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Usse bhi badi Main problem hai parents ka mind set Engineering Karo life set hai Mere do teen rishtedaro ki 15 lakh fees deke engineering ke baad 3 LPA ki job bhi nhi lagi But mere Kai commerce ke friends ki 7 - 8 LPA ki lagi hai Toh maa baap ya society ke pressure se nahi apne hisab se kro jo bhi Krna hai
After BA, my father wanted me to try for UPSC but after the first attempt, I decided I could not waste time cramming my head with useless knowledge. So I refused to listen to my father and decided to study MA in English Literature, followed by M.Phil and Phd at JNU. Today I am teaching in a top central university and have a great life. So parents should not put pressure on their children. Let them decide what they want to do with their lives.
@@artivaishnav193 you have to complete MA in the subject you like, then pass UGC-NET Exam (held twice a year). You can also do PhD after that but that will take some time. NET qualifies you to apply for lecturer's job and then you can do PhD while working. If you manage to pass UGC-JRF, you are paid a good amount as fellowship while doing PhD research. You are not allowed to work if you have JRF.
What dream? If you're stupid enough to think just buying a course will make you pass the exam then you dont even deserve the college in the first place!
Easy to say for him cause he was in reality a oil barron, he needed workers for working in oil fields. A nation without good thinker and hard workers is a nation wasted.
@@thepm517 unhe ranker naukri lega, business karega yah chaprasi banega isse koi farak nahi parta...unhe ranker chahiye taaki next year rankers ko dekhle aur bachche aayei...it's just business
My son scored 90% marks in class 10 without any tuition or coaching. N now he opted for arts with economics n geography n sociology. N we parents r very much ok with his decision.
Just in case, don't think Arts is bad in anyway. Sociology and economics are really relevant subjects. In fact, the maths in econometrics is way advanced than what science students study.
@@vishnuchandrabose9875 Unfortunately, those people have seen nothing other than engineering and medical. If we had any national institute for Arts and Humanities like IITs, probably things would change.
Being a dropper is no joke. Society, friends, expectations, decisions, etc leave us alone in depression. But we must never forget the fact that there will always be a bright sunny day after every dark stormy nights. It's such believes that keep the world going.
The main culprit in these cases are parents, who don't know or don't even want to know what their children want, they only want to put their own failure in life on their children in the name of "creating a better future for our children"
Ni yrrr kbhi kbhi bcche ko hi ni proper guidance milti h aur parents bhi itne pdhe likhe ni hote ki guide krske wo to yhi sochte h bs bccha apne pair PR khda hojae yhi mere sath hora h ab to pdhne ka bhi ni mn krra h bs Aisa lgta h ki khi chle jae sbkuch chor k 😓
I had scored 80% in my 10th Board or Matriculation. And my father took a very rational decision for my career that he supported my decision of taking Arts or Humanities stream after 10th. I am really proud of having such a great father who has always supported me in my every decision and helped me in making corrections in my life. Now I am doing graduation and I trying really hard to make my parents proud of me❤ My father knew that science and commerce streams aren't my choice and they aren't capable of making me achieve what I really want. My parents are really supportive and I heartily want to make them proud ❤
The main problem is lack of options in India , there are many fields which many children don't know even though their parents too. So if government increase equal opportunity in every field and our society gives respect to every field then this whole problem will get resolve . So it's really important to increase opportunity for every field and do advertisement so that parents and children who were not aware they will get aware of it.
Exactly.. I asked elders and I am still not 100% clear about these things because we didn't get proper guidance. I even searched in the internet and youtube and still am not clear. Can't even blame parents for only knowing about engineers and doctors.
I opted for humanities this year and scored 94% and stood 3rd in the school and most of students have opted for science this year Many of my teachers suggested me to take science instead of arts but my parents never did . They told me to choose whatever I like I am literally glad 💖
Bhai sab theek hai.. par apne alakh sir ki photo thumbnail m kyu lagaye hai? Unhone kitneee saal free me RU-vid me pdhaye hai humey. Ab bas 4800 rupay mein neet jee ka coaching karwate hai. Jaha akash or allen ka fees 3 lakh 4lakh hai bas ek session ka.. kitne sare bachhe coaching afford kar paye h just bcz of alakh sir.. bhai please don't put alakh sir 's photo with that nthumbnail ..pls bhai 🙏🏻
After completing my 10th , I was sent to Kota for medical coaching. In the first one year, I knew that this is not the life I wanted. I got to know about students suicide and depression leads students to do bad activities. Next year I left coaching, focused on the 12th. After 12th, I went to a Design school. Today, I am actually working for a top E commerce company in India.
I don't think learning history is useless, afterall it gives u knowledge about the country's past which is important to know to know how far your country has come. Just sharing my own opinion 😊
Important is when you're learning what is true.... But in our case, history is full of lies and fake history written by Britishers... If you wanna learn about your country from NCERT, then I feel pity for you
As an MBA aspirant and former JEE aspirant I can confirm that coaching and competitive are killing the creativity of many young talented students and government needs to put a stop this industry.
Will the govt provide jobs to the teachers ? What about general caste teacher's. Govt will keep reservation for quota bhakts. And if general caste want to feed family by teaching students what's wrong with that?
@@AruJyo264 there is a difference between teaching and business... Most of the coaching institute treat students as money making mechine and stop this caste propoganda... I think u are also a coaching mafia who treat students as money making Machine
@@Sp3ctroMusic No I m not from coaching centre. And caste basis is there in seats allotment. Rubbish students get via quota in jobs nd good candidates r left behind. Your Quota samaj party won't offer jobs or feed the family of those general caste. This is there bread nd butter.
Nobody talks about what happens to 99.9% of aspirants who don’t make it. If you spend 4 to 5 years preparing for UPSC, you will completely lose sight of your core competency, which then leaves you with no choice but to start over. This process requires a lot of guts and courage, which you had already lost after 5 years of preparation. I believe that if you are really aspire to clear UPSC, you need to try once in order to know if you have what it takes.
I've been to kota and have seen the environment there.........guys understand the business and don't just follow the masses and get crushed in the mad race .... identify your potential....your drive and excell in that ❤
not entire syllabus but yes I am using maths in CSE, you can't influence people to ruin their base. Their are usecases of other subjects too in the respective fields.
The only channel which show the dark truth of every field...Keep up the good work bro we all are with you... Edit - - - I just ratio aditya saini..thanks guy for so many likes am i famous now??
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I was a dropper student. I did my 11th, 12th and drop year too from Allen. But still, I wasn't able to clear NEET. Even after working so hard day and night, I don't know why I was not able to score good marks even in tests held in coaching. My teachers lost all hope in not just me but my whole batch. Because, we were in the batch of average students. I still remember teachers coming to our class after every test and telling us that we were good for nothing, we will never be able to do something good with our lives. And it proved to be so. Only 1 or 2 students from my batch of 100 students were able to score more than cut-off marks.I knew I will not be able to do it, I knew I was not good enough. So, I just kept blaming myself. But, eventually I realised that it's just not me, it is the coaching institute, their strategies, their teachers who were at the fault too. At my centre in Indore, students would bribe one of the staff members to get the question paper of tests on every Sunday. So, my friends, you all have the capabilities to do something great with your lives, you all can be happy and be proud of yourselves even if you are not the topper. I am proud of each one of you for trying and giving your best. What am I doing now you may ask ? I am neither an IITian nor I study in AIIMS, I am pursuing my bachelor's degree in Pharmacy. And next year, after completing this course, I will be going to USA for M.S and PhD. And, I am very happy from where I am now.
@@amritchaturvedi2261abe chutiye tu bohut bol raha hai alakh sir ke pass na toh Paisa tha na hi family ka support. Ab PW banake baccho se paise loot rahe he aur wo bhi coaching mafia ke under aa te he.
He is promoting the course that helps you to learn concept which can help you do freelancing . Think atleast what you comment . Now it's freelance world where people can do their own job instead of waiting for govt job or some stressful studies like NEET
@@flyeagle320 so in that case my friend.. The coaching mafia he referred also helping only...but why he is portraying them as villen.. You think twice before replying the comment... And who told you the platform he is promoting is genuine??.. So it's all about business
I took Science stream in 11th grade and my parents asked me around 100 times if I'm sure about it and if I really wanted to choose Science. Now that the session is over I get why they did that. Though I opted for PCB of my own will, my marks were the worst. For the first time in my life, I scored 4/20(I failed) for the first time in my life! I felt like a failure and my mental health just worsened. However, during this session break, I worked on my mental health but honestly 11th grade was like a nightmare to me, just because of my marks. Teachers(coaching) would say marks don't matter but after every test, they would give a lecture as to why marks are the only thing that matters to living a life. But thankfully, my parents have my back. My mom said that I can attempt NEET one more time after the 12th if I want to. Dear fellow mates, please remember no mark sheet, no teacher, and no society is worth more than your life!
When i took pcm i had gone through same. Obviously i didn't took science in graduation but i realized that it was fear which made me score low marks than the subject itself. Anyway keep in mind, please solve the ncert questions, even if you have to copy them. Try to understand how they are solved. Atleast you won't fail.
I am a student myself who is preparing for NEET in one of the institutes in Kota. Yes, the pressure and competition faced by the students is immense. Long hour classes, extra classes, Doubt classes, Daily question practice is required and extra questions homework are often given by teachers which makes us heptic. Regular mock tests are also conducted and performance report is sent to their parents to make them feel insecure and depressed. Quality of life is also worst here. Unhygienic food, contaminated water and improperly ventilated small PG rooms..make students life nothing less than a hell
@@_sonu_ its not about working hard its about where you are utilizing the work 7 lakhs hard working can’t get into iit as seats are only 5000 what would you say about this no one will teach here to do something your own do something diffrent from others where the scope is too high a person can start a f🙂cking startup at that money which he just invested for his one year coaching
@@_sonu_ you are absolutely right but a man can handle pressure where he is interested if he will handle that pressure where he is not even interested that can be tough for him
I scored 94% in 10th. In my PU every friends of mine were either IIT or NEET aspirants but I wanted to become lecturer and i recently completed my masters in Chemistry. I not only want to teach but also make students understand about leading life as well.
@@raj..1433 Bro, believe me. Enjoy your life right now. Read books except your study books, watch entertaining series, watch educational yt channels, gain more and more knowledge, and explore, for your life won't be the same in 11th. And frankly there's no reason to study for 8hrs a day in 10th (though I appreciate that, but still). You might regret it later for not enjoying the time you spend on rattafication in 10th. I my opinion, 4-5hrs a day in 10th is fine to go beyond 90. Anyway, it's just an advise.
I have been a dropper. I studied at Aakash for Neet. Half way in the journey I knew that I'm not interested and don't wanna do this. I did appear for the exm. My family had great expectations but I could not do it. My parents were disappointed so was I. They did blame me and were really angry as it was their hard earned money that was invested. But still I knew that above all this they love me. I did not ever thought of giving up on life. Our parents wants the best for us. If we just give them some time and make them understand what exactly you like and what your real happiness lies in they will understand and support you as my parents did.
As long as u put in sincere efforts and did the best u can it's OK..failure is not to be ashamed of.. Its ok to fail... But if u didn't give ur best then u have betrayed them...
Actually, I am in Class 12th preparing for NEET from ALLEN CAREER INSTITUTE, Jaipur.I am scoring low marks about 400 marks out of 720.I feel that Teacher's are focusing more on Toppers and those students get benefits as they wants.I know they are toppers capable of getting best AIRs but who are us..............I don't know nothing anymore but I am hustling to score good marks. No time for anything......... watching this video with completing School Projects. We all think that we are Unique but we don't know in which rat trap we are.............Don't think that I am writing these long paragraphs how I get so much time , I am in so much stress and yt recommend this video. If we are part of this race don't think we can't be succeed because If we really struggling , we get succeed in this field or other............But We Can't Quit
they always groom the toppers from your weekly/monthly tests and focus on them only. They only need few faces to show in newspapers and rest of you don't matter to them
See....its the same in every institute ie they do focus on toppers,I mean its because of previous year toppers u joined in that institute ...don't let it take a toll on you. Focus on urself
Accepting who we are and what we are capable of is the main thing.. I can't be like MSD or CR7. But I have my own flaws and capabilities that may help me to overtake MSD or CR7 or "May Be Not". Keep pushing yourself everyday is the main thing.. This is a Dynamic Environment, it changes everyday, every week and even every second you have to adapt to it. You can't be Static on a Dynamic World.
Don't give birth you don't have that much money to send your kids to abroad to study. Here for 10k seats 1million kids fill applications form. Actually parents give birth kid that is wrong interpretation. Actual interpretation is they produce slaves of future of so called politicians.
Gone through the comments and gained so much of confidence that I am not only the one facing this! So here I am more confident writing my story! I was a bright student till 10th my percentage was between 80-90 percent ....after coming to 11th there was no proper classes or teachers who can really guide and let us help achieve more (as I belong to arunachal Pradesh) but somehow I scored 70%(which is very saddening) but then too i got 2nd rank between those 45 students in my class ....leave that all so now I went to 12th and scored 72% but i decided to take a drop and right now when NEET is just 1 month away i am just fed of all these and felt that I was never interested in medical and just got influenced by some of the people out there (basically i wanted to something else) And the point is my parents never forced me to anything or choose Medical .....they always said yes to everything what I wanted to do.... When i was frustrated in mid drop year I told my parents I can't do this i want to change my career plans....i was hell scared that they'll scold me but they believed in me and said don't worry you come home and decide .....1 saal hi gya hai baaki or kuch nahi....sab theek hojayega. ....and i am truly blessed to have such parents I am going home after this neet! Don't get scared of parents they are the real friends of ours
I just saw the video and read your comment...I couldn't resist myself and I'm writing to you.....I'm extremely happy for you ❤good luck for your upcoming bright future and always try to focus on what you really need and aspire for and having such supportive parents is just like icing on the cake.....so wish you all the very best and always stay positive.....life mein bahot kuchh hai karne ko and life is really very precious 🥰
Bro,i am going through the same sh*t like you right now, i also took a drop but now i am realising that i don't like IITs or engineering at all but i seriously have no idea what to do now.i hope both of us will find success in life
It happens more with PCB students, as the general narrative built around them is that once they have taken PCB, the options are less, handful of streams that too related with biology only like medicine, pharma, veterinary or Bsc(bio). One of my relative failed in NEET, but got decent score in 12th boards(90%), hence took admission in Delhi University in BA(Economics+Management) , after completing took an avg job, also prepared for CAT exam, scored 99%ile, got admission into IIM Kozhikode(MBA), after MBA placed in company with 1.5 lakh/month salary. *When he opted for BA(economics), everyone was like in shock that how can a Biology student can take commerce subjects, as if this is some kind of law written in Scriptures that a Bio student can't change his stream. The guy also realised later that he always wanted to do Marketing & Management.
I had a word with Principal of Narayan e techno school, she did not understand this concept, they put unnecessary pressure on even primary students, and talks about IIT, I was shocked that my child in 4th standard has to be prepared for IIT from this age!!!! I said I am happy with 50% marks but they were putting pressure on me and said no we will give your child extra class and take the child upto 70% marks level !!!!
💯 percent truth.Same thing happened with me when i was studying in coaching.I was average student. I am pursuing M.B.B.S from government medical College.
I have gone through the same process myself. When I failed in A level both my parent were angry and crying for my failure but I didn't decide to take my life but instead I took my chemistry book and told him to read chapter 3 chemical bonds and ionic bonds. He immediately screamed and told me it's not his age to study and I was Furious after hearing this from him and ever since then I didn't touch a single science book since and I only read nobles, stories and poems because I like writing as I want to become a writer
You liked studies too... That's why you went to Kota...But it was probably not a good approach for you and they couldn't tell you how to study properly...It is a race as soon as you fucking get there.
Bhai maine bhi a level kiya hain mughe pata hain kyaa ghand hoti hain after you graduate because everyone thinks i will go aboard but i wants to study in my country but everyone tell
When I was preparing for NEET in Allen Kota, one day me & my mom went to a mall and as we were walking by, a guy from an online coaching named Toppr caught us and said just listen to us once. At first we denied but he insisted and said just 5 min. So we agreed. Then we went inside the room and a man was trying to brainwash my mom with his dirty strategies. She got really confused at that point. He then asked me solve a few questions. Then asked me how "good" I scored in previous NEET exam & class 12th. When I replied in negative for both of em one by one... He suddenly got furious and screamed at me like I committed a crime. We were really staring at him in shock. So then he controlled himself and started brainwashing my mom yet again. I was really frustrated till then cuz he wasted almost 45 min of ours just doing his sh*t. Still he wasn't convinced. I was a very introverted kid back then, so I didn't say anything wrong.. But on the inside I was actually mad at him. I told my mom let's leave. She made an excuse and finally we left after wasting an hour of our quality time. I can never forget the Worst Kota Journey & The Worst People I met over there, ever in my life!!!
He is not god he is a human stop defaming god and you are no one to order someone what should they do if alakh sir is a good person then he shouldn't be afraid if someone point his name
I feel blessed to have immensely supportive and caring parents. They are both government employees, but I have been taught every subject by them. I never had tuition at school, even in 12. I chose arts after class 10 and have scored 95.2% in higher secondary exam. I chose arts because I love to read and write. My parents never forced me to choose science as most students are forced to do after scoring good marks. They just want me to be happy in life.
Every parent want their child to be the happiest but the problem is.. they think that science stream has more scope and salary which is somewhere right (data scientist, doctor, etc) and for that they can do every possible thing. But sometimes they didn't understand that their kid want to be different, like a moon (one and only). (Sorry for my horrible english)
@Vishal Autade Yes you can define it so. But if you belong to a financialy stable family, doesn't mean you cannot come under pressure. It depends on many, many things... your preferences and dreams and what your parents want of you.... Of course earning is important but what if in order to achieve success you lose interest in your life?
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
My drawing teacher taught me so many things about painting in one year which I was unable to learn from drawing school in 4 years. His fees is also low ₹150 per month. He always tell us one thing if you are not serious about learning drawing then don't come here just to waste time. He never gave up on me even when I get messed up. We all had a huge respect for him.
@@DeepKumar-xz9of yeah i agree with you online batches are good, i won't deny. But offline isn't, i spent 1 lakh, i should be getting better education than online batches, right? But it's not the case. If you don't believe me, you can check recent toppers of jee and neet and you will barely find one from offline centres.
@@DeepKumar-xz9of i cracked JEE this year and I'll be recommending everyone to just find your teacher on youtube itself and stick to them, that's gonna work out well. And only opt for JEE or NEET if you are really interested in engineering and medical, because if you're there just for money's sake, kuch nhi ho sakta tab wo lalach hai passion nahi
Keep making more videos like this at regular intervals, More power to you! keep exposing different industries where their marketting team influences the minds of common people to take bad decisions like these
I did 1 year coaching in Chandigarh Not able to clear IIT or NIT but I was having a great foundation that bridged the gap between NCERT and Engineering But I have seen people dedicated their life to entrance exam
I loved science but I took commerce so my parents don't force me to become a doctor or engineer and the worst part is I got 56% in 12th because of some personal issues and yes I did not study because of covid going through depression and stress, abuse, trauma still believing that i can find my spark and rewrite my life as I always dreamed of learning electrical stuff, ethical hacking, doing a part time job to learn something about business and going fully monk wood to understand this vast universe from the outside and inside and yes to reach nirvana
After watching this video I feel very blessed because my father is government teacher he never pressurized me to do coaching or going to Kota I simply choose to complete my schooling in my home town . I studied from RU-vid for the class 11th and 12th ..... And cleared the JEE Mains now I am in Government Engineering college when I look back I thank to God for not sending me Kota because most of my college friends have studied from Kota and Coaching centre but I am at the same place without any drop year after 12th . Thanks to my parents for not forcing to do such things 🥺.
I live in Kota and currently I am in 9th. I agree on this, many of my friends are going to allen and other coaching since as early as 7th and 8th and dummying schools and they regret that, the pressure these institutes create is absurd.
@@singingsincebirthtb1418 😭😭 So bad I am coming in 10th and i will start my jee prep only in 11th People like these don't get the time to enjoy there childhood
It's not about career it's about dreams some have dreams they want to achieve but don't have any ways for it they are just providing it Agr kisi se nhi ho rha then leave it koi jarurat nhi h but some wants to do it So agr ye business b h then achi cheez kr rhe hei as wo b issu situation se guzzere hei . They provide free videos lectures which are about 10hrs unke lie jo afford nhi kr skte so please stop ki they are just doing it for business
my mom always told me there was no point in stressing out yourself for things like jee or neet if the person doesn't have an innate passion for it. she told me to study how i wanted to, just with sincerity. my dad had always been the same too. my parents never even told me to choose the science stream, they said it's my life and i should take responsibility for it. because in the end it's me who has to live it, not them. right now I'm pursuing btech from a normal college but it's so satisfying because it was my own decision for my own carrer and life.
This education system really need to Change. It is not meant to stress students and drive then to depression, it has to actually make them ready for the upcoming life. In our education system, there is no education and no system.
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Unfortunate. We call ourselves at the peak of humankind. Scary where we’re heading. What good is all this education anyway if we cannot get basics in place. None of what we learn in school helps us in adulting in this society. Having studied in schools across the globe even being fortunate enough to have that exposure easily our talent and skill get buried when we chose india as home. My heart weeps for all the students and parents being fooled into all this charade. Truly heartbreaking. I believe we can change everything from the root but how many people have to come together for this. Truly eye opening!!
When I was in my 12th standard, my mom never forced me to get into IITs or NITs. She does want me to earn well in future but not by fighting depression and stress which, in most of the students' cases of the present scenario, leads to suicide. Today I'm pursuing my BTECH (Im currently in my first year) in IT stream from a normal private college of my state. I neither regret not going into any of the national institutes nor the thought of others earning crores of rupees ever strikes my mind. I'm happy and that's all I need
Competitive exams in India are Like Cross country running in athletics in which every students runs to get into the top 3 or top 10 But hardly only some get there.😶
I’m glad my parents let me give up after 1st attempt in neet. I pursued bsc in forensic science and completed it this june 23. Gonna do masters now. Enjoy this subject way more than medicine. And even thou getting a job will be a bit harder I’m gonna love it more :)
Same here. Discovered my passion in my chemistry at the end of 12th. Prepared for jee for 4 years, and knew engineering wasnt for me. I feel blessed because my parents allowed me to pursue iisers and study chemistry further.
Rajkumar hirani made the movie three idiots in which he raised awareness about stress and depression on which the students suffered and feel pressured on a thing that dont like and didnot want to do and not passionate about and tought people why so many students loss their lives by xhasibg a thing on which they are jot passionate and family pressure to succes and showed us the dark secrets of college and ragging in a comedic way
I know ... every parents should watch this, but ... not every parents will understand the meaning of this video.... they will still tell you that you are FORCED to make THEIR DREAMS INTO REALITY .... No matters if you have DREAMS or NOT.....!!!!
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Even I failed to clear still happy to get the tier-1 nsut college through jee mains IIT sab kuch nahi but I tried my best to get it 🙂🙂 but thnx to unacademy for helping me to crack jee main
Everyone is talking about ALLEN FITJEE and all but pls do remember Sri Chaitanya, Narayana…these institutions are also not that far. I’ve studied there for 2 years i. e 11-12, we called these schools as corporate schools because yes they’re and infact the administration also kept mentioning that they should be called a corporate school where there’s a said rule that “ toppers can cope up with anything and the whole attention will be going to them meanwhile mediocre students like me and many more out there should struggle as much they can but with no or little help”, I won’t say that I did my due diligence, yes I slept during lectures sometimes and sometimes I bunked class but the point to be understood is why I did that and there are many out there…the reason being when your clas start from 6:00 in the morning continuing upto 10:30 in the night and there just mere 3 and a half hours break…what did you expect us to do…and the worst part is teachers did create a vibe that if you’re not clearing NEET AND JEE you’re kinda fucked and pls do remember you’d have to come back there only and study along junior batches with shame!!! Tbh I’m not able to describe it properly because it’s all filled with mixed emotions…there was a time in my 12 th grade where I started to have suicidal thoughts just because all these…it really felt like the competitive exams are the end of the world…well you people out there like me will relate…kabhi Sri Chaitanya, Narayana inn se baat karke dekhna ek alag hi narak ke baare mein pata chal jayega aaplogon ko.
My parents were always supportive to what me and my sister want to do in life thats why me and my sister both selected what we are good and and what we love to do and are just loving it ... I am a CGI artist and my sister is studying to be an interior designer . When i have kids i will let them do what they will enjoy learn and grow with , a job should not feel like a prision .. it sould be driven by love passion and curiosity of always learning what you love 🙂... You have questions of how if so but and you learn on your own when you just love what you want to do ... ur just that curious about it that you dont need any coach ... its good to have a coach only if you love what you do and know what you want to be . Dont follow the crowd everyone is unique so find ur special power and do what you love .
Lucky you Not every family can afford sending their kids to a design or fashion sort of schools ! Even with vast courses option , pocket allows only a few . That is the bigger truth than coaching competition .
Mein ek third tire college se belong krti hu. But I will say onething it doesn't matter from which college we go at the end of the day it's us and our daily quota of learning which matters.
