What Losing Three Babies Taught Me About God // The Nona Jones Show // Episode 6 

Thank you for your testimony. I lost 6 babies between 1995-2002 with my first husband. He passed in 05. I remarried in 2013. I’ve never been pregnant again and now I’m considered menopausal 😢 my husband and I have legal custody of a sibling set of toddlers. They’ve brought so much joy to our lives yet our hearts still desire to have children of our own. Please pray for us and thanks again for sharing. Be blessed ❤

I experienced this twice. Didn’t know how I would get through it but God has completely healed me in his time🙏🏾 God heal every women dealing with the loss of an unborn child🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you, Nona. I too lost my first baby. It happened as I buried my mum who was my best friend. So I lost my mum and baby in the same period. It was a dark time for sure. I will never forget it. I was so confused and disappointed in the Lord because I knew He could have stopped it. He was with me that entire period and slowly I opened my heart up to receive His love and goodness. When my heart and body was healed, The Lord blessed us with a healthy happy handsome baby Boy. I thank God for this episode because I remember looking for such testimonies during that time and hardly found any. I try to share my testimony to help other women out there. Please let us not suffer in silence. God bless you Nona

I had an ectopic pregnancy in 2016 after trying for 5 years. This was a massive loss for me because I also lost both of my f.tubes. I have already tried 3 rounds of ivf without any success. My husband used to be supportive but now I guess he is tired too, he has said some hurtful words so much that I'm almost giving up my marriage. I'm trying to fight for my marriage only because I love God.

Not me in tears 😭 I hid so much of my pregnancy and birth trauma for years I had 3 miscarriages and 2 preemies I had the worst mental breakdown in the NICU with my son and the same after my daughter. Just listening to this lets me know it’s still a part of me that needs Jesus to heal the trauma thats associated with this ! 😭😭 Thank you for sharing this

I am an angel mom! I am gearing up for my 5th cycle of IVF, after losing our daughter Autumn Faith at 7 wks, 3 days. I have a poem about My Purpose Beyond My Womb! I just performed this at a Mother's Day event this past weekend & you are correct there is power in sharing. I am believing God for a full-term healthy pregnancy, healthy delivery & healthy baby. I want to thank you so much for your ministry & transparency! I know your freedom to speak about this or anything isn't easy but God!

Amen. Thank you. I have had 4 miscarriages. The last one was January 6, 2024, at 15 weeks. It was horrible. My cervix opened up. Up to this day, I still feel like I am going through the effects of it. I happened to come upon this video, I wasn't even looking for it. It just popped up. It was God as I just felt down and lost tonight and wasn't sleepy, then when I saw it I just decided to listen. I don't have children yet. Please pray for me. The Doctor said I'll have to be monitored the next time I do get pregnant so that I can have a cerclage. There are times I just have to hold back tears seeing people pregnant, I just feel down out of the blue and just have sooo many questions for God.

Sometimes we get no real answers from GOD as to why this and that occur. That is the devastating thing. WHY? WHY? Despite having no answers we still have to PRAY, FLEX THE FAITH MUSCLE AND CONTINUE TO BELIEVE THAT HIS GRACE IS SUFFICIENT AND ALL THINGS ARE WORKING OUT FOR OUR GOOD!!!! but it’s tough without the HOLY SPIRIT.

I have experienced the loss of my first baby, and i was told to move on. I knew what everyone said was that their attempt to comfort. I thank God for His comfort and healing of a broken heart. God Blessed me six year's later with my first daughter Amya and 18 months later my daughter Tahlia. I 🙏🏽 for all who have suffered loss of any capacity.❤

Waiting in God to bless me with a positive test one day. Diagnosed as infertile but I know He will open my womb if/when I’m meant to have children. Praying for all who’ve lost their unborn children or those who haven’t been able to conceive as yet. The grief is real on all ends for sure ❤️‍🩹

I just want to thank God for placing this on your heart to share, for such a time as this, as well as your obedience in sharing something so personal. It puts you in a position to have to relive all those moments and feel all the things you felt in that time so thank you Nona for your vulnerability! This literally came right on time for me as I suffered a miscarriage in 2017 which led to me having to have a D&C on 5/11/17. That year it was the day before Mother’s Day and it’s the same for this year. The Lord showed me I was going to miscarry but I wasn’t connected to him like I should to know it was his grace. I am currently going through therapy now to heal from it and just yesterday handed over my grief, pain, disappointment, anger, jealousy, and envy over to him in exchange for a promise. I’m blessed that God is turning the day from being a bad memory into a good one in that my best friends wedding dress try on is on the same day. God is so good! I don’t know why he allowed me to experience the loss of my baby but I truly believe God had a purpose and has a plan. And I’m thankful we can be of encouragement for each other as he would want us to be! Thank you to all the ladies on here sharing as well. Your stories are healing to me in ways you couldn’t imagine! I’m not alone, we’re not alone! I love you all and so does God! Thank you for that prayer Nona! It blessed my heart ♥️

Thank you so much for sharing your story and the details. I've lost 4 babies who I will see one day in heaven. Very painful times. Ive even blocked out some of it from my memory...not intentionally. I can praise God for giving me 2 children on this earth. One will be 25 in 2 months, the other 16 on Mother's Day this Sunday. I dont understand it all, but I know God is faithful. 🙏🏾💙❤

People often don't realize words have power and can be really hurtful,we should be good to people in all aspects,down to our words,i am not married yet (still waiting on God ) talk more of having babies yet but i am glad you shared your story and more glad that in the end you decided to keep your Faith in God. Happy you and your babies(TJ and Isaac) survived ✊💪 Hallelujah

Thank you for sharing your story. I, too, had a still born in 2003 Angel Lynn, i was 20 weeks. I suffer 2 losses 2022 and 2023, both at 10 weeks. God is still faithful 🙏

Thank you for your courage and commitment to sharing your story, Nona. God is proud. ♥️ I experienced pregnancy loss with my third baby, and although very devastating, it has blessed me to have a greater intimacy with our Father and my husband. I am so thankful for your obedience to this topic and I pray your channel flourishes even more so. Xoxo

Watching this on Mother’s Day has brought comfort and peace. I experienced a miscarriage at the beginning of the year at 9 weeks and It has been really hard particularly today. Thank you for sharing your story and letting others know that we are not alone in this. ❤️

Nona, this video has blessed me like nothing else during my pregnancy loss. Your IG clip was shared with me by a Soror of mine. I found the full video on RU-vid and I watched on June 29th. Today is a jammed packed day for my husband and I. Today is our 4th wedding anniversary, it is also my mother’s heavenly birthday and when we found out 13 weeks ago that we were finally pregnant after 3 years of trying, we decided that on this day we would share the announcement of our blessing with the world. Sadly 4 weeks after we learned of our pregnancy, I experienced some cramping and bleeding. We went for a check up and our baby’s heartbeat was gone. I have been struggling with how I would feel today about not carrying my baby boy any longer but planning for this day to be the best wedding anniversary, to celebrate my mother’s birthday and continuing to include her in another milestone. I’ve struggled with sharing our miscarriage with everyone for so many reasons. Sadness, pain, a bit of shame. I was planning to scream it to the mountaintop on today but now that it isn’t happening anymore I am not. But your video has confirmed that I need to share of the miracle of getting pregnant, the amazing feeling that i felt for those four weeks and our beautiful angel baby boy. The pre miscarriage me needs to hear it. After our miscarriage, it felt like we became members of a secret society that had a huge membership. Many people only talk about it, when someone else experiences it. Thank you for your truth, your openness and your obedience to God. ❤

I’m so glad to hear about moms that beat IC. My first was still born at 20 weeks “Turner’s syndrome”. Second born full term “he’s 9 now”. Third born at 23 weeks “ she is 8 now” did not know about my IC that happen due to my doctor damaging cervix with my son. Forth baby cerclage at 16 weeks it failed daughter was born at 22 weeks, she passed away at 3 weeks old. A year latter pregnant with twins, flew across US at 12 weeks had trans abdominal cerclage placed and guess what. Delivered twins at 19 weeks, contractions it failed. I know God didn’t fail my husband and I I’m so much better now, I thank him for my 2 babies that he has blessed my husband and I with. And I live everyday loving in them. The desire to have more kids is there but you know what. I just love on my babies more. I’m glad you shared your story, we are not alone.

In 2018 I suffered from an ectopic pregnancy that almost killed me. I lost my right fallopian tube. This year in January, my husband and I suffered another ectopic pregnancy but we caught it in time before it could damage my only surviving tube. I was advised to take a medication called methotrexate to dissolve the pregnancy to prevent losing my left tube. I felt so horrible that I decided to take the medication. I felt that I failed a test. We were told that our chances of having another ectopic pregnancy were high due to my history. I am so very blessed to have a husband of faith, a church family of faith, and a family of faith to help hold me up. We found out June 18, 2024 that we were 5 weeks and 4 days pregnant and the gestational sac is in my uterus. Prior to finding out this information, I was standing in the mirror proclaiming the word of God over me and this pregnancy. I know it is early but just as you and the word of God says, God is faithful! No matter the outcome, he remains faithful! Thank you for sharing your testimony. My brother Ray sent this to me this morning and it blessed me.

Thank you so much for you transparency. It is hard to grieve with those who have never experienced this. It’s tough when it’s happened multiple times and you meet people who tell you “you’d make a wonderful mom why don’t you have children?” And of course it’s innocently asked but it cuts deep. Thank you for providing a safe place to grieve. ❤

Thank you for this reminder. Romans 8:28

Thank you for sharing. I had 2 miscarriages & then got pregnant. It wasn’t expected or planned as my husband was told it was unlikely he could conceive. Our daughter Alissa was born at 33 weeks with an emergency c-section. She had a rare condition Hydrops Fetalis & I had mirror syndrome. Unbeknownst to me it was necessary to deliver to save my life. She was my husband’s first living biological child. She was in the NICU for 3 weeks fighting for her life. She passed in his arms on Father’s day 2013. 😢 We have both wrestled with it over the years as we prayed, spoke the word over her, etc. The outcome wasn’t what we had hoped yet we know she no longer suffers. My husband still struggles with it & this year, 11 years later, her home coming date will be on Father’s day again. 🙏🏼 We know the pain of this loss. We are thankful she is Home & without pain but we miss her!

Love the vulnerability of this episode. I've had a miscarriage and was later diagnosed with PCOS and haven't had a pregnancy since. Most days Im ok with that but some days especially when people ask me why I haven't had them or if I want them I do get in my feelings about it.

Thank you for praying for me Nona. 🩷 My ovaries were removed, and in one case without my consent. It was crushing to our family. It’s my hearts desire to be a mother. I now see Gods plan through adoption but I’m waiting for my husband to see it too. Thank you for praying for us and for him. 🙏🏾

I have 3 angels babies and one here on earth who wasn’t supposed to make it according to the doctors. He was my first and we went through nec. While he was in the nicu for 8 moths 3 days. Now I’m married and the last 3 pregnancies were lost but I didn’t think I could even get pregnant again. But God! I know that if it’s going to happen or not it is in Gods plan and Gods time. ❤

Thank you for this video and series! I had a miscarriage back in January and my husband & I are still trusting God for the fruit of the womb. It will come to pass in Jesus name! Please keep us in your prayers Pastor Nona! ❤😊

I'm praying for you sis.You represent the light of God, thank you. Blessings

I cried listening to this as it opened my wounds

Thank you Nona for sharing this message. Very much needed at this time as I had my third ectopic pregnancy last month. God bless every mothers who are going through this pain.

My God, thank you Nona for sharing your store.

Oooooh this finna be good

Hi Nona Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your story almost matches mine same diagnosis I also was pregnant with twins and lost then at 27 wks. This was therapy for me. 😢

Thank you for this video I needed this … 2017 and 2018 I had miscarriage back to back 😢but I know I will see my babies ….

Powerful

I am wondering if those miscarriages were linked to your childhood abuse😢

I have the same experience where my cervix opened but the dr choose twice not to stitch me even with having sons at 24 weeks and 30 weeks, he assumed I would make it and I didn’t. It hurt so bad to learn my only daughter and first natural delivery would end in loss.

Wow i too am realizing that i still need healing

Amen 🙏🏾❤

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