I'm always called incredibly charismatic. What do I do? I don't ever talk negative about anyone. I try to make everyone feel welcomed and invited. I go out every night to bars and clubs and I'm like a magnet to people, negative and positive. I have tons of insecurities but I don't externalize them. You'll think I'm the most confident, secure person in the world meeting me. I don't compare myself to others and I don't denigrate anyone. I have drunk guys annoy the hell out of me all the time by talking at me and not going away when I'm just trying to chill at the bar and relax, but I still treat them in a friendly manner until they cross a line or get incredibly annoying. If you have insecurities, or you see someone who makes you insecure, stop. Just stop. I'm charismatic because you aren't even on my radar. I'm living MY own life. Worry about yourself! Don't talk trash to your friends about a guy who walks in and is a magnet. He isn't thinking of YOU at all. Learn from charismatic people, don't talk trash. I hear so many insecure men talking trash about me across the bar to their friends and it's just embarassing. Especially if they're saying that stuff to their girlfriend. You're not doing yourself any favors. Love yourself and be kind to people.
@@ArtofCharmTV that charismatic people have infectious energy that people want to be around and that they are genuinely interested in what the person has to say.
