What Happened to Marriage? 

Stiffing you and your brother in court was her end plan all along. Glad it didn't work out. It's amazing how long they can plan and wait.

I love happy endings.

Thank you for sharing this experience. I will be sure to prepare my kids accordingly.

Why was he broke studen? Was his fund desolved?

@@LangChainAI maybe broke by the ex greedy standards. Most trust funds pay out a small percent when the heir accomplishes goals or milestones in the heir's life and saves the rest for retirement. . Some only pay the basics to motivate the heirs to find jobs and not depend pon the fund for daily expenses . Some might pay rent , school expenses, etc and pay out a lump sum after the child graduates, retires or becomes old. Most retain most of the funds for the next generations. Almost all exclude the partners of the heirs. Some stop paying out as soon as the child marries. This prevents greedy spouses from claiming any of the funds.

Actually if played a game of chess and you had all queens. You will get bored. Think about it.

That chess board is the perfect metaphor 😂

No dude, 99% slaughterhouse. You don't have to get a divorce to be slaughtered

@@PhantomFilmmaker-jd9hoso no marriage can ever be happy or healthy?

@@atm1947 out of every married couple I've ever met, I know less than a handful were happy and most of them were remarried to someone they met in their 40's/ 50's. I still have hope, but hope is essentially just happy thoughts and prayer. I believe there is someone for everyone, but who, what, where and most importantly when in their/ your life will you meet?

yup

Jews?

I can see it, but I struggle to find actual goal of all this insanity. They cant ruin the world over few dollars and a congress seat, right? 🤨

please explain?

Jews

Ghost

Amen

Based and monkpilled

I’ve had the same experience.

Can't you do it at the church without passing by the gov?

@@sabn9139 Not in the USA, but even if you could, why?

@@Ebvardh you marry someone without condemning yourself to whatever incentives the government put to make marriage a fraud for men.

​​@@sabn9139It's not possible, so don't even try it. The government is waaaaaay ahead of you on this. It's called "cohabitation", and in many states you're still treated as married in the eyes of the law. You still lose everything after separating as if you were legally married.

Marriage is different from Bf/Gf. Bf/GF is Teenager nonsense. Marriage is a real life thing. It’s not a game of House

its easy to find a 5/10.....its hard to find a 5/10 who knows she is a 5/10.

I've heard it said "Every man wants a loyal mid" Lol there's no way of saying it nicely, but an avg human being who knows they are avg is a blessing

They did exist and in some parts of the world they still exist but in many 1st world countries the problem is reversed.

western society is collapsing

I had to threaten a title IX lawsuit against my kids school district a few years back because of their "girls in stem" field trips did not allow males to attend and did not offer alternative opportunities to boys. I did get every woman in the school district pissed at me though. So that was fun.

@@worndown8280 based dad alert 🚨

@@PS-lv1mr they didnt see it that way. I have been trying to explain what hoe math has been since the early 90s. Its like people dont care. They see only the short term gain to these policies and not the long term chaos and disfunction it causes.

@@worndown8280 What did you threaten it for? Better to be a man of action straight up file

Disgusting... It's all just a hustle in her eyes

This is reason, i will never get married, 👍thanks bro.. for confirming, what I was thinking...

@@am-vy1fb me too 😂😂

Leach. Disgusting.

She really triple H for real

We all know the answer to that. If I men had hundreds of messages a day from women online would they ever settle down? That is what even a way below average woman can have if she is active online. Loyalty is dead, the cellphone killed it.

Mine wouldn't. Mine would have aborted me if she had the chance. Or I would have been born because of my dad graping my mom. That's who my mom is and who my dad is. How I didn't turnout like either one is a miracle in itself (also I absolutely refused)

No. 100% of everyone would say "no"... emphatically.

I mean, It works both ways I don't think it's that simple. Back in the days some people (both women and men) were basically forced to get with each other if they didn't wanted to stay alone because there were no options. So both men and women sometimes ended up in shitty "forced" marriages where they are not happy with each other.

@@N4chtigall Thanks for your reasonable comment. This video is very well done and I agree with the bulk of it, but this comment section is pretty disappointing (yet not surprising). Sadly this kind of content will always attract bitter men who have a bone to pick with women, while being dishonest about the alternatives or about the flaws in male nature. I say this as a relatively masculine guy. We are hypocrites ourselves and it's very easy to mythologize the past as being way better than how things are now.

Very wise comment.

Vote this one into the top 3!!

You forgot to add, all these as long as you have more assets than me, and make more money.

This

This is literally the wisest comment I've read on RU-vid *ever*. Women are so upset that men don't want to get married but if you turned the tables then the marriage rate would become zero starting tomorrow. The extreme cognitive dissonance that the modern woman exhibits is the base reason why I'm largely uninterested in relationships. I need a partner who can think clearly and effectively.

sorry bro

How long did it took for her to get bored?

Easiest tell for how a woman is to look at how she talked about people she hates or is indifferent towards and what she does towards them. That is a rough gauge for how she will treat you at the end of a relationship.

People with mental difficulties in general are not worth it. Some are bearable, but most will use it as an excuse to dump you or validate bad behaviour.

Keep your head up, man. Went through something similar with my ex. The important thing to remember is that yes, this is the same person you met, you just didn’t see it at the time. We tend to overlook red flags. One thing I’ve learned is to put a ton of weight into how often and in what way women talk about their exes. Oftentimes it’s all negative with no accountability in their part.

Public Schools are dens of misandry

If you get punished anyway might as well fight. Then there is no next time.

Yea this is what life has taught me,if you get hit make sure you win because you already lost in the eyes of the law

I didn't get suspended, but I tried to tell one of my friends that my (now ex) girlfriend was abusive, they told the administration, and I got in trouble. Apparently the only reason she would be like that is because she was afraid of me, so I was doing something wrong.

@gilbertdumotiermarquisdela8176 I'm so sorry to hear that man. you did not deserve the abuse you got.

I used to work weddings and I remember one wedding had the vows changed from "for richer, for poorer" to "for richer and even richer." It was pretty eye opening.

Western "marriage" has been an untenable contract from the day no-fault incentivized divorce grape started paying fee males to be vow-breaking wife failures. There is no marriage under a contract that pays one party to rob from the other.

The original meaning of "matrimony" is a contract between the groom and the father of the bride for the purpose of children. Doesn't exist anymore, but men I think are relearning there is zero benefit to a man from marriage without children.

@@americana9692 This. Especially men post 40. Once you get to a point where you realise you are no longer going to be raising a family, you have zero incentive to ever even think about marriage.

She would and 10 other women also, because he was a Chad. So probably I would not exist.

Can confirm. I'm just a few years older than you, and the general attitude in US public schools in the 80s and 90s was that boys were basically just defective girls with behavioral problems.

My mom tried to put me on drugs, and I told her and the doctor to go f*ck themselves.

I'm 42 also and I have similar experience. I think I was quite intelligent kid but the school system thought I was an annoying pest.

I get that feeling. My mom didn't get me put on medications and both my parents raised me to not be a bitch, even if someone starts a fight, be the one to finish it.

I’m 20 and i had a similar experience. I have ADHD, so they treated me like i was retarded or something.

So damn real

Depends on the State, or it did at one time, anyway. I've been divorced a long time ago, and creditors were trying to come after me for her debts. It was all only in her name. Her debt. I didn't have to pay a cent to them, but I did make sure to document for the future (just in case) and gave them all her phone number, address and place of work. Even helped a Private Investigator track her down for out of state check fraud. She had creditors calling her at work, the whole deal. Was great. Unfortunately, my case was an outlier. When we were married, I had no money-- I was flat broke paying all the normal bills. Couldn't get a credit card to save my life (this is back when they were somewhat difficult to qualify for) and she had all that. Ran them up like mad behind my back. I'm very lucky. Check your state, and never get joint cards.

He also said there's a 1/3 chance of this happening. Wrong. 41% of first marriages end in divorce. 60% of second marriages end in divorce. 75% of third marriages end in divorce. Overall, it's somewhere over 50%. But he was talking about first marriages, and that's 41%, not 33.3%, as he stated.

@@leroyrussell8766 First marriages and new marriages are different. Statistics is a precise thing.

Been there.

Could not agree more; I'd like to add young girls mistaking _enablement_ for love as well. Enablement is fun and instant gratification like passion, but that having-to-reciprocate thing is just so hard for so many.

Lust rushes but love waits

Yeah that’s not happening in todays cultural narcissistic society.

Very well said sir.

women are easily influenced by other women.... one bad female friend and a loyal wife can become a 304 for the streets.

nope it goes over their heads

Only when all their safety nets are gone and they're in their late 30's will they even remotely consider

Yea because they're at such a place of privilege dealing with men the only things they see men for is to use them for money, sex, protection, social validation and/or attention (*most want a combination of all those things*) and the entire discussion around a "red pill" or due to 85-90% of men either not knowing or just plainly not being red pill women dismiss it and because the content gets 50-500k views half of which is female hate watchers they think this is men winning and crying or insulting them as women and their brains interpret it subconsciously as unattractive because they're hard wired to see men as a provider of the 5 things I listed at the beginning I know that was a bit long but that's my perspective on why women don't care they don't care because a man to them like they are to us is a product and the product cannot make any demands when they are in a position of service to the consumer

You're clueless cause you would that in Western world boys are being forced by feminist teacher's to apologize for being a male which has triggered young girls that were touched.

@@baldrofasgard4793 No one worth their salts will want them then. And only simps they feel they're "settling for" will be with them. I just hope these types of women don't breed.

This is a wise comment!

That's some great analogy! 👍

this explains all the 38 year old "want kids someday" women on dating apps

Brilliant dude, that was very well put. My wife and I have been married for 16 years and we're in the steady glow phase and we love it

Great analogy but ... how do you rinse a fire? :)

At least with a timeshare you get a place to go 1 week of the year in Mexico.

You nailed it.

A timeshare for an uncertain amount of time.

I think it was carefully planned and executed. AKA the feminism movement.

I agree it’s ALL women’s fault!

That sounds like digital movies from companies😂

Both are hard to do right now. Hard to find the one that you truly want and hard to find a good quality car

RU-vid Mary and Jesus in the Quran and Mohmmad in the Bible and the Scientific Miracles of the Quran

You forgot to add that the car you're buying is advertised as new but has 600,000 miles on it, jizz crusted seats, and some kids in the back.

Not only you don't get the refund, but you have to keep making payments to pay off a car, and additional cars that you don't own (alimony + child support)

my mom married my dad at 16, they were from the same rural village in mexico, my dad was able to get citizenship and she was allowed to come here and they had a family. the village only had like 300 people

Oh, Thit!

Brutal

Ouch!

this sounds both horrible and wholesome at the same time maybe humans are not compatible with technology after all

That’s why everyone needs to convert to holy orthodoxy and find their wives in the church😎

But that’s always the case. Even in India for hundreds of years

@@HopelessChaosForever Nah...I'll just keep Jesus as my High Priest and King...you go ahead, though... Put your faith in Man... I'm sure that'll work out fine.

@@HopelessChaosForever issue is that a lot of people in Church aren't Christians either now days. You know we got issues when people are looking for churches based on their music or being entertained and not to actually worship God. You have to find a woman that actually cares about serving God. The best way to tell that is whether they consider God and His word on every day as opposed to just Sunday.

@christophernicholascarter6865 While having religion does probably mean people keep their vows more seriously, if you needed Jesus to tell you to keep your wedding vows and you couldn't without him I think something is wrong.

when i was little, kids would punch me and i told one of the duty ladies. she said dont be a tatelltale.

school and job, Or school and work, do not belong in the same sentence. Ever

a friend of mine got assaulted by some nut job at school and the funny thing is his school has 0 tolerance for bullying, even had a meeting about it on monday, yet they haven’t done anything to guy who did this to him, i won’t say much but just know it messed em up pretty bad, thankfully i got there in time to help leave the premise and chilled for the rest of the day, it’s crazy out here.

Man I sure do love the school system. In Europe that is, because no matter if you're in France or Germany, they ain't going to let any of that slide.

its run by women in Oz

exactly

accept it. Do you think Michael Jordan's wife would be with him if he was a mechanic? As men, this is our lot in life. If we want to mate, you have to be worthy of it.

This viewpoint is always so interesting to me. What do you mean you get the leftovers of what other men got with "Height for personality"? I guess you are talking about sex? See, from what you write it seems like you think women are not interested in you because you don`t look hot enough or something. Have you ever thought about that you seeing a potential girlfriend/wife as nothing else but a free fuckdoll could be kind of offputting to women?

Don't forget, she'd do ANYTHING with him for FREE, be an utter freak in bed but with you she'll pretend she doesn't do this or that because you're not Chad

Damn if I could only go to a gym for my face and height someone would love me

based

JBF is law

@@ethanc6638 What is JBF?

I knew my wife when I was 19 but I told her I won't get married until 30. If she can't wait that long, then she is not the one. 20+ yrs married so far.

"Just Be First"

BASED. That's a great teacher right there. My mother understood this too. One of my best buddies in elementary had a similar problem and she watched in disbelief as teachers abused him for it. She always told me that all those teachers are just incompetent to deal with a high energy boy.

Imagine if your grandmas bridge club was the size of entire internet whispering in her ear how she could do better every day 16 hours a day.

Important to note I’m 37 and she’s 36 so the idea of “finding themselves” is very ridiculous and shows a huge lack of self development over the years

You should force her to either take full custody of the kids or you get full custody of the kids. This way she doesn't have a bargaining chip to hold over you. And it's better for the kids without having parents trying to use them to be petty with the other. If she gets full custody then she wont be able to live out her single fantasy. If you get full custody then she won't get to see her kids and she might even have to pay child support. I know it might seem harsh but there's nothing worse than split custody.

To add from an article about the subject: " "Son’s wife is definitely going to divorce him. Said they could do 50/50 custody. Son taking Vox’s advice, says he’s not going to play the custody game and argue over every little life decision with her. If she wants her “freedom,” he wants full custody, if she won’t give it to him, then she can have full custody and responsibility for the two kids 24/7/365. Says she was shocked to hear it, thinking she was going to have a nice set up. Says she’ll take full custody then. I think she thinks he’s bluffing. My wife is aghast that he’s taken this position, but I agree it’s the right course. His wife can’t manage without him pitching in considerably. No way she’s going to do it without him in the picture helping out, working full time, and trapped at home every night as the kids sleep. She has no local support network. Even if she goes through with taking full custody, I can’t see her keeping it." It’s a brutal and difficult decision, but it is the right one in the situation of a wife-driven divorce. Given the way the legal deck is stacked against men in the USA, she will have de facto full custody regardless of what the court-ordered custody structure is, only she will also have effective practical control of him as well. This all-or-nothing approach leaves him a mostly free agent who has room to operate when she slips up somehow or tires of bearing the sole burden of single parenthood, as she probably will. A positive outcome is absolutely not guaranteed, but the probability of one is in his favor given what is known of her character. The fact that she was shocked is good. It means she never even contemplated what is now the most likely outcome. And the possibility of turning all the responsibility for the children over to her ex-husband is going to grow more and more tempting to her over time, especially when she wants to pursue men who will be actively dissuaded by her having children. "Son’s wife definitely is not getting it. She made a list of what she wants in the mediation agreement. After listing several household items, she included “100% legal and physical custody” of the children. She then went on to list that visitation will be decided at the beginning of each month, with her getting at least one weekend with the girls. My son is resetting her expectations that she will have them every weekend, all weekend, and every evening as well." Notice the wife’s incoherent desires and her inability to understand what 100-percent custody means. It’s simply not wise to base one’s strategy on such a creature’s ability to recognize, let alone be reasonable about, the best interests of the children. It may sound callous and counterintuitive, but the observable fact is that in certain situations, the best way a man can protect his children is by demonstrating that he is willing to walk away from them. "

Intresting strategy but I work 12 hour swing shift so full time custody is impossible even though I would love it. She’s aware of that going into this.

Stay safe

Did you took her back or sent her to the streets?

She wanted to get married. She didn't want to be a wife. You dodged a bullet there.

@@devilcwesker5980 He's refering to her as his ex, so i'd assume he took option b.

No, did not take her back. Nor will i. My offer is the same as before: stay with me if you want, but i'm never getting married or cohabitating.

They like the idea of marriage but not the wife part.

A lot of women wanna get married but don't wanna be wives.

Women don't want marriage they just want a wedding.

A lot of them just want pretty wedding pictures on their social media and the wedding itself, when they are the absolute focus of attention. The status of a wife, the bragging rights from expensive gifts (like a stupid shiny overpriced rock on their finger). And then the lights go out, the party is over and it's time to put your socks in the washing machine and pressing 2 buttons, and it turns into "oppression" and "servitude to a man" (because God forbid they do anything for you without getting an immediate reward) and if they are working (and you split housework), you will never hear the end of it, how she "has to do everything herself, why do I even need a man?". Almost as if the whole point of marriage was to be together for love and building something together...

@@SirRivelion This, 100% nailed it.

Ive alwasy been impressed w non american women I go on dates with

"passport bros" is a cheat code it doesn't change the fundamentals. I'm from a country that some passport bros go into, trust me women here can be the same as in the West. They are not as far gone granted but most of them are especially if they're educated they're all looking to be "taken care of". The passport bros simply benefit from being considered "rich" just for being from the West, that's it. They're not getting different women but different treatment based out of a perception that they're loaded. If you were a billionaire in the US surely you'd get the same treatment from your local women. Tldr: some passport bros are "lucky" but most of it isn't real. Remember that they're influencers and they show the best of it all

What's her nationality? Can't just travel to random countries expecting to find diamonds.

The true American husband spirit right here folks

And they'll continue to seethe as some men (passport bros) find love and happiness elsewhere. Instead of introspectively reflecting on the falsehoods they allowed themselves to be bamboozled by by a certain [...]inism they will instead blame men for attempting to find happiness elsewhere.

It’s not only women it’s men that bash the passport bros too smh

@@Figgs101 You mean the simps bash the passport bros. Most men I know could not care less about passport bros.

​@@Figgs101Thing about passport bro-ing is that it only works if you're white. And then there's the women that pretend to love you so that they can get a green card.

My only issue with the passport bros is that their generally delusional. The reason you’re going to another country to find a women is, because most women don’t find you attractive. The only reason you have more success there is, because you’re richer relative to the women there. The other thing is most guys just go to get escorts, and don’t actually marry lol.

Most women want to be a bride but not a wife.

Some are calling it a, "coronation."

i've noticed the less fancy a marrige ceremony the better the relationship is because there is no illusion of grandeur, just two people who decide to live together and make a family

@@sovietunion7643 Yep. My parents got married in the backyard of the house they bought to start a family. They've been together for more than 15 years and realize love isn't akin to excitement.

Very, very sound advice. A big wedding is how women compete with each other. Nothing to do with the marriage. No different to a £3000 handbag. When she wants you, she'll marry with £50 behind the bar, and a rubber-band for a ring. In fact if she won't, don't.

Chad not Dad is the funniest thing I’ve heard all day

Depends. In 1960 my mom asked my dad out three times before he said yes. Married 59 years until her passing. He wanted nothing to do with women, family, marriage, after losing both of his legs in an Army training incident. But she persisted. My mom was the most social person I've known, I'd leave her at the store door to go get her car, 90 seconds later I'm back, she's made a stranger friend, bummed a smoke off him, and was writing down his address because his son is deployed to Afghanistan and she's FedExing them some homemade salsa and candy. She shipped out such care packages daily, year in year out, she got awards for her veterans volunteering. If I had even a quarter of that I'd be a Senator or CEO today.

yep, when i was a kid i could hear how all the moms were throwing around the number 1.85cm, roughly 6.1feet. that was in late 90's early 2k in romania. also i drove with a guy (crew truck driver) that told me some really wild stories about his grandfather. turns out his grandpappy was laying pipe in a small vilage way back in the day. he even fucked the priest's wife. women have always been like this, it's just visible now due to internet.

There’s a lot of couples married in 99-2000, who are coming up on 25 years. We need to fix ourselves first, so that we can be the 30year marriage in 2055

RU-vid Mary and Jesus in the Quran and Mohmmad in the Bible and the Scientific Miracles of the Quran

"Stability is a turn on for me" SAME, GIRL! I've taken a bit of flack over the years for it and have been told more than once how I go for the boring guys. If that's dull, then I don't care. I love the peace, warmth, and comfort stable guys bring me ☺ If you're bored, you're boring.

Oh really? You people exist?? 🥺

thank you!

i know you have other people managing your server but theres something they maybe cant do without you: you have mods to replace: urgudfren was banned today after being openly targeted in image shitpost channel for "trolling" and being accused of being under 18 . your server and channel wouldnt survive if mods above you treated you this way, and now your server has these kinds of people isolating people content like mine, a divide and conquer issue. @@hoe_math

I feel you on the system being broken. I’m still single at 29 too, because I am so tired of dealing with the bullshit games on dating apps. Feels like people are looking for perfection instead of a partner nowadays.

@@hoe_math Hey um, just out of curiosity, why don't you ever bring up the suggestion of just dating outside western society? Yes western society is a fêmíníšť hëll hole nowadays and is completely collapsing, but other countries in Asia, eastern europe and South America don't seem to be as bad. My father got married to a woman in Asia and they've been happily married for 12 years. He was constantly getting divorced and having no luck on dating websites, pen pals, before that, I had no idea it was still that bad in the 2000s. What's the point of trying to date western women when you already know what the outcome is, you already know they're indoctrinated and they're essentially all nihilistic, conceded, sociopathic, dopamine & serotonin chasing addicts. Why bother dealing with all that when you can just date girls from more traditional societies and not even have to worry (as much) about losing 50% of your assets, getting cheated on, manipulated, etc? Albeit there are some caveats like language difference, culture differences, and things that take time to adjust to and get around. But all in all, I feel 90% of women in western society are unsalvageable and are only good for hook ups and OF nowadays, trying to marry them is like trying to turn a free falling plane back up with only 500 feet of altitude left. I can't see why any guy would even bother, when there are much better traditional societies and cultures out there, with actual normal people who aren't mentally ill. Besides that, thank you for your videos, I enjoy your content and I love the awareness you're spreading, keep doing what you're doing 💕

RU-vid Mary and Jesus in the Quran and Mohmmad in the Bible and the Scientific Miracles of the Quran

black p1ll never fails

A 304 will use any excuse available to torpedo a stable relationship. But the real reason is always the same…she’s a 304 and that’s what 304s do.

I know someone who married one of Henry Ford's great grandsons. She was given a life of luxury few could dream of. She divorced him because she suddenly got bored of him for no apparent reason. Despite he never cheated and she didn't even have to work. All while living a life of luxury to an extreme.

She got as much as she is gonna get and now she began her journey down hill. She is going to be bitter and alone soon.

I shall quote directly from a prominent dual-citizen feminist. Linda Gordon. One who identifies with Israel BTW as all professional feminists do. [quote] "The nuclear family must be destroyed. Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break up of families is an objectively revolutionary process. No woman should have to deny herself any opportunities because of her special responsibilities to her children." Unpack that doozy and it's not hard to read between the lines. The collapse of marriage and Western civilization are traced directly to the dual-citizens and their feminism specialists.

Ironically you could just be hardcore violent all the time and the school would just leave you be after a while. Kind of disturbing frankly

Because school encourages a feminine way of competition. Subtle and 'safe', verbal relationship testing. Men compete and come to an understanding after physical or explosive arguments. This is seen in wider society as troublesome or evidence of Anti social behaviour. Thus it is squashed.

They gave you a valuable criminal lesson: dont get caught.

ugh i deal with this at my corpo job. everyone is always positive and don't bring up negative personal issues!! also minority bullies seem to get huge breaks lately. can you claim that or trans? Lol. saw a video in NY where a lady ran over a cop and broke his leg, she got an assault charge, not murder or attempted murder, or anything

mgs 2 moment

Thank you for not being a whore

Well said!

... Now that you mention it, that's right. We do tend to love basically anything that we spend time with, even on abusive relationships; that's how empathy works, a mechanism made precisely to make family bonds stronger, and that feeling Is just a way of justifying making a deep bond. Once that spark ends, the follow up should be asking yourself "Am I fine being with this person?" instead of "This isn't working. NEXT.", because being confortable with the other without arguing Is fine, life is too long to be only emotion-driven.

@@uke7084 you’re both rare and lucky. Never lose that it’s terrible out here

@@N12015 Yeah, abusive relationships are wonderful, aren't they, especially for the victims, who are usually the woman and the children. Get a grip, will you.😠

It's pretty wild that we fight tirelessly generation after generation for a higher standard of living. But this is the kind of people that are produced when things are too easy and entitled ironically. People form the strongest of bonds when they are committed through a hard life together. And those 2 little girls are the innocent bystanders thoughtlessly affected by this. Wild times

It's time to pat myself on the back again for not getting married. Even loneliness doesn't sting as much as that level of humiliation.

Depends on if the mother tries to get her claws into the daughters at certain points. If she abandons them then the daughters will be hurt but will swear too not be like that when they grow up. If the mother gets her claws in, she’ll twist their minds and turn them into narcissists like herself.

She's right about monogamy, though.

@@caiofernando We're not meant for monogamy as much as we're not made to work 8h a day. Both require discipline are are necessary for a well functioning society. So saying "we're not meant for monogamy so I'm just not gonna do it" is just weak and dumb as hell and generally a very stupid thing to encourage on a large scale. That mindset needs shaming, not encouragement.

But this fabled superman of a REAL man makes everything work, and fulfills all her desires! They don't have to start from zero to find him though, they can just party an look on your dime while you pay for all her needs.

Women have always been like this. It's just that modern men are tricked into viewing women as an asset

If you are expected to take all the responsibility, you’re being given authority. Leaders take responsibility for the actions of their team. Maybe learn to stand up for yourself a little more. If she doesn’t respect what you stand for, then either you didn’t make it clear or she isn’t the girl for you.

@@nickthompson1812 agreed 100%

@@nickthompson1812 A nice fantasy, but does not work under gynocentric law. Just get on a knee, sign a contract that removes a man's legal, parental and financial rights, then keep your new owner "happy" every second of the day until one of you dies, or she divorce grapes you. Funny fantasy you have there.

That summed it up quite well. Twenty years ago I got the itch to know why things seemed to go down the drain - so I studied. Thankfully more and more people are realizing whats going on, though they are not as "fortunate" they have not even started on the rollercoaster called "five stages of grief". denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.

hey! this is between you and the womans. dont bring the nonwhites into this.

Cap n cope

@@smegmatic308 its not cap. i was also there in 04 it was a late 90s invention from a 70s invention

The only ones you qualify for as a "fucking white male" are state scholarships and merit scholarships. You will get state scholarships upon meeting the criteria, assuming they're funded. The merit scholarships are a crap shoot and still usually got to women and non-whites. That's Civil Rights law and its consequences.

That's horrible and unfair. I'm sorry for your loss.

" I think in general men in our society are taught what woman want," even that is wrong. They tell you lies so you can fail.

We're told what women SAY they want [from people they're Already Attracted To]

Men who cheat also say the same thing. "I didn't love her honey, I love YOU!". Turns out cheating women are just the same as cheating men. We're not very different, and that's what's so disappointing.

@parker9012 Yes and no. Simple "double standards" is enough to describe it.. She "doesn't cheat bc she only had sex". In her eyes you cheat if you have sex. (Oh if I only had known all this 20 yrs go... at a mostly girrls party. I would have shamed them all, incl my then gf.) They don't get the degree of betrayal as you call it bc it's not about themselves. That, and the "empathy gap". Rephrased: Its maybe not as much understanding males (your morals dont differ that much) as it's not having empathy for other than women (and maybe siblings and dad).

@@jasonwismer2670 Men and women cheat DIFFERENTLY. If a man has sex with some random woman, he tends to NOT have feelings. Unless the man is a Chad-Rone, he is cheating because his sex life is dead or he has to be a "good wittle dancing monkey" for some DUTY sex. He will still provide and protect his wife. He will still want to give his wife attention. If the mistress was ran over by a bus, he would think "Aww, no more sex." When women cheat, they usually catch feelings or emotional attachment with the guy. They have grown tired of her husband. They don't respect their husband. Women tend to cheat to leave. If the Chad-Rone she was seeing got hit by a bus, she would think "Now I gotta drag myself to Basic Bob or Cubicle Carl. Hopefully he doesn't want sex." I don't condone cheating, but I understand why people cheat.

I am happy you got a little revenge. 😂

Lol what women dont understand is that her ap knows shes a cheater. Shes for fun only

She was a 4 out 10 woman 🤣

@@Heeroyui752 oh she was hot lol but a trash personality. I was young and stupid I knew she was crazy.

Bump that number up at least to 9. You know as well as I do she ain't spitting facts about the rating she gives to an EX.

And remember how common it was for men in the past to be alone and unmarried. It was the majority

​@@FirstLast-gk6lgstill is, no? "Only 40% of men reproduce."

Amen!

A man can literally have all his dreams come true... by focusing on his career. With money and wisdom the man can have the house of his dreams, 100% custody of his child(ren) and one or more women granting any of his wishes. Fathers just need to guide their sons in the right direction.

I think narcissists have always been there but since men have been declawed there’s no one to keep them at bay.

The bigger problem is that the word "narcissist" has gone viral and everyone is throwing it around whenever they don't like someone. It actually takes a licensed professional to apply that label correctly, not Miss Suzy Butthurt after 3 minutes on either WebMD or Wikipedia.

@@monkeyking617 Or living through that shit firsthand and healing from it. I was extremely stupid, and fell in love with a woman with NPD comorbid ASPD. She had all the signs, I completely ignored my intuition, the relationship was textbook narc, devaluation, etc, she lied constantly, every story I had she had to come up with one that was more difficult or better than me somehow. I was obsessed for months after, spent all day doing research, and did a program to heal from narcissistic abuse, and it worked. So not always needed a licensed professional. Also, I got a polymer chem degree, psychology is a cakewalk compared to the stuff I took in that. So not as complex as people think.

Female nature revolves around narcissism, and women will admit that there's more female narcissists than male.

@monkeyking617 Thats nowhere near as bad as the problem itself. The symptoms cannot be faked. My ex-wife was diagnosed by a doctor she played it off. Cannot feel love or empathy and cannot honor a commitment inability to feel regret or remorse. I ignored it and it wasted about 15 years of my life stole everything from me because I tried to ignore it

You can add me to that list. I did eventually find a wonderful women to marry but it did require two divorces, hundreds of thousand of dollars in child support and lost savings to do it.

Many of my friends growing up were in this situation. I vividly remember the new boyfriend my friend's mom brought into the house shortly after the divorce and thinking, "that's who you wanted over the Dad? Really?"

@@jl696 was it worth it? Why didn't you quit?

Happening to me. Home, children 100s of 1000s and an insane amount of child support is stolen from me at gunpoint or I will be sent to prison. All because my vow breaking "wife" failure committed fraud.

@user-ev8hx1su5y Yes. Would it matter under gynokuk law even if they weren't?

the only winning move is not to play

@@alexandermccabe556 PREACH. Seeking marriage in 2024 is the equivalent of volunteering yourself to go to prison. Like you KNOW it’s horrible and the system is intentionally designed to break you down and abuse you. So what on Earth makes you think you will be magical unicorn that beats all the odds?

Blame your kind

@@Llamaifunny Agreed

Dude sounds around the same age as me, it was rough, probably worse now. The system made it impossible to stand up for yourself if you actually cared about being expelled. I had a lot of regrets for a long time because of it.

Prenups are not enforceable in most States.

They don't work in states even where theybare enforceable. All she has to do is say "he made me sign it under pressure" and you'll lose the case

@@NateBthey are if it isn't “if I cheat I get 80 percent of your shit” types of bullshit prenups are enforceable but they need to be fairish, like an infidelity cause for both parties

ty, I know. I didn't think anyone was ever gonna listen, so I'm making the most of this

@@hoe_math Well keep pumping these out man. The West is in DESPERATE need of examination of many of our values and we NEED people like you do act as a counterbalance to the insane, degenerative direction we are headed in. (And we need to do it without alienating those who are on the fence, or those who haven't yet begun asking themselves these types of questions.)

@@TheQuietPartOutLoud This is something I've noticed. If you truly want change in the world and understand the origin of a problem, especially a common error in judgement from a specific group, you should always approach the topic in a respectful manner because otherwise you simply perpetuate the cycle of hatred by calling someone out in a humilliating manner. All because you really needed that mic drop moment.

@@JibrilPCDoesn't matter. A calm explanation isn't going to change minds -- sadly it's preaching to the choir because the people who perpetuate the problems want to reap the benefits of a broken system but also want to complain about not being able to benefit long term from the broken system. Nothing will change so long as the system is in place, and women see absolutely zero reason in wanting to tear down the current system.

Don't push it. His work is not that important. He is "average".

Does that happened to you? I’m really sorry for you if that happened to you brother.

Is that why you're a stay at home dad? Sheer paranoia? Cause honestly I can respect that.

I'm the kind of guy who wouldn't let that stand. Which is among the reasons I avoid signing any open-ended agreement that I can't get out of without losing everything.

kick her the fuck out?

Yeah I can’t let this happen to me because I would probably end up in prison

women are not meant to have the same rights or freedoms as men. This is the consequence.

You’re a man I take it? Care to share any details ?

No marriage was the smartest decision I ever made in my life. Period. 😄

Yup, most dangerous thing ive ever done and ive done some crazy shit before

@@bengraham5699 No relationships ever was the wisest decision I made in my life. Modern women are dangerous to men's well being.

Mathogynist

now that feminist statement about math being patriarchy makes sense

we need to stop basing the structures of society on womens emotions and do what actually makes sense and creates a functional society again

The answer is all of the above + more

@@asura8495 Liberal democracy is a disaster.

With extreme wealth and wisdom you can still have what your grandparents had.... but only with both will it be possible for men of today.

When I say extreme wealth it means having the money to travel to any country and spend multiple months finding, investigating and dating good women then choosing the best quality. Most men do not have such money or the free time for such a task.

Yes. Women teachers in general are horrible for boys

*Tried?*

Funniest part about this whole story is the kid you told to leave probably killed himself or some shit down the line hah

yup i think the same thing about "Zero Tolerance"

Even when defending girls the boys get punished by a woman. Now they ask why men just walk by instead of helping haul their A/C out of their car. (Also regarding that one video specifically...why are they hauling the A/C out of their cars up to their flat? Aren't you supposed to order that and have it delivered and put where you can stow it safely until the HVAC guy can install it?)

I feel like we're missing some context here. Why does it matter if CPR guy can't run D&I? Did he want to run D&I?

@svendays Thanks for the comment but i don't think I made my original comment clear. The CPR guy (Steve) wasn't interested in the D&I stuff as most of us aren't. He is simply a good bloke, colleague, staff member and team leader. He was in the right place at the right time, twice to offer aid and assistance. The point I was trying to make was it seems the expectations seem to be different. Essentially where saving 2 lives is outweighed by holding a D&I monthly luncheon event for clique group.

​@@Eehonda_again your comment was clear enough, I understood it just fine. The other commenter's reading comprehension sucks.

Did you actually do your job right? Saving someone’s life won’t make you employee of the month.

​@@Cleifairy If you saved *two* lives you are already above someone who just leads group lunchs. Period. The system is rigged to benefit women

youd be suprized how terible schols have goten wen it comes to punishing the wrong people. one time wen i was in midle school i was siting nexst to a kid with anger isues he stabed my hand with a pen it took thre weeks to heal fully and his reson for doing this "your voice is anoying" and as i was standing there in pain bleding from my hand thebtecher gave me the same punishment as him becaus "it takes 2 people to fight"

That’s why we need to help each other build passive income. Then we can stand up to that BS.

I, as a guy living in Canada, have struggled immensely to get jobs whereas my sisters seem to have a much easier time getting hired. Wonder if it's just a coincidence...

@@johnsampson6387 There government and private institution devoted to helping them and giving them money to get them into these job positions and laws that put whole companies at risk if they don't meet quotas. No, it's probably not a coincidence.

I encourage you to straight up lie about your education on a résumé. Nobody in recruiting (wine moms) ever calls a college admissions department, and they're ghosting you anyway. What does 100% happen is "HR" comparing you to her kids. Whatever her (ex-)husband is spending on college, that's the standard. Same mentality as dating apps. Gross, right? Here's the other side of the interview table. That guy gets to deal with constant sexual harassment (flirting with physical contact), because HR knows his salary... disguised as cougar joooookes. If he doesn't play along, it escalates. Because it's a sh*t test. Picture a bored teenage girl, but she's 55.

I have a coworker that got promoted to making 20k more than me when they did not have the experience or knowledge because they are a woman. I assist her in meetings because she lacks knowledge in an area that I have. And of course, I attend the meetings and help because I don't want my female director and managers punching down on me.

Basically me, but so far I've managed to hang onto her by the skin of my teeth. 25 years married now, and her leaving is STILL on the table. And gents, she's one of the best women I've ever known; a best case scenario...

@@AgentM3tallionwtf

She's in for a big surprise when she hits the dating market as a single mother in her 40s.

Start ignoring her and working/going out at times with the kids and at times alone. It seems antithetical to do so, and it might seem like you're running a risk of losing but you're already on the razors edge it seems. Switch up your diet, drop the alcohol and start going out not with the boys but by yourself or the kids, go hiking, play some sports. When she asks and gets uppity, just leave. Start doing things by yourself, when she asks for help with small things assess the situation first before helping then her without saying a word and leave. Larger "helps" require more distance and "pondering" Most importantly, start logging your TIME. Where you went, people you meet, gym time etc. You'll realize how much time you're wasting either doing trivial tasks, or waiting beck and call for a woman who doesn't love you. Make it seem like you're into the game already and have options and that your kids are on board, but always arrive back ON TIME (Women love the "he's coming home late so I assumed he was cheating." route at court). She'll either back down or if she decides to go for the kill in 6-8 months you're already set up for living a new minimalist life.

I'm sorry, brother. Stay up.

That kind of personally makes me angry… hope you’re in a better position now.

never marry again, but try and find a woman abroad

@@QH96 Women are the same everywhere.

I hope the best for you my friend

Dating is fine, I'll just likely never think about commiting again. I've been used and cheated on many times by women that I thought were good. Not risking my livelyhood for a partner and pussy.

finally a sane comment. you are right, not everyone is shallow, but many are, and how to find out who is who…? this i dont know

@@anarup916 Thats what keeps good people, both men and women, away from relationships. One can live with you for a decade and still backstab you, and the worst is you'll blame YOURSELF for not seeing who they really were for all that time, it's traumatic as fuck.

It’s really easy actually. Watch how they act when they do something wrong. A sincere apology includes admitting wrongdoing, trying to understand how they caused pain, communicating to create a solution together, implementing that solution, and regular check ups on how that solution is working, along with creating a new solution, if the first one did not create measurable progress. Most women I have met will not admit to wrongdoing. The ones that say sorry never implement a solution. I’m 37 and have yet to find a woman willing to go to through all of that *with anyone*. Unfortunately, this kind of conflict resolution is not optional for a healthy relationship. What I am saying is just textbook stuff you can hear from any psychologist on how to have a healthy relationship. If you are looking for a that in 2024, you are screwed. But, at least, now you know what to look for.

@samuelcavalcanti3345 Yes. You come out of it not only with trust issues with other women, but for yourself, too. You don't trust yourself to be able to see red flags or pick a decent partner.

RU-vid Mary and Jesus in the Quran and Mohmmad in the Bible and the Scientific Miracles of the Quran

Same here. 42.

That's right bro!!! You disciplined asf💪

They value attention. Not you. It is a trap to give up your attention on yourself. They hate it

What? They don't have any game/pickup lines? I'm so surprised. How will they ever get your retirement savings?

How do you have sex then?

Its hoeflation. You need to be 10x the man your grandfather was to get 10x worse woman than your grandmother was.

You should ask about the truth behind their marriage. Everything looks great on the surface, but drugs, alcohol and domestic abuse were all exceedingly common back then

@@iceman5117 If drugs, alcohol, and domestic abuse keep a marriage together for 56 years I'll take those over this wretched, cursed "freedom" we supposedly have now. Fuck feminism

Yeah in some houses but not in majority ​@iceman5117

@@iceman5117 love comments like these. Did it happen? Yes. Was it common? No. Was the net result better or worse than today? It was better. Nothing is perfect, and your idiotic comment shows how little thought you put into it. "We got 5% of people with problems. I know we will destroy the whole system that generally works so now we have problems that are 100x worse for the civilization in general and we still didn't fix the original problem."

It was like "I'm using a man to supplement my income and get the children I always wanted. I'm only willing to go so far when it comes to covering up my true objectives."

They switch up on you because another girl pointed it out or bragged about getting her share from divorce. The worst thing to happen to women is other women

if they left you because of that, they would have eventually left you and taken half your stuff, if you had actually married them. consider yourself lucky

Interesting way of avoiding the legal entanglements of marriage but watch out for common law marriage. If your state recognizes common law unions it doesn’t matter if you have a marriage license or not. The state will say you are married and boom. You’re on the hook as if you had a license. Check out your state’s laws on this. Good luck.

@@TheOriginalBrent pressure needs to be put on politicians to reform: alimony, child support, common law marriages, mandatory paternity tests, 50/50 child custody and making prenups the default for all marriages.

I've had this happen with dating-level relationships as well. Last one I attempted (about 6-7 years ago) I proposed what I called a 'loosely-comitted fwb relationship'. She didn't really like the idea but she was thinking all she had to do was s*x me up and I would eventually cave in. Her real goal was to cohabitate and she was being a chameleon. Not happening! Shelved the idea of dating finally after I experienced that.

Refinance or default...

He's already out of the house. He doesn't GAF.

Dare he to pay a couple of months in a row and the ex could claim a hidden source of income and demand permanent mortgage payment

It sounds like they're indirectly telling you that you aren't going to get money from them for the house they aren't living in anymore and the ownership of that house was (potentially) awarded in the divorce to the ex-wife. There's nothing you can really do that can force that person to pay for something they no longer want to. You work for a bank, not child support. You can't threaten them with jail for failure to pay, just damage to their credit score; which in those kinds of situations tends not to be cared about because that credit score is already being damaged in numerous other ways. All you can do is one or more of the following: > inform them, and the ex-wife, that if it is the case that ownership of the house was awarded to the wife, that they need to file a quit claim deed(if the ex-wife can't afford the mortgage she's likely to refuse, even if a court orders it to be done as a part of the divorce proceedings) > reach out to the ex-wife to try and refinance the mortgage only in their name(they are likely to refuse if they cant afford the mortgage payments, which if its not been getting paid then they likely cant) > proceed onto default and foreclosure. Stop wasting your time and everyone else's by banging your head against a proverbial brick wall trying to accomplish what is indirectly being said won't be happening. Fulfill whatever legal obligations you have in sufficiently notifying involved parties of things, then move the process along.

You guys aren't seeing the long game. The court demands he keep paying for the house, while only she is allowed to occupy it. So what are his options? Either keep forking over money for something you can't use or stop paying and (she) loses it. If he stops paying (which is what it sounds like is happening if the mortgage company is calling him), the bank seizes the asset and kicks her out. He is strategically choosing to win by losing. What's the damage? His credit score? Yawn. That can recover.

Wisdom.

100%. Seen that movie a hundred times in my circle.

Life is about managing risk . Its all about the risk reward ratio. How good are you at managing those risks and what other resources do you have to draw on? Most people will confess on themselves. That is one tip I can pass along. If you run into the odd sociopath, my condolences but I never fell for the contextual exceptions to bad behavior. If she has enemies and hates people, it will come around to you. Another thing to remember. If you attract women at a certain "level" ,they are disposable to you. Even if you like them, friend zone them. You can get more. You can charm them, and be nice to them , but don't have sex with them. You need to know women and people and the best way to do that is by contrast. Meet a lot of them. Look at what they do, what friends they have and how they resolve issues. Again, only the odd sociopath really hides who they are. Maybe I got lucky, who knows? However ,by that time, I almost knew how my wife would turn out, and its been 20 years. Why was I so forward thinking? Besides having an early relationship based on "she is hot", I saw my brother walk into a disaster anyone should have been able to see coming. I was determined to learn from his mistake. Lastly, there is a social contract. If the social contract is broken by an unreasonable application of justice and ends up to be a "state of war" in Hobbesian terms ...What does she know of what is in the arsenal such that she will understand the benefits of diplomacy?

You peak at your fifties, bro!

I concur, seriously, stay single get a cheap small house, retire early and you literally can do whatever you want, whenever you want. Men have sacrificed for too long for what women want. From a risk return perspective it's a no brainer to stay away from marriage.

Agreed!

He has several good ones, but this one resonates.

Yeah I'm reeling from this one omg

If even 1 man sees this and is spared from the hell of western marriage (male husbandceldom/slavery) and divorce grape then he has done a great service here.

The music adds a lot 🙂

Sadly anything that doesn't make women seem like the embodiment of perfection gets written off and labeled as hate speech. This material is great but it will never be widely accepted - at least not without a massive cultural shift away from feminism and wokeness.

I'm fairly certain thats why he's doing this.

Its out there, just in the older content creators material. Like Aaron Clarey's books.

This is what men's rights movements have looked like for decades. Only the dunking on OF thots is what got popular on youtube so that's all people see nowadays. Most of that has nothing to do with them anyways.

Why do you care so much about people having an OF

The rabbit hole goes deep. How deep? Personally I believe most of the issues boil down to young boys not being able to rough and tumble play anymore. Personally as a Xennial me and the boys where play wrestling for a good 1-2 hours per day in school. You learn how much aggression you can use against others without the play breaking into a actual fight. Play fights is also a way to establish order and status among boys, which greatly help at preventing actual violence and bullying as engaging in active play helps you overcome the displeasure of pain.

My social anxiety vanished the moment I bought my first gun.

@@MK_ULTRA420 so anyway, I started blasting

For a second there I thought you were talking about the divorce lmfao

​@@zealgaming8161well see this part of the vid conflicts with my experience. Throughout my schooling, I don't think I've witnessed a single fight, and not because I'm in a dark corner of the school yard during lunchtime. I think the issues that begin for boys here stem from poor or absent parenting, which has much worse effects now in the digital age than it did before. Now escapism is incredibly easy, and you can sink time into watching anime, or playing games, or scrolling through social media. With so much easy dopamine, it's easy to see why there's been a degrading of social activity and less risk taking in social contexts. It's no mistake male suicide is a prevalant issue right now.

Always has been

The west needs shari'a. Westerners busy trying to create a set of morals without religion. Comedy.

Not to be all “not all women!!” But just my personal anecdote/rant. I wanted to grow up and mature with my ex-bf(we’re in our early 20s). I committed a lot for him. Family, career, etc. my ex-bf couldn’t care less, he only wanted to date someone he could see marrying and he though I was not supportive enough. I hate this mindset! I was starting to build up my career so that I could provide that support but he didn’t want to wait and overcome rough patches together. Sure this is just one example but I won’t be surprised if this sentiment becomes more gender neutral as well.

@@zozo-fl6jxwith all the talk of equality from women, yes you can expect men to treat you the way you and your peers have treated them. That’s a bed y’all made, now you gotta lay in it.

I married my husband because I couldn't imagine my life without him. Getting dolled up for the wedding was fun, but it is nothing compared to knowing that I get to spend the rest of my life with my husband

@@zozo-fl6jx Honest question, what percentage of women do you think view marriage in the way OP described? Because for a lot of men, they know there are a few good women out there, but marriage is just too big of a risk to men to risk it.

@@symptomofsouls idk dude I just wanted to rant about my ex

I can attest to this

If I’m going to feel lonely, tis better to be alone. I think for a lot of guys, my aspie self for sure, the default is melancholy. I’m neither happy nor sad but can exist, stoic. I can accomplish things, sometimes I’m into it and there’s happiness, sometimes I’m not and there’s at least pride in being done. But as soon as other people enter my space, it’s amazing how those people can change things. Negativity can really bring you down - especially if it’s constant negativity from someone you care about and who you used to find joy in. Weigh it out brothers - if the time with your woman is spent walking on egg shells, and not joyous, then fix your relationship or get out.

Its better to be lonely alone then to be lonely together. At least when you are lonely alone you control all the inputs but together you only control half but invest all

a lot of those "single depressed men" are divorces, never forget that. They count the divorced men always in the single men group and never extra for a reason

bro 100% true, 3months divorced from a 7 year marriage, i didnt know what was peace, even my anxiety is gone now. im eating healthy (no more fastfoods and restaurant foods, just my own good food, which i like) and for sure better sleep

@@nickmattio3397 do you like to have your house and half Joe moneybags gone?

And on top of that they constantly improve it,adding streaming,community notes,voice groups etc..

"Kept running" if you want to call it that.

@@IkusaGT its doing quite fine now. When they had those layoffs it was QUITE clear that it was being sabotaged before those people left.

@@IkusaGT I have no idea how you'd call it anything else.

“kept running” also pretending like Twitter was made by white people only is hilarious, take that energy to the Hub champ 😂

and that's the BEST outcome from the current inputs

Absolutely based woman.

It's so funny how many women get a career, and then switch it off. Socially, investing in men is such a better payoff.

@@eliotcamel7799 I would have absolutely zero qualms about burning woke academia’s money

yeah, literally a waste of fucking time, wether people want to admit it or not most women want to have children, even women who claim otherwise. those are usually brainwashed into thinking children are leeches and parasites. @@1Plebeian

Hella a lot of co-dependency with the low end of the scales tilting on men

The ground-level of the school sysrem is also infiltrated by liberal women that are getting worse by the year. The gov/unions are her husband and her MO is bringing down the patriarchy, one child at a time

Women are the house. They win either way.

I always recommend everyone read "Dumbing Us Down" by John Gatto. The most eye opening book on the government education monopoly in the USA. Public school is about creating intellectual dependents, people obedient to authority, with provisional self-esteem. It's not structured to create self-motivated and ambitious people. It's all about control.

Ritalin is addictive

Interesting

If the guy has a lot of options and women flirting with him, then his sex life’s gonna get explosive

No; it's always currency. Women date up, where "date" is a euphemism for sex and "up" is what she wants. "Bond" is what she wants now, "retain" is what she wants later.

As a girl, this is such bullshit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Y’all really do make up whatever you want to prove the world exists according to your theories, huh? It’s just so sad. Hint: women have sex because we like it, it’s fun, and if we are attracted to our partner and he is an exciting, fun, nice guy it’s even BETTER! See, solved it for you. You’re welcome.

Can you provide a link to this? I'm interested in listening to this podcast.

I mean yeah, the "until death do us part" isn't suppossed to be something you just say at your weeding, it's a sacred vow sworn in a place of worship before God and men declearing that you would sooner die than leave the other person's side. The modern "vow" is far removed and a sad shadow of it's former self. Once upon a time it meant something damn it.

This sounds a bit insecure and controlling. You should never give up your autonomy, I don’t care what some drummed up legal document says. Unless you’re unable to make decisions for yourself, you should always have the decision to leave an unhappy relationship.

Amen

Not really, it's precisely because it's no longer a partnership that it's killed, it has become an incredibly unfair contract of service of men to women which has, given how most people behave currently, zero reasons to be signed. The death of trust and accountability was the death of marriage. Someone not trustworthy and not held accountable is NOT a partner.

Western "marriage" was destroyed the day no-fault divorce INCENTIVIZED and PAYED a vow breaking wife failure to leave for any/no/idiotic reasons. The only idiots now are the NPC feminized beta knee-takers who still submit to indentured servitude as a husbandcel under gynokuk laws.

Same here brother. Finally have a stable life on all fronts and am thinking about what's next, but am having serious doubts about women and marriage.

It will screw-up everything you worked for. Think about it like this: make a list of the things that you could lose by getting married. Now make a list of things you gain by getting marrid. Easy answer.

The answer is "no marriage". Cohabitation in a non-common-law-marriage state. If she complains and asks why, just teach her the realities of modern anti-men laws. If she still doesn't understand, she's not the one. Rational mature women know things are screwed too, they will come around and those are your keepers.

@@ShannonBarber78This. Way too many Manosphere gurus tell men to "focus on yourself; build your wealth" but that's bad advice for men who even want to think about getting married at some point, because then you are marrying someone meeting you at the finish line of your journey rather than at the start; a woman like that will never appreciate you for you because she's only getting to experience your best self after you've been through the ups and downs in life. It also means she has nothing to lose and everything to gain by being with someone who has already established himself.

​@@Billy-bc8pkI mean you are true and all. But I have to give my own testimony of getting into a relationship while I was still in the process. I ended up expending the energy I had trying to babysit her and keep her alive and I ended up not having the power or energy to pursue my own goals. I held me back from becoming what I wanted to, and at least when you are established you have the time to give attention to women and still be comfortable. We all know most won't stick around without both of those. You aren't even an option with nothing you are invisible.