Well someone could text to much and they can create the environment to be tolerated. Texting to much can ruin relationships. I had this experience but the other way around. I had a girlfriend who texting me way to much it became overwhelming. Also i felt smothered. There's no limt to talking. Texting however is overwhelming.
If she didn’t respond to your message- It is straight up blatant Disrespect! She saw your message, her phone is gorilla glued to her head. If her dream man messaged she wouldn’t ignore it. Men, you deserve that level of interest and commitment out the gate, nothing less. She ignores = Bye! Disqualify! Cancel Her!
I have been ghosted in the past,I hated it. “No response is a response” if you let her go and she comes back , she loves you. Let her go and live your own life.
Loving somebody takes a little bit of time So if she ghosts you that means she’s giving that attention to sb else She might come back if she does dont have her back if you do Make sure to not trust in her again Coz ghosting sb that likes you its a redflag that the person disrespect you nd see you like nothing to they eyes
No matter how busy a woman is, if she's INTERESTED, she will FIND TIME out of her busy schedule to reach out to you. TIME is money. Therefore, don't give your precious time to a woman who doesn't deserve it. There's plenty of fishes in the ocean so no need to continue chasing one fish that keep running away from you. If indeed she's interested, trust me you will be the very first person to find out. Cheers! Rich Fofana
Very true! If somebody is interested it doesn’t take a lot of effort. Of course many women won’t just fall in a guy’s lap but having to double and triple text is a waste of time. Nobody is that busy! Best to move on to someone who respects your time.
Plenty more women out there to break your heart or mess with your head. They seem really good at it these days. Maybe they've got too much high expectations to finding the perfect guy. Of which noone is perfect.
Plenty of fish in the sea my dear friend, dont get ulcers by hoping, praying and even fasting for someone who's ghosted you. Women really check their phones every second it pings. Flat and simple its the games women play by judging a book wrong and us men get the brunt of it. Be a king, hold yourself in pride, for one who has not acknowledged you three more are praying to have you in their lives.
This is a very important message that needed to be said. I had to grow up and learn these points the hard long way. How I deal with it is, if she no longer shows interest, I never push. I delete the number and move on, and be at peace with it. No hurt feelings. If she calls or messages, I'll respond but in my mind I've already moved on. It helps me avoid all stress from unrealistic expectations. It works every time. So liberating
Don't delete or block her, otherwise she won't feel the pain. If you ask her for a date and she doesn't show interest, get a reaction from her, then ignore her and then move on.
My girl did that few days ago actually this is not first time but many a times..... I guess this should be final and I should move on 🙄.... I was actually ignoring those red flags all these days cos I love her a lot 🙄
I like your analysis from a woman's perspective. As a 58 year old man, I keep it simple. After 24 hours of a text and voice mail, I move on. A person will make time for you or excuses. If a person ignores you they aren't interested. We don't ignore our interests.
7:08 The double text is a classic no no, a sign of neediness and definitely an attraction killer. If a girl doesn’t text back by the end of the day you can pretty much be certain that you’re a low priority in her life. Trust me guys…don’t overthink it. She’s probably not worth the trouble. Just move on! ✌🏽
Right. Most likely not the trouble n energy. Every issue gonna be because of her not communicating or playing u in some form because of lack of interest
One thing that absolutely bothers me about this dating scene is the terminology we use to give women the power of choice like they are a prize to be one. The arrogance today is something I cannot fathom.
@@paulokello5981 it's weird af like they've become superhuman or something good lord they need to be humbled. Then when a man says all they have to offer is set its wrong but with these attitudes, arrogance, but NO RESULTS NO MARRIAGE OR FAMILY TO SHOW they sound like these videos and TV like robots.
Streetside, this is one that we as men have to ride out, because in the end, we truly do have it the best. It may seem like women are winning at the moment, but when you look at it from a long-term, they're actually losing out big time because as they age, the games go away and then reality hits them in that they don't have the protection, stability, and security they need from a Man. It's sad, but in the long run, men will come out on top. I use to let the dating scene bother me, but after listing to Kevin Samuels and Alpha Male Strategies, it has really changed my outlook on all of this dating scene. If you have the time to read a little, check out this book by Richard Cooper called "The Unplugged Alpha". It will really expose the life and society today that we're in when it comes to women.
Trying to overthink and analyze a woman’s actions will drive a man crazy. Women are more emotional and less logical so there’s no point in trying to rationalize them. Bottom line if a woman is feeling you it won’t be hard to tell.
@@mike_myers2.000 ok. So therefore, there needs to be a level of understanding a man needs to have for a woman. 👀 If there isn't any understanding or learning, then how is a man supposed to know when she gets him as you say? See where I'm going with this..👀
In a relationship and in Life it's important to know when to hold on and when to let go. Letting go might be painful but sometimes holding on cause more pains
@Michael Davis you are not alone Woman so flaky nowadays you never can tell when they bout to change up on you Be aware never believe in what a girl says to you when you first meet her She could say or do things to make you feel great which can be a trap Sometimes she must’ve got dumped by some dudes that she liked recently And Choose you as comfort to make her over that guy and soon as that guy comes back she starts stringing you along and walk away before you know it
I've been there. They call it silent break up. The bitch did that, few months later she wanted to come back. I refused to take her back but now she is crying foul
I don't dm or text women for a response but if I did I would only text or dm one time...women knows what they want or don't want and a man they intrested in dont need to text or dm twice...
This chick from my gym took my number. I messaged her to just let her know "hey this is me" she responded back with a blushing emoji "😊". I messaged her maybe 20 sum mins later just to let her know I'm home. Its been almost 13 hours and counting, and she never responded. Yeah, long story short, I deleted her number. I aint gonna get disrespected like that.
I came across this video and I must say, It was refreshing to her a beautiful 👰🏽 Sister declare and confirm: *Go where you're celebrated not where you're tolerated.* -- "Priceless 💎 "... Thank you, Jessica Os!
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Right when no response occurs. It reveals her fake character especially if she gave her # to u , knowing u are interested in her it's almost disrespectful when she could of just said no in a few ways from the jump. Misleading. But don't text or call again then u win!! Now u know at least
I use to text a woman I liked and she would reply a couple of hours later, however when we were in the pub as part of a group and she was messaged, she would reply to the text immediately, I moved on pretty quick.
If you're at the point where you're worrying about a text or response or even rejection you're the problem....life's too short to worry about any of that...live and let life take its course whatever happens happens
@@NashBenzotv it isn't worth it...I've been alone for almost 2 years because I won't settle for crap, so be it if it lasts forever lol hopefully not....but you get my point , live for your purpose and don't even worry about women they will come when they are supposed to
@@SR-hf3hx you right im actually going through love issues Ive been wrong that girl i thought my gf wasn’t really the one ! I texted her she’s not engaging in texting back the way she used to ! Im so hurt this wont happen to me ever again Luckily i haven’t dated her for that long ive been knowing her for a month
@@NashBenzotv don't feel bad...I spent 10 years with a woman who never cared for me at all....totally fake....its God strengthening you and preparing you for the right woman
@@NashBenzotv aye bro girl I've been seeing for 8 years basically decided to dip on me we both fucked up in the relationship but we kept fighting for each other 2 weeks ago she met these new friends and now she's cold and distant but she hit me up outta the blue saying she thought of us and the good times said she loved me called me all the cute names then boom dip take it from me don't wait for the girl or stay hung up she already took 8 years of my life not letting her take another second
Ghosting is often written off as a petty thing, but for people genuinely trying to pursue a long-term relationship/love, it is very disturbing. Especially for men, who already have an uphill battle to fight in the dating world. I always try to give the benefit of the doubt to someone for about a day, but after that I can tell it's done. If a woman is interested in you, she'll make the time for you. No excuses.
Reasons they don't reply 1. You cheated on her and she lost her feelings for you. 2. Trying to be nice 3. She busy screwing another man and is occupied with the other man. 4. She is no longer interested 5. She doesn't love or want you anymore. 6. She is initiating a break up, so she goes ghost by not texting you at all. 7. She is in love with another man and she is trying to show him respect. She may have a particular love interest, may be in a new relationship or gotten engaged or married.
My lady is very depressed and says she just wants to be left alone but looks at my story on Snapchat but is ignoring my messages, when she says she wants to be left alone what does that mean???
Thank you for this! I'm experiencing this now. But the crazy thing is when you back off and stop texting, then they reach out weeks later with a "hey how are you doing" text🤷🏿♂️ I don't understand 🤦🏿♂️
Bruh, never in your life reply that message. If it's on WhatsApp, give her blue ticks forever. Ladies need to be straight forward in order to save us from wandering whether to hold on or to let go.
@@alhassanabugurago640 amen! You are right! Female text me the other day saying " I'm just seeing this" 🤦🏿♂️ I didn't even respond nor am I going to respond!
Don't reply, i flopped and replied her "hey wasaup" text after weeks of ignoring her. I was supposed to ignore her some more😂😭now it looks like she's got the upper hand. Forgive me guys😂😭😭. That's what they do, come back just to make sure they still a priority in your life and leave again. Don't fall for it brother, let her burnnnn🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great again Jessica! I think one of the most important things you said is the one about priorities. This is equally applicable for both genders. I wish I could claim originality here but I can’t. “Don’t make someone a priority who only sees you as an option.” That says it all!
Irs alright for some that actually have options and can just another person so easily. For some have to wait years just for a woman to even show any interest. When that happens you really appreciate the very few woman that do come into your life.
@@morelions4014 Absolutely right! Relationships are hard. Even the best of relationships can be very difficult at times. Loving someone who doesn’t return that love is one of the most gut wrenching experiences one can deal with in this life. Thanks for the reply!👍
In communication we say, "You cannot not communicate." The silence or refusal to respond to the message is in itself a message that you are unwanted or at best being tolerated. Move on
You are just the best and I thank you a lot. I used to be very depressed before but since I started following you I'm knowing much I took for granted and gaining strength. Thank you for giving us a sense of direction
I can relate to this because there were times where I would send a kind message like hi or hi I'm jordan and what do I get, nothing I just left on seen and trust me when I tell you, it's annoying as heck...
Just move on boys. I texted to one girl and it took at least 24 hours for her to reply. Then I decided to go on. Then I met a new girl, it took her only few minutes to reply. Even she was walking and talking to her friends, she was trying to text me as soon as possible. So you deserve a better person! Dont even think about you can catch her attention, never!!!
1) she’s thinking about what is right to answer cuz you made a difficult question 2) she’s being adviced by her jealous, really invidious “BFF” not to reply to you Remember guys…a friend or a sister is dangerous to any male intentions…good or bad
my thing is why not just let the person know 🤷🏿♂️? instead of going through all that ignoring or ghosting them, just be solid. Is that an ego thing for a woman to do that or want to do that?
Ironically, folks find it "nicer" to ghost or ignore than just saying they aren't interested, when in fact it isn't nicer. I met a girl once who was interested in me, but she was 15yrs younger. I politely told her that because of yeb age gap, I won't feel comfortable. She understood, we said farewell, she moved and I moved. To me, it was just common kindness to let her know, than just ghosting her. But it can be a sense of pride/ego as you say. 🤷
you are not alone Woman so flaky nowadays you never can tell when they bout to change up on you Be aware never believe in what a girl says to you when you first meet her She could say or do things to make you feel great which can be a trap Sometimes she must’ve got dumped by some dudes that she liked recently And Choose you as comfort to make her over that guy and soon as that guy comes back she starts stringing you along and walk away before you know it
First rule: Women will do almost anything to avoid being responsible for hurting someone's feelings. They will even marry someone instead of breaking up with the person. That's how hardwired they are in this characteristic. First rule for the guys: Always be working on several women. Only a percentage will work out but the idea of working just one woman (in the start of a relationship, getting in a few months is a different story) is not conducive with dating success in 2022.
@@thyeocroft205 What do you define as a 'player'? Intentions are key here. I am a strong proponent of being upfront and honest of your dating intentions when you first are chatting with a woman. If you both are on the same page and aren't looking for anything serious then it might be assumed you're both free to date other people. It's all about clear/honest communication. The problem I have is guys telling women they are looking for something serious just to get them in bed, when there was zero chance of them becoming monogamous.
@@earcandystudioug7100" Am single & searching" pharse, will get a guy laid faster than any other tactic. Its an evil old book trick but what will the horny men association do if they reveal their true intention early on?
@@earcandystudioug7100 i just told a girl i like her for getting her in bed which never liked that gurl I did make that bed rock but Karma came back to me and i happened to like her for good… its crazy N now im stuck she said she likes me back but dont know if she’s genuine about it ! I shouldve never let my actions show i like her ! Now that she finds out she just ghosted me that breaks my ego im done with Her ! This wasn’t us being dated it was only us hooking up for no purpose of relationships I take that as lesson
@@NashBenzotv Ok well if you take it as a lesson then that's cool. There's nothing wrong with hooking up, or friends with benefits if you both communicate your intentions from the start. If you're under 30, there's no reason to get serious with a girl. If you want to be a true high value man, you're focusing on yourself and building your empire. So you hang out with girls but you're not looking for anything serious. Be open and honest with this when you talk to girls. Be direct and they will take it or leave it. Mode One - Roger Alan Currie is a great book on being direct with your intentions. It's crazy how you can say the craziest thing to a girl but it still works in your favor. Anyway, focus on you and your purpose until you've build a small empire then think about adding a lady to your already solid/good life!
I totally agree and I'm not chasing anyone and it's her loss. Absolute truth, I don't care who it is. 10 seconds is 10 seconds and that's never gonna change, if I'm not worth it she doesn't exist. 💯
I agree, people are so rude these days, you're just trying to be friendly yet there's always something about your "friendliness" that they feel warrants such rude behaviour from their side. It never makes any sense and yet we just have to accept it? Why?
I honestly wished that your RU-vid channel was around when I was dating because it definitely would have helped me understanding women thank you for sharing.
Honestly we been knowing this stuff all along. We just don't wanna accept what we are being shown. We fear walking away too early. The truth always there chilling witta cigar in our face
Jessica. In the past months, I've watched as many of your videos that I could find. I've never seen you out of character saying, jokingly, " I'm gonna go find that bird and strangle it." I laughed so hard at that moment for at least 10 minutes or so afterwards . 😂 I've always listened to you seriously with my full attention. But at that moment, you let your guard down, and it was different. Thank you and God bless you and your channel. I've learned SO MUCH from you and your channel. Much love to you Queen.
I realized with an ex lover/friend that I was only an option to support her habits, if you know what I mean. Half of my texts were never answered nor my calls. I cut the ball and chain loose!
I had the same problem with the woman I was trying to reach out so I decided to lash out on her and told her that if she feels like I'm irritating her she must tell me so that I can block her and delete her number and never trouble her again.
Jessica this is RU-vid... Viewers don't care about background noise like professionals in mainstream Media do. We watch vlogs that's got millions of backgrounds disturbances & is all good. As long as the main audio isn't dustrupted , move along 👌.
Says a lot about a person who does so.. Are they afraid to confront the fact they are no longer interested? Be decent and speak up.. I'd rather be told I not cutting it then ghosted Personally no room in my life for that anymore. Hard not to reach out though..😵💫🤕
Hello...your advice has really helped me...i know the ladies i can mix and avoid...i had relationship stress long ago..but now theres a lady that checks on me each amd everyday and when am mute she will ask why and she always understands when am busy.
"Busy" etc are all excuses...If you´re mid conversation with a female ask her this "If you got a text message from Denzel/Tom Cruise or whoever she´s into would you ignore it, or what would you do?" (different variations on that question, says the same) Her answer will majority of the time be a clear "No", so if she ever leaves you on read , doesnt hit you back within a reasonable time, delete her number (i.e ghost her first) and move on. I`ve personally heard every excuse under the sun on both sides of the coin...
Probably my biggest mistake is getting too personal, but some people who suffer mental health, its not their fault. But suffering mental health, it seems all woman are put off by a guy who has it badly. Even though it's not his fault. It's not worth the heart ache and pain if your constantly going to be rejected and cast aside. After a while you get so used to it its all you expect.
Women are so much better at the art of psychology. When it comes to playing these mind games just remember guys it's a numbers game in the numbers are on your side so many women not enough time. But there's only one Jessica a woman among girls.
We matched on a dating site. My physical appearance and profile/bio may have been attractive at first, but right-swiping is the easy part. A few texts and days later I feel like I've been ghosted. And she's NOT gonna tell me what I did "wrong". I would like to know what I did so maybe I'd be a better man for the next woman or fine tune my approach.
From personal experience you should make it a habit to forget about it. Dating sites like job interviews don’t always allow you to know what you did wrong. I had the same trait of wanting to know but it only leaves you spinning in circles & wasting time/energy. Abundance mindset & move on
You may not have done ANYTHING wrong !! She just has so many options that she just decided to go with someone else. Don’t worry about. Just keep working on yourself and move on. You’ll attract the right woman at the right time. Love and light to you all from the island of Antigua. Bless !!
Same here...wondering if I was interacting with a computer bot...every time I asked if they wanted to exchange numbers...no response 2x-different women. Never asked me about my interests either🤔🤔🤔🤔
Koo nie! Some folks are working hard to explore the other planets and your only concern on this earth is why some girls (probably future liabilities) are constantly ghosting you unprovoked. Hmm, it shall be well my brother and one day one day, all ur wet dreams will be a thing of the past. There is time for everything tho 🤣
Abegi. We all are literally glue to our phones. BS when he/she says I forgot to respond/ I was busy.Keep it moving. You dont need the Pope to tell you he/she isn't interested.
Hi Jessica! Thanks for this video. Now here is the situation, it's been already 17 days that the girl dosen't reply to my message, and I didn't sending her message anymore. Until 7 days ago I shared a LOVE SONG on social media, and my friend comment me like: Don't be emo, or I'll give you a punch. And she answered my friend 30 minutes later that: GIVE HIM ONE MORE! Well, I really don't know what does it mean. Thank you!
Honestly this is happening to me, I helped her so much in her life, but not since she is good she doesn't care, I just wished her well in life and wish her the best in life and I just hope she finds someone who treas her like a queen
