Yes it’s because these conversations were once (not that long ago) held in private in psychiatrist treatment rooms … not on the public or schools asking children to question their own sexuality ( some pushing to be introduced to 4 year olds) …
In fairness, they've copied their playbook 100% from that of the radical feminists whom they, along with the rest of us, have been observing all their lives. In this way I consider that the feminists have been hoist with their own loathsome petard.
Actually, it's more often the men in super masculine jobs like the military, engineering, police officer, who seem addicted to cross dressing. So things are not always what they seem.
Which is why we need to see this as this as a symptom of something else. My 18 year old daughter faces push back at work for wanting safe spaces for women.
It's MA'AM!!! Said by a masquerading man to a poor store clerk who politely called him "Sir". The RAGE was evident and bears out what Helen Joyce has just said. Narcissistic rage.
@@VincitOmniaVeritas7 these men are the most hyper masculine on the planet. There’s nothing feminine about them. They’re all straight, large, dominant men who get off on oppressing women and forcing people to comply. As Helen quoted, narcissistic rage.
Helen, admire you so much. Women are at huge risk from these men-gone-wrong. Feel sad for them but it cannot continue. REAL men need to claim their space.
I think this darkness is part of the problem of getting people to understand. It is not comfortable or easy to look the horror in it's face... easier to pretend they are just vulnerable people. (I think all of us do this with certain topics to some extent, it's a bit too much to handle all the darkness of humanity)
@@inkoftheworld absolutely. Pretending they’re a marginalised, vulnerable group has been how they’ve been able to carry on this way, unquestioned and unchallenged
@@kittycat8222 so many people don’t even know about it. I had a response to a comment on the D M earlier from a woman still saying the whole live and let live, it doesn’t affect me and my daughter, it’s none of your business. People need to GET IT before it’s too late.
@@SheridanM-dc1nk dang. Yeah I have read many people say (I will never say “to each their own/live and let live again” )and I never used to say that before but that fact that some people still say it and condone this garbage is sad.
Exactly. It's a characteristic that seeks control & power over others (domination) is a heavily male biased phenomenon. When men identify as women they don't automatically become passive and submissive (a socialised expectation women are raised to be). When those men transition to women, their psyche does not change. They remain largely narcissistic (the tendency to demand their personal fantasy should be recognised by others) with the need to dominate and suppress other females.
The ones I meet are so ANGRY. It's like they are misogynists and taking it to another level. Getting into our safe spaces and then DARING us to be upset so they can be mad and FORCE US TO COMPLY WITH THEIR WISHES.
If you ask them about their procedures gone through to 'live like a woman' they act as if you had peed in their coffee. Anything which questions their make believe role-play can cause a mental crisis for them.
This!!!!!!! This happened to me around 2008. . 6’7” man with a full on fake pregnant belly and nanny ruffle dress. Wanted to go in the girls changing room at a store I worked at. (Alone as a teen)in a half empty mall.
Yes, there is a sadamachistic quality to it. Lia Thomas had a room in his house, a BDSM room, where he had pictures of women being tortured around the room. Just a nice little college girl.
These videos are small "vignettes" of a serious social and moral panic impacting on societies belief systems. Helen gives easily understandable and well researched explanations of the "madness" of Transgender Ideology impacting on all our lives.
Ask any female s3x worker how many clients ask to dress up in women’s clothing and be called a l3sbian and the number always comes in at roughly 3 - 5%
@@ChristineMeyer-hs9rg Why? You could have perversions and not use "public services". Saying 3% of men, without any explanation, automatically means of all men. It would be rather interesting actually to compare men that pay for gratification, vs free natural gratification (socializing/flirting), vs artificial (tinder etc.).
@@dlmsarge8329 I’ve watched this video twice already. The comment I posted wasn’t about the video: it was two questions asking for clarification about the posted comment “Do, they’re just nucking futs”
Where are all the psychologists and psychiatrists? Aren’t they supposed to be helping people who can’t adjust or out of touch of reality set their course and record straight? Are they all just want to be politically correct?
I wonder how much of medicine, like education, has become a business.... it depends where you live, I guess... but customers bring money one way or another so they will be given whatever they want by the provider. Pushing them away means less money, and thus is a poorer business model.
@@natashaj9169 this is what is wrong with society today , ever since the women got the privilege to vote they now think that they can ruin everything and no one is speaking out well not in my back yard.
@@natashaj9169 like I have been saying for a while that feminist have been asking for equality for a long time and there is no going back. But I believe that you never thought that Men would want to be equal to women or want to be just like them or like you. Mental health issues are what's wrong.
As a born female who rejected feminism after reading Greer's book,Mum's copy around age 12,this newlyish designed and unleashed social programming by the thought and speech police to me is ridiculous.I will read this lady's work asap.
The word feminism never had negative connotations. It just meant that women could do the same work as men and want to have equal pay and equal rights. Then, ppl, in their infinite lack of wisdom, turned it into a negative thing, and it began to lose its *true* meaning.
@@tranquility9325 I do think it was more than that and purposefully coordinated using Gloria Steinham.... Who worked for the CIA! Why would they tap a person from the CIA to spearhead that "campaign" of feminism...? 🤔 (Hint, maybe to start a Marxist movement to destroy the family) jmho
The latest injurious incident was in Massachusetts against young girls. Dude ‘activist’ stabbed 3 sisters in an AMC Movie Theater from the seat behind them. A fourth at another location. He/it was running from an incident in Connecticut.
I wrote a long reply to this filling in more details but YT deleted it automatically. Bizarre. His name is Jared Ravizza and he st@bbed a man fatally in Deep River CT before going on to commit the random attacks.
A breath of fresh air, excellent! You mention the defence that trans men can make when challenged. This seems to illustrate a powerful internal conflict where something is valued and longed for but also rejected and feared, so any external intervention can provoke a very passionate and often violent reaction. Bringing such insight into consciousness could be very painful and confusing for them, so attack will tend to be the default position. How you sensibly address such situations when mixed with toxic and polerising political ideology is difficult to see.
@@n0odles86 To tackle any problem, first you have to establish its etiology. Children like to apportion blame, where as adults strive to understand and then seek solutions.
The clue is often the type of clothes they choose. Don’t see many dressing in Islamic female garb, or the androgynous type stuff actual women often relax in.
This woman is a HERO ! Anyone who claims to be a woman KNOWS that the one thing all women share is fear of male predators, so if they felt that fear, as real women do, they would not go into female spaces. I am amazed to find that Knitting is sexy, due to being disabled and unable to do other things, I spend hours knitting, I am obviously over sexed, I am rushing off to tell my husband, he'll be delighted.
Carl Jung described this as "overidentification with an archetype", like blokes that think they're Napoleon or Jesus. Insane. Don't play along with their delusion.
What is super creepy are the "trans widows" coming out and discovering that these men married them in order to more closely study the women, learn makeup and mannerisms, etc. So flipping creepy.
And worse is that they are imitating the widows. It would be one thing if it was just learning to be a woman, its even more bizarre when they seem to want to become them.
On a par with "I Married a Monster from Outer Space." Trans "widows" (bless them) are the ex wives of men who have "come out." They want to sue on the grounds that their partners were "lying" to them....or not being entirely honest. Fair enough...but if they had been, maybe they might have been more accommodating and given lessons instead....it happens you know. Trying to be a normal adult is not an easy thing. Especially when you have another identity vying for attention that will not go away.
It sounds like C.S. Lewis's definition of evil, which goes like this, a person sees a beautiful painting or person and instead of objectively admiring it, their first reaction is to want to become that beauty.
To destroy the beauty and to become the beauty. I can see the same pattern in rich, spoiled fashionistas dressing in fur coats made of objectively cute, fluffy animals. I wonder if there is some connection to sad!st!c z00philia...
As one of the 3% of men with autogynephelia, this is exactly how I describe it. I'm attracted to women, and for some reason I want to BE what I'm attracted to, which I acknowledge is weirdly narcissistic. And narcissism is the basis of evil.
@@cherkovision what you described there is envy. Envy is been sad at the sight of another's goods and having a desire to want it for oneself, even unjustly and wishing harm to another person for what they have. I think to become that which you like is a denial of the envy you have. Anyway, there is a remedy. Been charitable, in the sense of been happy for another's success, without having regard for yourself and been grateful for what you do actually have and been willing to share your goods, whether it be material things, skills, talents or your time. Envy is a dark place to be, been charitable and giving brings a person into the light.
@@outoforbit00 I know what envy feels like, and I know what autogynephelia feels like, so believe me that they are two completely different things. I desire to be physically fit, and I'm sometimes envious of those who are, but that's a very different feeling. When I'm envious, like you said, I feel negatively toward those who are physically fit and the thought of them failing at other aspects of life brings me pleasure. Autogynephelia, on the other hand, involves fantasizing about having a different body and taking pleasure in the fantasy. This doesn't involve any negative feelings toward anyone.
@@cherkovision A fleeting moment of envy of someone is one thing but wishing that person's failure and it giving you pleasure is quite another, I now can see how this is connected to agp and I have learned something about it I hadn't known.
Silence of the lambs. This movie had a great impact on today’s society. The fantasy projection of a narcissist has an original route. Look toward movies and the child being influenced around their environment~sexual intercourse by parents while they sleep 😴 yet the sleeping has awoken in the future
When and if we refuse to BARE FALSE WITNESS (lie/live a lie) for them…the real masculine heart shows its self. They become provoked into demonic attackers.
Well said kitty. Ive seen videos ... ine on some show where a male who was dressed as a female & claiming ro "be" a female shifted into attack mode & verbally threatened Ben Shapiro with physical violence. If my memory serves, I think the male who was dressed as a female physically leaned toward Ben so as to amplify his verbal threat to Ben - trying to intimidate him ... that core inner male thing you posted about.
A real masculine heart doesn't become a demonic attacker when confronted with reality.
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@@RealDevastatiaThank you. Many a men nowadays have learned wisdom of the heart and understand that what msm is propagating as inherently "masculine" is usually just stereotipically psychopathic, narcissistic and is found in women as well.
My dad is one and i always felt creeped out from him and as if i had to hide thru modesty and developing a more masculine wall. When he told us he was doing that, for me it all clicked why i found him so creepy and found femininity too vulnerable around him, working on bringing back my feminity and telling myself it’s safe now
Tolerance, not acceptance. Some people are now claiming liberalism as a concept can't work due to the societal carnage we're seeing now. But true, classical liberalism just means tolerate others. There's a reason why we've looked down on and tried to minimize the effect of perverts on society. I'd say most people have a weird thing they like. Have the decency to keep it to yourself. If people find out we should be tolerant. But we should never have to say "Good for you!" when we know it's not.
@@SheridanM-dc1nk You won't tolerate them? So, if a guy gets caught wearing women's underwear... you put them in jail? Is that where you want to go with this? Let's put pedophiles in jail, but I think your way will explode in your face.
It has been observed that some male cuttlefish will disguise themselves as females to deceive their rivals and gain access to females who would otherwise be beyond their reach. Some humans seems to have adopted this strategy. 🦑
They do it to gain the female though (through hetero intentions). Some snakes have a tale that looks like a spider to trick prey. That proves a lot of science(evolution) wrong. Bringing animals into the conversation only convolutes things usually.
Well thought out. However, unless and until the DSM-V stops being a "political arm of the insurance industry" there will never be any psychiatrists or psychologists who will treat this disorder because they can't get paid! That's the totality of the situation.
I'd love to hear about autoandrophilia. I know a straight woman who is very masculine and obviously has a desire to be a man and to be part of male spaces.
4 minutes and 40 seconds. The man listened. Asked for clarification. Never interrupted and looked dumbfounded at the end. Thank you for this concise clear information Helen. I hope all your information is carried home by the respectful gentleman. There is nothing wrong with being a man 👍
Yes. I left a couple replies on this video over the weekend and not only were they removed, but I was unable to comment on any video for 24 hours. Why? “Hate speech.” My speech was hardly hateful.
I'm listening to her words but watching his facial expression of horror and😂 One must maintain a sense of humor or lose it. Agree 100% with what she is saying.
This really resonates. It really make sense about the eroticism. It almost seem these men are ultra fixated on female. It also makes sense many of them lean towards the hetero side. I bet Lea Thomas is of this type. They wish they can be lesbian. But lesbian is very off put by males.
He had a bedroom with BDSM gear, and pictures of women being sexually tortured all around the room. You are spot on! You can find some youtube video’s about this.
Women married to a suddenly demanding, crossdressing husband are at risk for their physical safety. Sole data in the world on experiences of 60 trans widows at channel in the handle name here.
I believe many of these males were SA'd or fell into the hands of male p-does as children. There's a great deal of shame brought on the victim, especially for a child. I think some of them literally hold themselves together by telling themselves they were _supposed_ to be a girl, and that's why boys or men did that to them. Without that, they have to confront the trauma, and that's something they'd rather die than deal with.
Society: We accept and tolerate a lot of things we don't approve of, but some lines can't be crossed! Pedos: Oooh, look at that sweet little line...By the way, we're MAPs now.
I can't think of anything more empowering then believing I can be what ever I want. Just the idea that I can transform what I am into something I am not. If you are a man who thinks this way about being a women you should really reevaluate what you think it means to be homosexual.
Eddie Izzard used to joke he was "a lesbian in a man's body". Fast forward to today's Guardian - "Hamlet review... One-woman juggling act etc". He is trying to perform Hamlet as a "one woman" show! No surprises, he fails miserably.
i understand that i have the wrong chromosomes thus i'm genetically predisposed to look scary and repulsive. i do my best to counter it. i don't blame anyone because i judge strangers based on their looks too. i can't change the world, but i can change people's perception of me, to some degree. and i don't want to be perceived as a monster. not because i have ulterior motives. i just don't think that i'm a monster or should be treated as such
Dude. It’s not that complex. When government laws favor women, culture idolizes women and churches say that women are more godlike, what did you think would happen???
If man was made in image of God ,and god in western culture has been Male since the begining of christanity ,,why havent flocks of women change to being men ?
I agree that theres a lot of very vicious angry trans getting airtime , And i think 3% estimate of this condition is WAY to Low,,,,and i wonder what % are just disguising their wish to get access to children , ,,or previously be defined as " flashers " or "peeping tom"s" . Basically being so confused about your sexualty is always going to be a threat ,if that person is Male ,,, I find the whole thing ridicuous because the whole debate is with those suffering from it ,, Instead of people who are educated and informed about the actual condition ,,this vlog is one of the first that isnt just some crazy trans man losing on camera ,, So glad to see this Lady speak out.and miracously get airtime ,,bravo
