Every time I go into these videos skeptical of this INFJ stuff, you keep describing my whole life. That shit is scary and I don't like where this is going... And I'm regretting how I got here.
What sucks for me personally is that I know people will betray me, I just can't really access who will do it in my mind properly and I can't fecking communicate events effectively enough to the people who can see who can hurt me.
I agree with the infj part, personally my experiences haven’t been great, we just butt heads, but I met an isfp dude at the bar the other day and really clicked though but I don’t think he really wanted to talk to me much after that day though, but I like remember in high school infjs always used to tell on me all the time for being immoral and too competitive it was so annoying, my teen years were quite bad I feel like cause I lack Fe and Te I was considered somebody who lacked empathy and was selfish, and isolated, my teachers told me I wouldn’t really be much, which kind of hurt. But now in sales it’s kinda perfect because my competitive nature thrives in that environment where I was literally made fun of for it so much back then.
Are you an ESTP? In my school years i also criticized my ESTP friend for being too selfish and immoral, however with time, i got closer to him and understood where he came from and made me realize just how stupid Fi critic can be. Now he is one of my best friends, we've grown so much together and it definitely shows how amazing camaraderie is. Immature infjs tend to hold people to these standards which is alienating af.
You forgot about the chastity part you always mention. They may be nemphomanics, but they can also be extremely chaste. Integrity vs corruption. I also like that fact that we don't realise or care about our image. Due to where te is placed. No public image to maintain, comes straight from the heart.
@@CSJoseph you did several episodes on infj specifically talking about chastity, last summer. So I thought you'd also mention the opposite type you can find. The same way you mentioned integrity vs corruption. But I'm guessing due to your unfornate circumstances with your ex, you tend to to just come across the ones that choose corruption over integrity. Hence the examples you gave.
@@malakashraf2801 not really it's the way we show appreciation and care to those around us. Isfp will do it for show. Just show others that that they care. Like he mentioned Whearas infj will do it selflessly.
…. I’m so confused…. I were sure that I’m an ISFP, but you said that they think that everyone is a good person.. and they are not that paranoid. I’m so paranoid, I think that everyone is bad, stupid, I don’t trust anyone, I judge every person… and I’m very selfish.. am I broken? Idk, I know nothing
as an isfp, my experience with infjs are not so great ,i mean i know they are good people and i have some close infj friends but they try to fit in the group so hard , and they also want me to try to fit in the group, , thats when i feel like am being controlled , which leads to me ghosting them because always thinking i have to fit in when i clearly feels like a constant stress to me , i usually prefer a hi hello relationship with most people except 3-4 people , who usually are istj,intp,intj,isfj,esfp,estp
This is why I think Jacob Collier is actually an ISFP. I think people are sensing his Body Temple sensibilities, which is why so many people type him as an INTP
Jacob is an ISTJ because he is so healthy he has tapped into his trickster functions like Tom Holland. People think they are nfps just cause they r quirky. But actually, they are just reflecting the other side of their quadrant because they are so healthy and share the same cognitive functions. Also look at how he describes music and his process has a lot of systems and such that a judger would use as well as the fact he collects music as a more of need to be informed like istj where infp collect info to form thier own unique philosophy. His mum is a enfj which is the natural pairing for istj. So that confuses people as he has similar partners to infp compatible due to them sharing thier functions. He also seems to use si to learn from past experiences in music.
He dresses like an intuitive but if u look at his environment and growing up in the hippy arts community in London with an enfj mum. Ur gonna kinda as a sensor be able to pick up all these things around you and develop a style that mimics an intuitive like an NP. But that's just SI. Also he dresses very practically when you think about it for flow and comfort which I think is a more systematic thing to think like istj. Where an infp will look at themselves and think how do I feel today and how can I express it through what I'm wearing. Which is an FI thing.
Probably via cognitive axis with the inferior function. If the inferior is underdeveloped, the hero is kind of immature and inefficient. The hero is the most optimistic, however, it all comes down to how the other functions are developed. Think of the hero as the car, and the other functions as the driver.
