What Doctors Think about Sex | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 

Love my Mirena! I had two pre baby, and then my third after I had my baby. I love not having a period and not having to worry about birth control for 5 years.

Love mine as well.. the pain wasn't bad for me but everyone Iis different and you don't know until you know

@@doravalencia2214 I was bad the first 2 times, but after baby it was easy peasy!

I went on a couple dates with a guy when I didn't have a car. After the first date, I left a movie at his house by accident. It was not just any movie I could find super easily. It was Interstellar 5555 an anime set perfectly to the music from Daft Punk's Discovery album. I found it at a local record store where the owner is obsessed with Daft Punk. The first time I saw this movie was the first time I did acid. There was a lot of sentimental value attached, so I went on a second date so that I could pick it up. He had to pick me up for both dates because I did not have a vehicle. I can't remember if he got the Lyfts for me at the end of the evening or if I did, but either way, two weeks later, he calls me clearly drunk berating me for not having a vehicle. Even though he knew the only reason I didn't have one was because I spent a lot of money out of pocket on the one that I wrecked 6 months after purchasing it. I obviously need to save in order to purchase another vehicle at that point. He claimed "He bought a house on his own, so why can't I own a car?" It was such a bazaar experience. He was just drunk, irrational, and pissed he wasn't interesting enough for a third date, and now he's taking it out on a situation I could not control. After explaining twice that he knows the situation and he is out of line for calling out of the blue to bring it up, I just yelled "f*ck you" into the phone and hung up. I am really sorry that people are not understanding about this issue. It seems really strange to me. It can cost an obscene amount of money just to park your car somewhere in large cities. I just paid $600 for 6 months of insurance. It is expensive to drive and maintain a vehicle on top of the fact that some people such as yourself simply cannot drive. I thought their reaction to that option on the list was really strange and super cringe. It is not that big of a deal if people do not drive. To me, if it means they use a bike as transportation instead, it means they actually are pretty damn hot. We need more people riding bikes instead of adding exhaust to the atmosphere and allowing fuel companies to see record profits while they destroy our planet. Anyway, I hope people start to treat you better instead of judging you for trivial reasons. You deserve better than that.

I thought the same thing!!! I think there needs to be an extra sex episode with MDJ!

Same! Only issue is MDJ is currently in another country/opposite time zone. Scheduling a video would be difficult 😢

Same

You know she's in New Zealand, right?

@@lisagreen4956 yeah but video chat is fine. However, I'm almost done with it now. And this OB is great as well.

Well, WELCOME!

I got mine put in December 2016. No going back (other than the replacement one I got a year ago, obviously. Ha!).

It is absolutely 100% gross.

@@TheShauNanigans Glad I’m not alone in that.

I relate! Especially as someone who is waiting till marriage, guys think they can change that value of mine:/

I do feel like a lot of the advice is geared toward people in their 20s and 30s. The people asking sound fairly young and scared! Be gentle with them haha

It just feels overly familiar to me, like they think I'm Their child or grandchild when they're just like, next to me in line at Kroger.

Why are men the way that they are. I’m so sorry you dealt with that.

Genuinely, like having a healthy FWB dynamic should really come with a mutual understanding not to do this crap. It doesn't even sound like she likes this dude as a friend, based on her saying he has so many icks and red flags.

@@morgueish nah, you can hate a lot of things about a person but still be compatible in bed. sometimes it's just enough to get the stress release and just be on your way. I had a partner that was a probably a certifiable mess and a slob. I finally had to call it quits when she got out of her car and a storm of trash followed her.

@@gilbertjacobs3705 yeah this does not change my mind 😓 if you hate a lot of things about a person and you're just having sex with them for the stress release, that's not a fwb. Because you're not their friend. You shouldn't lie to them and call yourself their friend. You're having a recurrent hookup with someone you don't have any investment in. Not cool to be dishonest about that kind of thing 🤷‍♂️ I'd be hurt and sad if I found out one of my fwb felt this way about me.

Becky's been posting on Instagram plenty and seems great! Probably just taking some vacation time.

I know she absolutely does not talk about her and Keith's personal relationship. I know that neither Matt or Maggie has gotten personal earlier but maybe she isn't comfortable taking about

If you listened to the podcast, they had her list her socials for people to follow

i did! that was at the very end though and it wasnt on the screen for us to see, nor was it posted in writing anywhere. Also should have been in the title or description for audio only listeners who may not have been able to stop and write down her socials at that exact moment (i.e. listening while driving)@@madisonlarson146

That’s true! I either pause and go look them up or make a mental note to review it later if it’s someone I wanna follow. But I get having it written would help!

Her name should be in the video title the same way pods usually do when they have guests. @@madisonlarson146

Everything else has been great info, and very supportive and solid health (including the mental side) advice. But I think she has been blinded to the patients that she doesn't provide care for, similar to the docs that do basically all research on Amabs. Bit hypocritical, but I can see why she is. Having an erection doesn't mean someone is aroused- they were just physically stimulated, popping a pill to achieve an erection only ensures you have an erection, it doesn't establish arousal. Men get raped too. Just like how some women have gotten wet or had an orgasm during "unwanted sex," and were not aroused, some men get erections bc of unwanted physical stimulation. There are two sides of arousal. Physical arousal is not the only determining factor, and certainly not the defining characteristic.