What is stonewalling?? 

Question of the Day - How does stonewalling show up in your relationship?

Thank you so much for all of this. I'm frustrated with my constant relapses and I know I can't do this alone.

I stonewall for sure. I get flooded with negative emotions and just shut down. At times I’ve left or picked up my phone or turned away and focused on work (I work at home.)

Husband gets on his phone, refuses to discuss anything with me, leaves the room, has driven off, does anything he can to avoid the conflict. Its kills me emotionally inside. I hate it. I can't feel love for someone who isn't there for me emotionally.

Very helpful advice, sir. 💯🙏🏿

great video

I now am very cut off and this is matter of fact because I am so hurt by giving myself in the process. And being cut down.

I over work and I get into my daughters. I disconnect. He just say, I'm not doing this. I have to go to bed. I'm not fighting with you. You just want to fight and I'm not going to this. He does his own thing after work up to bed time. Then blaming me for wanting to talking about our relationship. I need to go to bed and you are holding me back from what is needed.

These videos are super helpful for me right now. When can we expect other videos? It can solve my relationships of 8,5 years....😔

Reactive abuse, we discussing something, he says something that triggers me, I react, then he says I am abusing him.

he is reading this