My first cat came to me januari 4th of 2010. I was staying in my (then) girlfriends house, because she asked me too, because of her health. And than came Pushka in, after one of their cats. We (Pushka & me bonded in less than 2 hours). But he smelled the other 3 humans inside too, So when I went to the supermarket... to buy him 'everything he wanted' my girlfriend "kicked him out" (okay not that hard). And still, before I came in again, my Pushka had found it's way in again. So after I introduced Pushka to my girlfriend and her kids... it was okay for Pushka. None of them were enemies. Pushka did just judge on people, where I talked to. And everywhere I go the next years, Pushka followed me everywhere I go. Did my cat miss me? Yes somehow he did. Still he always trusted me to come back. And ofcourse i came back always! But some times I went on a holliday for a week of even more. With my family And neighbours came over to feed, my cat, milk and trying to pet him. Not a great succes, Pushka did not know the neighours. Still he ate and drinked what he liked. But did my cat miss me? Yes I think so... all at once I was not there, my family were not there either. But still he had his food and drinks. And yes that could caused him some stress.
Yes I know, MY Kitty never did destruction things. Whenever I go out, he's eagerly waiting for us. I hug him soooon after coming bck hme . He's such a GREAT GREAT KIND N HUMBLE GINGER CAT, LIVED for 8yrs N 6 months, I used to call him over mobile. He says meow 🐾🫶🐈👸💖💜🤩😻🎊🎉🌷💐💐💐🇮🇳. I m missing Him. Passed away on 5th June 2024. 😭😭😭
I always want to bring my kittie when I go out. But when I do, she goes under my bed table next to my bed. She don't like the leash, after having had a 6 nights venture alone last August when she managed to escape her leash and harness when taking her for a fresh ari walk in the park across the street. She do greet me at the door when I arrive home however. And is welcome to explore the hallway outside by the lift. We're living in a smal apt. in a trafficked area right next to a shopping center.
I'm bed bound most of the time due to chronic pains from old injuries. So I'm not out that often. 2-3 times a week, and never longer than 3-4 hours depending on the errand. Normally I'm not gone for about an hour when I'm at the store. When I do, I always let my PC on with cat TV just for her.