If you are 40 and NEVER married, that's an insane red flag - unless you've been 'faux' married - which is fine (like lived with a person, shared finances, 3+ years) - or have a kid with someone and get along sensibly well.. That's effectively married... But if you've been 'single and dating' 20+ years... you're a psycho. Even if L-T R - but didn't move in.. psycho. And you need to work on this.
@@Bitcoin-gj8vn Welp, guess it's time to kill myself. I'm 42 and never married, so I guess I should've just settled into an unhappy marriage earlier so I can be seen as normal.
@@Bitcoin-gj8vn Working on it by having a relationship? That sounds like you have to have a relationship that goes nowhere in order to qualify for being in a great one. I was 31 when I met my fiancée and my longest relationship was 1 year and I was single for 6 years before that. She was kind of worried but found out I was spending my time working on myself to prepare for that one good relationship instead of going from trauma to trauma. Edit: What I mean is that you have to understand the reason. Not all red flags are relationship ending and you have to figure out which ones to completely avoid and which ones require curiosity and understanding.
I agree. I used to see guys online that had three divorces. Better to not get married than marry the wrong person. And to do that three times. Wow. What a waste of time and energy. Single is way better than that. It shows you aren’t afraid to be alone. That you likely have hobbies and a close family or network of friends. All good things. And if you meet the right person you can have a great life together without all the ex and kid drama. This goes for both men and women.
@@tedsilversyeager840 It is a majority of asian models in revealing clothing on those sites. First they practised on chinese people and now they are running the same scam globally.
@@주지문-e7w I sadly think the whole video is a dig at her ... :'( I believe she has a sister/sibling named Heather, she mentioned it in her explant (said her sister got implants around when she had) podcast interview about B.I.I. (Breast Implant Illness). In which case just ... ew. :/ I know divorces are messy, but come on, mate ... line in the sand, yeah.
@@LaurenWoodrow-Kelly Oh wow, I didn’t even know all of this! Then this is even more underhanded of him. I won’t be supporting this video anymore and maybe his content as well because he’s changed quite a lot over recent years. Being upset over a divorce is one thing, but making revenue at the expense of your ex-spouse’s personal life and her illness she and her sister struggled with makes him quite a cretin I gotta say.
Modern women I'm beautiful sexy and attractive. I have what men want and desire are you the money 💰? Before this goes any further I need to know if your the money 💰
Is dating still a thing? I was under the impression that it was pretty much dead. It’s all one night stands, false accusations, and “situationships.” I’ll pass…
Modern women I'm beautiful sexy and attractive. I have what men want and desire are you the money 💰? Before this goes any further I need to know if your the money 💰
I just meet new people and develop friendships to see who sticks around. I’m open about just wanting to be friends first. A lot of guys want the same. MATURE ppl understand it’s impt to actually get to know ppl for who they really are before even considering anything romantic. I’ve had a lot of fun and made some great long-term friends. Most ppl no longer idolize romantic relationships the way people used to. It’s important for you to be content with your life before you try to bring anybody else into it. I’m glad to see a lot more single ppl happy being single. I’m also Christian and practice celibacy and only connect with other Christian men. That sorts out all the riff raff for me! I’m in no rush to get married at all! When the right person comes along, it’ll be great. Until then I’m enjoying life and practicing communication and social and relationship skills with others who appreciate all of that as well. God bless! 🔥
Modern women I'm beautiful sexy and attractive. I have what men want and desire are you the money 💰? Before this goes any further I need to know if your the money 💰 they care about
I need to call my brother-in-law and thank him for introducing me to his sister. We have 30 years of straight, conservative, Christian living thus far. We're glad we didn't this tech.
I’m glad I found my husband in high school in the 80’s. I can’t imagine trying to date these days. If anything ever happened to him I would probably just spend the rest of my days single lol.
Dating someone you meet organicly means you like them and you are willing to talk about details later. Dating apps are details first and find out about the person later. Hence why it fails
Wrong, there is no difference between dating apps and meeting people offline. When you see a person offline, you don’t know anything about them until you meet them. The same is true of dating apps. People don’t magically change on dating apps. If you’re a low value loser online, you’re a low value loser offline
@@Ferien7 No, you are wrong because your vision of meeting people in person is random encounters. Those happen but you typically end up dating those around you whom you know because you find their entire self attractive and not just a picture or some personal stats. The fact you claim in person and online the same is quite disturbing and offers a glimpse into what has gone wrong in that area.
@@DonaldDeCicco you are wrong, dating apps are no different. When you see someone offline for the first time, you know nothing about them until you walk up and meet them. Seeing pics on a dating app is the same thing. You don’t know if you’re actually interested in them until you meet up with them. There’s nothing disturbing about that.
@@DonaldDeCicco so basically people who are introverts are doomed by you. There are actually people who find relationships and not situationships through dating apps. You just need to put lot of work in it... then again meeting organically works best only if you meet young in school, uni or best through friends, but if you happen to be older this does not work that well... and dont get me even started "dating" someone at work. Nightmare if it fails for both sides even if they are reasonable people.
A friend brought her new 'love' fresh from the dating site to a house pool party. He kept his phone at the ready and snapped pictures on the sly of the younger females getting in and out of the pool. Then he gave us a detailed lecture on how to scam people out of their property rights by squatting and getting mail delivered. A couple of times I think he was sort of hitting on me. His date just overlooked all of this cause she was so proud to have a plus one. Its getting bad out there folks.
I have a lot of friends who have wasted so much time on dating apps and are still single. I have others who met their spouses on dating apps, but had to go through MANY bad dates to get there. I'm glad I met my wife in real life and never wasted time on the apps. I support your decision!
@@ledzeppelin1212 the dating apps are not why they’re still single. Dating apps don’t make or break anything. People end up on dating apps *because* they themselves are low value, not the other way around
@@Ferien7 The way you said it, I thought you were trying to suggest that anybody who uses dating apps are low value. I hope what you meant is that if people STAY on the apps an extremely long time and can’t seem to meet anybody, then those are the low value ppl. Reason I’m saying is my nephew met his wife on an app. She’s a doctor, so they both live rich and have kids. My daughter met her husband online, back when everything was on a laptop computer. 5 kids later… 😅
Better not be an inch under six foot either. And ready to support her in a traditional way and protect her, but she also gets total independence and a career and won't do any housework or child raising. So just the good parts and none of the bad.
Oh so you men want a feminine woman who is trad, stays home, and doesn't ask if you can support that life? Is that right? You know you have to pay if that is the plan, right? Money don't grow on trees 😂.
Modern women I'm beautiful sexy and attractive. I have what men want and desire are you the money 💰? Before this goes any further I need to know if your the money 💰
News flash, people are the exact same offline. The internet doesn’t change people. The same people you meet offline are the *same* people on dating apps
@@Ferien7disagree, people online are way more desperate than those who are off it. If you can find someone that is not seeking out a relationship but is okay to fall into one that is your best bet
@@Eloweh no, they are not more desperate than those offline. The same people online are the same people offline. There are plenty of desperate low value people offline everywhere. Church, gym, work, school. You name it. The only difference is that they can’t get partners, and end up staying single way longer than higher value people or indefinitely. The same desperate weirdo online is the same creepy guy at church, social events, work, etc. Dating apps work amazingly well for attractive people. They don’t work at all for unattractive people. Yet BOTH groups use dating apps, which are the norm nowadays.
@@Ferien7 People that use dating apps are always going to be people seeking relationships. Just because weirdos are everywhere doesn’t mean anything, it just means that those “higher valued people” are everywhere too. Life is about relationships and those we surround are selves with, but when it comes to this kind of relationship it is only desperate people who seek it out. I’m telling you everyone on dating apps are desperate, there is a chance for you to find content people outside of it on the other hand. That isn’t to say it doesn’t work some people though (I’m going to repeat a joke don’t take it super seriously) codependent people who find other codependent people are great together because they will always hate the idea of the other leaving.
I think the biggest issue is that girls have 500 ‘likes’ in their pocket - every day they’re bombarded by ‘likes ‘ So their self perception is skewed now.
I had to look at the title of the video again while I was watching, because that seemed a more appropriate title than the one it has. But maybe YT channels can't use the same title another YT channel used? I dunno.
Yeah I immediately thought JP was being a bit generous here with the typical date. But this is actually the date you find after you've filtered out the nose rings, tattoos, and another man's kids.
Tinder has been the most fun and the most terror I have ever experienced. I have had a girl tell me about her Herps and I have collected 2 stalkers.......Good times.
I'm honestly glad i stopped using it, last experience was some alcoholic cat girl who started saying I love you after one day. Told her i needed to get back to my dorm to finish some homework(this was the second time we hung out after 3 days of knowing one another) and she flipped out. Started getting physical with me and trying to push me into her room. All while stating if i left she was going to end her life. Thank god she had roommates that i could wake up and get to handle her. It never really hit me how dangerous that situation was for me.
This was completely awesome. I love the low key realistic spoken or thought process of each . Of course, I laughed and giggled the whole way through. The humor is great. Thank you.
Showed up to a date last week. She said I looked exactly like I did in my profile. She was double the size and started telling me how hard it is to show who she really is irl to get a date We talked a bit anyways and I found out none of what she put in her profile about her interests, hobbies, even bordering political beliefs were remotely true
Yeah, I had a date like this a couple weeks ago. She was harping on me because I wasn't "ambitious enough", even though I own my own house and have several really solid investments. Turned me off right away, so I pitched my next business idea to her and turned it into a business meeting. She left within 10 minutes. Great success!
Ah, dating apps! One party wants easy sex and the other wants to be showered with money. If only there were some sort of business arrangement or ancient profession that could be utilized for both parties to get what they want!
Heres an idea for s new Netflix series, "Ghost Baby" a woman who has multiple abortions is haunted by those rascally "Ghost Babies" New comedy just in time for Summer, see it with that special someone in your life "Ghost Baby" 😂
If women asked guys: so you're 40, single, never been married. What's defective about you? Guys answer would be totally different: it's because we like having money and peace and being happy 😊😊
amazing how sheeple like to talk about others like they were the same as them. the pinnacle of groupthink. inability to comprehend that not everyone is like the clones in the pack
Ha! "What's defective about me? I'm a myth... a normal, non-creepy guy who's never been married never makes it beyond 30 without at least a monogamous girlfriend he's devoted to."
This went way too smoothly. Usually they get up and leave hurling insults just before the check arrives. That's why its coffee only dining for first few months;) ...ok, for the first year...it preserves the romance ...like a jar of formaldehyde.
I've never been on a dating app, but to my understanding, the most asked question for men by real women is, "how much money do you make (earn)?" That's what I've heard anyway.
Yeah I don't get it, wasn't it always considered extremely rude to ask a man how much he makes? Same as it's extremely rude to ask how old a woman is, maybe we should start asking that since being arrogant seems to be the norm now.
What they don’t get is that high earners work long hours. I make low six figures and my work week consists of work and sleep. “Where have all the good men gone?” We are working to make all that money you so desperately chase!
Just divorced after a 19 year marriage. I haven’t started joining the sites. Now after watching this I will never do that and die alone. Thank a lot world. 😊
At 50 and unexpectedly single, I can confirm that it is just as crappy from my female vantage point. You get the guys who can't stop bashing their exs, the ones who want to meet up at their place not a coffee shop or restaurant, the ones who compare your makeup to stripper glitter, and the ones who try to bring up money all the time. 🙄😆
Well with the make up bit, if they are saying that, clearly you went to damn hard on the make up and are trying desperately to avoid accepting you ain't young anymore.
I guess you haven't met the angry, abusive drunks yet - or maybe they fit under the "ex basher"category - lol. As a male, in my area the largest group of turnoffs of the 50~ y/o women are the vacation junkies. Right from the get in their profiles they are going down their bucket list of countries they want to travel to next. I'm stunned at how many do this. They're past even seeking a rich guy...they just want a ticket buyer to punch the tickets on their dream lifestyle. Nope!
You forgot the part where she mentioned she's an only fans model and if you get jealous of the other guys she seeing while she's your girlfriend then you are insecure. Also you should probably ask her if she's married
Hey, they are separated but still living together as money's tight. Yes, they still sleep in the same bed, but it's been two years, and she hasn't met the right guy. No, he doesn't know they are separated yet.
Hilarious! *I just meet new people and develop friendships to see who sticks around. I’m open about just wanting to be friends first. A lot of guys want the same. MATURE ppl understand it’s impt to actually get to know ppl for who they really are before even considering anything romantic. I’ve had a lot of fun and made some great long-term friends. Most ppl no longer idolize romantic relationships the way people used to. It’s important for you to be content with your life before you try to bring anybody else into it. I’m glad to see a lot more single ppl happy being single. I’m also Christian and practice celibacy and only connect with other Christian men. That sorts out all the riff raff for me! I’m in no rush to get married at all! When the right person comes along, it’ll be great. Until then I’m enjoying life and practicing communication and social and relationship skills with others who appreciate all of that as well. God bless!* 🔥
I admit to being a bit bummed about the "single, 40 and never married' being a red flag... since that's me.. and i don't think I deserve a red flag.. although of course I'd say that I suppose :) But I do know some other great women in this category :)
I'm 36 and never married because I can't find someone who 1) wants to be married, and 2) is capable of having that type of relationship. Once my needs factor in, they leave. Sometimes, and I suspect it's more frequent than that, you don't get married because you can't find a suitable partner who's serious about wanting what you want.
Yes that was a bit off I think, especially since marriage isn’t as high on women’s priority list as it was back in the day when that was the only way to survive.
Same. I had two men who wanted to marry me, but I wasn't interested. I'd rather be single forever than married to the wrong person just to be able to tell people I'm married and not be a red flag haha
I have yet to have a meaningful date from online dating. And at 42 and people not knowing how to leave home anymore.. idk what options are left 😂 and that's sad because I can't do it anymore.
Most guys are tired of the free handout meal tickets to these women. At this point I'd rather make a nice home cooked meal and if you still don't like me or the food, there's the door. I still got dinner and lunch for the next day at a fraction of the cost.
@@TheFoozleSnorf nope…women can’t do that because it’s at your house. Maybe a picnic, but you still could have spiked her food with the date rape drug. Just saying.
I've never gotten a match on a dating app & I've had people say I'm good looking. I'm stuck in the suburbs of Texas & the dating pool is extremely shallow. It's mostly boomers here
Daaaaamn All my coworkers use dating apps and have pretty much formed a club complaining about them. In fact This is SOOOO accurate i was gonna playfully send it to them all....but I'd probably get jumped😬
What I really want to write on the OKC section "What's the most private thing you're willing to admit?" : Every time I "like" someone, I make this horrible grimace while I am honestly hoping they haven't already liked me, and that we didn't/don't match, because I have an anxious/fearful avoidant attachment style and I don't really want to be with someone, even though what I most want in my life is a healthy, communicative, loving relationship. FML🤗😭💀👽
I honestly think dating apps are for your thirties, and your last resort to meeting and finding someone but as soon as you hit forty, you have to realize that an app did not work and that's when you really should delete delete delete 🤷🏻♀️ In your forties, it's a time to be content and reprioritize. Set new, fresh ideas that don't involve marriage and children ❤
I used a dating app for about 6 months and went on 4 dates! The guys I met were all great, I just have really high standards. You can definitely use apps if you're willing to sift through people, meet in safe places and be open to hilarious fails along the way. You've got this guys! There is still hope! Although I highly recommend widening your circle in real life rather than putting all that energy into apps first.
