa Ed was bout it, bout it! He really had some pep in his step and much more mental clarity and we see how the disease has progressed from then to now…But we still love us some Grandpa Ed!! 5:14
Independence with this disease is so hard for them to let go of. I hate this disease. I adore your dad and your family though. Thank you for sharing the highs and lows of caring for your dad. 💜
You're so patient with dad. What I love most about him is he's such a gentleman, real old school gentleman. Won't be swayed to say who's his favourite kid, loves them all. Concerned for their well being always.... ❤🇿🇦
Wow wow wow., look at his walk 👏👏👏. Grandpa looks so strong and sturdy. How fast things change, but his charm and charisma is the same and will be the same . I adore this gentleman. ❤
