They know I know. They've destroyed my name and are with the new supply. I've gone no-contact forever. No future contact will be tolerated. Thanks Danish. 👊
They think that there’s something wrong with you that you don’t want anything to do with them and that you either need therapy or you’re a sociopath. Literally no joke 😅
I'm okay with evil people thinking I'm a sociopath. They're partially right anyway. I learned a lot from evil people. But I genuinely care, and have strong principles, until others prove they have neither. After that, I'm a much darker creature, with traits resembling aspd. And, frankly, proper retribution takes planning and effort. It can take years to do it right. Maybe I'm lazy, but it's far easier to let them fear what you might do, and move on. Sadly, fear is the only language they respond to. Kind of like animals. Perhaps that's why they try to use it so much, themselves? Who knows? Mystery for the ages...
@@rosameijering5161 good question. When he admitted he was a narcissist, I told him it’s not just that, but that you have narcissist personality disorder. I’m not sure he realized that the two things are slightly different. It’s not just that he is a selfish asshole, but rather he is a dangerous person to know. He wanted to remain friends but after I told him he is dangerous, he started to say hurtful things he claims are just “honest.” He is only honest when the truth is hurtful. The rest of the time he is lying and manipulating. Oh I should mention that I am not sure he would admit that to all women. I am very observant and he couldn’t really deny it. He would deny it to someone else who he had a romantic relationship with. You see, our relationship was more sexual. He is a sexual dom and his narcissism kinda works with that. Basically he will admit it if he feels it will work with his overall strategy. And I do think he is proud. He would just use that to abuse me. Like, “you knew I was a narcissist, so it’s your fault you are getting hurt.” I think that kinda explains it. My answer is very honest in the hope that I help someone else. In the end though I still love myself…I grew as a person. But he is still a sad pathetic man. I win!!!
He became very upset because I wouldn’t keep giving him more of whatever he wanted, mostly money. Instead I gave him a few choice words letting him know Im on to his manipulative behavior and tactics, the gaslighting, hot and cold mood swings then he went silent on me so, I did the same. We only dated for 3 months, very short lived. I blocked him and never heard anything from him again, and I’m good with it now that I really understand what this is. Whether it’s traits or a full blown narcissistic personality, I don’t want any parts of any kind of abuse.
My exgf came back in contact after months of silent treatment and getting a new, public supply, and when I said to her everything I think about her (never mentioning the word narcissist, though) she said she was going to block me from social media and cell phone. Such a blessing, and it proves your point in this video.
not sure what i’m dealing with exactly. he never thought i’d leave but i only got a couple of lame hoovers after i told him i was done. this was after 30+ years!!
I think it depends on how badly u may have reacted to them. I mortified him whrn he would try to critisize, devalue or hurt me delibrately. I became reactive aggressive. He could abuse me but I was supposed to take it. I just started educating myself I saw it all in this person. He is blocked for good done with this EVIL!
I was the second supply I did not know he jade wife😢 ....when I realized who he was, I went no contact he still texts once a week like hello,hi,are you ok ? ,can u answer me please 😂😂.....ill never ever answer him back !!!!
I did both of these situations! At first it was continuing it and just one argument that night I completely went no contact she called me 30 times and then send a shit ton of messages to my sister and brother individually and then separately she always thought I’d stick around because of my cat and dog…but I had to cut her off completely
He figured out I was on to him... but he tried to reconnect anyway... I told him I filed for a restraining order and he still asked "do you miss me?" Are you learning impaired?
Dealt with both .he immediately asked for $ I didn't respond he sent a final ending .still thinking I didn't know about his other person .I gave proof I did. I believe this was his final
I went no contact with my malevolent narcissist sister in 2020 and she died of covid two days after Thanksgiving in 2021 and yes I am ever so thankful that she can no longer make my life a living hell.
Yeah, my parents are waiting for me. They are still in my siblings lives and waiting for first opportunity to meet. It has been 9 months with no contact and it is traumatic to know it is not over.
I went no contact with my supernarc mother few years ago. She hooverd me by faking being very ill, can’t eat, can’t move, supposes having a tumor in her troath. Then she refuses to see a doctor. But after 4 days she is fine and happy - she spoiled my Easter holidays and won the game one more time… 🤷🏻♀️
It's neither the first nor the second one exactly. Some times this and some times that depending on the situation and aspect. Some times he goes with other options knowing it doesn't work with me but coming to our relation he knows pretty well that I not going to end up for the cause of my children, parents and the society. Let him do whatever he want but no more giving a chance to exploit me. Thank you so much for the clarification sir. Watching your videos have become a part of my time table and I feel like conversing with one of my family members so dear😊❤
I think mine knows that I won't be back. He knows that he isn't going to get any more of anything he wants, from me. He has a new supply and was hoping to support his supply by using me. I think that's about to become clear to even him, that that isn't going to happen.
My ex tried to hoover me until I changed my number😆😆 after that, I have no idea. Nor do I care! It was a long distance relationship, and I took full advantage that my phone number was the only way that she could contact me.
Both possibilities happened to me. The first time I wasn't aware of what he was. I reacted to his abusive behavior, he sent me flowers, gifts, sweet talk=he hoovered me back. The 2nd time, he knew that I knew. My NC hit him, He sent me some sms to find out what happened, no answer from me, he went away for good
The 2nd one. It is my mom. This is the 1st time I have had no contact for the longest time yet. She occasionally calls with whining & cries about how none of her children care about her with a message. " Please call" she cries. I'm told I'm the one she never would have thought would treat her so badly. Her older sister believes her lies & feels sorry for her. Mom calls to guilt me & my brothers when she isn't happy with her sister. When she isn't getting her way.
I’ve been no contact for a year and 1/2 and this past weekend she reappeared. I truly feel she was trying to feel me out to see if I was open. I completely ignored but I don’t trust her I feel she’s up to something. I will never forget all of her games. It’s difficult when you live in the same house (even tho you are in separate apartments).
My husband is using abandoning method from past 5 months....he sleeps in different room but keep giving me hot and cold treatment...he is just pushing me to leave the house on my own by not talking not eating with me...leaving out of town with no info of his whereabouts...I asked him to file for divorce if he wants but he keeps on forcing me for mutual divorce...else making my life miserable
It's interesting. With the most recent, I think he knows I know because of how I ended it. I guess I had finally watched enough content like this. Thank you!
Mine is the first case. Ever since i went no contact, he only tried to contact me once - to hoover me back. I denied his request and he discarded me on the spot. To think that "thing" was supposed to be my father... Now he´s just a parent, with whom i want nothing to do. He also smeared the hell out of me. But whatever. Thanks to him, i now know, that family ties are meaningless, if one person lies are enough to condemn another one.
Im dealing with the first one. After l gave my narcisist son an apartment with the condition he retakes his career in college, he slamed the door in my Face. That was 14 years ago. Never came back. He nows l will never give him anything ever again. Thats why he never came back
And ironically he was the first to send me a short video about narcissistic women silence treating their men victims. THIS WAS how I became curious such a term a narcissist and discovered that it was actually him-real narcissist in our couple, so I can say he helped so much with his attempt to accuse me of my "tricks" to "punish" him by silence treatment, when in fact I didn't want anything from him anymore
I cut off a best friend!… Now ex best friend and she definitely knows that I know because she just got engaged and probably forced her significant other to do so. Onto the next energy sucking show. she was such a c unt
Knows I'm never coming back as I did once before. Knows I'm in a new relationship. Responses have become detached and short when I contacted to come pick up my mail and last belongings there as opposed to before he knew of new relationship he said he still wanted to be friends.
For now it appears to be the 1st option with all of them but that could change over the years if they have run out of supply and become desperate. It wouldn't surprise me if most of them are keeping tabs on me through mutual friends or connections or just stalking me and looking for an opening to get into my life again. Some won't care if I know what they are or not, if they're desperate they can be capable of anything. I will always be vigilant, be more private and never underestimate them ever again.
Oh my God, so so familiar for me. My ex-husband after earning a lot of money changed his attitude and became more grandiose and treated me like I am a servant or furniture and right at that time I needed for my family reasons to leave him for some time and solve my own problems - he just let me go with words : you know I don't want to let you leave me but since you have no other choice but to deal with your own difficulties there away you just fly and you can come when you understand how to be a good housekeeper and a good mother of our child. I heard it and promised myself that I will never come back to life with him no matter what. There was no limit to his arrogance, he was not grateful for what good I did to him and many sacrifices I made for his sake. Like I am a machine he was planning to use more in the future when I am back. He was sure I will come back. But I didn't, I stayed in my place and slowly I am trying to heal and erase him from my life. He so often was calling our baby a toy and never called her by the name, instead word "angel". So we both meant not much to him, we were his prestige, like he is normal man with family.
I never broke no contact by contacting them.first..they always came back..thats why you block them..they are sick and will always try esp.when they have exposed themselves to many especially in a small town
The first one for me. He’s made it clear it’s over and he wants nothing to do with me and he can’t wait for me to find a new man. I found out abt his cheating which he said was my fault. I found out he’s been lying everyday about the smallest things. He has cops and a lawsuit involved now because I went no contact. Now he’s pretending to care abt his son and still don’t buy him milk or anything at all.
She is the second one. She doesn't know that I know yet. It's been a week. Haven't heard from her. But trust I will make sure she knows I know when she reaches out
I didn't know anything about such evil, but when I was made aware of such evil I didn't call the narc out I just asked for a divorce 5 years later he still stalks me. Oh I ran away from such evil I did loose everything, but atleast I was prepared to loose aslong as I didnt loose myself. Happy that I left after all the hell i went through. I'm grateful to God for the person that wrote it on a piece of paper so I could get to know what evil I was dealing with. Everytime when he finds me I ignore him flat out no time for Dominic spirits. God is love and they are just pure Dominic. If You can never call them out just go no contact and ignore😇don't say a word to them don't waist another min on them. That's how I beat him lol he is still scratching his head he walked away with everything and evil is still looking for me he will never get me again. I'm the one that got away love myself more😍
My ex came back because he had to know if he could still exploit me. I said no. I left gracefully and he died 6 years later. I grieved not knowing why. Until 3 years after his death. Wow- smh. Very grateful. This an eye opener. - confirmation.
I am on no Contact with my covert narcissist mother who is 88 years old. She calls me from time to time but I don't answer the phone. Today, I felt so empty because I have 0 feelings for her. As if she doesn't exist anymore. This condition scares me. Aa if she is already died. But she's still here, and this person is my mother. I have to stay away. It feels brutally. But if she triggers a feeling in me, then this give her Energie to torment me further...
This one's hard; he knows I know. But I'm good natured and we have a baby together and are spilt up and co-parenting, btw I left him... I'm standing my ground and he's playing hot and cold with me but I've officially withdrawn my supply from him. It's day by day honestly and I'm in recovery from addiction issues and what I suspect is C-PTSD... please send me positive energy y'all 🙏🙏🙏
