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I was loved at Home. When I left and went into the world..at some point I decided I was lacking and unworthy. From then on..I attracted people who found me lacking and unworthy..just kept reinforcing it until I was suicidal and I married A husband who passed it on to my children and now my grandchildren. I Need to STOP the Unworthiness BS. Thank You..Jim! 😊❤
@@elainehewitt6813 I Remember an Uncle shaming me and telling me I was wicked if I loved myself..but he was not a significant person in my life..maybe? Still had effect. I also learned from a Bible book my parents had of the bottomless pit where the wicked are thrown with flames of fire in the bottom and all these people falling and screaming as they fell into the pit. It was a large illustration. Maybe? It had effect too. But my parents and grandparents and extended family loved me..and I felt Safe and Mostly Free. I did have chores and basic house rules though.
@@kathleenwharton2139 Imagine being a kid being taught that “wicked people” got thrown into flames of fire! That’d do it for me! I bet there was more you don’t remember. I didn’t think much was going on in childhood til I did therapy for years and then EMDR and what I discovered was frightening and left me thinking, “oh now I get how I got fibromyalgia”.
I need self compassion (because this can suck) and need to take it easy on myself and accept imperfections including when i catastrophize, react, get hyper vigilant etc. Also would be great if my inner parent gave me a pat on the back at times as well as, yes, a kick in the butt at times, but with safety messages etc... but the inner child knows how to receive that, its just the comforting and compassion for the darker days
