What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Marriage Summit 2022 | Kingsley Okonkwo 

The issue is, everyone wants the right person but they don't ask themselves if they are right for the right person. Unless we start teaching people to examine themselves and stop directing them to look at others,we will have a selfish society like now. Marry the right person, the question is, are you right for the right person because a lot of wrong people desire the right persons also and will never look at their bad characters.

Going through a breakup, for a reason that I don't know. I asked him to stop having flatousous comments on fb on a girls post, and he called me illusional and insecure. Then breaks up with me. It's quite hard, but I put my trust in God, and I know he will soon bless me with the wonderful man I've been and still praying for.

Going through a heartbreak 💔 now I know I was never the problem. God will bring the right one this time 🙏 because God my heart is always open to find that husband of my youth

My father left us for 16 years now. It was no pressure but greed. It affected me and its still affecting me. I am always scared of being alone. I never got the expected love I deserved when growing up till now. It affected my mum badly at the early years of him leaving us. So mommy benched her anger and depression on me, which made my relationship with her poor. Growing up, especially as a first born and daughter, without a father badly have an effect. It hurts more knowing he's alive somewhere having a life with another woman. May God help us. Thank you sir for this powerful message. God bless you and more Grace 🙌🏾🙌🏾

My helper, your teaching have helped me, l wrote my marital messages earlier and why l am here to day because your teaching has changed my life. My husband left me 10 years ago gust what? He voluntarily returned yesterday! Jesus Christ my Lord! My master my conference. I applied your teaching in practice and he called me yesterday we have not spoken for 10 years. He moved to Maryland but he flew into Minnesota yesterday just because of me. He will be in my house this morning at 11:00 AM just to round up our reconciliation and work on our children businesses. I am glad l watched and puts your advice in to practice and today l will no longer file for my divorce. I am more happier and praising God for allowing yours sacrifice. Remain blessed.

As a Christian youth living in a crooked world, it's necessary to get such content instilled in us all the time🙏Thank you for this knowledge Pastor Kingsley.

There is love"the feeling" and there is love"the commitment". Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley 🙏🙏🙏

Don't marry who you love but love who you marry. Thus your love belongs to the category of #love the commitment#

I was hurt broken bt hearing this it healed my hurt....I will choose wisely thenks man of God

I will marry my best friend in Jesus name, Amen! 🙏🏻

too much knowledge,thank you for allowing God through you to give us this needful teachings

Oh lord. This man is telling the absolute truth. I was married for 11years and from this I could point out why our marriage failed.

Love must be mutual, and Real Love is committed!❤

Well said pastor K. I almost made the greatest mistake in marrying the wrong person.

Dec 2022 I'm marrying my best friend thankyou Jesus 😍😍😍😍😍

I'm so scared of marriage but i think I need to give it a trial after all these lessons God please help me out

Going through a heartbreak because of prophecies that we are not meant to be life partner... we love each other so much but coz of prophecies words we are going through tough time please pray for me us to restore again our relationship🙏 8years relationship is not easy to overcome..🥹😢

Thank you so much Pst. Kingsley. Even a layman can understand your teachings. The Simplicity in your illustration drives it home. More grace be multiplied unto you.❤❤️

This is so profound! If you are single and you prayerfully apply this teaching, you're marriage can work 👌🏾 God bless and keep your home P.K!

Can't believe m watching this again... Now I know how to behave in a relationship, when a brother comes to me I can be able to identify eros from filomina n agape. I no longer make mistakes now. Lemme use this to help the rest also Thank you pastor K Much love from Uganda 🇺🇬

Man of God l am glad to be online and listen to this wonderful eyes opener. My husband left me with our 4 children without consideration. In 2012 till date he’s still on exit. I am in United States of America the situations are not easy for us.

God grant me grace to have a right father for my unborn children

This is truly the best, most eye-opening lecture I have ever heard (and watched) about the topic of true, committed love. I finally understand the difference between true love and fake love (temporary sexual attraction). I never understood the true importance of friendship (philios) in a romantic relationship before. The order of importance is: 1. agape, 2. philios, and 3. eros. Thank you Pastor. I greatly appreciate your teaching us the truth to living a happy life in a happy marriage. You are making a positive difference in peoples lives. Thank you for teaching us the difference and doing God’s work. May God bless you over abundantly Pastor. I will watch and listen to this lecture multiple times and share it with everyone I know. Your message needs to be understood by everyone.

This can only be God! Thank you Pastor K for this enlightenment on what love really entails

You're a blessing to our generation. Your words are tested and trusted ❤️🤗

Going through a break I don’t know what I did , he started seeing another girl and was covering it up, but God opened my eyes and I was able to see the real him , believing God for my own man 🙏

Blessing on you and your family.

Love is not a feeling but a commitment u make

Thank you pastor k, for this teaching, It has practically rewired /deprogrammed and recalibrated my priorities about life, dating, marraige and Destiny. Thank You so much sir. by the way, i am an ardent follower.

U are really good at what you do. U and your wife are such a blessing to our generation. More grace sir

Liked the video before watching, you and your wife have been a blessing in my life and marriage. I appreciate you sir, may God continue to bless the work of your hands🙏🏿

😮too much knowledge,thank you for allowing God through you to give us this needful teachings

“You can’t be motivating someone to go with you, they just want to themselves. There will come a time where everyone will need to motivate themselves to keep going” True for all relationships I think

This is the best of Pastor K's teaching. Wow 🎉❤

Wow,this is so powerful, thank God I've received the message before getting married,Dear Lord,help me get married to my best friend in Jesus name.🙏

Pst K is a blessing to this generation... I'm blessed Sir 🙂

Thank God for the word. This is the third message I am listening to today from Pastor King and I must say God is speaking with me through you. Understanding these things makes you less stressful. God bless you, Papa

Loved the illustration using the 3 volunteers, it was 3mendous

This message is timely

Love is Committed...One's person's love cannot sustain a marriage. Love must be mutual. Thank you pastor K for always sharing profound truths and illustrating it in such a simple way for our understanding

Love is the foundation of relationship, don't marry who u love,marry who love you .u can't love two people,but u can be attached to two people,love is a commitment, marriage is a long journey

I’m literally in tears seeing this message’ cos I’m 23yrs now and I haven’t had a father since 23yrs of my life’ honestly the part you said doing live alone got so emotional cos you literally talked me 😩😩.

When the pressures of life comes....they will succumb to their father 🔥🔥🔥

Love is so broad that sometimes it is only God that can see us through love is a beautiful thing when we are not self center.

Marriage is built on love “the commitment “

God bless Sir for opening your eyes

Never heard the different types of love taught this way. Thanks PK!

Marrying your bestie is everything

Thank you so much pastor k.

May God connect me to the right man,,I’m really tired of being cheated on,,so help me God

l am so blessed 👌charm is deceitful, beauty fades but the woman that fears the LORD is to be praise...

Almost all the ladies sat at the same area. When they ought to mingle. At least build friendship. Ride on pastor. God bless you. Your teachings is life.

So profound!!💎🔥🔥 May the Lord continue to bless and enrich you MOG with His divine knowledge as you bless your world In Jesus name sir🙏🏼.

Looking for a father in every man. This is exactly what is affecting me. I grew up not having a fatherly love, and have never called anyone daddy.

Thank you Lord for this message and thank you pastor for saving many people In relationships. More Grace Sir

I have been alot of break ups in my love story...till am giving up in matters dealing with love...God please just bless me with the right partner just make me happy again surely God

Words of wisdom ❤

Thank you sir

Thank God for this knowledge Pastor K God bless you......I pray I marry my friend and the right person.

I will get it right in marriage! Amen!!!

Watching live from Zambia

Love is a commitment.

This Message is Sooooooooooooooooo Goooooood!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thankyou for these messages. I wish i had heard them earlier. its too late for me as i chose wrong & the marriage didn't even last 2 years, but I will teach my daughter how to get it right.

Sir, you are a master communicator and counsellor. We thank God for you.

Lord help me achieve my dreams and direct my path to put in practice the teaching of pst K.O . I pray to marry my friend ,Lord help us to build our marriage more stronger as we grow and bond together .

Thank you so much for this insightful message. I really learnt a lot from it.

You are a blessing to God's nation. You really know your story. Impressive.... More wisdom sir!

I will get it right in my marriage in Jesus name. Amen.......

Wow extremely powerful sermon 🔥🔥🔥 this is enlightenment at its best ....I'm blessed to have come across this sermon

Thank Pst.Kingsley....God bless you Sir

Is always a blessing listening to you Dad/mum K.

God bless you pastor!!!! Thanks so much for your teaching you just give me strength and more hope 🙏 God keep give you strength and wisdom to keep reaching more people 🙏

Listing to you has be a blessing to me this all what young people are going through this in the of love

I'm very much blessed with this message, God bless you Sir.

God bless you Pst Okonkwo

True marriage is lifetime commitment, other than other commitment and assignments

One ☝️ of the best relationships illustration. It’s sooo spot on 👌👌👌👌👌👌

Thank you so much Pastor 🙇‍♀️

Getting wisdom daily from you sir thank you🙏🙏🙏

Good bless you pastor Kingsley for this wisdom.

Thank u very much Sir, I luv ur grace and have learned so much I really appreciate

Heart 😢😢breaken

Prayer, patience and honesty

Thank you PK. More anointing sir.

I learned a lot from this teaching,two types of love, love in feeling and love in commitment. thanks you pastor k for the teaching, God bless you sir

This wisdom is straight from heaven. Wow! Thank you Sir! 🎉🎉🎉

Thanks Daddy Kinsley for this deep secret of marriage and relationship and above all thanks for helping this generation 🙏🙏🙏

Answers I have been looking for God bless you Sir

You are the best teacher and a counsellor

Wowooooo this explanation is so clear and understandable ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Ur teachings are inspirationals and encouraging. Remain blessed sir

Thank you for this message, sir. God bless you. ✅️

I'm amazed by such touching message 😩❤️

Wow, this is very insightful.

Great teaching. I've been blessed

Omg this is for me. I really wished i came acrossed this like 2months ago. But many lessons learnt though. Lord am grateful 🙏 thank you pastor K for this master piece 🙏

Blessed by your teachings pst k

This is a great advice and message. It makes me almost shed tears 😢 😭 it's so touching 😢 😊

Thank you Pastor K! God bless you for your anointed words...