Yes.. and Sunny is very independent. Jack is the sensitive one. I love how different they are. But I think Derik and Sarah are doing a really great job! They both have good families who raised the.. but been true a lot. I don't think they take anything for granted 🙏
Since I’m sahm mom when they don’t see me for a bit I’m still like chopped liver 😂 as if they needed a break from me or something 😂 but when I’m the only one home I’m all of a sudden the favorite parent 😅
I feel like Sunny's going to grow up to be the quiet, introspective, somewhat broody one, happy with her own company and doing her own thing while Jack's going to be the excitable Golden Retriever, who's happiest around friends and people.
🤷♀️ maybe or maybe not… Just because a toddler’s love language is different or they don’t crave physical contact in the moment as an expression of connection/love doesn’t mean they will not be the happiest around friends and family, nor will they be quiet, introspective, somewhat broody, or happy with own company. Guess we will need to wait and see!!
Sunny’s like, you left me for 10days, and now you just want a hug knowing so well how much I’d missed you… like mum! How could you, I won’t talk to you😂😂😂😂😂😂…. So cute❤❤lovely family
I think this is normal. My parents used to do this when Im still a toddler because of their job and every time they come back it feels like they are total strangers. It might be one of the reasons I don't like being with people for too long too. My separation anxiety last only for a day or 2.
🙂🙃 They get this excited to see each other, even if they were away for just a day! Lol It's so sweet! And cute! It shows how deeply connected they are with their babies! And I'm loving it!! 🥰
These early years are crucial for bonding and if mom is not with baby most of the time, they will bond with whoever is caring for them. I’m not saying this to be mean or critical. It’s the first 3 years that little ones really just need to be with mom to create a bond and have stability. ❤
Nothing could be more wrong about this statement. She is showing signs of being a healthy toddler who has loads of security. Her mother leaving for 10 days will have zero consequences on her level of bonding. If anything, she shows signs of being healthy and secure in attachment. That's why she's not afraid to not hug her brother or her mother. She knows she will be loved and adored unconditionally.
@@YellinHelenP you may be right and you may be wrong. Quite frankly none of us know for sure the real dynamic of this family but any criticisms they receive about their parenting is on them 100% because they have CHOSEN to be social media influencers instead of getting real jobs. So criticism comes with the territory. File that under " oh well, too bad". They have millions of followers, millions of dollars and the fact is she does go out of town constantly ...there are mothers with far less time on their hands, far less support/help on their hands and far less MONEY IN their hands but still manage to brush their kids hair and put on a cute outfit before videoing their precious baby girls for the world to see....EVERY SINGLE TIME. Open your eyes, watch all their videos and get a clue.
Kids are so unpredictable and thats what makes them so unique. Normal response, wouldn't it be heartbreaking to watch if she ran sobbing to mama ,its way better to know she had a good time.
My son did this to me when he went on vaca with his dad to visit family. When he got back… he treated me like I was nothing. He changed.. never got some of it back. I don’t think long separations from one parent is good. My son was a little older. I never let that happen again.
It's a child abandonment issue. Perhaps talking to them prior to the vacation to ease their minds into it. Or waiting till they're old enough to understand that it's ok. Idk. I'm so sorry. I hope it's gotten better for you both.
That's actually also the reason why you shouldn't sleep train babies. They don't understand where you are going or what you are doing. They just feel abandoned and basically learn that no one is there for them in times of need. Not to shade you! Just writing this for someone ho might find this information useful
This is why I stay in almost unnecessary contact with my child when she is gone. I want her to know momma is still here. But then agian she didn't go on any trips away for a long time and then the longest was 7 days when she was 5.
If I had a kid, especially a young kid, I couldn’t spend more than a few days away from them, unless I HAD to (for work or an emergency). 10 days seems like a long time.
I KNOW THIS WILL GET DELETED SO I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU SAY THIS!! IF IT GETS DELETED OR SHAT ON OH WELL THE TRUTH IS SELDOM KIND! STAY HOME WITH YOUR BABIES BECAUSE THEY’RE ONLY LITTLE ONCE AND IT GOES BY LIKE LIGHTNING! ⚡️ MY SON PASSED AWAY AT 17 AND I CAN PROUDLY SAY I NEVER LEFT HIM OR MY DAUGHTER WHEN THEY WERE LITTLE EVER! 😢😢😢
Yup Sunny did not like that mommy was gone for 10 days. Maybe try to lessen your traveling under Sunny is a little older. They are little for such a short time enjoy every moment like you did with Jack when he was Sunny age. Just my opinion as a grandmother.
My new friend happens to be a child psychologist. Its recommended you do not stay away from one year olds to three years olds for no more than three days. Of course hospitalizations and rarely a long emergency, happen. I was curious. If you want to know information ask someone who would know. I sure wouldn't have known that.
@@stitches318 actually her reaction shows that her attachment is very healthy. She knows she can count on her mommy coming back. It's the kids that always cry when their parents leave/are constantly attached to their parents hip that you should worry about how healthy the attachment is. At least psychology says so...
@@dakota7314 that is the opposite end of the spectrum. This baby does not even make eye contact with mom. At this age they should be coming back frequently for reassurance. You are referring to children 4 and older
@@stitches318 it can def. be before 4. It's studies that also apply to daycare which at least where I'm from starts way earlier. Also guys how about we try not to judge an entire mother/daughter relationship by one video? There was another one for example not too long ago where she did go to her mothers arm after being absent. Not everything needs to have this huge meaning.
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Yup, that's what I saw. She's nervous to get close and be left again. It's JUST the way kids her ages brains work. Once she calms down and feels more solid, she will come around.
Yeah search the attachment theory strange situation videos. When the mom comes back and the kid acts like they don't care its avoiding attachment. But 10 days is a long time so that could just be confusion and struggling with transitions like kids do
@@kmedat8476 I’m being facetious, I obviously know that… we are on the same page . It gave me a small sense of joy for her not to hug her. Trust me, I know what’s up.
That's funny! Is she getting better story time with grandpa instead? Usualy little kids like to be with people that plays with them, or feed whatever they ask
My children had favorite grandparents and if they were with their favorite grandparents, they did not care if I stayed away for two months not really but I’m just saying grandparents are just as special to them as their mom and dad and as long as they have someone in their life to help them on every level like good mom and dad doI hate to say it, but they don’t miss their mom or dad if they’re with their grandparent, especially their favorite grandparent. What a blessing not every child is blessed with adults in their lives who actually enjoy taking care of them every second of every day it’s called nurturing and you only get a small window of time. Mom and dad are doing fantastic.
I read a book this year, it was about our relationship with our moms. It made me realize the insincerity I felt towards my mom started when I was 3,5 years old she was abroad for about a week. That is the oldest memory I have and I was always known as the quiet, not affectionate one, which has never been actual case. I had a loong talk with my mom about this and thankfully I feel way better. So I wish it's not the case here and that it never will for any kid from now on❤
Can relate. I left my 14 month old son for 5 days and when I returned I couldn't wait to see him and hold him and he wouldn't even look me in the eye. He was mad at me. :(
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I think that’s the age. Every time that I drop my goddaughter to her mom she doesn’t want her. Sometimes she cry because I left…..but a few minutes later I all her and she is fine either way her mommy…. Is normal. But 10 days is a lot for this ages…I hope she learns from this…
Honestly, i was like that at that age!!! Especially when ny grandpa was around!!! But when we Lost him, i got closer to my Mom. Understanding her travel for the ARMY
I love you guys SO much. Please see and know that...please...I only want to help you. I know where you come from thanks to empathy, but leaving your kids so often to go live your celebrity-like lifestyle really does affect them. This is the time they need you both the most...filled with the memories you're going to miss one day, remember? I know you take your kids with you sometimes and see how stressful that can be, and then you use modern, dismissive humor to get through it...which is actually why you enjoy your adult-time so much and ultimately why the disconnection between you both & Larz and Josh were created. Random, yes, but I NEED you both to know that they loved, admired, and respected you guys so much...SO much. Now, Jack's heart is noticeably more understanding and hopeful...he knew you two at your very best and hangs on to that for dear life, but Sunny can literally and figuratively feel the distance and is over it. Please remind yourselves that you're both human and are here, on Earth, to learn. I hope you learn your lessons and come back to each other...to love...to God. I'll always be here to help if you want it...or need it. 🤍💜💚
@alishbaaaahmed740 Who're*** And I sincerely appreciate your interest, but this is a 'you know if you know' place to be. I hope you understand. Feel free to do your research, though. Just please remember to practice empathy. 🤍💜💚
@marylingwall5730 You may perceive it that way, which means you are unable to see what I'm actually doing, but that's okay. You will in time...one day. Staying stuck in pain (consciously, subconsciously, and even unconsciously) is wrong; accepting it and moving through truth is the only way out...however painful it might be. I love you. 🤍💜💚
You are such a BEAUTIFUL family! Entertaining and loving. It’s hard to decide if you were more breathtaking, red or blonde. One of my favorite funny videos was when Sunny came out with the dark hair. It was priceless. Hysterical.❤
She hasn't seen her for nearly a month it's really sad. If you can't cope with 2 toddlers use a condom and don't dump them on your husband who's just out of surgery because youre finding it "hard". I wish I had your hard life of filming, making a mint and what else? Oh that's right nothing.
But normal, just letting her know your love is there will improve her feelings. Maybe don't go anywhere for quite so long. I think 10 days is too long for her age. She will be back in your lap but will take awhile to trust again.
Jack has grown so much! He is such a sweet little boy! Such a nice personality. Sunny is cute as she can be. She is just not as interested in pleasing people as Jack is. Sarah your hair is so long!
My parents got the grandkids every other weekend while my sister-in-law was bartending. They bought a huge bunk bed so she could spend the night with them instead of heading home. Then she went to her day job she did on only Saturdays
I love it when other people say what other people say lol but yes your so right America has so many amazing things to see, an each state is like it’s our country lol
No. Kids don't think that way. They think concrete. Mom is gone? She is gone! Sunny was grieving her mom when she was gone and wiped her out of her mind to control the pain.
@@kmedat8476that is correct. Developmentally at her age that is all they are capable of processing. I’m not hating on her parents, that can do whatever they want but 10 days is too much for a child that age
That’s harsh. I tell you I know a lot of people who have to make trips and they have wonderful parents who will take up the slack and it’s OK. The children will be fine. Parents are doing very well adorable family. A lot of times my psychiatrist has told me people don’t allow children to grow up as quickly as they could. They tend to want to keep them close and baby as long as they can it’s a selfish thing, but who can help it when you have cute babies maybe that’s why some people have so many anyhow one of my psychiatrist has said that, we tend to coddle children longer than they need to be coddled that we need to just let them grow up like they’re supposed to. #choresforlittlepeople The hardest part for me in the video was Mom happened to realize what an impact that her trip had had on the baby! it takes convincing of the most sincere entreaties of love and smooches! Good luck mom! You’ve got this! Oh, and may God give you words!
Maybe Sunny reacted the way she did because when Jack came running in, it looks like Sunny was smiling & thinking he's comin' in for a big bro hug & he jumped over her to get to Derrick! She's smart & kids notice EVERYTHING. 🧐
Crazy comments! Don’t feel bad for going on a vacation- she’s fine! My toddlers always gave me the cold shoulder when I left them. Then they would get so crabby- it’s tough! Although I never got to go for 10 days
