What It's Like To Grow Up Gay And Black

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@shanice9094 7 лет назад

Black families can be so ignorant sometimes. My older brother is autistic and my mother thinks if she ignores it, it will go away.

@thecrazymuzician1 5 лет назад

wow, that's really sad

@L-mo 5 лет назад

Why do you think that has got anything to do with her skin color?

@KZAtooGood 5 лет назад

TubeYou ikr 🤔

@KZAtooGood 5 лет назад

Shanice M sorry tho

@steveabitante8220 5 лет назад

THEY'RE SOME ASHY NUESTROS HERMANOS 925 CORNBREAD!

@MrNotThatFamous 7 лет назад

if they dont accept you for you, then you have to remove yourself from that toxic situation.

@MJeditsx 7 лет назад

Mr Not That Famous Exactly.

@Johkah 7 лет назад

then move to africa

@EkcoEkco2k12 7 лет назад

Bryan Estep Lol even worse

@68stardreamerful 7 лет назад

not always that simple

@Whofuckencares808 7 лет назад

Typical Selfish previlaged American response. Never taking into account the culture and experiences of others.

@angelq3329 7 лет назад

Im Mexican and gay and raised in a very catholic family and till this day I'm 16 and I have not came out yet due to Im terrified of their reaction.

@shadane1436 7 лет назад

Angel Q sorry to hear that. I know how that feels

@unknownpersonlol5994 7 лет назад

Angel Q I do to

@AmiriAssasinn 7 лет назад

Angel Q omg Jorge I would have never thought you would do this to our family, Satanas gtfo my son

@spookyjays5222 7 лет назад

i hope you can one day find the courage to come out

@vanefloweer 7 лет назад

same with my sister

@SpikedCollar666 4 года назад

I’m black and straight and always tell homophobic men, that there’s nothing more gay than caring where another man puts his thing at.

@NOV123 3 года назад

Or don’t put his thing at. Bottoms don’t stick their thing anywhere

@SpikedCollar666 3 года назад

@@NOV123 lol

@enfolded_light Год назад

Facts 💯

@Oooo-bi7bi Год назад

Love it and going to borrow if that’s cool

@Joanna-ft6zd 7 лет назад

it is really harder in the black community .... sucks :(

@myweavewassnatcheda7059 7 лет назад

Joanna rhn I understand Evan know I'm white I'm from the Bronx

@Johkah 7 лет назад

no its not

@boredaf4721 7 лет назад

Bryan Estep You haven't grown up in a black family, have you?

@-chopper-1159 7 лет назад

Bryan Estep You sound like the whitest person that knows nothing lmao. It is different.

@reathruei2168 7 лет назад

Bryan Estep It is because black community's have a more regretful response to being gay than being white

@empressoraclevision 7 лет назад

the ignorance , y'all are focusing more on the title than the video's actual content.

@ZenithReach 7 лет назад

gwanael34 ...I mean, I don't need a disclaimer that says this isn't EVERYONE'S EXPERIENCE. That's obvious. These men are just telling you their perspective as black gay men. They are covering this topic probably because of the recent Additional Black and Brown stripes on the rainbow flag.

@ZenithReach 7 лет назад

Smøl Adonis I mean...it isn't necessarily that way.

@kennedyw2293 7 лет назад

Zenni Reach are you a black male? not even the queer part. just answer me that.

@epicmendez3817 7 лет назад

keatae whoooooooooooooooo dafaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa@aaaaak cares

@coastalmuffin8227 7 лет назад

Whos your god then?

@counter3352 7 лет назад

I am gay, I come from a black family, they are religious and when I came out to my dad he used to beat me daily and tell me I am dishonouring the family. It wasn't easy for me but things got better when I moved out, he still doesn't accept me to this day though. My mother was always a little more understanding but wasn't happy about it. Anyways if you are going through the same situation then just remember things are only going to get better.

@asarurereee8881 6 лет назад

Counter : Your story is proof that nuwbun/nubian homosexuals(lesbians and gays) need own tribe.

@chucke.cheese2212 6 лет назад

asarure reee :(

@izukumidyoria7081 5 лет назад

I just love my three boyfriends

@whyudoit4009 4 года назад

@ Theres no proof its only man and woman, GOD!

@Skyygems 7 лет назад

Being gay is one thing, but being a black male & gay is a whole different monster to confront & overcome.

@matimbantimane3170 6 лет назад

At 25 years old. African. In Africa right now. Just came out. And I'm happy for myself before anyone else cause I accept me, and I love me. Not that I'm selfish but everyone else in the world just love yourselves and don't let anyone fool you. Love is very personal, so protect yours first.

@winnietrending1367 5 лет назад

Good for you.

@Ibnou999 2 года назад

why are u geh ?

@themonsterwithin4000 Год назад

What country are you in? 😂

@thebiggerissue4453 7 лет назад

this is so nice, I'm bi and black.

@thebiggerissue4453 7 лет назад

Sarkastik Overlord then pls explain bi pan and aesxuality

@drake7462 7 лет назад

fangirl crazy being bisexual means you like only men and women. Pansexual means you don't really see any gender so you're attracted to men and women and trans and agender and just everyone

@thebiggerissue4453 7 лет назад

Favourite WorstNightmare i know! i was asking that idiot that said bisexuality doesn't exist

@drake7462 7 лет назад

fangirl crazy oh haha sorry them

@thebiggerissue4453 7 лет назад

Sarkastik Overlord you know you can't go around telling people thier sexuality, cause I'm pretty sure i like guys and girls. And I'm sorry you're so small minded it must be difficult

@Splendidjosh 7 лет назад

LITERALLY THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. SOME PEOPLE KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE GAY OR BE BLACK, BUT IN MY LIFE, THERE ARE FEW THAT CAN SAY THEY UNDERSTAND BOTH!!!

@nikolaneberemed 7 лет назад

Try actual education. You might like it.

@Trylica 5 лет назад

💙💙

@davidcollinson1849 7 лет назад

Do you have any idea how hard it is growing up white and straight.... not hard, it's been a breeze really. Respects to you guys

@indianbellydancer1 7 лет назад

Ctfu this comment omg

@francogodfrey7075 7 лет назад

Bruv, don't judge people based on their skin color or sexual orientation

@Dios7518 7 лет назад

thats because the white community is more tolerant towards minorities.

@rela424 7 лет назад

X-peon if the worst thing that has ever happened to you was being called racist then you have a pretty good life

@Dios7518 7 лет назад

im mexican and my life is pretty easy lol

@snorpleborp 7 лет назад

Im scared to say im gay to my parents... Its scaring me...

@pixzl2735 7 лет назад

Ayanna Wood Don't get scared and definitely don't listen to all the homophobics in the comment section. I know it's hard telling someone about it, but I promise you that it'll get better. Don't worry.

@emmysmith3651 7 лет назад

Come to me senpai ;-; no it won't get better if their parents are really homophobic though. If you feel unsafe, wait until you move out to come out.

@evaisnotcool676 7 лет назад

Ayanna Wood Only come out to them if you're 100% sure that they will support you because you shouldn't risk getting thrown out.

@lyonspreview7495 7 лет назад

Ayanna Wood stop being a wuss and just tell them

@indianbellydancer1 7 лет назад

I feel you, just know that you do actually have a support system here on RU-vid who understand. Maybe when you move out you can finally come out of the closet to your parents, that's what my bestfriend is doing. TBH you don't have to say anything to them at all, as a pansexual 20 year old, I came to the conclusion that everybody doesn't deserve closure and that I don't have to speak on everything.

@kendrax4853 7 лет назад

Friend: OMG HE IS SO CUTE!! Me: He is cute? Friend:oMG YESS Me: Ok then... #GrowingUpGay

@JK_JK_JK_JK 7 лет назад

#ItsAGayThing 👬

@whitehorse8558 7 лет назад

Kendra roblox and more k

@markoneill3719 7 лет назад

feel you

@charn33333 6 лет назад

Kendra Duh same

@JoyImohi21 7 лет назад

Haven't people heard of the movie moonlight? It is different being gay and black than gay and white!

@filipm3521 7 лет назад

Joy Imohi depends on where you're living. if you're gay and white in Russia that's worse than being gay and black in america. Also, being gay and white in very conservative families in the south, right here in the us might be harder than gay and black in LA. so location and CONDITIONS matter. privilege is not something you can apply to every member of a group. privilege is very much individual

@TheFallenAngelsDiary 7 лет назад

No, in all of those situation being white causes no problems, its just something that is. You can be and have problems but you don't have those problems BECAUSE you white.

@tacosmexicanstyle7846 6 лет назад

What is with America and it's damn race problems? I know some gay blacks who are loved in their families, I know some white gays who got kicked out of home. It has nothing to do with your race, it's about whether you're lucky enough to be in a caring home with accepting family members. Plenty of white people living in palaces wish their lives could be different.

@cedent.6909 5 лет назад

Joy Imohi omg that moving was sad from beginning to end

@reggied1676 4 года назад

@@tacosmexicanstyle7846 Black gay in USA aren't White gay in USA. Two different worlds. In the black community if you black and Gay the black community let's them know they aren't Black anymore. It's weird... the black community is not what you want to be gay in

@jasminef.4969 7 лет назад

Homophobic spelled backwards is cibohpomoh, and that makes no sense like some of y'all view. 😒💯 #GayPride #LoudnProud 😘🙌🌈❤

@Sarah-jz9fl 7 лет назад

Wow - a comment on this post that didn't make me want to bash my face against a wall. Kudos!

@mek86 7 лет назад

Its not homophobic to want people who are homosexual to seek help for their problem. Just come to terms with your problem and find a good psychologist

@Gorilladigold 7 лет назад

mek86.2 psychology no longer defines homosexuality as a mental illness or disorder, so the psychologist's job would be to help the individual cope with the discrimination that they face

@poppytree1909 7 лет назад

Jasmine F. Gay spelled backwards is yag. And that sounds nasty.

@mek86 7 лет назад

TwentyOne - obviously schizophrenia is an extreme case, but yes. Is you look at it at a scientific view point, the main goal of the reproductive system is to reproduce. You cannot do that with the same sex. Men and women are suppose to be attracted to each other to further the species and to continue on.

@AnselZeng 7 лет назад

Buzzfeed is my city.

@theniamonae 7 лет назад

Ansel Zeng 😂😂

@theniamonae 7 лет назад

Ansel Zeng jake paul

@NavyugCheema 7 лет назад

Ansel Zeng and I'm not from Compton

@hyabg4795 7 лет назад

BuzzFeed is not my city China

@unknowncommenter2099 7 лет назад

Ansel Zeng California is my city

@jenniferrico3914 7 лет назад

YOU CANT PRAY AWAY THE GAY ~Callie Torres

@adrii3449 7 лет назад

I know the struggle boo, but you just have to know that it's your life so no matter what they may say or think of you, just be who you truly are. You'll be so happy so be loved for who you truly are instead of being loved for someone who you're not

@oisinmurphy5322 7 лет назад

Be who you are and happy pride week

@Wattizdat 7 лет назад

Proud of all of those people! It's nice of them to talk about their situation, can't be easy for everyone so it's always awesome to have some kind of guidance on subjects like that!

@xcreateofficial 7 лет назад

One of these people are going to make a "why I left buzzfeed" video .......

@sigh.2382 5 лет назад

I'm a gay black teen that's now accepted by my own family. Thank God, I'm blessed. I fear for the future though. I have no friends and no one to love at the moment, so I'm kinda stuck. 🙁 I'm sure I'll figure something out though..

@melaninprincess.5237 5 лет назад

sigh. we should be friends

@sigh.2382 5 лет назад

@@melaninprincess.5237 sure! Why not

@NOV123 3 года назад

But, I’m sure they talk bad about you behind your back

@Meeshilin_Man 2 месяца назад

@@NOV123 And?

@MrNivea2010 7 лет назад

Videos like these always make me tear up

@jae2O 7 лет назад

Thank you for making this video. Means a lot to me.

@jae2O 7 лет назад

Sarkastik Overlord what the hell do you mean. Growing up a queer person of colour is hard. They are highlighting this fact.

@chucke.cheese2212 6 лет назад

MemeQwing Exactly

@nia4212 5 лет назад

I actually don’t wanna tell my parents

@gemmapartridge2229 7 лет назад

I love this I'm not gay but I'm a big supporter of people that are and my favorite character is Magnus bane from shadowhunters

@andiman44 5 лет назад

Gemma Partridge Best character in the series if you ask me

@La_zest 7 лет назад

This inspires me

@La_zest 7 лет назад

The fact that there are others like me, that's what inspires me.

@myweavewassnatcheda7059 7 лет назад

Jason Mori u go

@La_zest 7 лет назад

The RU-vid community is great, huh?

@getthecoolshoeshinelol7922 7 лет назад

*high fives*

@jafarrihbeauty3345 7 лет назад

Jason Mori same

@sahand3793 7 лет назад

nope still haven't told my parents that I'm gay because of my rligent and every time I show my mom a gay couple she says she hate them and they're gross soooooo no

@sahand3793 7 лет назад

at least not yet

@shadane1436 7 лет назад

sahand jamal i'm in the same boat :(

@jafarrihbeauty3345 7 лет назад

sahand jamal same

@sahand3793 7 лет назад

+xXJefferyLeeXx ai it ok to ask what's your rligent? Mine is muslim

@Imnotallergictopeanuts 6 лет назад

sahand jamal if I were you, I’d wait until I’m able to move out because being in a Muslim household and being gay doesn’t sound to great.

@jimnzz4998 7 лет назад

Sometimes i ask myself why am i subscribed to buzzfeed, then i remember that the Worth It series is all that i look forward too

@nathanielalonso7926 7 лет назад

I'll pray for these guys hope they can get it together and there life gets better.

@HolyBiscuit69 7 лет назад

Growing up straight, white and privilledged

@jrobi501 7 лет назад

HolyBiscuit69 amen

@ConstantGains 7 лет назад

HolyBiscuit69 you must be rich

@2012summr 7 лет назад

Idk why i laughed

@OhManItsMadan 7 лет назад

Someone A WHITE STRAIGHT MAN IS RICH?

@dahtguyyouknow5268 7 лет назад

HolyBiscuit69 why do you think you're privileged, because there are more white people in America. giving the white guy a higher chance of hitting the lottery. not because of the things that happened over 200 years ago. and being straight does not give you privilege either. gays have just as many rights as you. even the lgb, I don't even care any more. also I'm not a slave I'm a free brown teenager who can almost do whatever he wants with the same opportunity as anybody else.

@diamondmaddox6139 5 лет назад

Being a black gay woman has actually made me stronger. It has also made me are people more for who they are, than what they look like, date, class, etc.

@ilovepiedoyou2 7 лет назад

Carl talks so softly and he seems like such a kind soul :') also i love his style... he just seems like such a cool guy

@andramrose123 7 лет назад

I love the fact that none of them let their sexuality or skin color define them. ☺️

@emmysmith3651 7 лет назад

Andra Rose they literally just made a video about being black and gay... the video was great, and they had every right to make it, but your comment kind of goes exactly against what they were talking about

@andramrose123 7 лет назад

Ellie Wirth how does it go against what they were talking about? One of the guys mentioned how he was more than just his skin color or sexuality. I am commemorating how each of these men talked about how they were more than their skin color and sexuality, like that one dude talking about he was an athlete, which was different from the stereotype of gay men. I'm sorry, but my comment had everything to do with this video.

@morishakalyan6100 7 лет назад

Awww I remember when carl did a video way back with his girlfriend and he just looked like he was just sooo scared to be his true self. I'm so glad to see him grow and be accepting of himself 💗

@KingTriton1837 5 лет назад

I'm a gay black man. My dad and his side of the family is the worst. It's okay to be a womanizer and to watch porn, as long as it's straight. But it's never okay to be gay and be in love with someone who has a penis like you. 🙄 My mom, sister and a host of cousins (male and female) have been nothing short of supportive. I think the way some black Americans think is generational. My dad's father was a preacher and he was against homosexuality.... even though he was bisexual.

@princetv6563 3 года назад

It be like that

@daldan28 7 лет назад

the man in the hat is just beautiful...i felt every word. wow!

@ravenmagpiie 7 лет назад

This video is amazing, and I think it's brings up hella important things

@tmalone2530 5 лет назад

Man being gay and black was hell growing up

@LPhooligan 7 лет назад

what about gay and Hispanic I'm sure they go through difficulties aswell

@bltches 6 лет назад

That's not the topic of the video. Next

@dumbbitch4264 6 лет назад

Not as much. Trust me. Argentina, Chile, Portugal, Brazil and Spain are very progressive

@goldenthemerciless5669 6 лет назад

damn, can black people get a moment without nonblack poc jumping in??

@Tdhydfbbjjr 6 лет назад

ザイキン tea

@eliboy1819 6 лет назад

I'm a black Hispanic. Shocking right. Hispanic isn't a race it's a culture.

@andrealuders9426 7 лет назад

"You can do it...Now go do it..make us all proud" made me so Happy.. He actually sounded like Oprah.

@keewee9875 7 лет назад

Whoops I cried lmao, this vid is amazing 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@BenBennett94 3 года назад

Wait till you, if you decide to enter corporate America as a gay black men. That s going to be challenge as well.

@fjellyo3261 5 лет назад

Freddy Mercury is proud of you guys!

@someone-go8ee 7 лет назад

If it's possible, can Buzzfeed give out the full length of each interview. I feel like i can't fully invest in each person's individual experience if it keeps jumping to the next.

@flatsharewebseries4117 5 лет назад

Wow, this is so great, thank you guys for posting it. This is why I created this webseries, as a gay Black man in London, I felt that I was underrepresented in media. I would love it if you could give it a watch and tell me what you think about it? 🌈💜

@Pro-fx3on 18 дней назад

As a Black Man from Kenya, I wanna say the Black LGBTQ community has my love and whole admiration. Yes being Black and Gay is hard but it’s a BLESSINGS, LGBTQ is better when your black especially 🖤🏳️‍🌈💪🏾🏳️‍⚧️ I love my Handsome Black Kings and Beautiful Black Queens never change for nobody 💪🏿💪🏾🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🖤

@Yugvijay 7 лет назад

Ah! I love this kind of buzzfeed videos. They get people together and inspire so many! Keep it up buzzfeed. *I also make video though and I just released a video about gay marriages myself too.*

@Yugvijay 7 лет назад

❤

@Yugvijay 7 лет назад

😀

@imafun-gi3107 7 лет назад

I read your comment and I think it's so sweet but then I get to the end and realize you were just trying to advertise your video....

@AW33406 7 лет назад

Yugvijay no buzzfeed is bad very bad

@jsilk2 7 лет назад

this isnt inspiring its propaganda

@SilkyC 7 лет назад

I'm black, and I have a son and a daughter (3 & 5) - and I pray every single day that if they are gay or lesbian that they tell me. that hey are not afraid of how I will react. I see nothing wrong with it and it pains me when I hear stories of parents being disappointed in their child because of their sexual preferences. I was raised in a religious home, and my husband was raised in a VERY religious home so I am more fearful of how our parents and how HE will react IF it happens because I know personally I could care less who you fall in love with. Love is love is love damn it!!!!!

@elkstrooper4651 4 года назад

SilkyC hey

@natnicgle 7 лет назад

Don't be proud of being gay. don't be proud of being black don't be proud of being straight don't be proud of being white just be proud of being you

@datsko6339 7 лет назад

Nichlas Gjeding but I AM white and I AM straight

@natnicgle 7 лет назад

Datsko what I mean is. you don't have to associate yourself as a certain type of person. just be happy about who you are

@Imnotallergictopeanuts 6 лет назад

I agree

@noahwainwright4774 7 лет назад

Why are there so many dislikes. I am neither black nor gay but I can respect both groups of people. I like hearing these stories from these men.

@charlesr2189 7 лет назад

I wanna see "what it's like to grow up gay in the middle east"

@bunnyhop6911 7 лет назад

they get thrown over rooftops

@erichampton6492 6 лет назад

They're around, if you're sincere in that desire.

@njferns 7 лет назад

OMG Carl! Preach! When you teared up, I did too. 💓

@ewaaaewaaa9675 7 лет назад

24 views and 119 likes, Well done RU-vid...

@annagroesbeck9673 7 лет назад

I understand you with being Mormon. My family is Mormon and I went to girls camp this past week. What my family doesn't know is I'm not Mormon but soul searching, I'm bigender not cis female, and I'm pansexual and dating my best friend.

@jasonmonette4516 7 лет назад

This is the most buzzfed title ever

@supreme7253 4 года назад

Hispanic and gay and half. Straight am I even my self It feels like I’ve split into two different worlds but I’ve recovered I’m straight but I support the gays no matter what my friend is gay and I love her for who she is

@fapnormous6483 7 лет назад

Reminds of a really cool guy I know. He is winning in the Fashion Industry! Timbo Minkailu I love you!!!

@haninabidii 7 лет назад

I'm a 15 year old bisexual I just don't care about gender, religion, race or anything because I fall in love with the person not with 'labels' (u know what i mean) But.. since I'm muslim my family would NEVER be okay with that and that kind of gave me depression bc i couldn't open up to them But now I'm happily in a relationship with my girlfriend who hears me out and who i opened up to.. plus i have the BEST and most supportive friends ever.. ❤️i just felt like i need to tell you that even tho u don't care lol

@samk5403 7 лет назад

This is beautiful

@dantheman192 7 лет назад

This is why I hate channels like buzzfeed because they bring in sexuality race and religion to define who you are not peoples personalities and talents. Why does someone have to be a black gay man can't they just be a man who happens to be gay and black. I'm not a gay person I'm just a person who happens to be gay

@JK_JK_JK_JK 7 лет назад

#ItsAGayThing 👬

@BigDawwg213 4 года назад

I got labeled gay growing up it was hard and difficult to have a life and dating was horrible it gets harder as you get older nothing like that ever leaves you I can totally relate😔😔😔😔

@jadelecharmed3093 5 лет назад

0:53 he sounds like peppermint the drag queen

@dylanopium1874 7 лет назад

Im black and gay and i was raised by a family that doesnt care what sexuality you are, but the person that you become who does the right things in life

@tapokVkefire 7 лет назад

When a guy said his parents were super catholic, you showed a Russian Orthodox Church

@Jordan-eo8pt 7 лет назад

Saying its worse to be black and gay is like saying its worse to be black with a headache

@slimmboy07 3 месяца назад

I'm assuming you are non black. So it is easy for you to try to compare two things that have nothing to do with the other. It is not like saying its harder to be black with a headache. Culturally gay in black communities is looked at more viciously than in other cultures. The same way it is worse to be gay in Jamaica than it is in America. It is a crime in Jamaica, whole towns beat and kill homosexuals. You can't compare apples and oranges. (Your statement diminishes our experience)

@richcarp3538 7 лет назад

MAKE US ALL PROUD

@mtownboi4ya 6 лет назад

Being black and gay sucks. It's really does. Not only do you have to go through the black struggle, you are rejected by black folk too. When my mom found out about me, she said she love me, but made sure I knew I was going to hell. My dad was in the household too. He rarely speaks to me now. I'm not ostracized. I can come to holiday dinners, and that is the few times I talk to my family

@anithegreat6632 7 лет назад

Now do growing up straight and white...

@vampyreabyss 7 лет назад

Its Buzzfeed I'm pretty sure they won't make a video about that. They pretty much hate any white straight males.

@nalinh0 7 лет назад

wow I bet that must be really tough

@danx7895 7 лет назад

Jonathan Telles You sound pretty racist to me, not actually but I just wanted to show you the hypocresy and how one sided you are

@fllowerknight 7 лет назад

Uh straight white people were never hurt, so, no 🙃

@myweavewassnatcheda7059 7 лет назад

jamiewkfarrell lol I was a white girl in the Bronx that was hard

@blythe8948 7 лет назад

Hey buzzfeed how about growing up gay while being an only child in a very strict christian family and with homophobic parents?

@samkhaleidia5964 7 лет назад

23 views and 26 likes Go home youtube, you're drunk again

@derranlawston4052 7 лет назад

Sam Khaleidia they don't count the view until someone leaves..

@Trund27 6 лет назад

I love all of these guys.

@ilonabadeaux8875 7 лет назад

I do not know how I would feel if my grandson would be gay.I would love him but it would be hard for me .but I would never hurt him,

@narutofanere 7 лет назад

Ilona Badeaux why would it be hard for you?

@ilonabadeaux8875 7 лет назад

Because of my religion.I love you but I cannot accept your way.

@tacosmexicanstyle7846 6 лет назад

If you can't accept it then that doesn't sound like unconditional love. Unfortunately people especially throw around this concept of "I disagree with your life but I love you." To us this is quite feeble and valueless. It becomes more work to maintain a relationship with this type of person than benefit is derived. I should expect anyone on the receiving end of this reasoning to look elsewhere for love, in which case you might find yourself with a crumbling family should this situation ever arise.

@Imnotallergictopeanuts 6 лет назад

As long as you respect your grandson and don’t condemn him then of course you can have your own opinion, if you don’t hurt or insult him. Just know that not everyone is religious but you can always find balance within respect.

@anthonyamiewalan5596 6 месяцев назад

This is a great video. If anyone is looking for a book that speaks to this experience, I have a book recommendation for you. Eddie & Alan is written by black gay author Anthony Amiewalan. It sheds light on the complexities of relationships between men, the fluidity of sexuality, and what happens when the lines are blurred.

@GoodGuyBolt 7 лет назад

That was inspiring. I wanna be a helicopter 🙂

@cromnia-1199 5 лет назад

Is that suppose to be funny :|

@lornasus-8228 Год назад

@@cromnia-1199 yeah

@Georgeee1231 6 лет назад

The way the MAJORITY of black parents treat their gay children is completely appalling. Here in my country, gay black guys never even usually ‘come out’.

@danacampbell1986 7 лет назад

Oh boy Buzzfeeds at it again

@autumn7809 7 лет назад

Nice profile pic

@GiaDiamond4 7 лет назад

At what again?

@2012summr 7 лет назад

forreal lol

@Blackvoid2me 7 лет назад

Let's see bisexual black people Buzzfeed. Make it happen! Great vid by the way.

@agenda5437 7 лет назад

Where's Sky Williams?

@kensmith7832 7 лет назад

he insulted buzz feed and MTV so he won't be shown lol.

@agenda5437 7 лет назад

o LOL

@nowpanna 7 лет назад

will there be a video w womxn!? :) thanks

@piratecat5314 7 лет назад

Respect

@pamcapone9695 7 лет назад

My heart aches for those struggling. I stand with the LGBTQ community.

@Wolfgasm0414 7 лет назад

Could it possibly get any worse?

@Alex_Gorell 7 лет назад

Wolf Sings black gay and vegan.

@deyoncew3311 7 лет назад

Wolf Sings black gay and a woman

@derranlawston4052 7 лет назад

Draco Tega lol, black women have it easy being gaay, y'all are praised. if a gurl holds another girls hand no one cares, girls can be more fluid in their sexulaty than men

@biggiecheese9708 5 лет назад

I don’t get how being gay makes your voice change.

@NOV123 3 года назад

Low testosterone

@brettmcdermott0524 7 лет назад

Welcome to Liberalfeed.

@rioeiokha9653 6 лет назад

ii HD R3MiXx more like AIDSfeed

@taytaybeynippy486 6 лет назад

It's actually TriggerRepublicansFeed

@BLUEOHIO 6 лет назад

As older white gay guy I want dated black men and met some very loving black men and black men loves me kissing and cuddling them that I enjoy sad most black men i been with are married but one day I'll meet a caring top black guy to share my life with love and caring

@elkstrooper4651 4 года назад

Ed Camp hey

@charlotte3115 7 лет назад

I'm white, cisgender and proud! **patiently waits for people to be offended**

@rustyshakleford1277 7 лет назад

Im so out of touch with modern lingo that i dont even know what cisgender even means, does it mean someone who is...you know....normal?

@erichampton6492 6 лет назад

Get a life. Smh

@Imnotallergictopeanuts 6 лет назад

The only thing I’m offended about is your face, you could have easily replaced that doll Annabelle in that movie.

@delightk 6 лет назад

Charlotte Casey real men only date cis women.

@taysim2343 6 лет назад

Rusty Shakleford please don't say that. I know that you probably don't know what you're saying is offensive but saying that cis people are "normal" implies that trans, non-binary, etc, are not and are simply not true. People who happen to be different from you are still "normal" at least when used in the same context as you. I hope you understand that I'm not trying to throw shade, I'm just explaining☺☺☺

@patrickchula 7 лет назад

My family is probably the only whites family at our church. Black church. My parents are both deacons. It's been 3 years since bishop gave a homophobic sermon. I haven't gone back, it's because the cheers made me sick to my stomach. To turn around and see families with whom we have fellowship cheering hatred of gays....made me feel sick. I can't imagine to grow up black and gay. Stay strong guys.

@naliswara1256 7 лет назад

Is it just me or do I wanna BuzzFeedPride (plz make one BuzzFeed)

@JackSmith-fr2od 7 лет назад

Nali Swara buzzfeed is cancer

@naliswara1256 7 лет назад

Andrew Breslin true but maybe it would be better

@spudhufer 7 лет назад

Good on you. Stay strong.

@cgoiq19 7 лет назад

Warren had the best moment of this video, which was, hand pointed at the camera, "I think I'm *gay*, dad!" I had to watch that again, haha

@jacktully5651 7 лет назад

Next should be growing up as a straight white male.

@JK_JK_JK_JK 7 лет назад

Yeah because they have it so bad! 😒

@NN-jl6td 7 лет назад

😂😂

@jrobi501 7 лет назад

Jay Kay they do

@Tuindwergje 7 лет назад

J Moore I mean they could have it very tough, but they have it the relative easiest of all groups. Some of them have it tough, but for every bad situation a white straight male is born in, someone of a minority background is born in the same situation but has these disadvantages added onto it.

@Symposeum 7 лет назад

+Jay Kay Straight white men do have it bad. You know sunburn really hurts, right?

@Oooo-bi7bi Год назад

It’s similar in the UK unfortunately. I’m white but prefer black guys. So have seen the brick wall my ex’s have faced. I’m working class and from an area that is very macho. I learned to adapt that much that I have had to have arguments with close straight friend guys when I tell them. Partners tell me they like me because I’m straight acting whatever that means. Somehow we have been oppressed that much as communities that we have evolved into oppressing ourselves.

@moller777 7 лет назад

I was having a great day until I saw this

@hulujuju5051 6 лет назад

MoLlEr 7 When I see you, my day goes bad

@jamesbarratt6922 7 лет назад

oh no buzzfeed u just keep coming with surprises......

@adriancastillo5812 7 лет назад

It's hard being a non binary Apache attack helicopter every one is misgendering me as a jet and it triggers me this is why we need feminism

@lukabazina3618 7 лет назад

Same with me only I am a toaster.

@iminavegetativestatestudio1730 7 лет назад

adrian castillo lmao

@adog3147 7 лет назад

Can you guys get some new jokes, or do you still find this 2 year old copy-pasted attack helicopter meme actually funny?

@xiaolinsmith858 7 лет назад

just because a person doesn't date in high school doesn't mean they are gay. at the moment I'm straight and I've never been in a relationship before. and I'm 21.