What is Borderline Personality Disorder? Do I have BPD?

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In today’s interesting medical case, I start with a hypothetical presentation of a “friend” with Borderline Personality Disorder. After discussing the symptoms, we’ll explore what causes BPD and the available treatments. Please don’t self-Diagnose yourself or a friend with BPD. Understand the Disorder, so you can help your loved ones suffering with this Disorder.
Topics:
a) Symptoms of BPD: see if You or your friend have symptoms of BPD?
b) What causes the disorder: Not only serotonin but also genetics and environmental factors matter.
c) Treatments: Drugs are not useful. Psychotherapy is the current best treatment. What is STEPPS?
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@anoone363 2 года назад

I relate to all of these symptoms way too much, but still feel like I could be faking it, mind making it up ect , but I've struggled with self acceptance before, I'm getting a phyciatrist soon. I fit all criteria and It affects me every day

@feezaazeef5410 Год назад

I do feel the same thing like i am faking or acting it and donno wat to do

@lesgolamola Год назад

Same

@w3b.srtaKiwi Год назад

@@feezaazeef5410 same

@R0binSchr Год назад

I really thought I was a attention seeker, because I feel like I'm making it all up

@morcjul Год назад

Feeling of being fake or making it up is actually a sign of the unstable self-image. Try to consult a professional, I myself got a BPD diagnosed two days ago :)

@Jinx-gl6ph 2 года назад

I have BPD and I need to say this. We are people like others but we don't have "emotional skin" that protecting other people. We need support and I know its difficult with us. But also we are very loving and we can help others. We just cant help our selfs. We fight with our selfs every day. Me personally I wish to be normal but hard trauma from my childhood make me this way. Be happy for your normal life someone would give everything for life you have. Support others when they needs you.

@fromeveryting29 2 года назад

A very mature and self-reflective comment. I want to let you know that from the outside looking in I DO see how empathetic and deeply hurt people with this disorder really can be. My main advice is to work very hard to reinterpret and question your reactins and thoughts about rejection, because this is the core misunderstanding I see BPD people make. Us setting healthy bounderies is misinterpreted as us "rejecting" the person with BPD. This is NOT THE CASE! :) Bounderies are not rejections, it just means we have personal limits and values that we must hold to preserve a healthy selse of self. It does not mean we don't care, respect or value you guys. We set bounderies among each other all the time. Maybe we ask a very personal question, and the other replies "Don't ask me that, please". Or maybe we ask a favour and the other says "I'm not comfortable doing that", or we scroll through someones private chat when the other just meant to show us 1 picture from it, and they say "don't read the entire thing!". Things like that happen. It does not mean they don't want to connect, don't respect you, or talk shit about us in their private chat. So, my outsider tip is to work on (with a therapist or alone) critically examining your reactions to bounderies, by asking yourself "am I sure they don't like me?", "maybe they said no because they didn't have time?" And "can I think of examples where they expressed they liked me?".

@Jinx-gl6ph 2 года назад

@@fromeveryting29 I work with my therapist almost 3 years and I need to say it helps a lot. I need to say that I'm learning psychology and reading a lots of books about BPD. My living with BPD make it actually even more interesting and difficult as well. :D Thing that helped a lot is STOP rule (stop your actions, take step back, calm yourself and think about facts about the situation and then make decision). I'm still trying to understand the deference between BPD and "normal" people. I have friends from my hospitalisation in psychiatric hospital they also have BPD. Also I have "normal" people around me (sorry for saying "normal people" I'm not native speaker) And It's interesting for me see the small differences between them. And I agree boundaries are not rejections. I would say everyone has them and they are here to help us and also makes us safe. And thanks for saying mature and self-reflective comment :D actually I'm only 25 and still learning about how world works :D

@JreamNova 2 года назад

I tried everything I could to support my friend and she hates me and wants to never talk again and it seems the more I try to be there the more I get pushed away and hated for it.

@nanaalbelon7020 2 года назад

@@JreamNova Hi I can say that people with BPD have problems with friendship and interaction with people. I don't know her but I can say that often problem is fear of "getting emotionally to close" but also fear of being alone. We often push people away even if we don't want to. I can recommend book "I Hate You‑‑ Don't Leave Me" its about understanding BPD and also about communication with people with BPD.

@Pax_Mayn3 Год назад

People with bpd suck the love and life from your soul after you keep giving them unconditional support. They're pure evil. Maybe they don't do intentionally, it is what it is.

@flapawangatang6209 11 месяцев назад

There's no worse feeling than getting abandoned by someone you loved dearly. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who's also trying to recover from BPD

@BakedPotato0630 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much. I was abandoned by a very close friend 23 years ago, but back then I've never experienced that before and I find it difficult to let go sometimes, but I'm managing those feelings and trying to move on, so it's not all darkness and can focus on what's important. 🙂

@Tawroset 8 месяцев назад

Why do you assume we have partners? I live alone and rarely socialize. And one or two of the partners I had in the past abused ME, not the other way around. I'm sick to death of these hateful stereotypes.

@austinsmith2808 3 года назад

I’ve never related to something so much

@ctvmemes1676 3 года назад

Sams dude

@mistyd.5270 2 года назад

Same I’m scared

@lin-rp6hi 2 года назад

not to be rude but if you really feel that way then you should go see a physiatrist. they can help you with thats going on and diagnose you :)

@amordivinus8003 2 года назад

Me too

@emyleonormorales 2 года назад

@@mistyd.5270 it is f scary

@jonseon5952 3 года назад

I have an online friend who is just like that description. Sometimes she'll be around every day, sometimes she will disappear off social media for weeks. Sometimes very happy to chat, other times calling herself ugly and posting other self deprecating things. Sometimes getting overly angry at something in the news. Sometimes accusing her (RU-vid) fans of being trolls for little reason. And yes she has threatened suicide more than once.

@Blues90 2 года назад

I hope she’s ok! 🤍

@jakobt06t.49 2 года назад

What I know from having this shi* myself is: If she/he threatens suicide the person either doesn't know what to do and needs help or their mind tells them that if noone responds to such a threat then noone likes them. But sometimes I don't even know anything myself lol And this made me lose my best friend two weeks ago... But life goes on :)

@fairoadiary 2 года назад

@@jakobt06t.49 i’m sorry to hear that i feel the same way sometimes but inc sure there’s plenty of other friends that will understand what you go through. fear not! i wish you well and yes life does go on it will get better

@jakobt06t.49 2 года назад

@@fairoadiary Thanks a lot! :)

@thefrog4990 2 года назад

I've attempted more than once...

@codykueker4372 2 года назад

I was recently diagnosed with trauma-related disorder. But every counselor I speak to has skirted around BPD with me. I may have to ask straight-up to be assessed for it. The major thing for me is that unstable sense of identity, constantly seeking what and how other people think I am, so I can have some direction in life; it’s so difficult for me to be able to work inward out.

@creolekolbytv1252 2 года назад

I’ve always been the one to be scared of reaching for something I shouldn’t but I really do relate to this and feel as though maybe there’s something more going on then just extreme stress here lately it’s become more apparent that it’s hard for me to feel confident anchored on who I am? Happy some times but triggered to anger or depression from I guess medium to big inconveniences or problems? It’s normal stuff in life but idk if I’m dealing with or reacting to it healthily

@roseduffy3136 2 года назад

Ok I can relate to that BPD is not taken seriously. I believe it's the worst mental illness of the lot. The suicide rate to this disorder is so sad. Amber Heard is claimed to have this. I disagree personally. We don't manipulate, attention seek. We get the bunny boiling comments, however we are people who at times feel dead behind our eyes. Warrior's that mask our pain.

@Bill_Cipher1995 2 года назад

@@roseduffy3136 Amber the C*nt does not have BPD. She has Antisocial PD. Whether psycho- or socio-path, I couldn't tell you as I don't have enough information to go on. My mother is a narcissistic psychopath, and my uncle is a deranged sociopath. Anyway, the point is it would be a disgusting humiliation to be put in the same group as someone who beats their spouse.

@Bill_Cipher1995 2 года назад

This sounds harsh, but don't bother trying to get an answer out of them. For therapists, we are the hardest challenge they could face, because we are *egosyntonic.* I don't see BPD as an illness I suffer from; rather I AM a borderline. I'm not proud of it, per se... but taking ownership gives me a kind of pleasure. And psychiatrists dgaf because there's no official medication procedure for it.

@sophiafern Год назад

BPD is not a mood disorder, it's a personality disorder more closely related to antisocial personality disorder than depression. This is an important distinction, since while many mood disorders like clinical depression and anxiety disorders can be effectively treated with medications, borderline personality disorder cannot be treated with medications (although it can help with symptom management).

@Tawroset 9 месяцев назад

It is not "closely related" to ASPD. These are two different diagnoses.

@sophiafern 9 месяцев назад

@@Tawroset BPD and ASPD are both Cluster B personality disorders. In contrast mood disorders, like bipolar, GAD, and major depressive disorders are classified entirely differently to personality disorders. Of course ASPD and BPD are not the same, but they are much more closely related to each other than they are to say depression. The literature on BPD is quickly evolving though, and amid calls to rename it I would not be surprised if BPD (or EUPD as it's called sometimes) ends up in a different cluster.

@Tawroset 8 месяцев назад

I do have a degree in psychology and I am well aware of the Cluster B diagnoses. And BPD is not the same thing as ASPD. These are two separate disorders.

@amazinggrace4507 2 года назад

Just so you know, as I have never seen this included in a video, I have epilepsy. Epilepsy makes it much more likely you will get BPD because both involve the same neurotransmitter; serotonin. I also have a family history of it and had an extremely abusive mother and an alcoholic father. However, I'm doing much better now without therapy or medications. Some of my epileptic meds are crossover medications for mental illness and may be helping, but I learned on my own to get a lot of symtoms under control. The worst I still deal with is fear of abandonment because of the accumulation of traumatic relationship breaks I've had. I was diagnosed with minor PTSD over these traumas. However, don't think there is no hope. The more I grow the more I understand and learn to control my BPD.

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing with us. Good luck for you!

@amazinggrace4507 2 года назад

@@TinyMedicine Well, I wanted you to know about the link between epilepsy and BPD. Thanks!

@MrHusky86 Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing! I can't say how happy I was to read this. I also have both and it's nice to see I'm not alone.

@soniagonzales4950 11 месяцев назад

I Have epilapsy

@ariellovesbroadway 2 года назад

Please don’t use this to self diagnose, as someone who is diagnosed this disorder is absolutely a monster. I have lost so many people I loved.

@KawaiiCrazyMSP 2 года назад

I'm pretty sure I have it but I will bring this up with my therapist at our next session. I feel like self diagnosing gets a pretty bad rep, some people know themselves well enough to realize what they have lol

@ariellovesbroadway 2 года назад

@@KawaiiCrazyMSP def bring it up, there is also a lot of symptoms of bpd that overlap with other disorders, usually it takes a while to diagnose personality disorders because of the complexity and means of severity of them. i recommend maybe a full psyche exam

@guishenStreetB 2 года назад

@@KawaiiCrazyMSP I wonder if I ever gaslight myself or if something is really true Like with self diagnosis etc I feel like I have something but I’m not sure if i do

@smindlocollen2120 2 года назад

@Lexie(◍•ᴗ•◍) i can relate...alcohol is my escape

@Capthowdy098 Год назад

I am more learning about BPD. I was on the verge of being diagnosed by my mental health professional while serving in the military. I say on the verge because she wanted to work with me a little more to differentiate between BPD and potentially something else. So they put eccentric personality in my "current diagnosis" as a placeholder. I saw an opportunity and then bailed on therapy altogether.

@fellowhuman3325 Год назад

I think my sense of identity is so fucked up that I can’t tell whether or not I relate to these symptoms, or I’m making shit up, it’s all in my head, and I just want an explanation or excuse as to why I destroy relationships, have outbursts, act impulsively, etc.

@kandycruze6085 2 года назад

How can this video be so accurate 🥺

@shanansavoy8717 2 года назад

Bpd is not a mood disorder it is a personality disorder

@davidharrington4374 Год назад

@arandomcatheehee Год назад

They said that a few seconds later

@lyanneroberts7936 2 года назад

Can this be caused by trauma. When I was 11 my mum killed herself infront of me and all the attention went to the older children and I was ignored. A year later my dad said no wonder she killed herself dealing with you. I was then groomed at 14 and the police made me feel like a prosititue and my family threw me in my room and never let me speak about it. My sister's 40 year old boyfriend then entered the family and sexually assaulted me at 16 to 18 and I was open with it and told them and their response was you're toxic. I learned to shut it all in and I now struggle with occasional self harm and when I get angry I hit myself in the face. My feelings of suicide have gone from scared to a comftable feeling. Every day I don't know if I'm going to wake up happy or numb or depressed angry. It's exhausting and I don't know how to even be diagnosed since I'm terrified no one will listen like my family.

@chanelleslivelifelaugh5727 2 года назад

Leave your family and get help , change to a new environment

@DoloMane 2 года назад

Hope u find peace you have been through a lot don’t give up keep pushing for better never give up

@deesenuts8730 2 года назад

i love you

@Tawroset 8 месяцев назад

I'm so sorry this happened to you. And yes, BPD can be triggered by trauma.

@WhyRUReplyingToMeHo 7 месяцев назад

Yes, BPD can be triggered by trauma. However, right now getting a diagnosis is not be your main concern. Focus on getting out of that situation, getting therapy, and learning to recognize your symptoms/emotions. Take it day by day. Source: I got help first, and diagnosed later. It was worth stabilizing myself before doing analysis.

@arayahope9295 2 года назад

I think I have bpd but I dont want to tell anyone because whenever I try to express my problems to my mom she says it is just puberty. I have been dealing with depression and anxiety by myself since I was nine and I am so tired of taking care of mental health problems on my own.

@cryinf554 2 года назад

I’m sorry you have a family like that I’m in a similar situation, my mom is abusive and I recently discovered a way to cope with that that might have you Find a community that is in a similar situation Either in person or online, someone you can relate to and confide in and understands you, it’s hard to find but once you do it helps a lot I promise

@ketaminetuesday 2 года назад

I feel this so much. I tried confiding in my family about depression and anxiety and they say it’s just hormones of a teenage girl, i’ve been going through this since elementary school.. It sucks it feels like i can’t even talk to my family and my mom does not believe me or doesn’t take it seriously

@skylaschwartz5414 2 года назад

Are you self diagnosed? Because it’s very disrespectful to self diagnose yourself with bpd as it’s an AGONIZING and SEVERE mental illness and not one to be thrown around lightly….

@arayahope9295 2 года назад

@@skylaschwartz5414 I am self diagnosed. Unfortunately, not all of us have access to a diagnosis. I can neither afford, nor have access to a proper diagnosis growing up in a rural, lower class family. It is not only extremely ableist and classist to assume every person with bpd can access a diagnosis, but it can also be very harmful to those who cannot. Please educate yourself on these matters before coming after people who are struggling in youtube comment sections. /srs

@happyvalentino Год назад

I’m 23, always known something is “wrong” with me and haven’t gone to any therapist, it’s definitely not a phase and i can see why a mom would confuse it with puberty but at my age I know it’s not that anymore..

@aabb1182 2 года назад

Im diagnosed with ptsd and heavy depression, yet.. ive been knowing before those diagnoses that i had all symptomps of bpd but never brought it up whenever im on therapy. I think it will get treaten along the trauma and depression, i hope it will because if my parents knew i had bpd there would be more drama going on than there is now. Plus, bpd is seen as soemthing very bad. And the people who have it are seen like they arent human, id rather want to ignore it if i have the disorder.

@ItsLagoona Год назад

Yeah idk why people see us like this :((

@Bill_Cipher1995 2 года назад

0:01 Me: "Okay, first of all, there's no need for an onslaught of personal attacks, but go on."

@arandomcatheehee Год назад

As someone with BPD, DBT has helped me so much!! I've learned how to control my negative emotions, I can stop and think more rationally about people's behaviors, and I've become much better at communicating my feelings and concerns. It makes me really annoyed when I see people say people with BPD can't "get better" (not as in cure, as in improve) or people with BPD saying DBT never works, ever.

@meghamalashinde4504 Год назад

I will be starting DBT next week. Your comment bought me such a relief. Thank you!

@arandomcatheehee Год назад

@@meghamalashinde4504 Congrats, I wish you luck!!

@Ayesha______ 2 месяца назад

I went to my first therapy appointment today and she said she thinks I have bpd. I was alittle offended lol

@arandomcatheehee 2 месяца назад

@@Ayesha______ That's fair, are you an adult? The general consensus in the professional community is that BPD is only applicable to 18+ people because the symptoms can be mixed up with teenage hormones and such.

@mahmudakhatun7678 Год назад

I had some symptoms of this but don't know why the last few months i am extremely suffering high mood swings. i get triggered by a very small thing.i feel some weird emptiness in me like something is missing but don't know what. i am absolutely normal now then burst with anger, suddenly happy but the most strange thing is i really don't know why it's happening. i have no control of myself. not only that my thinking pattern is also changing so quickly. i love my mother the most but sometimes i can't even tolerate her. i yelled at her and feel so bad after sometime. i can't understand myself. i am not the same person all the time like others. i am really confused. but i told my mother about my problem but she never takes it seriously. i cried so many times and told her mom i don't know what is happening to me please help me. BUT she just tells me it is happening because of my age or its just became my nature or habit and you have try to solve this. Then i get really angry why she always kept telling me that i don't. i try but can't do it and it's happening repeatedly. they just irriated and yelled at me and that's it. sometimes i feel shameless to try to tell my mom everytime so i stop it. i know she loves me a lot and i also love her but she is not helping me. SO I STARTED to searh at google and youtube. but i don't think its so helpful cause i should meet a doctor but my mother is not willing to do that. so i decided to go by my own atleast i will be able to know what actually happen to me. i try to understand myself and be a better person. THANK YOU TO READ THIS LONG COMMENT. actually i wanted to tell someone about my situation but there was none to listen to me. now i feel good. thanks.

@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад

These animations are great

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Thank You!

@abacaxifucsia5741 3 года назад

Very informative and nice animations. Look like something that would appear on Ted-Ed.

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Wow, thanks

@allieluvzyuhh 2 года назад

@@TinyMedicine BPD is not a mood disorder. It is a personality disorder. This is full of misinformation.

@ochrillion6947 2 года назад

@@allieluvzyuhh bro the title literally say personality disorder as does he multiple times

@TheArtofFugue 2 года назад

@@allieluvzyuhh he mentioned mood once bro, he simply made a mistake. i have BPD, there is no misinformation in this video lol.

@jamze5412 2 года назад

It happens because the rest of society keeps letting us down. Our higher thinking of wisdom gives us massive rages and disappointment in people who go out of their way to be evil in general. We can sense how someone is just by looking at them. This isn’t delusional or over thinking. We are very sensitive to the external environment and can read things way faster than you think. Even if it’s you being the person out of line!!!!

@jamze5412 2 года назад

Then when this continues we lose all faith in this world and don’t want to be part of it.

@1openborder 2 года назад

chill brah we ain't special

@jamze5412 2 года назад

@@1openborder it’s not about being a supremacist. It’s more the fact that it’s quite possibly true that we understand a higher level of thinking when it comes to morals. However, other people (or the rest of society) are underdeveloped in seeing why we do certain actions. We do certain “over reactions” because ultimately we are caring about the well-being of anyone in any situation or conflict! When you come out of your low have a real read in what I’m trying to say.

@1openborder 2 года назад

@@jamze5412 touch grass

@jamze5412 2 года назад

@@1openborder na Im ripping you in ratio to likes in agreement. So I’m good. But hopefully you’ll come through with what I was trying to say.

@Yogurtenjoyer341 9 месяцев назад

Okay, this comes from real experience, that I had with my dispatient friends.

@Yogurtenjoyer341 9 месяцев назад

0:37 transcription fail

@TributeMack2015AngrierMack Год назад

I was diagnosed with severe bpd when I was younger and I also suffered from severe depression, anxiety and ptsd.

@DeimosSilent Год назад

I have bpd and once I was diagnosed with it, I relieved who was my friends.... A whole lot smaller than I thought

@teme2520 3 года назад

BPD is not a mood disorder!!

@madzgville 3 года назад

it is an “personality” disorder

@Queerlien 3 года назад

@@madzgville @temme There is a difference between BPD or Bipolar Personality Disorder and just Bipolar Disorder, which is the mood disorder. These two are often mistakened to be the same and I really wish this video hadn't made that mistake right in the beginning and clarified this point!

@YAOURIANGEL Месяц назад

i think i have bpd but not entirely sure because like everyone says, this isn’t easily to diagnose but i’ve tried asking for therapy and to like get diagnosed because i really wanna know what’s wrong with me. i’ve been mentally unwell since i was 5 years old and i’m now 16 and i always want to end my life and i have been sh’ing but i’ve been clean for 3-4 months now. i keep wanting to relapse and life is really terrible. i keep begging my mother to get me someone but it just doesn’t work. i don’t know what to do anymore. i also have severe abandonment issues and i cry when someone even takes 5 seconds to reply back to me when texting. if someone takes a minute i overthink thinking they hate me ans then i get all upset. and already this year i’ve had 3 episodes, all about me stressing out about not remembering my childhood memories mostly because i’ve repressed them all due to trauma. i kept going from depressed, calling myself inhumane.. some sick monster pretending to be a human, to laughing and saying i’m going to abandon everyone before abandon me but then i cry again and again saying that everyone is manipulating me and that they’re all going to leave me. then i tried leaving the room i was in but i was terrified and filled with paranoia thinking someone was out to get me and i screamed and cried. i honestly don’t know what is wrong with me.

@faithyo 8 месяцев назад

I might have BPD but I'm gonna go to the doctors and sort it out this year. I'm so unstable and an emotional wreck I need proper tests and need to find out what is wrong with me. I get so attached to people and I'm so scared of losing friends. I engage in destructive behavior like smoking weed to cope and doing recreational drugs and sitting and isolating and not going out. I've had some problems with friends recently and my girlfriend because how much i seek there approval and attention. I have self harmed never nothing crazy (I have cut but more so scraped my skin, punched a few walls.) I tend to cause strain to my head and just burst into fits of rage out of no where, My biggest fear is having no one but also like I have to do what my friends want to get approval, and i feel like they're talking about me and making fun of me behind my back and think I'm psycho. I don't hallucinate maybe i have? Like sometimes think i see things out of the corner of my eyes and have seen like figures before out of no where like making me feel like ism seeing a ghost? my recent experience with MDMA caused a lot of hallucinations though after smoking weed at the end of the trip (Alot of these symptoms were present before i started doing recreational drugs) as a child i've always felt like something is off with me. Think this year I'll try take action.

@un.nico.de.lava. 2 года назад

I have BPD and i don't think my emotional instability is related to neurotransmisors. More, of psychosis and negative thinking

@Cobweb404 3 года назад

I literally just googled this today... Wtf

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Haha! Weird World.

@rosalina5755 3 года назад

Wow its like youtube is owned by google and they have your data!! Crazy!

@fortnitedying4528 10 месяцев назад

I had BPD since i was a kid, i could never control myself i just didn’t know what it was til now i always wanted to know what was wrong woth me.

@eversunnyguy 3 года назад

Like the graphical presentation....They should rename BPD to EPD..Emotional instability disorder. Does BPD symptoms surface only in relationships ?

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Can surface in any kind of relationship. (not only romantic)

@eversunnyguy 3 года назад

@@TinyMedicine I see. If a BPD remains single in solitude (no relationships), then he or she is just fine ?

@lavenderandchaos 3 года назад

No, I have BPD and it’s always there. 24/7.

@eversunnyguy 3 года назад

@@lavenderandchaos May I ask what the symptoms that are not relationship related ?

@Queerlien 3 года назад

@@eversunnyguy I will say as someone with BPD, I do feel like relationships are a big factor in how I am reacting, especially considering I have a lot of trauma where I was beat into learning to people please. It does make it really difficult, because my attention is always constantly on the other person and making sure their needs are satisfied. I do my best in solitude when I can have space for myself to really be able to get into a better perspective and see how I am reacting. But! That doesn't mean all the symptoms go away, I wish that were true!!! I still have severe emotional dyregulation without a partner or friend around, in fact it can get worse and I am more likely to melt down without support. When I am left on my own, I am way more impulsive since I am bored and feeling numb or empty, another common symptom. Sometimes I will disassociate more severely as well. There are loads of symptoms that have nothing to do with a relationship, the barest amount of research or even just rewatching this video would show you that. I'm not sure if you are genuinely curious or maybe if you've had a partner with BPD, or maybe you have it yourself, but I can assure you, BPD is something underlying in a person and is not being caused by relationships. I think relationships just may trigger out more reactions and emotions based off their history/trauma or just Rejection Sensitive Disorder in general, which is another common symptom in BPD. That being said if you want me to expand I can try but I hope I helped you understand a bit more.

@deadaccount6385 2 года назад

Can people with BPD develop very good self control? I match all the symptoms but in recent years I have gotten my behavior and lashing out under almost full control. I want to talk to my therapist about it because I worry I might have BPD but I’m not sure

@katkatkatkat463 Год назад

yes there is a term for it, "quiet borderline"

@editsbyt7296 2 года назад

Ion want to self diagnose myself :/ , is there a doctor I can see for this ?

@poopmanpoopoo2996 2 года назад

Psychiatrist!!

@bradydavis4666 2 года назад

What's, "ion"?

@kjm1529 2 года назад

@@bradydavis4666 too lazy to type "I don't" I guess

@dadon4566 2 года назад

@@bradydavis4666 short for "I don't". Slang

@dadon4566 2 года назад

@@kjm1529 bruh it's just slang😂

@boyo45321 2 года назад

Its me im the friend with bpd

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

Good you have the insight! Work on it mate.

@deant3980 2 года назад

Same

@k..unknown9363 2 года назад

I can’t live a normal consistent life because of this living hell I feel so bad for anyone who goes thru what we do

@Pax_Mayn3 Год назад

You should feel bad for the hell you put others through. You give other people trauma and cause others to change in a negative way.

@ethiopiazoldyk4667 Год назад

@@Pax_Mayn3 bruh .....

@fortnitedying4528 10 месяцев назад

Yeah this disorder is even worse than POCD.

@imnty97 Год назад

when I was in 9th grade I had a friend, a very close friend she was the first friend to ever gotten that close to me. One day or moment, i dont remember how but I just suddenly distnce my self around her, I feel like I am suffocated when I am around her and I need to ignore her, that goes on for month until she confronted me. I don't realize that I am ignoring her because in my mind at those moment that I am ignoring her, I were thinking that it is all normal. We get back together but now she understands when I distance myself. That happened again in my senior year, i got close to this person, I ignore her for the reason that I feel too close to her and I feel like I don't like it. It always happens, same with the guy I got to talk to. many relationship got wrecked because I can't keep anyone too close to me. I do it consciously but uncontrollable.

@Queerlien 3 года назад

Just want to correct, BPD specifically, or Bipolar Personality Disorder, is a Personality disorder, it's in the name! However, Bipolar Disorder, which you even reference at the end, is a mood disorder. It would be nice if this was clarified and both disorders were compared and discussed. Lovely video otherwise, thank you!

@Queerlien 3 года назад

For those unaware, Bipolar Personality Disorder impacts your entire personality and often causes mood swings to happen within mere hours. From what I know with Bipolar Mood Disorder, your moods may last days, weeks, sometimes months. Bipolar Disorder is more well known for the days upon days of mania or depression, whereas BPD is much more known for the frequent switches in personality and instability in emotions. I have BPD and it is a Rollercoaster 😅

@Queerlien 2 года назад

I apologize I have actually just realized I was confused, Bipolar Disorder is a mood disorder, but it's *Borderline* Personality Disorder. Oops.

@Randompersondoesntmatter Год назад

@@Queerlien haha

@macrinarobb4053 Год назад

Felt called out in the first 30 seconds

@RainRemnant 2 года назад

It's one thing trying to live with it but others who cant handle it can just walk away. Rather have my bones broken instead of this

@deant3980 2 года назад

Thats why I isolate and don't want any of this world.

@moonfish4841 2 года назад

I'm so sorry

@kmfed93 Год назад

Trying to learn as much as I can bc one of my friends has this

@juicybrocolli3914 2 года назад

aw chucks! im mentally ill!

@wigi3734 2 года назад

Yeah I think I know someone like thi-...wait a God damn minute I am that someone

@lionessfit3041 2 года назад

i think i may have bpd. i get aggresive a lot (one time i snapped and beat someone with a charging wire, that happened last year) and my mom always threatens to leave me and i get scared and start apologizing to her a lot. theres more like i just feel like im not supposed to look like this but idk if i have it or not

@lionessfit3041 2 года назад

i've threatened to km,s a lot before and i've actually attempted it multiple timesbefore too :/ should i go see a theraphist or smth

@seraphimyy 2 года назад

yeah you should. even if it's not bpd, get help

@logan_lord 2 года назад

Absolutely. U need to talk to a psychiatrist to get diagnosed though. Fears of abandonment go harder at times though. Pushing people out of your life as you feel is a safety measure out of fear can damage every relationship you’ve ever had. I would threaten my life all the time. Times got really hard for my family because my mom could never find a good man. I was going back and forth with my neglectful dads and I would have to constantly sneak food because I was starved so often. My mom grounded me for a year one time and I had the worst and the best times ever. I never saw people. But I got loved at school because all they saw was what I put on. My mom was emotionally unstable and her men would treat me like literal garbage. I was told at a young age that I was a really hard kid to love. I believed it so much, that now I know, life is meant for a short time. Not a long one. BPD is something I’ve struggled with immensely. I get paranoid by many many things and I’d rather be alone to talk with myself and my rocks than make and form an unworthy relationship that I can fulfill by myself. But it’s a battle too because I want all the love. At the end of the day… my inner child is still not wanting anyone to disappoint me again because I know they’ll just leave.

@anuradhafernando8804 3 года назад

great a always

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Thanks Ayya :D

@heneedsloveoooh 2 года назад

PLSSS i cant tell if im making it up/faking or not

@Lysuko 2 месяца назад

Yeah i know that friend, its me!

@rottendoll606 5 месяцев назад

i have suspicion that i MAY have this disorder because i have most of the symptoms. (i am not self diagnosing and yes i know that i could have something else that shares the symptoms i’m having.) should i ask my therapist about this? i’ve been diagnosed by her with depression and anxiety but i also haven’t been completely honest about myself and my relationships.

@aryanranka4765 3 года назад

Bro your so underrated

@kimkelly2024 Год назад

Iam diagnosed with borderline personality and have all theys I've had it since I wos very young and now 52 understand it more when I go through a episode I can't control it it's a life long struggel my thoute are so disterbed so it fills me with fear

@SHESLOGIC 6 месяцев назад

I’m BPD 😮this is really wild stop the Cap you know we ain’t like that🙈😏they got me we be wilding I’m really saddening 🤪🤨😒🥺😤🤬😳😣

@acrobatstar 2 года назад

Great channel Love the content

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

Thank you!

@Ayesha______ 2 месяца назад

My therapist says she thinks I have bpd. I feel offended lol. I can’t have this, I’m not that bad.

@utkarshagrawal3640 2 месяца назад

You are not bad you r awsm 🎉

@eariae 2 года назад

Just a reminder to not self diagnose and to talk to a psychiatrist abt any suspicions abt any diagnosis

@granto798 2 года назад

Very good video

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

Thanks for the visit

@aamirsidhu4748 2 года назад

Does failure cause you bpd

@gachapango2234 Год назад

I think I have this and my friend has asked me if I have this because the symptoms describe me exactly and I told my mum and she just laughed at me and I’m underage so I can’t do anything….

@davina27629 Год назад

Speak to your school counselor

@kamilmirza6782 3 года назад

My partner says she has quiet bpd, but refuses to seek therapy. Causing severe havoc in our relationship, but she will always say that her reaction is cause of my fault . I don't know what to do?

@bkilled2646 3 года назад

I have quiet bpd as well perhaps I can be of assistance

@albagarcia3584 3 года назад

Blaming you is part of the bpd. Don’t take it personal and keep encouraging to seek help.

@Apple-rt3uh 3 года назад

If your boundaries aren’t being upheld sometimes you just have to let go

@kamilmirza6782 2 года назад

@@bkilled2646 I have discussed calmly that her impulsiveness and outburst is affecting our relationship- but her excuse is I trigger it. But even if I trigger it, her response should be appropriate- which sadly isn't the case, it's ten fold intense. I don't know if she realises this- but it's affecting our relationship. I am no superman, and can't live like this. I will break down. I tried to have chat... but if she doesn't realise what's going on in our relationship- then she can never take steps. Any tips as to what I can do next?

@kamilmirza6782 2 года назад

@@albagarcia3584 I try to be strong and understanding.. but the storm is strong, extremely strong. I don't know if I can sail thru the storm all my life.

@alexandergilbert3169 Год назад

For most of my life I though I had adhd and I went to get a diagnoses and instead I got diagnosed with "easily distractable" what is that even XD it's like seeing food and saying oh look food I already knew that XD

@OliviaJinx Год назад

I'm 23 years old I'm a trans woman and I'm 95% I have bpd I'm taking steps soon to hopefully get my diagnoses so I can begin to understand it I have Horrible abandonment issues I get daily mood swings can be sad and numb slow speaking an then dancing an happy an hyper social an hour later I have always experienced really intense emotions an my self worth an image change constantly I have had some "crazy" outburst but thankfully I've never physically hurt anyone but I have hurt peoples feelings that are close to me and then I feel awful for it and I want to like throw myself off my house for doing it lol but I struggle with impulsivity in all aspects everything from Buying things to Sexual acts lol I also have ADHD and Insomnia I spend money i dont have and i have AWFUL anxitey to the point where i cant leave my house for months or over a year when I'm around people I can feel everyone emotions in the room and I always feel like people are judging me an watching me I have self harmed many times even recently as a way of control ik its wrong to do and I have a support system now that is trying to help me but i could always use more help lol I often form opinions on people QUICK and I could extremely dislike someone that I haven't even like really interacted with much or at all but thankfully I just as quick get close to some people an talk to them about their lives an try an make them feel better I was controlling an manipulative in my relationships and that's why I've been single for a year HASNT BEEN EASY but I've turned down a lot of people so that I could find myself an thankfully I did find BPD and it has answered a lot of my questions and its nice to have people I can relate to on here hearing others struggles cause I felt alone in this Hyper Emotional Rollercoaster of my life

@anamericanman 2 года назад

WAY more than 1 in 100 have BPD.

@LeelahSolana 2 года назад

When your the friend-

@AverageDonaldDuckFan 3 года назад

How do you tell if you have BPD or its just your ADHD?

@TinyMedicine 3 года назад

Better to consult a psychiatrist (not a phycologist) to diagnose.

@ronimydear98 2 года назад

i read from a source that there are some cases where they can tend to be com-morbid with each other, meaning you could have both

@dacisky 2 года назад

I vaguely knew someone who said they had thios and could not get in the millitary because of it.

@bradydavis4666 2 года назад

I've had this my whole life and tbh, I don't know why I keep living. Honestly, the next time the urge to kill myself is strong, I'm gonna just do it before my brain switches back to how much of a bad idea that is. Because, I can't take another year, let alone another day of this shit.

@Fishful_Thinking4 2 года назад

Stick around and see what’s waiting for you next. The choice to end it will always be there, but coming back and experiencing what else life might have had waiting for you - that’s not an option.

@ironjohn5914 2 года назад

What are you angry at?

@Randompersondoesntmatter Год назад

Jesse Lee Peterson Silent Prayer is the cure

@davina27629 Год назад

Hope you're still here!!

@fortnitedying4528 10 месяцев назад

Same

@Tracitini333 2 года назад

I have them all except hallucinations

@fumyeah5867 Год назад

Just remember you can't self diagnose things like this.

@JohnDoe-wt3cn 2 года назад

If you have BPD do not get into relationships. I repeat, do not get into relationships you cause a lot of damage due to your disorder. Seek treatment and therapy for a couple of years first. I empathize with you but this is still your responsibility. It is not your fault but other people don’t have to suffer with you due to your BPD. It’s completely damaging

@babydollyup1002 Год назад

Very true 👌

@fortnitedying4528 10 месяцев назад

When you say relationships do you mean Bf/GF?

@cambodia-m2n 2 года назад

I never knew that I have bpd now I know Thank

@user-ou7ni6su6h Год назад

It's not a mood disorder.

@deant3980 2 года назад

I have all those.

@logan_lord 2 года назад

Go to a psychiatrist!! As someone with BPD, it is a true monster and just because a 4 minute video resonates with you, doesn’t mean you have BPD. This is a personality disorder that can kill you. Literally. I’ve been wanting my funeral for a long time. I just want it over.

@hankhill3417 2 года назад

This is every woman I’ve dated

@amuroray1085 Год назад

I don't fear abandonment anymore, it already happened 🤣

@bevanbuckwheatshea5520 Год назад

If you have BPD you need to stay away from other people as much as you can. Make your own life and if you dont work then stay away from people who work. Exercise and eat better food.

@Tawroset 6 месяцев назад

@bevanbuckwheatshea5520 That is simplistic to the point of idiocy. Just isolate and do your exercises and eat well and everything is fine? LOL. Do you have cures for cancer as well? Jeez!

@wyapz8005 Год назад

I just want it to go away.

@jf8468 2 года назад

I’m not a doctor but I’m diagnosing

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

Not the best practice.

2 года назад

That was funny now back to cutting with flesh cutting razor blades

@paulyk7092 2 года назад

Bells are ringing

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

👀

@paulyk7092 2 года назад

@@TinyMedicine thank you

@yayersful 2 года назад

oh no, this is sounding too familiar .......... uh oh

@caucasian_asian2380 Год назад

I love being impulsive but I think I’m prolly just bipolar

@qz8075 10 месяцев назад

that's not good..?

@blizzred2143 2 года назад

My friend.. my ex 😔

@ronimydear98 2 года назад

Why you gotta call me out like that lol?

@chriscoursey6112 2 года назад

I was diagnosed with this. Its ass.

@imchoking4768 2 года назад

I actually act like this-

@omarabbas18 2 года назад

Thing is... I'm that freind

@TinyMedicine 2 года назад

You have the insight. You will handle this well.

@cuggyboysmith81 Год назад

I think i have borderline Borderline Pesonality Disorder lol

@Cheng-jq6fc 8 месяцев назад

this is similar to BIPOLAR DISORDER😮😮

@jessari 2 года назад

this is me af. wtf lol 😂

@aryanranka4765 3 года назад

Try making clickbaity thumbnail and title cause without them you will not get a lot of views

@Queerlien 3 года назад

As someone who has BPD.. There was no need just the fact someone is willing to discuss this disorder is enough. I'd rather there be a genuine community in the comments than a bunch of people who were click baited here.