What is Gray Divorce? (Primary Reasons Why It’s on the Rise)

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Gray divorce is a term used to describe the phenomenon of couples over the age of 50 getting divorced. This trend has been on the rise in recent years, and it has become a widespread societal issue. Attorney mediator Debbie Snyder sheds light on why gray divorce is on the rise in a recent video from the Center for Divorce Mediation.
Snyder points out that the first and most apparent reason for the increase in gray divorce is the fact that people are living longer. People invest more heavily in their physical and emotional well-being, which leads them to realize that their life isn't over when they reach 50 or 60. They may have 20 to 30 good years ahead of them, and they want to spend those years in a fulfilling way. People are seeking satisfaction in various aspects of their lives, including their relationship status.
The second reason is the rise of women's independence. Women are better educated, are living longer, and have sought careers that are important to them. They are well-paid and respected, which gives them a sense of emotional well-being. With independence comes the desire to find emotional satisfaction in relationships, which may lead to gray divorce.
The third reason is the change in societal attitudes toward divorce. In previous generations, people felt that they had to get married and stay married, regardless of their happiness. However, with the liberalization of society, it has become more socially acceptable to end an unhappy relationship and seek happiness elsewhere.
The fourth reason is major life events such as retirement and the empty nest syndrome. When people reach retirement, they reflect back on their life and question if they've been doing something satisfying. They evaluate their relationships and determine if their spouse is still making them happy. Retirement accounts and Social Security benefits may also play a significant role in a gray divorce. The empty nest syndrome also affects couples when their children leave the house, and they realize that they don't want the same things anymore.
Snyder advises people considering gray divorce to seek counseling and legal counsel from experienced professionals. This is especially important for those facing retirement, as retirement accounts and Social Security benefits may become essential in terms of day-to-day income. The Alpha Resource Center for Divorce Mediation is available to help those with any questions about gray divorce or divorce mediation in general.
In conclusion, gray divorce is on the rise for various reasons. People are living longer, women are more independent, society is more liberal, and major life events such as retirement and the empty nest syndrome are affecting relationships. It is essential to seek counseling and legal advice from experienced professionals when considering a gray divorce.
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20 дек 2022

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@marysmith861 4 месяца назад

My own list: 1. He or, she has gotten on your last nerve for the very last time, 2. They should have divorced many years before but stayed together for the sake of the children. 3. He's chased women for years and finally caught one who he thinks is a "keeper". 4. They were unequally yoked (religious background) from the beginning thinking this essential element didn't matter. 5. Their relationship was never maintained. They've essentially lived separate lives.

@laurawalker6431 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this gray divorce video, great point! And also, there are loads of therapists promoting narcissism but they don’t know what they’re doing to our society. In the 80s, 90s, 00s, we abused psychopaths and sociopaths, now we abuse narcissistic tendencies! There’s no such thing as ‘narcissists’, just people who are sick, like mental health problems , for a moment, etc! Those who are promoting and condemning narcissism are the narcissists themselves because they keep bashing and condemning people without consideration or compassion, and it keeps dividing people as if everyone is a narcissist , and people are believing it as if it’s gospel truth, and when people break up they automatically say, he or she is a narcissist like I did with my ex, he was a narcissist etc, and that’s why we broke up etc, when this happens, the world is like a narcissistic place to live, that’s why we stopped narcissistic games like Gladiators 2000 years ago! So this ‘ high five to the self ‘ by Mel Robbie is uniquely uniting one’s self and people together. So well done for this Mel! So proud of you for doing this and uniting people together, families, friends, and strangers! Best compassionate tool ever! That’s why for thousands of years, Asian people in general and Buddhists put both hands together when they say thank you, even when they’re alone etc! I’m so pleased you’ve arrived at something that can unite people’s perception of themselves in the mirror! Self worth, esteem etc especially when they are alone in this horrid robotic society ….

@brkerch8449 3 месяца назад

True that narcissist topics everywhere and they are wrong about it. There are 2 sides to everything, and people will put up narc tendencies based upon their view of situations. Although there are people out there who are truly narcs at the core.

@andrewcombe8907 4 месяца назад

Reason 5 - menopause

@sheilabareiss3735 3 месяца назад

Andopause is a good hormonal reason for women to leave.

@practicallandlording2787 2 месяца назад

She doesn't "need" him anymore. With maturing investments she is set and a breadwinner is superfluous. Unfortunately health can throw a curve and you may need your spouse for more than a wallet or maid. Divorce is universally dumb for both parties but not realized for a half dozen years post break. You're 50+ how about growing up?

@bonnieupton4114 5 месяцев назад

What about over 68 and already one spouse is collecting his pention?

@lolitaboden6507 3 месяца назад

Go after his SSI Benefits.

@michaelmallal9101 3 месяца назад

My wife is entangled with our property. My wife has uni gree and earns good money.

@De-tw7by Месяц назад

80% of divorce are filed by women and main motive is money. Most men spend productive life to support family financially and once the kids are grown up. Women dump men. Menopause is also another reason. So never make women the top priority in life and be a simp husband.