7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do | Kingsley Okonkwo

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"I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do".
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@emastephen2607 11 месяцев назад

7 Mistakes. 1. Not Cultivating or Building Friendship 2. Not having clarity or vision. 3. Not having mentors 4. Having sex before marriage . 5. Waiting to Have all the Money before you Marry. 6. Playing House 7. No premarital counselling

@faithhope4703 11 месяцев назад

Thanks 🔥

@created2inspire459 11 месяцев назад

GOD bless you. I wanted someone to summarise quickly

@Minister--pat 10 месяцев назад

I never knew all this things...now I know,,,my God.. Thank you...

@lydiaopare5157 9 месяцев назад

@rejoiceahaiwe1501 7 месяцев назад

Please sir, How can this be corrected😢

@rossyprim2336 10 месяцев назад

Number one- Not building friendship proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times Build your friendship Number two- Not having clarity Proverbs 29:18 Not having vision the people perish Number three- Not having mentors proverbs 31:1 Accountability is key Number four- Having sex before marriage Sex affects intimacy, respect, trust, good behaviour. Number five- waiting to have the money before marriage Number six- Playing house meaning moving in together, it reduces respect, motivation, anticipation, it brings challenges.Proverbs 25:17 Number seven- They don't do premarital counselling.proverbs 15:22 Doing premarital counselling greatly reduces the chance of failing.

@Irene_Ogada06 2 месяца назад

God bless you ❤

@obaalinda8360 2 месяца назад

God bless you more okay

@soulmatesempire 11 месяцев назад

True, some churches don’t talk about marriage and relationship. Which is very bad

@haroldmartin3652 5 месяцев назад

I really truly would like to get all of your book on relationship & marriage because I really truly want my second marriage to be very successful for a very long time

@missnuti 11 месяцев назад

Please do another video telling us how to correct these mistakes. When you are already in the relationship

@kevinonsale5662 9 месяцев назад

True

@priscilliamaiyeko3626 7 месяцев назад

We really need this…

@samthecreator10 7 месяцев назад

You stop it. And have meaningful conversations and put God first in the relationship. That's how.

@chelumwenifumbo9983 6 месяцев назад

I believe its practicing the opposite of these 7 mistakes.

@chelumwenifumbo9983 6 месяцев назад

For instance if you been having sex with your partner, bring a stop to that.

@abigaildoraa 3 месяца назад

7 mistakes dating couples make. 1. Not building friendship (prov. 17:17) TPT .... If ure not touching each other, can you spend quality time together easily? 2. Not having clarity (prov. 29:18)... What are we doing? Where are we going? What's the plan? When are we planning to get married? How do we work towards it? 3. Not having mentors (prov. 31:1)MSG... have distant mentors and close mentors. Accountability is key. Let there be people that can counsel both of you. 4. Having sex ... kissing never satisfies, it brings the fire .. create boundaries... Sex before marriage affects intimacy. Sex affects the trust because the person that cheats with you will cheat on you. Sex brings disrespect. It dishonors God. 5. Waiting to have all the money before you marry. 6. Playing house. Moving in together before the time. It affects commitment. Prov. 25:17 7. Not doing pre-marital counseling. Love is never enough. Pre marital counseling ensures safety for both parties.

@naongakalumbi8670 11 месяцев назад

I've been in a relationship and lonely before. Definitely being "married and lonely" must be worse

@agnesamitamasinde 7 месяцев назад

His teachings blessed my life. It helped me know what marriage is. It enabled me choose the right man.❤🙏

@NZB89 11 месяцев назад

Well done MOG

@kesienaemefe4582 11 месяцев назад

Every single person has to see this message 👏👏 I feel so blessed after watching this

@michelleadebiyi2341 11 месяцев назад

i love ur books❤️‍🔥🤲🏾,thank you for this video too and many more you’ve uploaded!

@asunganyirose 9 месяцев назад

This has really blessed me

@_QueenBell 4 месяца назад

This was so good! Had me cracking up too 😂

@kwobsiemarius9613 11 месяцев назад

Pastor K ans his Kingso Kingso story is evergreen. Everything I listen to it i still enjoy jt

@paulzerina 8 месяцев назад

Wonderful Teaching!❤

@amarachimonicachristian7142 7 месяцев назад

Thank you sir... more anointing

@EAtoons 3 месяца назад

Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it. This is where true beauty comes in! Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. ✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart ✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate ✨ if you waited for change & none came it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you. You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly

@breatheeleganceheart-talk 11 месяцев назад

This is profound! Especially 3 and 7... young people don't seek knowledge anymore until they encounter problems in the marriage and most times its already too late.

@ApiyoKevin-oq7fb 7 месяцев назад

Am really so blessed by this message

@faithsamuel7553 11 месяцев назад

God bless you sir for this message 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@EverydayAfriTV 11 месяцев назад

This is lovely ❤

@chelumwenifumbo9983 6 месяцев назад

My mentor. Thank you for the teaching.

@obenamaduprince608 10 месяцев назад

I like the way he says "are you here somebody"😅

@iam-paulvocal 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much sir for the advice

@BlessingIhemekwelem 4 месяца назад

Thanks for these wise teaching...

@sarahkumi 11 месяцев назад

Thank you sir.🎉

@adebanjomayowa3844 6 месяцев назад

God Bless You For This Message Sire!!!

@debbiemumba3040 11 месяцев назад

I'm so encouraged by the message this video just popped up at random. 😊

@tiygabaya1838 8 месяцев назад

God Bless you sir for this message 🙏🙏🙏

@OACTSPodcast 10 месяцев назад

Listening to Pastor K is bliss! Second time this video has popped up and it's so fresh like a reminder

@peacegelwanmiwilfred7177 11 месяцев назад

Knowledge is truly powerful... Thank you pastor K for saying yes to Jesus, listening to you and your wife helped me allot .... you are truly a blessing.... thank you sir

@ifemizu82 3 месяца назад

Beautiful piece

@user-tp8qz8yt4x 6 месяцев назад

Thank you so much sir for this message 🙇

@oluwakemiakinwunmi1303 11 месяцев назад

In the multitude of counselor there is safety...thank you so much sir.

@franchescaasamoah3046 11 месяцев назад

Great teachings. Thank u Sir

@gracekadiri2419 11 месяцев назад

Wow!!!!!! This blessed me pastor k

@christakalembe241 6 месяцев назад

Wow,I am so blessed to listen to this word of God!

@rebeccamunyasia9498 7 месяцев назад

Very insightful 😊

@user-hu4xb1ii4c 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much sir. I am so blessed!

@jareya 7 месяцев назад

PK is so wise… his teachings are always a blessing

@AnnetIyara-iu3ed 11 месяцев назад

A failure is known by his goals!💓

@Sibs_treats 8 месяцев назад

This is really interesting.. I learnt alot .. thank you sir

@nsonguruapeter4295 10 месяцев назад

God bless you sir I’m blessed from the word

@cattyreals572 10 месяцев назад

This video just motivated me. Now I'm certain that I'm doing the right thing 😊😊😊

@AnnetIyara-iu3ed 11 месяцев назад

Supporters don't matter if you're not prepared 💓

@user-ht7hs5cr3g 10 месяцев назад

Thank you sir i really appreciate ur message

@funepoweiminna6355 3 месяца назад

God bless you for eye opening ❤❤❤. Thanks

@BerthaOrkar-wg7xe 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Sir..I'm so much blessed from this meeting. May God bless you.

@vindyprecious1531 11 месяцев назад

Am really blessed Thank you sir

@cleovernebaptiste2747 11 месяцев назад

I love this I'm learning here

@floraapi9431 11 месяцев назад

I'm blessed. Thank you pastor sir

@tifarah86978 8 месяцев назад

Thanks for this teaching Pastor K.

@kiizaaldrich327 10 месяцев назад

I hear😂 its amazing 🎉 God bless you pastor kingsley

@jummyalfred2909 10 месяцев назад

This message is Very awesome and full of wisdom. Listening to this message for the third time. Love you PK.

@nextdigitalzone 9 месяцев назад

Thanks Pst. More grace

@Achieveress 10 месяцев назад

Wonderful Message and humourous while at it😂

@oresotutolulope6159 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much sir. God bless you and ur household. This massage are all for me. Thanks a lot.

@user-zq3ph5wt8k 10 месяцев назад

Be blessed man of God 🙏🙏

@johnuren4545 8 месяцев назад

Am bless mum Thanks 🙏 More grace

@pauloluwaniyi6741 11 месяцев назад

Thank you very much Pastor, you are an answer to a generation. ♥️

@FolakeAdunni 2 месяца назад

I love this message

@emmanuelorji7274 10 месяцев назад

God bless you Sir for the values shared. Pst, glad to know you're a fellow ex-commando.

@JosephineDonkor-kk5rj 10 месяцев назад

God bless you Man of God🙏🙏🙏🙏

@sarahblessed-sayah 11 месяцев назад

Kinzo! Kim so!! 😂😂😂. Bless your hearts pastor K and M.

@CoiShan 10 месяцев назад

God bless you!!

@Minister--pat 10 месяцев назад

I have made all this mistakes oooo...Thanks you pastor for teaching me this is basically for me.thank you so much....I am now single and will work it out ..

@mfongeorge8185 11 месяцев назад

God bless you sir

@ademolababatola5428 11 месяцев назад

Nice one

@MiracleWalkinz 9 месяцев назад

Thank you sir

@user-ql4dl9ox9d 7 месяцев назад

Thank you very much sir it will really go a long way God help me 🙏🙏

@felistasmusunzuru6183 3 месяца назад

Powerful word

@Xeik38 11 месяцев назад

He's so right ... Ladies we have the power !!!

@adeoyemoses2537 10 месяцев назад

Thank you 💕😊

@favournoah9598 9 месяцев назад

Am always blessed whenever I listen to Pastor K

@denikepriceless1450 7 месяцев назад

God bless you Pastor K for this message. He that hath an ear let him hear what the spirit is saying. Every word is so true 💯

@adeoyeflorence4165 9 месяцев назад

Thank you Jesus for creating this wonderful head over us.

@miraclelucky3256 10 месяцев назад

I appreciate dis❤

@matselaneelizabeth9780 11 месяцев назад

Thank you🙏

@mumofelix 4 месяца назад

Great video.

@Phaviey_gadgets 11 месяцев назад

Am blessed

@gracetembo1120 8 месяцев назад

so profound👌👌🙏

@user-hj5vm7dm3x 2 месяца назад

Thank you sir, thou am still single ,am believe God for marriage, my first marriage broke when I was 20 years old, now am 32 I haven't heard what I learned from your teaching thank you , God give you long life and good health. Now am ready now for marriage

@marycrown6529 10 месяцев назад

My ever able Counsellor sent by God God bless you Daddy I'm always inspired by your messages You'll live long and Mummy too with all your family members in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.

@user-ur8lm6pw1t 9 месяцев назад

Powerful daddy thank you for the word 😂😂😂😂😂

@elyonolamide4561 11 месяцев назад

I am always happy listening to ur sermons nd viewing ur posts. Thank you so much sir for your impact.🙏🏽

@djmukagallis9288 10 месяцев назад

18:58 🤣🤣 I just had to subscribe at this point.

@Gift_Ikechukwu 2 месяца назад

God will bless you 🎉❤

@oseghaleebenezer8482 10 месяцев назад

I must admit you're funny... 🤣 Nevertheless I love the simplicity of your messages. I glad to hear this. Thanks for making people have stable marriages. God bless you, sir!

@queenphilip711 3 месяца назад

I love this

@irmamedom7256 3 месяца назад

May God deliver us from useless friends

@Williamsmac2233 2 месяца назад

Thank u sir

@SpurgeonIloba-ip7wz 9 месяцев назад

I want to view the fine girlfriend part Abeg😂 Thank you Sir I’m blessed by the message

@wezisiwale2354 10 месяцев назад

Pastor please make this book available in Zambia

@chrisax012 4 месяца назад

I am 23 now and I promise myself that no matter what happens... whether I am rich or not i must marry before the age of 28... God willing... Thank you sir for your teaching....

@ninnemodestine1504 9 месяцев назад

Thanks you Jesus

@rianangaemaluta 11 месяцев назад

😂😂pastor K 30minutes of violence🤣🤣 thank you for the knowledge sir

@TsholofeloHopeM 11 месяцев назад

I love your teachings. These are very important keys. As singles may we do the right the things so that we can have godly and successful marriages.

@ceciliachiazonwa6964 9 месяцев назад

I love this teaching, it will help us to bear Godly Seeds

@morethanrubiesministries2593 9 месяцев назад

The strangest thing is the woman I know who are having sex, moved in, cooking/washing clothes end up getting married….I don’t get it..,

@kareemblessing7083 4 месяца назад

Sincerely same here

@adefusioluwaseun4659 16 дней назад

He didn't say they won't get married, but the foundation is destroyed already so much shouldn't be expected when marriage eventually comes in

@jesusmavericks 2 месяца назад

Talking of point 2 - You made mentioned dating without a PLAN. My question is, how do you PLAN a relationship? I mean how to have a Relationship Vision?

@byrnenoel6317 11 месяцев назад

1. Not Building Friendship 10:57-- The love of a friend stands strong; romantic love fades. A friend loves at all times. Can you all talk without touching each other, having sex, or discussing wedding plans? 2. Not Having Clarity 13:00-- Not having clarity of where we are going (marriage?). When are we getting married? 4 years? 5 years? 1 year? Let's start working towards it. Let's not keep checking each other out. 3. Not Having Mentors 15:22-- 4. Not Staying Celibate 18:23-- For some, they keep kissing and touching completely out of their dating. "Let's just talk" 5. Waiting To Have All the Money 20:37-- You don't need a big house. 6. Playing House 24:44 7. Pre-marital Counseling 29:35