What Is a Red Pill: The Real Truth | The Happy Wife School Show Ep.6

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Join me for another episode where I pull back the curtain on what a red pill really is and what women and men need to know in order to have a solution once the truth is known.
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*Disclaimer:* The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my videos and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual - what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for aggressive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and/or physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Welcome
0:37 Introduction to the "Red Pill" Concept
4:06 Why Women Need the Red Pill in Marriage
25:21 Why Men Need the Red Pill in Marriage
35:07 The Problem with the "Red Pill Community"
42:10 Questions and Comments

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@theotherside7538 9 месяцев назад

Accountability is like Kryptonite to a woman. Glad you managed to save your marriage and become a better person.

@billmcdonald3561 9 месяцев назад

similar to a narcissist!!!

@theotherside7538 9 месяцев назад

@billmcdonald3561 I wouldn't go as far as saying every woman is a narcasist, but they are very self centered, thinking that maybe an evolutionary hangover based on their ability to survive in turbulent environments. Don't hate them understand them, if you want to somewhat protect yourself

@billmcdonald3561 9 месяцев назад

@@theotherside7538 1) I love what you are doing! 2) You misinterpreted my words! All i said was "similar." 3) I dont hate women, and 4) I was a therapist for decades and shifted to "Mentor" 20 years ago. Your work is cutting edge! Many thanks!

@ez-g3090 6 месяцев назад

Doesn't mean he's happy.

@antoniojohnson5964 5 месяцев назад

😊

@lukenielsen8397 9 месяцев назад

What needs to be pointed out MORE is that you can, as a man, see the "woman ways" and "emasculation" and not let it "get to you" and that woman can still destroy your family. It IS a TWO person solution, and you CANNOT do BOTH jobs. A woman that will not take accountability, and continuously whines and complains about how you are the reason she is not happy, even after pointing it out to her that she is the only one that can find happiness, and eventually dumps you and your family for the "Tingles and butterflies." I lived that dilemma. My kids and I are now better off.

@jackthere 9 месяцев назад

The butterflies, lol

@georgesontag2192 9 месяцев назад

Feminists will figure out a way to silence her. She is wise and knowledgeable.

@TalentedLMT 3 месяца назад

God, I hope not!

@practicallyheidi8505 9 месяцев назад

I agree with much of what you have to say. One thing I see after is women are unhappy because they are exhausted. Working full-time, raising kids, keeping a home. A 50/50 marriage will tend towards roommates. A true 50/50 marriage is each partner doing their traditional role. Men providing and protecting. Women caring for the home and family. This creates a less stressful, more rested wife and as a result a happy husband. Women need to work on themselves and they need the time and freedom to do so. An example is today after my 3 kids still at home left for school I exercised. I prepped dinner, did laundry, mopped the kitchen, made bread, finished wrapping presents for a child's birthday next week, harvested vegetables from my large garden, vacuumed, took a 15 minute nap, the list goes on and on but the result is my husband will come home to a clean house, a home cooked meal, and happy children. Tonight we will go for an evening walk together as a family and probably have sex because after 22 years we still have sex 3-4 times a week. I wish every woman could have the life and family I have. It takes work but it is so worth it. I suggest women get back to their feminine ways just like our grandmother's and great grandmother's.

@gooe9561 7 месяцев назад

Unfortunately, the saturation of the workforce caused by women leaving the home has made a single-earner household no longer financially possible for the vast majority of families. It could be mistaken for being deliberate as destroying the traditional nuclear family is the way to destroy a society.

@JSiracusan 7 месяцев назад

I think many of them could if they wanted. The culture drives dis-satisfaction with what is. More, more, me, me... etc. Women's traditional roles seem to be a thing of the past. Raising kids well isn't enough in and of itself anymore, even though it's probably the most important. If a woman does what you just said it's not good enough! My wife feels like that. Coming home to a clean house or even being greeted after work by my wife and kids? nope. It used to break my heart, now it just hurts, I know who I am and what I stand for. I'll clean it up and make dinner and do the laundry, because I want to. I would if she wasn't there. I don't know what kind of example that's setting for my kids... I've withdrawn from her withholding. I'm working on myself and it's not quite clear yet what road to go, but it's getting clearer. I can maintain my love for her apart from the relationship.

@Eliukcory 7 месяцев назад

It is that. Satan has a plan. And it’s to destroy gods plan.

@bennaughton8358 7 месяцев назад

Wow!

@CaptnMojo 6 месяцев назад

Smart woman

@paulbooij7594 9 месяцев назад

Rollo Tomassi "Happy wife, happy life isn't folk wisdom. It's an ultimatum. "

@amandlaawethu1538 9 месяцев назад

At the end of the day it's emotional abuse. This puts her happiness on U. Weaker simp men endorse it enforce it. No one has the right to break up a marriage or an oath. Divorce should not even exsist. But it does because weaker simp men changed the laws (King James, King Solomon) plus some others now permits divorce. Human beings R going to B unhappy this is life. As husband we R responsible for not making matters worse. If women (All Women) do not wanna take divorce/separation off the table no man should get married, no man should get a female pregnant. 🛑 must 🛑 betraying each other over 🐱. Men must 🛑 participating. Men must 🛑 accepting the abuse

@Steverz32 9 месяцев назад

This woman is dropping dime of knowledge! Y’all hit her like button!👍

@thehappywifeschool 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your kind words and for supporting my channel. It is always very appreciated.

@krakoosh1 9 месяцев назад

It’s only worth a dime?

@andrewslagle1974 5 месяцев назад

Do you have a twin sister?Just a joke ,thank you for all the help!@@thehappywifeschool

@anthonytorres4725 9 месяцев назад

You have spoke so many truths here, I do not even know where to start.The whole time before the separation/divorce I am going through, I thought I was wrong. Now I am leaving victimhood mindset and transitioning to a red pill stance. Yes, I am aware she has gone around and rewritten my history, but now after watching this, I will recalibrate with the assurance that I shall continue to stand on manly and godly principles no matter what.

@jackdeniston59 9 месяцев назад

Same here. So many men over responsible themselves. Have a hard rigorous look at your mother. They send us wrong in the first place.

@jorgealicea2088 9 месяцев назад

Love you're channel. I think what you are doing in engaging women too. We hear women in social media screaming that we're living in a patriarchy when in fact we're living in a matriarchy. Also screaming that men don't have emotional intelligence when in fact this actually applies to the majority of modern women.

@lawnmowerman716 7 месяцев назад

Amazing! Men are stuck in an internal matrix of female emotional unhappiness that breaks down their confidence to do what they are designed to do-lead in the outside world, provide for his family, and protect those he loves. Instead of being focused externally where he can be effective, he is focused internally on helping his wife escape her unhappiness.

@jackfenton2271 9 месяцев назад

The endless "Nag, no Shag" loop kills every marriage.

@lewisgroberg 7 месяцев назад

Karen finding your channel has been a life affirming gift. The truths you teach are like oxygen for my soul.

@antonioamaral7471 7 месяцев назад

👍🏻

@WatchfulHunter 9 месяцев назад

Age 20 male. My mind was racing. I had no control. Fear had gripped me. Then I said stop. And every time my mind started again with fears I said stop. Over and over. Until silence. Silencing the thoughts stopped the fear. Use your will to control your thoughts. Use your thoughts to control your emotions. Become emotionally stable. No emotions. No need. Just peace and quiet. It can be done.

@jackthere 9 месяцев назад

Dang. This is awesome. Way to be, young man!

@andrewmackenzie325 8 месяцев назад

That’s profound young man

@b.d.hooten1785 6 месяцев назад

Welcome to adulthood! I was at the same age when I learned that self-control as well - its been a wonderful life to be in control of your thoughts and emotions.....and yet you'll encounter most people in your life have NOT learned this lesson. You'll learn to find peace by yourself. Theres a reason I love hunting by myself - that IS my peace!

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

🎉 “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” ― Frank Herbert, Dune

@TephaRhi 9 месяцев назад

“The matrix is our mind” You said it all❤ Thank you for another great video 🙏🏻🌷

@andersonfg1 7 месяцев назад

When I got "red pilled" she just got worse and double down saying it was only me. She left because I went red pill. My experience the moment you utter red pill women go more crazy and scream at me saying "you're why the things are so bad". Society is o ly.getting worse and women are more unhappy and double.down in all men bad. Save yourself and never get married.

@antonioamaral7471 7 месяцев назад

👍🏻

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Sorry to hear😢 But sounds like you're better off now 🙏 Best wishes

@sarahvice6326 9 месяцев назад

Found your channel last night and I’m very thankful for you!

@Sal834 9 месяцев назад

Simply wow... Finally, someone speaking common sense and the truth. This is EXACTLY what so many marriages are like! And the fact that you go there and say that if you must divorce because she refuses to end the abuse may be necessary is great. Finally, some truth. The sad part from my perspective is why women refuse to work and change with their man but must win at all costs, losing their marriage, children, husband, and finally being alone and have even more hate. And society supports this. I will be following your channel and am already using things here to help make sure my daughters continue to be healthy. Thank you so much!

@vincentubaldino6695 9 месяцев назад

You have said the right think. We, all men have been in so bad situations. But the more important is for ours childrens. We HAVE to speek wirh them BEFORE they will be damaged like us. No more that. It will be at least our proundness !

@truthseeker8844 9 месяцев назад

I’m sure Patrice O’Neal would have loved to see this. This explanation sums up a good chunk of his philosophy on relationships in an eloquent manner. Keep up the good work!

@Theafire 9 месяцев назад

I love the message. This lady speaks the truth.

@RedeemedSon144 9 месяцев назад

I enjoy listening to you. Your words are uplifting and warm: they lift me. But most of the women I have met - including the woman who called herself my wife and then divorced me (however, as a Christian,I am called to bless, not curse) - CANNOT take accountability or responsibility for their part in any relationship breakup, certainly as far as I have seen and experienced (me and most men understand that some men are snakes, of course). They also cannot say the three magical words: I. AM. SORRY. They just CANNOT or WILL NOT apologize. You are vastly, vastly different and I thank God for that - because it means that I will not be totally jaded - and you said that you have clients who are women. So they obviously do listen to you and they would be the ones who would want to fix their marriage and go to counselling with their husbands. Society - and the selfishness of society has contributed to the demise of the family - will continue to slip since the stable nuclear family can no longer happen, love shall wax cold, and the level of trust and love will drop to 0

@patrickbrannen2887 5 месяцев назад

Women's liberation has left them in a Hell of their own making.

@paulbooij7594 9 месяцев назад

Happiness is the process, not the goal. So you can't achieve happiness for long, because eventually every process comes to an end, and then a new process starts, and happiness can be achieved again.

@NP-io4ol 7 месяцев назад

These videos are lifting up the shame I was made to carry by my ex telling me it was ALL my fault

@erikaahello0880 9 месяцев назад

My marriage is shitty ATM. Im even thinking about separating moving out …. I was faced with the truth and reality that I have Emasculated my husband. 😢

@simondaly9960 8 месяцев назад

Ok, you've faced the truth. Now you have options available. Carry on as previously, and it only ends badly. Or, accept you can change for the better, talk with your husband of your self-realisation, and work on your improvements, with his guidance, support, polite wording when necessary, to enable rebuilding your relationship.

@letstalkaboutit8254 7 месяцев назад

@@simondaly9960 No doubt Erika has a gentleman friend hiding in the background- She may have forgotten to mention him.

@deirdremorris9234 7 месяцев назад

Its been two months. Has anything changed Erica? Are you both doing better?

@erikaahello0880 7 месяцев назад

@@deirdremorris9234 oh yeah ! Things have changed I have challenging moments having to learn to handle my emotions but I am learning my marriage is better my husband is more loving more gentlemen 😀😀🥹

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Dear Erika, hi🙏 I have been in your shoes, realizing I made a mistake and am the one who wants to grow🕊 It’s painful but worth it!🌞🙏 I don't know your marriage and am just taking your assessment at face value🙏 You are on the verge of incredible growth and development and seasoning🙏 Sending you the best wishes ❤ 🙏 🤗

@taylorevans261 7 месяцев назад

This is amazing… I can’t believe how accurately this describes my marriage and what I’m in.

@richardbast7243 7 месяцев назад

Improving relationships is what the goal should be. However, I see the red pill movement as a step of awareness in society to eventually level the legal field after a relationship ends. Men typically are raked over the coals and are destroyed by loss of relationship with their children, loss of finances, loss of reputation and friends and even loss of career. Whether it's deserved or not. And not withstanding is the ease of divorce that makes it so common today to avoid taking responsibility that leads to happiness.

@slartibartfast2452 9 месяцев назад

RP borrowed the phylosophy from the matrix movies, but RP it self, as an online movement was born directly out from the eleventh of Sept, 2001. By the end of 2001 it was a fully developed online movement and had absolutely nothing what so ever to do with marriage, women, or relationships. This present incarnation with respect to relationships is not even 10 years old. How do I know? Because I was there in the forums and chat rooms when it started in 2001. What did we want? Full disclosure because the mainstream narrative was obviously BS.

@jim-se5xc 6 месяцев назад

The greatest contribution a woman can make to society is her happiness. Germaine Greer

@gooe9561 7 месяцев назад

You are describing my ex wife. She bounced and gave the most ridiculous excuses for wanting a divorce.

@andredutoit1131 5 месяцев назад

The TRUTH (as contained in Father God's beautiful Word and that is absolute), will offend you. Or, it will set you free. The choice is mine. Thank you, Karyn for speaking the truth in LOVE (1 Cor 13:1-3). Motive is EVERYTHING. Much love xxx

@beentheredonethat-z5i 18 дней назад

She didn't like what the first 4 therapists recommended. She was not willing to go back after the first session. They were both male and female. The 5th therapist (a female) finally got her to admit that she wanted to do what she wanted when she wanted to do it and wasn't going to be told otherwise. The therapist told me to stop worrying about her and to get on with my life. Took that to heart. Now divorced 23 years and have left the past in the past. Funny, she has asked me if we could ever get back together. The answer has always been no. She is currently on her 3rd marriage.

@danielwilson3313 9 месяцев назад

You describe my wife perfectly. Its very hard to deal with. She does basically everything you talk about. I've recently found your videos and you are helping to expand the knowledge base I already have on this issue. Great work

@danielwilson3313 9 месяцев назад

I so wish I could get her to see your videos and accept the truth

@jorgealicea2088 9 месяцев назад

It's important that men spread thisessage about self harm.

@Chong760 6 месяцев назад

Hi Karyn. I can’t thank you enough for humbling yourself enough to be this vulnerable on social media. But if I may interject and encourage you to throw out “relationship with yourself” to a relationship with God and understanding how God wants women to think, live, and feel. It makes perfect sense for people to see it this way. Trust me, the more we give credit to God the more it will make sense.

@jeromewesselman4653 Месяц назад

Respectfully, I know where you're coming from. In Isaiah, God is identified not in the strong works of nature - not in the wind nor in the earthquake - but in a "still, small voice" within the prophet himself. Not everyone believes in God, but the exercise of looking within themselves places them closer in communication with their Creator than they ever would or could achieve otherwise. Baby steps.

@christys.3912 Месяц назад

Even it's just one believer, believing in God's goodness and the good work He can do, can change everything! Trust in Him, and he WILL do the good work... maybe not in your timing, but in His! But as the believer, you have to trust and do what God wills for you to do, even when it's hard or seems impossible. What is impossible with men, is possible with Him!

@RyanFowlerSOS 9 месяцев назад

36:35 "In order for something to be truth, it must set you free". WOW. Slow clap.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Yes that was a gem 💎 ✨

@thehappywifeschool 2 месяца назад

Video Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome 0:37 Introduction to the "Red Pill" Concept 4:06 Why Women Need the Red Pill in Marriage 25:21 Why Men Need the Red Pill in Marriage 35:07 The Problem with the "Red Pill Community" 42:10 Questions and Comments

@andrewmackenzie325 8 месяцев назад

The Red Pill defined “A set of knowledge and know how that facilitates the construction of a world view that pertains to men’s place in society and to intersexual dynamics in particular”. - Dr. Orion Taraband Psychacks

@scottcriss2791 9 месяцев назад

As i prepare to divorce i wish my wife would watch this. If she did your relentless defense of the patriarchy is all she would think. I am that good man i just want her to be happy. I know when i am gone she will understand what she can no longer have. Unfortunately, I have to go through it along with my kids. So very sad.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

😢Sorry to hear this 🙏 Sending the best wishes to you and your family 🕊 Best of luck to you all

@richardbast7243 7 месяцев назад

Even after being divorced for 20 years I don't want to admit I was in this position. But the reality is that I had it so bad most of my teeth are not real because I ground them to pieces in my sleep. I now live with dental bridges and implants. What is still real is covered in crowns. I stopped grinding my teeth a few years after the divorce. She left me for another guy and it hurt but found out now that that guy left her but not divorced until this month. The ex is interested in friendship as she contacted me but I see through conversation she wants more. I won't give more to her. And through comments she's made I can see what you are talking about. She has made delusional comments many times but not in trying to trick me into past patterns but about herself. She hasn't changed.

@bradleyjackson7168 6 месяцев назад

I had migraines from grinding my teeth. A biteguard saved my life. Dont speak to your ex. Let her rot in hell

@meekoosh 5 месяцев назад

Sounds like manipulation. Run!

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Wow😮 So sorry to hear this😢

@ilampaulino 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this kind of content, ive been dealing with an emasculating partner and it took me until i found your channel to understand that i couldn't change her, but that i can only work on myself. Now i understand why i felt so drained every time she gave in and had lifeless sex with me, and that's not a position i want to be in, ever again. So now I've chosen to take this journey and become immune to these dirty ways by becoming the best i can be, instead of being codependent and covertly manipulative myself. Thank you so much, i'm 32 and was slowly turning into another woman hater. No more simping for me, and no more alpha either. experience is

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Great comment 👍 good luck best wishes ✨

@John6.47 6 месяцев назад

This helped “For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps. He never sinned, nor ever deceived anyone. *He did not retaliate when he was insulted, nor threaten revenge when he suffered. He left his case in the hands of God, who always judges fairly* ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭2‬:‭21‬-‭23‬ ‭NLT‬‬

@TMFlesh 9 месяцев назад

I don't stay away from relationships and limit my contact with women because I'm worried about women, I'm worried about the legal system. Until the laws change, I'll gladly stay over here by myself. Also, feminism didn't ruin women, but it does feed off and enable the worse of female nature. The fact that it has so much political power and influence is why it needs to be addressed.

@rodadams2642 6 месяцев назад

Karyn , Hello. Not much mentioned about childhood drama, And how we carry this throughout life. Wonderful video I got so much out of it. I'm now a subscriber.

@Soulja4ChristWeAreAtWar 6 месяцев назад

Yes, in effect, feminism has existed since the garden. It's been known throughout history by different names. The true name is sin. The opposite of the Glory of God, what we were created to be, reflections of that glory.

@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor 9 месяцев назад

In the livestream when you recognize a comment state what they said for those who aren't seeing it.

@thehappywifeschool 9 месяцев назад

Thank you for your comment and suggestion.

@tgold8422 3 месяца назад

It might be worth discussing the pattern of when the wife makes more money than the man (which is commonplace now). She then feels entitled to make the decisions, and talk to him like she is in charge. After all, she makes the money, pulls the purse strings, and therefore resents him for not leading financially. This dynamic often escalates disrespect and emasculation even more. Standing up to this becomes a challenge to the man, because he feels she has more power because she makes more money. More than ever, he feels the need to shut down, stop communicating, and go along to get along. But she treats him even worse when he continues this. BTW, Alpha male can be a kind leader. Sigma is a very rare outsider “lone wolf” who does not care what anyone thinks about him. Often women whose husbands make the majority of the money, overlook the situation a man is in when the woman makes more.

@DrVinceJohnson 9 месяцев назад

I wish I could get you and my wife together 🙏🏾

@isiahwashington2999 9 месяцев назад

That seems a little personal…😂

@plmnjioqazzsw7962 9 месяцев назад

NO DATING AND MARRYING WOMEN . THE REAL THRUTH .

@CDRFINANCE 2 месяца назад

drizzle drizzle

@RobertPool-nz5ss 9 месяцев назад

I cannot believe your channel is still alive as there are hundreds of mens channels destroyed by You Tube for speaking out hope you are ready to for this so good luck... they took me down 5 years ago, now I only do private sessions in my home at no cost to help Men recover from divorces that took everything they cared about including the kids.

@BeOneWYS 6 месяцев назад

Most say its like the same in longterm relationship

@davidbarclay3651 7 месяцев назад

My wife has a real aversion to accountability. I tried talking about emotional integrity and we almost divorced. All the language was there. I can’t see an end except to learn the darts and ignore them without reaction. She has no conscience at all. Never wrong or sorry. I don’t know what to do.

@theskyizblue2day431 7 месяцев назад

You don’t know what to do? You said she has no conscience… you don’t know what to do?

@tomstulc9143 6 месяцев назад

Huh,! don't know what to do then the problem is you. You didn't try to fix them unfixable to eliminate it.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Difficult situation 🙏 I have no solid advice except to keep w Karyn and listen for strategies to maintain your own self and balance in the face of this. Best wishes to you 🌳🎋

@TalentedLMT 3 месяца назад

Thanks!

@ink-og-neatola-tea-no732 9 месяцев назад

My only arguement is this idea of "good men" its a nice way of saying lesser in key qualities from letting another person treat them poorly. A "good" person can be beta, alpha, sigma, however one wants to describe. The best way to change behavior is consequences. Rewarding people for their negative behavior by staying, getting deeper in a relationship, having children seem extremely counter productive.

@bearman6231 2 месяца назад

Which video do you recommend for my wife to watch first. I know I’ve watched it before. I remember you stating it in the video. But I can’t remember which one it is. Thank you mam. Outstanding videos.

@kareemabes3311 4 месяца назад

I hope your page blows up!

@MacN-gx3jv 6 месяцев назад

Excellent! 👏🏻👏🏻 Congrats from Brazil

@paulappleby7167 6 месяцев назад

How can I see your EP 8 Love is a myth, I believe that was an awesome session one of the best message I have ever heard, I would love to get my wife to see it. God Bless, you for your ministry. Paul

@stephenmclay5662 4 месяца назад

Thank you for what you do.

@howiesfunware 5 месяцев назад

This video serves as a great introduction to your overall message.

@HeavyK. 2 месяца назад

The term Red Pill is from a movie called The Matrix. The protagonist is confronted with facing the truth (red pill) of reality - OR OR OR OR OR OR OR he can ignore the truth (blue pill) and believe ANYTHING YOU WANT TO BELIEVE.

@Fred-ff6bv 3 месяца назад

Pro 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.

@andrew1717xx 9 месяцев назад

You are correct about everything except feminism. Not pointing out that feminism is a hate group bent on the destruction of the family is wrong. It is important to parse out that you should not revile in that anti-feminist attitude. That being said feminism cannot be stopped. I think GirlWritesWhat said it perfectly when talking about the average debt per person when she was on Pearl's Sit down recently. Offer the choice to people, however all we can do is conduct ourselves well, and look for people to engage in human relationships. I pray you read this because the language at the end was sticking your toe over the line between red pill into blue pill.

@michaelcale272 7 месяцев назад

I hear all the time that I fail to make her happy and when we really talk I tell her I cannot make her happy. I just don’t know how to get things moving in the right direction. It’s always my fault/behavior.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Extremely sorry to read this 🙏 Sending best wishes

@urbanart7325 2 месяца назад

My wife keeps telling me that I didn't make her safe and I didn't show my appreciation for her work as a mother. I do not recall her ever appreciating me going to work every day for our financial security , paying the bills and saving for retirement. No sex , no kissing,, no cuddling for 30 years out of 32 years of marriage. At the age of 68 I am getting divorced

@CDRFINANCE 2 месяца назад

I don’t feel safe is the latest buzzword so she can nuke a man’s life and wreck his home and feel justified, I got the same bs excuse along with all the other classics, I think women “teach” women these excuses.

@Mike88GT 9 месяцев назад

You are so cute, I love your message! Thank you!

@timothy2-5_john17-3 4 месяца назад

Thanks much! Thoughts become a reality. Its an eye opening vid about women's vices in relationship. I learned a lot from marriage counselors like you. Its really about being grateful and humble. Could you also cover movies like A Story of Us or Runaway Bride?

@andersonfg1 7 месяцев назад

Also I will never have a seriously relationship.anymore since most dont even want to consdier what they do. The moment you get married as a man you lose any power and leverage. If yoire not married you can have the attitude of if she just emasculates you you can say hey im not going to stand that. And she just doesnt understand just walk.

@fudogwhisperer3590 9 месяцев назад

Men need to take the red pill to stop being simps and letting women push them around. Call her out on her bullshit. Hold her accountable for her crappy behavior.

@t-dogg115 4 месяца назад

The words I still want you but I don’t need you anymore still play over in my head …I don’t understand what changed but I guess it was down to finding myself , spiritual journey , self heal books and workshops surrounding herself but these groups (mostly women who have failed marriages)

@1gramps4julian 7 месяцев назад

Hope you eventually write a book for your gender on the topics you so (imho) bravely address on this channel. I see a potential in the same caliber of the "female maturing" pathwork similar to the male-oriented concepts explained in "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" for guys working on attaining the Mature Male Archetype. Just a thought, love your content and straight-forward presentation. 😎👍🙏

@antonioamaral7471 7 месяцев назад

👍🏻

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

😊👍 i too sense a book in her!📖

@adamcole995 7 месяцев назад

I want to marry a woman who has attended the Happy Wife School.

@mdionne2042 2 месяца назад

...and graduated!

@user-mf3xy9un2q 4 месяца назад

I just said that.. the truth make us accountable n responsible..n typically women dnt want part of either one..n this why they dnt change. Humility is needed in order to change..n pride wont allownit

@TheCruxy 9 месяцев назад

Any thoughts on a video discussing how asd, diagnosed or undiagnosed, can widen the male/female understanding divide? I listen to a fantastic podcast called Neurodivergent Love which has helped me greatly

@johnrath1324 8 месяцев назад

Good advice. Unfortunately majority of women will not change so men must act accordingly.

@jerryfinn7237 9 месяцев назад

Thank you…. I must be the best “good eat” man on the planet.

@wLBlue 9 месяцев назад

Have women always been this way? Why are they this way? Relationships haven't always been this difficult. Why?

@darktenor4967 9 месяцев назад

Love the discussion, albeit I'll say again not all women do this, my wife if anything is more likely to feel guilty and castigate herself , than point the finger at me. However, it might be nice to get some practical discussions in here, some things that men can do or indeed women can do on a daily basis (loved your recent short about your reaction to your husband's news about his work). Since if I do have one criticism of your channel, it does seem a bit overly accusatory. Not that it isn't needed, in the current climate where women are told both that they're special for just existing, and that they're eternal victims, and men are piled with shame for being men, there definitely needs to be a dissenting voice. However, I do wonder if this is why so many more men subscribe to this channel than women, indeed this is the one reason I've not shown my wife your videos, since she's already a good, kind, loving woman, but one prone to indecision and self-flagellation, and in her case, probably needs more encouragement of what she can do, than discouragement of things she isn't doing. Indeed if we have a marital problem, it's simply frustration at life being generally stuck, my wife looking to me to fix things, and my inadequacy at not being able to fix them and be a better husband.

@yoniab4719 9 месяцев назад

i love how u explain "women ways", this is all very helpful :) a criticism if i may? u have a tendancy to repeat urself, saying different words but saying the same thing... around min 30-ish u keep hammering the message of how a woman is emasculating and a man should hold his own - for roughly 6-8 minutes straight... at some point i just tuned out bcz of the repetitivness. i hope u take this into consideration, and if not that's ok too :)

@RP-zu6ti 7 месяцев назад

OMG, that's all

@13kingofbattle47 5 месяцев назад

Yes my shot coming's are patients and loyalties and I get super pissed if I am lied and when there is no loyalty

@ECO473 9 месяцев назад

Assuming what you say is true, it is also a day late and a dollar short...EX-FEMINIST!

@andredutoit1131 5 месяцев назад

The Red Pill is the Word of God or the knowledge of God (2 Pet 1:2-3). "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God" (Rm 12:2). The Battlefield is the mind. "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee" (Prov 23:7). It is the truth or God's Word (Jh 17:17) that will set us free. "Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (Jh 8:31-32). Thank you for helping ALL of us, Karyn. Much love xxx

@krakoosh1 9 месяцев назад

Women have always been like this since the beginning of creation. Genesis 3 says, women will desire to rule over men but men will rule over women

@renegranados8050 5 месяцев назад

Since I was a child I knew this revelation of this world thru a dream . There is no such thing as more than one! . I tried to prove the this to my ex wife understanding , But I realized that the woman is state of mind is Earth there is absolutely No way for her to comprehend what and who she is and there is no way to get her to transform until she physically dies then she can operate unfortunately, a woman is a helper not a priority of the unseen universe . This is why all woman CHEAT there relationship!!! She cheats herself!!

@karloz83 5 месяцев назад

Can you do one please on why women try to turn children on their fathers please?

@racebannon96 4 месяца назад

Parent Alienation

@thmooove 15 дней назад

What would have happened if neo didn't take either of the pills

@todddietrich1436 6 месяцев назад

How do you red pill your wife? I agree with what you are saying, but how do I, as the husband, get my wife to even consider watching your videos, let alone getting pissed off because this information would be hard to swallow.

@deirdremorris9234 6 месяцев назад

How long have you been married? Why did you marry your wife?

@CDRFINANCE 2 месяца назад

You don’t.

@ghostcog 6 месяцев назад

Modern normalized behavior... recognize gynocentric thinking put you there.

@Thunderroad8517 8 месяцев назад

Do you think it would be a good idea to share this with my wife who left me a month ago but is still living in the house with me

@Eliukcory 7 месяцев назад

Ya I think so I’m still looking for the right time or May be righ t video to give mine. There a lot of things that don’t measure up. In some ways it seems like role reversal. But then the question of what came first comes up. Am I a reflection of her or the cause. It’s hard but by the sounds of it you have little to loose. Go for it!

@Thunderroad8517 7 месяцев назад

@@EliukcoryIt’s been almost three months now and I didn’t send her the video . I like your question am I a reflection of her or the cause. I hadn’t thought about it that way. In some ways I am both. I’m honest with my self enough to know I wanted it to be different and I allowed outside influences cause fear and doubt in me to the point I wasn’t showing up in the relationship in the best way. I am now getting in some help with that. As for the reflection I want to think about it more but as you mention it, it seems that it is a mirror. It’s just not clear on exactly how. Maybe my higher self saw this coming and I was already leaving subconsciously to run from the pain that was coming. Fight flight or freeze. The cohabitation keeps me in the freeze zone. I can’t do anything now. I feel trapped . I’m crazy cause I still really love her. That why I came to this channel to get clarity on what the hell im going through. Thanks for your reply and good question…

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Seems like it probably can't get much worse😕 My sympathies to each of you, hope you can rebuild 🙏 I don't envy you weighing whether or not to share videos 🙏

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

@@Thunderroad8517 You sound very honest and sincere and I send you the best wishes for restoring success to the relationship together 🕊 Bless you both 🙏

@Thunderroad8517 5 месяцев назад

@@bigtomboye Thank you for your support and encouraging words. I have come to learn more about our relationship and maybe it’s just time for her to go. I’m not getting that I will be heard from her. Her family and friends some of which I thought were mine are supporting her decision and have ghosted me. I realize that they never wanted us to be together. I can’t deal with the lack of loyalty to our marriage and our relationship . We are set to sign separation agreement papers 2/7. After watching Karen’s last video about how therapist won’t help I have come to surmise that I have heard the cause of the end of my marriage. She is continuing to run away from the responsibility and maybe has decided that I wasn’t the best choice for her. I have questioned whether or not it all was an act to get her where she is and now discarding me to get everything she wants. As for me I’m gonna continue to work on myself and trust if there is another out there maybe Creator will bring us together if not I’m done. I’m just tired from the mind games and people not being who they say they are. We deserve to be loved and respected! I am gonna stop being a victim and join the take responsibility camp which I thought I was in. I’m just learning to be who I am and stop trying to please her and anybody else to be in my life. Thanks for listening.

@orangeandslinky 9 месяцев назад

About how long does a prospective wife have to take to buy, read ,listen and donate to you, before a man can get married to her? Also, did you change the marital laws before I get married in case my fiance changes her mind about everything you say, sell and do? I need total protection from a woman now that no one can trust her word, vows or oaths to God and family. Teach all your stuff, but change the laws FIRST, so we can get married in my lifetime. Make sense? Do the internal everything AFTER the laws totally protect me from women that were like you were.

@jackdeniston59 9 месяцев назад

Laws follow culture. Always. So, give up on marriage

@orangeandslinky 9 месяцев назад

@@jackdeniston59 Good advice. Proven advice. I'm taking your advice.

@josephzsoka874 9 месяцев назад

I agree... however, history shows those who hold the power enforce the laws that promote their self interest. You wanna change the laws, then you have to change the society and take power away from those who hold it... and they don't wanna give it up. Civil war and revolution may become the only answer. Talking to women won't change much.

@importdoc7 6 месяцев назад

Men love women, women love, children, children, love, dogs

@orangeandslinky 6 месяцев назад

@@importdoc7 Women do not, and can not love anything or anybody. If a child can't speak, a woman seems to love the child. The child brings attention to the woman and that's why. The child cannot say "I disagree with you either." When the child starts to think and process things on their own, the woman loves it less. When the child grows up and logically and kindly disagrees with the mother, the mother will not like the child at all. Women love (attach) themselves to cats and dogs easily because they can just say, "My dogs and cats love me unconditionally." The animal can not tell the woman how much it hates the woman, so even if the dog or cat is unkind to everyone, the woman will say, MY dog or MY cats only love ME. If you say, open the door of your house, stop trapping the animals in your house, and they will gladly walk out and be a dog or cat again. The woman knows your right, and hates you for reminding her of that.

@ez-g3090 6 месяцев назад

I bet he still regrets you.

@Downey-2000 9 месяцев назад

Nofap is key .

@hervem. 9 месяцев назад

The manosphere is necessary I agree with you. But their solutions aren't wrong as only men know what other men go through. Men must study women, understand its not their job to change them, and protect themselves from that. Only men are better placed to teach that because Workable solutions vary depending on personal situations. The passport bros for instances talk to a certain audience because they can relate to their conditions. Women can't. No woman has faced the level and number of rejections that a below average looking man go through his entire life. So no woman can judge a solution offered by other men as negative. That would be selfish of her to pretend knowing the ultimate cure for an illness that she doesn't even know. So you are wrong in implying that solutions offered by the manosphere are wrong About the power struggle? It's a scam. Passport bros explain it best. No man should engage in that. If she conveys that you aren't good enough, let her go you're better off focusing on self actualisation and going where women understand your value. Spare yourself the headache because life is too short and you probably don't deserve that. As for her, she'll eventually realize that she was wrong when she's back onthe market in her mid 30s and 40s competing with 20 year old. And as for the man, he can always find one if he's worked on himself and his situation long enough. In this era, women must now do the work to deserve a good man. it would be absolutely unfair for a good man to waste years of his life, hoping that his woman sees the light given that it might not even happen. So good men must study women, understand the behaviours that are red flags and stay away from those women. As good men, they deserve peace of mind.

@hervem. 9 месяцев назад

This truth will truly set you free and save you years of headaches.

@GaryWagner-qv7rh 7 месяцев назад

If you really want to understand how men and women need to act all you have to do is read the Bible

@AlejandroDanielGarciaMar-eu8eh 9 месяцев назад

Too many words wasted to try to tell That woman main role is be helpfull To a man. Too redundant to simply Truth.vWomen out of the Godly task.

@douglasvanvalkenburg8172 5 месяцев назад

Your husband is not going to admit to how bitchy you were because he thinks he is being set up for some drama;

@lucentsoundlabs6021 9 месяцев назад

Just so you know, the algorithm is working against you. Every time a new viewer comes to watch your videos. The thumbs down/dislike button is already pressed. This means for viewers who do not always smash the like button it is attempting to make these videos report badly.

@smirkinatu5512 7 месяцев назад

I am curious about the terms "a good man" and "woman ways". Why no "good woman", and "man ways"? Though provoking information. I remember listening to Dr. Laura on the radio as a young man while milking cows. I remember think she was quite a "spicey woman", kinad judge Judyish long before Judge Judy.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

I dont personally know but suspect she is specifically addressing unhappy women married to good men and NOT those women unhappy married to *BAD* men -- which is a totally 100% different separate topic 🤔 Just my impression tbh

@CDRFINANCE 2 месяца назад

Start your own channel, you come across as the man for the job.

@rozabaroz29 9 месяцев назад

why you saying good men instead of men word ,there is no good or bad ,we all are men in nature

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

Well there certainly are bad men, and some women are unhappily married to bad men. Karyn's perspective is not for them but for those unhappy women who blame their unhappiness on their husband without looking inwards to the self. Her channel is for women unhappy with good men, not women trapped with bad men

@kirillnadtochiy5039 7 месяцев назад

You made your good man suffer terribly. Is that why you get a bit emotional?

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

I find her quite phlegmatic and unemotional actually, her earnest demeanor is what really draws me, id love to learn her calmness 🙏

@Brass_Heathen 9 месяцев назад

13:19 @Karyn - Can I ask why you feel the need to frame your talk to "woman married to GOOD men and GOOD men married to women".... why not GOOD woman married to GOOD men or simply woman married to men (and vice versa). I know it may just be semantics but I believe it points to "making your husband bad" and what remains of that mentality. The husband is just a husband, no need to qualify him either way. If you read this I hope this is taken in good faith and not as criticism.

@bigtomboye 5 месяцев назад

I dont know personally but suspect she is targeting women married to good men and NOT those women in unhappy marriages with *BAD* men, women don't need her advice but rather a way out. Just my impression